Toks2008:
Leviticus 21:14

"A widow, or a divorced woman, or one who is profaned by harlotry, these he may not take; but rather he is to marry a virgin of his own people,"

And according to the Quran... Surah An-Nur - 24:31

"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, and not to reveal their adornments1 except what normally appears.2 Let them draw their veils over their chests, and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments3 except to their husbands..."

We all can see how important it is for a woman to maintain sexual chastity and only her husband is allowed to see her unclothedness....

Today we have many ladies who have been married to several men in the name of dating, hook up, runs or whatever name they call it and YES we know there is nothing anybody can do about it and it can be argued that men should not be exonerated even when it is clear from both Bible and Quran that the burden of sexual decency lies more on the lady...

So let's just believe the world has changed and most guys don't care about marrying a virgin anymore not because they don't wish to but because they have lost all hope in finding one.

I believe in my opinion that no woman can make anyman sexually faithful to her except the man chooses to but nevertheless, only a lady who marries as a virgin has every right to demand sexual faithfulness from her husband.

A bride who has slept with another man before marrying should appreciate her husband and should not in anyway demand sexual faithfulness from him.

Infact, a bride who is not a virgin does not deserve a bride price but should be handed over as a gift to any man who decides to marry her.

This is not about mysoginy and I'm not trying to exonerate the men who sleep with the unmarried ladies but this is the undiluted unsavory truth.

Insults are welcomed.

internationalman:
90% of this one topic na about woman and relationship...

Most Nairaland guy's lives revolve around women. That's why almost all naija artiste sings about women and sex..

Our men in this country are unproductive. That's why the country is not progressing..

According to Nairaland boys our women are useless and morally bankrupt, but it's only because in every society, the women are the reflection of the men.

virginprincess:
Same way only virgin men deserve faithful wives,all better still only virgin men deserves virgin women ,you Nigeria men think you can eat your cake and have it back,it not possible.

virginprincess:
Same way only virgin men deserve faithful wives,all better still only virgin men deserves virgin women ,you Nigeria men think you can eat your cake and have it back,it not possible.

Toks2008:




2. Technically speaking, a man can't be a virgin cos what makes a lady a virgin is because of an unbroken hymen and men do not have hymen.

jmoore:


Virginity is the state of no sexual experience. It is not specific to any gender. Saying that a man can't be a virgin is implying all men had sex in their mother's womb.

A prostitute can have many sex tapes and still go ahead for Hymenoplasty. Virginity is not hymen.

RedpillAnalyst:
@Toks2008

This type of truth is what they call hate speech. No one is ready for that.

It is already bad that there can't be a reversal. Infact, more men marry being a virgin/ having very low partners than women.

In the world of today, the excuse they give is men do it too when they know that removes accountability from them.

Toks2008:


Bro. Your definition is hypothetical and i am very much aware of that. That was why i wrote. TECHNICALLY . and im talking about natural hymen,not factory made one

jmoore:

Virginity is not hymen. Your technicality is so porous.

According to your definition, a woman that uses her mouth to suck the penis of 100 men and swallows the sperm is still a virgin if her hymen is intact.

According to your definition, a woman that allows men to have anal sex with her but her hymen is intact is still a virgin.

Enny2013:
Tenk God I got married as a virgin.

ibiyemi28:



Continue lying �Toks is comings for you soon

Enny2013:

Lol...only my husband has a say.

ibiyemi28:


Says who? What about those informants

Enny2013:

My husband knows how he met me.

Toks2008:
Bible... Leviticus 21:14

"A widow, or a divorced woman, or one who is profaned by harlotry, these he may not take; but rather he is to marry a virgin of his own people,"

Quran... Surah An-Nur - 24:31

"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, and not to reveal their adornments except what normally appears. Let them draw their veils over their chests, and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments except to their husbands..."

We all can see how important it is for a woman to maintain sexual chastity and only her husband is allowed to see her unclothedness...

Today we have many ladies who have been married to several men in the name of dating, hook up, runs or whatever name they call it... And it will blow one's mind to even begin to imagine how far many ladies have gone in sexual recklessness and YES we know there is nothing anybody can do about it and it can be argued that men should not be exonerated even when it is clear from both Bible and Quran that the burden of sexual decency lies more on the lady...

The world has changed and most guys don't care about marrying a virgin anymore not because they don't wish to but because they have lost all hope in finding one.

I also believe that no woman can make any man sexually faithful to her except the man chooses to but nevertheless, in my opinion, only a lady who marries as a virgin has every right to demand sexual faithfulness from her husband.

A bride who has had consensual s.x with another man before marrying should appreciate her husband for choosing to marry her and should not in anyway demand sexual faithfulness from him.

Infact,according to the Bible, a bride who is not a virgin does not deserve to remain in marriage but should be publicly disgraced but ironically, in this present day, such women even dare to demand sexual faithfulness from their husbands

This is not about mysogyny and I'm not trying to preach chastity, judge or condemn any lady for what she does with herself neither do I exonerate the men who sleep with the unmarried ladies but this is the undiluted unsavory truth.

Insults are welcomed.

Jeon:


You fine sheeee. I love ur nose and the dimples including ur chin,big welcoming smile and those chisel jaw.

Enny2013:
Omoh! C description. Tenk u...ur highness.