| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Truvelisback(m): 8:23pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
What kind sissy behaviour is that? How can a man behaving like this? Look at how u want to risk her job because of ur sissy behaviour. If she leaves u, i no go blame her, make u no go do d one wey go worst pass dis. 8 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Truvelisback(m): 8:28pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
tayo60:
Let her be for now, don't lose your self-esteem because of a girl. She may later change her mind. Dis guy just fall my hand big time. How can a man behaving like a SIMP? To the point of calling her Boss. Haba! He jus too Sissy. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Boydehot: 8:46pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
Richy4:
Honestly bro.. I am scared for him.. People might think it's just nothing but..Hmmm!!!
Just imagine calling the boss over what exactly?.. was that the due process? Chaii!!!
this remains me when my classmate asked me to cal her husband cause she was scared that the man is not yet back around 12:00pm. I was like.... Dear i will not try such thing. Just be patient he will soon be back. I have never met the young man before neither do i have his number. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Nicepoker(m): 9:07pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
When someone is madly in love.  7 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by IsellSmartTvs: 12:48am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Has she been suspended/ sacked or reprimanded at work,after claiming u spoilt all what she’s been building for years cus of ur phone call And most importantly,did u introduce ursef as her boyfriend/ fiancé or husband to be when u called her boss,cus she can be single at work and be in a relationship at home Connect the dots ursef 20 Likes 1 Share 
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Ishilove: 2:53am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Knowing the kind of person you are, she really has no business not picking calls by 11.45 pm. Relationship aside, my family will be worried sick if I am not picking my calls by that late hour so she has her own faults as well.
However, you didn't handle it well at all. Calling her boss was waaay out of line. You didn't call her family members, friends or colleagues. You jump go call boss. No, guy you were wrong and I'd be mad as well if I were in her position. Respect yourself and give her space for now. You're just being a pest and further worsening the situation.
When she is calmer and is able to solve whatever shitstorm your indiscretion caused, she may reach out to you.
Or maybe not. You win some, you lose some. If you lose this one, learn your lesson so it doesn't repeat itself 36 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by sisisioge: 2:58am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Imagine you calling her boss! Calling bolt! Calling the people in her house! Didnt you write that she went for a meeting? Whew! Biko dey your dey....this is bordering on obsession fa. It is well. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by sameoldguy: 4:24am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Move on bro. That guy from abroad is already knacking your babe. That was just an excuse to dump you bro.
She went to sleep with that guy and her conscience is making her act the way she is acting now.
If she is a good girl like you claimed and loved you half as much as you loved her, she would have picked up your call or called you when she knows she might be staying a little longer outside knowing how worried scared that makes you feel.
If she comes back bro, be ready to father another man’s child.
Be wise. 40 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Fiscus105(m): 5:27am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
If ur story is true, that lady is not type you should worry about and she doesn't love you shishi, she is the type who would carry job on top of head and careless about marriage, husband and kids. Infact, she can Bleep outside marriage for job security and carrier progression.
For those that are blaming op for calling her boss, it's either you are teens or myopic in reasoning.
Any boss who is angry that they called him to know whereabout of his employees, it's either he is satanist or his having amorous relationship with the employee.
...... imagine if you think she is in danger by not picking your calls and try to reach out with anyone who can have her number,at least to know her whereabouts......
Meanwhile, which job is she doing that her loved ones won't be able to call her colleagues or boss for her safety? 62 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Fiscus105(m): 5:34am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Ishilove:
Knowing the kind of person you are, she really has no business not picking calls by 11.45 pm. Relationship aside, my family will be worried sick if I am not picking my calls by that late hour so she has her own faults as well.
However, you didn't handle it well at all. Calling her boss was waaay out of line. You didn't call her family members, friends or colleagues. You jump go call boss. No, guy you were wrong and I'd be mad as well if I were in her position. Respect yourself and give her space for now. You're just being a pest and further worsening the situation.
When she is calmer and is able to solve whatever shitstorm your indiscretion caused, she may reach out to you.
Or maybe not. You win some, you lose some. If you lose this one, learn your lesson so it doesn't repeat itself Even If you are in danger, they should not call ur boss?.......since ur boss is gods" nah! I pity ur sorry ass in this shithole where everyone is endangered species in the hands of assassinilants and kidnappers. Let say it's in other way round, ....if the girl kidnapped and OP narrated that ,he searched google contact to get information but scared to call, foolish people like you would also blame him..... why did he afraid to call?..... he did not loves the girl ........ not fit to be her husband,.... that woman normally like bad guy,...... and that if it were you, you could do anything to call anyone around the girl. 24 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by mrblessed(m): 5:53am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Oga, for your mental safety, just leave this bimbo alone, because even if you guys settle, the seed of distrust has been planted in you. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by kaboninc(m): 6:09am On Dec 17, 2022 |
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by SouthSouth1914: 6:14am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Guy, you went too far. Calling her boss was the wrong move. You treat your better half, same way she treats you. Just imagine you are the boss and someone calls you at that time to ask after another employee. If you were my brother, I would give you the insult of your life.
Relationship is not by force, you love her too much, she doesn’t love you that much. You already found this by her actions. Don’t call nor text her again, let her be the one to contact you henceforth. If she doesn’t, move on with your life. Yes, the next 2-3 months will be miserable, but that’s life! Learn to channel your emotions towards relationships to your handwork and you’ll find someone better. If you don’t, the world will continue and you must have learnt the hard way. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by michlins(m): 6:44am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Leave her be |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by OKOATA(m): 6:50am On Dec 17, 2022 |
You called the boss cause you feel she's in the boss house to fxuk or what? You are nothing but a SIMP and one insecure guy. If I were a lady I would block you forever. Get a grip and stop hinging your life around a woman. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Ishilove: 7:01am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Fiscus105:
Even If you are in danger, they should not call ur boss?.......since ur boss is gods" nah!
I pity ur sorry ass in this shithole where everyone is endangered species in the hands of assassinilants and kidnappers.
Let say it's in other way round now, ....if the girl kidnapped and OP narrated that
,he searched google contact to get information but scared to call, foolish people like you would also blame him..... why did he afraid to call?..... he did not loves the girl ........ not fit to be her husband, and that if it were you, you could do anything to call the girl. I can see that you lack home training which is why you are so rude and running your filthy mouth like someone suffering from diarrhoea of the mouth. Go back home to your mother and run your mouth at her, not me so she can see what a sorry excuse of a human being she raised. Don't quote me again if you don't want trailer to match your legs this yuletide season. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Rubbiish(m): 7:11am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
You are very insecure! Just read what u wrote Are u trying to say u do call ur fiancee every hour? It's better she end this relationship for her mental health. Go watch the movie blood pressure by nosa Rex & nuella, that is how this relationship will end up if u guys continue! U are too clingy for a man. U are lying at last statement, u called her because u thought she was doing something silly, stop deceiving yourself. U seriously need mental help. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Fiscus105(m): 7:34am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Ishilove:
I can see that you lack home training which is why you are so rude and running your filthy mouth like some suffering from diarrhoea of the mouth. Go back home to your mother and run your mouth at her, not me so she can see what a sorry excuse of a human being she raised. Don't quote me again if you don't want trailer to match your legs this yuletide season. It pains you I guess! If you are from home where your father loved ur mother dearly, he won't affraid to call her boss if she is in danger, in ur family they leave you for whatever you are passing through, but since you take from father, you too also will be mad if anybody calls ur boss. When a guy comes from loveless and not caring family he displays the way u re displaying in public forum. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by ISTP: 10:09am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Ishilove:
I can see that you lack home training which is why you are so rude and running your filthy mouth like someone suffering from diarrhoea of the mouth. Go back home to your mother and run your mouth at her, not me so she can see what a sorry excuse of a human being she raised. Don't quote me again if you don't want trailer to match your legs this yuletide season.  6 Likes 
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Adekaka12345: 10:39am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Arakunrin... Shi Omo yen le. She sees you like a fool. You went too far by calling the man. But nothing spoil. Leave her alone. You have nothing to lose. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by alphaNomega: 10:59am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Bros this relationship don spoil. We no fit save am. Move on. There will be zero regrets. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Dailyparrot: 11:02am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Thank you very much, I would definitely see someone Dealing with women is sensitive and dicey. If you didn't make efforts 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by eyinjuege: 11:06am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Why would you call her boss, in the middle of the night for that matter?
That's a very weird move
If you were so worried, you should have gone to the police and I'm sure they'll let you know she's a grown woman and it's not upto 24hours yet.
You're giving stalker vibes, so I don't blame her for her decision 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Nelgenius4me(m): 11:38am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Rest man,if she is yours she will find away of coming back to you. Why dying for a lady where there are some many ladies out there for you. From your write up there are pointers but love wouldn't allow you to see it. Be careful man. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:02pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
I was about asking why you didn't marry her, since you loved her that much and her absence made You feel insecure. A beautiful woman with a good job, is what most men are looking for. Continue to send her apology messages, but don't call too often. With time she will return. Pray. Mino1000:
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by jesmond3945: 4:37pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
you are not serious with this write up. God just saved you from heartache. Bury all marriage plans, please. 10 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Newborn27(f): 5:36pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Op lemme advice you based on my personal experience...... insecurity can cause you harm than good.... to you.... you thought you cared and was checking out on your love not knowing you're diving into a wrong destination.....it will only get worse that even when she's heavily pregnant on nursing a baby you'd want to monitor her movements and you'd graduate into getting annoyed when you can't access her.... you'd start suspecting that she's cheating on you... from there to domestic violence then murder (God forbid)
As the posters above had said.... work on yourself as this act would repeat itself in your new relationship.....I salute the lady's level of maturity.....had I knew this much about iñsecurity...I wouldn't have ended up this way.
Please let her go and work on your own self....if she's yours.... she'd definitely be back into your life..... when she do.... kindly tell her to change all her password to avoid you from gaining too much access to her and also control your level of iñsecurity.
Shalom bro. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by iamL(f): 6:30pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
I once had a suitor like you mine was even worst because I haven't even agreed to date him yet.
It started gradually, I thought it was love until it turned possessiveness. I had to run for my life.
He is married with kids now but whenever we run into each other he still tells me he wondered why I refused to marry him till date. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by YoungLionken(m): 8:25pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Some men will never learn, no matter what we say about SIMPs.. On countless notes, women don't respect/love men that love them more. You do so as a man, they see it as obsession.. Three months isn't enough to make someone your wife, don't be an idiot for love's sake.. Girls in lekki can't be fully trusted.. The poor security situation in the country, is a enough justification for your call (11pm), except an irresponsible person, every loved one would be worried and place calls across.. There's nothing wrong in you calling her boss ( based on what she told you before leaving home), if things went south, you would be the first everyone would suspect and call .. So you mean your supposed wife would have been away from home by that time?? I understand virtual or foreign (jet lag) meetings, but certainly not a physical meeting (when she's not a security personnel).. If you were man enough, the issue would have been "where she slept or was as at that dangerous/unholy hour", not "calling her boss".. Hope she's not the major provider, because with the way you're sorrowful, as if you lost someone relevant to you. I can only but imagine the many tears on your cheek, while apologizing to her: "don't leave me  ", lol.. Dear men, start having plan B when a woman threatens break up at every slightest provocation... 21 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by ednut1(m): 8:27pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Your insecurities got the better of you. She is not a child lol 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by xevove2061: 8:28pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Full blown SIMP..damn!!! 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by LORDKing001: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
You're immature and Need no advice |
