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Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by WHITELIGHTER: 10:30pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
From the beginning I already knew how it will end... carefully written story just to paint the man as the villain...typical. Well, 3 sides to a story...I won't buy this 5 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Kavod: 10:31pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
piecuntie:LEAVE AM.... MAKE GUYS LEARN..... E MAMA DE THERE, E SISTER E SEND GO SCHOOL? OGBENI DUST AM FASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSST 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by MufasaLion: 10:32pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Rubbiish: You're wrong, most of you are used to being emotionally needy and that's the reason it's always difficult for you to be alone or not around people. This is more about psychology. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by texannaija: 10:33pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by oonyeoma50: 10:33pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
"Fictitious" This is a fake story. It never happened. If you know you know 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Dogalmighty17: 10:33pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Madam. If all you have said here is the truth. Move out of that house right away. I will not advise you to divorce your husband just yet. You MUST seperate from him for a while. So that you can reassess your situation and circumstance. This is an extremely toxic marraige. You cannot raise a child in this environment. The physical and mental abuse makes it all the more urgent. Don't give him any reason to suspect you may leave soon. This person will try to kill you. Again, LEAVE! |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by zudozz: 10:33pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
GoooodHardDick: Chai! Too much sense no go keel u!. Immediately I read that d guy hit him it activated my mumu button. I no dey like to hear say man hit woman. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by MessiahMARLIANS: 10:35pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
kay29000: Many Women don't have Sexual Standards at all. Their ToTo is simply their Tool To Survive. This is a dysfunction of proper Family Financial Education and Engagements. Poor Parents Births PoorER Children Who MUST Depend Solely on Their ToTo to Survive as They Lack The Faculty and Capacity to Think and Work Due To Their Mental Laziness and Physical Laziness Too. Family Finance is Everything. Every Family Need To Educate Themselves and Engage in Family Businesses like The Rich and Ultra-Wealthy People Do. PS: By The Way; I'm Just Getting Married, and I don't to pray to be DIVORCED for Any Reason. Marriage is A Private-Public Covenant which Mandates "For Better, For Worse"... The OP should get separated from Her Husband for Some Time Since He Beats and Ridicules Her. There is No Joy in Such A Marriage That Emotionally Traumatize Each Other... Soon, Any of Them Could Intentionally Kill The Other as The Relationship Grows More TOXIC. 1 Like
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Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Greenfusion: 10:36pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Your story seem incomplete, i didn't want to go the religious route, but i have to, holding God genuinely is very important, note this please. You have only talked about your husband's weakness but not yours. I assume alot of these started after you cheated on him, and i hope you didn't have more flings, men are never happy when their ladies cheat, it can totally change a man to a beast. It takes an extra grace to make that man normal. When that man see you, i assume he sees you like trash, those things may still be ringing in his head. Involve your God, talk to your man with sincerity and respect, he once loved you dearly, genuinely change your own bad character, pray for your man and marriage. You can involve his close friend after you have tried the above without success. Most importantly, pray for your man and marriage, respect your man, change your own bad character, and change genuinely. You may not need divorce. Outside nor too easy, try everything possible to keep your marriage in peace. Remember the whole decision and action is all yours as well as the consequences of your next action, so mind your next action...pele 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Orinechi: 10:37pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
We have heard u; we need to hear from ur husband to pass judgement. Remember marriage is for better for Worse. If u die in marriage ,is okay cos u die for what u believe in. Don't just rush for divorce. At the same time check the type of friends u keep to know if they are the ones pushing u to divorce ur husband. Marriage is not a bed of roses. It goes with plethora of challenges |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by jcross19: 10:37pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
bestman09:you are right!!! |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Nyanabo(m): 10:38pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
OK, the question is are you here to seek advice or to rant and blow off some steam? If you are truly tired, no matter how we beg you to stay you would still leave him. If you still want to endure no matter how we beg you to run away, you would still stay. What I'm I saying in essence? The choice is yours to make. Me for one I don't condone an abusive relationship once fist and punches gets Involve, I advice either of the couple to bounce. Simple. Don't be another Nwachukwu. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by ekerintee: 10:38pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
the man invested in her , sometimes there are problem when the wrong person invest in a person.Sometimes such people feel you owe them your life and will constantly remind you about what they did for you and sacrifice.These sometimes tie people down for life .I am not in the right position to judge this matter without full understanding of the situation or the other partners side but i will say its not so good when you are emotionally tired down to an abusive person.Men do change , so also women ,him changing could be as a result of the womans attitude and also seeing the woman as a threat or being too proud because of her achievement.Not everyone has the brain to go to school or the interest for school,so i feel he should not be pressured to go to school.I have seen cases where very ambitious women marry men with little or no ambition,this women are very smart and intelligent and always aspiring to be great, this women are tired down to men who are mediocre and little or no ambition.Such a relationship is quiet unfortunate and i such marriage are error to me ,it happens in both cases, men marrying women with no ambition, its much more worse when a woman of high ambition marry a man with no ambition, it affects the woman pyschologically and also the whole family sufferfinancially and in some areas.I am not so much in support of divorce but in such case and based on recent happening of marriage violence,a seperation may be necesary.I have tried to be balanced as a Guy and also knowing how women play victim in marriage,i would not totally condemn the man without hearing his own side. udeh3: |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by sharone21(f): 10:40pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
kay29000: More women have feelings of guilt when they cheat than men..... Maybe that was the only way she could help both of them. That she opened up about cheating doesn't mean the man didn't start cheating before her.... Men can be cheating under a woman's nose and still be lying about it, not even this chronic liar of a man she found herself with. That women don't come out like cry babies to talk about how Nigerian men deal with them doesn't mean Nigerian men are the good ones while Nigerian women should be feared. Let Op pray well about her marriage.... Marriages are going through a lot these days..... A family who prays together and do many things in common ( as if they were of the same team) will stand alot of trials..... She should pray about her travelling too.... I understand her well, " why be with a man and also be taking care of him( when he seemingly is like not being grateful with the attitudes he is giving her despite all her efforts) when I can just take care of myself and kids"?....And this kind of man may not even try to be romantic a bit and pamper her so she feels less stressed..... |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Menclothing: 10:41pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Let's hear d other party 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by FireUpNow(m): 10:44pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
OP the beating and cheating is a no for me but consider the divorce side very carefully and the effect on your kids later in life. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Biafraaa: 10:44pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
I want to hear the man part of the story too before I start saying anything else. Thanks. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by admixture: 10:44pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Incomplete story, let us hear from the other side. Any advice that is given here will be invalid until the husband tells his own story. Talking from experience. I wish you good luck, but remember any decision you make, will either affects you positively or negatively in the future, so be sincere with yourself. Good luck |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by MessiahMARLIANS: 10:45pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Greenfusion: Change Your Own Bad Character. 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by simplepee(f): 10:48pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
bestman09:This is so sad, humans easily forget a million good over just one bad. Pathetic. 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by JohnnA1: 10:50pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
atinga1:And you believe these stories are real?? |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by MessiahMARLIANS: 10:57pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Greenfusion: Liked, Shared and Followed. Great Piece. Divorce is not an option for now. For Now; Since She gets beaten up and treated as trash by the man, she should be wise enough to try all that you have written up here for about another 6 Months; Time is of Essence Here. If She can do all that you advised within 6 Months and The Man Still doesn't Change; Then He Has Already Hardened His Heart - Hence; She Should Rent A New Apartment and Get Separated from Him Through A Family Lawyer for Some Time. This doesn't mean that they would be DIVORCED. This Separation Technique will help both of them Miss Each Other and it is more likely to help them Rekindle Their Lost Vibes for Each Other. To Be Specific; Another 6 Months of Separation is Perfect for Them or Any other Person Suffering From A Toxic Relationship. If He doesn't Sit Up Right after Harnessing Any or All of The Above; Then I believe She should already know what to do. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Ishilove: 10:58pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
I can almost swear I've read elements of this story before in several other stories, and perhaps, movies. Super story. This is super story 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by brandsoncharlie: 11:00pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
nedekid:When you become a man you wouldn’t be saying this. He invested in the woman so that’s why she is doing well financially . |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by MessiahMARLIANS: 11:01pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
GoooodHardDick: She claimed that she repented. So, I want to believe she actually did repent. I want to know if she has someone already that she is already having sexual intimacy with. I responded to the post even without reading the story at first. Even after Reading up The Story, My Two Questions Remain Valid. I'm almost 80% Sure That She is Already Interested in Another Man. 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by brandsoncharlie: 11:01pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
simplepee:You don’t know women, you’ve to be careful when dealing with them. |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by MessiahMARLIANS: 11:03pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Kavod: Lol |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by GoooodHardDick: 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
MessiahMARLIANS: A woman cannot break up from a relationship or divorced a man if they haven't gotten a replacement. Quote me anyday anytime bro. That olosho simply wants to leave that man and go and stay with the rich dude. Trust a Nigerian girl at your own peril. Once an Olosho is always an olosho. She has tasted another dick and wants to go back for that dick 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by FuckSilly: 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
piecuntie:From your write-up, I'm very sure that you're a chronic CHEAT, LIAR AND VERY ARROGANT WIFE. Since you moved to his house at 19, I'm very sure that you've CHEATED on him with more than 2 men... I don't have much say, but I promise you that you would regret your actions and your evil plans to steal his children and run away WILL END IN TEARS FOR YOU. BLOODY INGRATE! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by HardMirror(m): 11:05pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Klass99:interesting. Are you sure you are a lady? Just surprised a lady is excited to meet a james patterson fan. Hmmm. Nice if true |
Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Princedapace(m): 11:05pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
safarigirl: I can have problem with my wife and tell the story to excuse my own short comings. The woman surely has her own shortcomings. If she did hit the man, would she had ever said it here? If she do abuse him verbally, will she admit it here? From her writings, u can see how she painted the man as a low class. If u married someone and feel that he or she is below ur class and u are only doing it as a favour to pay back, ur action will surely reflect. Lol I know these things. 1 Like |
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