Let's hear his side of the story too

I feel you in most parts of your story but the migrating with two kids is not going to be easy as you think. That one part most Africans migrants always miss. They believe once you cross over, everything will fall in place.. I can tell you this, if you reach abroad, abroad still far.

Pacesetter123:

Well, I carefully gone through ur original thread.
I want to believe what you are saying is true.Though,I wud av liked to here from ur husband too for me to be able to give a balanced judgement.

But then again,judeging from ur own write up,I can infer that your major problems are:
1. Age difference of 13
2. Class of his occupation/level of his education
3. Emotional/physical abuse

To me,out of the 3 problems enumerated above,it is only one (emotional/physical abuse) that is really a thing of concern.
Cos even me,I won't take it kindly with any of my in-laws that try to beat my sisters because me,I will never beat my wife when I marry.
That act looks so barbaric and inhuman to me not matter wot de woman do.

But concerning the other 2,I am still wondering why you allowed that to contribute to ruining ur once peaceful home.
First of all, the man is not idle.
Plumbing work is a good handwork.
If he has trained you through out university education n you now have a well paid job,why not upgrade his level of business to your taste by setting up a shop that deals on plumbing and pipe fittings materials for him to complement his low level civil service work?
Then concerning his low level of education,I think I read from you (if I am not mistaken) that he passed through trade school.
Meaning that he must have gone to technical college and thereafter undergo learning of the trade he is practicing today.With that,I think he can read, write and communicate a little in English.So he is not an illiterate.Why did you pressurized him to further his education?
Do you know whether he is accademically incline as such?
It is not everybody that must go to a university or any other higher institutions.
So you shouldn't have allowed that to really bother you so far he is not a stack illiterate.

As for age, you said you were 20 while he was 33 when you people got married.
What is wrong there?
The age difference of 10--15 years to me is not bad at all.
Believe you me, you will grow up to be at the same 'age' with him physically in no distant time.
If you were 20 and he was 50,60 and above before the marriage.
Then it would have been a thing of concern.

If you hadn't already made up ur mind to walk away of the marriage,I wud have advised you stay n try to settle the problem of the abuse.
But now, you have already made up ur mind.So no need for any advice again for you to stay.
Even with that,as you are walking away,let it be on the ground of the emotional/physical abuse and not on the other two.

She is also abusing the husband as well

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

Well, age is just a number. I Ve seen couples with huge age difference doing well.

The first problem about this relationship was caused by you. You disrespected your family before him.

Your mum didn't approve of the union.
Good luck in your future endeavors

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

Another problem associated with premarital sex. We shall reap whatever we sow.

Either this story is not a true story or you are saying all this just to paint him black in other not to be slammed for wanting to divorce your husband. Your story do have lots of loopholes and until I hear from your husband, I wont your story. If there's one thing I've learnt in this life, and that is not to make hasty conclusions based on the story of one person.

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

Go


You really tried.

Be aware the UK is expensive right now due to the war

Have you presented this matter to God.

oonyeoma50:


"Fictitious"

This is a fake story.
It never happened.
If you know you know

Nollywood script

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

My dear, if you can read this my message good for you.


E no go better for anyone wey advise u not to leave that guy house and his nonsense support.

Don’t die in another mans house trying to pay back good deeds. You have try for him. Pls move on with your life. Am a man but your story is similar to mine as I equally did everything for her but still she cheated and did all sort.


Wooo my dear if you don’t move on with your life I fit place curse on you swears

Until I hear your husband’s side of the story. Reporting a case first doesn’t guarantee winning the case

sisisioge:


Calm down son of Lucifer! Did you hear the man's side before judging her too? He who wears the shoes knows where it hurts....so fork off my mention, arindin banza!

Ho po nu
Irunborun
Alaini lakai

Fake story. How can anybody even believe this premature nollywood script?

obowunmi:


She can say he is dead and procure his death certificate

Nigga .....u harsh ooooo
U be confirm street....

Raychee:
Fake story. How can anybody even believe this premature nollywood script?

We all bored....
Play along abeg...

Besides this is Nigeria.... two 19 year old boys slept with a girl, cut her head and burnt the head in a pot in front of their house.... just last week a father and son both raped a girl together..... so nigerians have seen worse than a frustrated wife that wants to leave her husband....

piecuntie:


THANK YOU

He shd NOT have forgiven you when he caught you cheating after giving birth to him.

You started the cheating game. It his turn ?

most of your msges are filled with what you did to him? What you spent on ur family.

Can you tell the world what he does and still doing for you and the babies ?

NOBODY SHOULD PITY THIS WOMAN EXCEPT YOU HEAR FROM HER HUSBAND HIS SIDE TOO.

YOU MADE MENTION HE BEAT YOU AND TOLD YOU TO RESPECT HIM HE'S NOT YOUR AGE.

WHAT LEAD YOU TO DISRESPECTING HIM FOR HE TO REMIND YOU ABOUT HIS AGE AND NOT YOUR MATE??

I think ur just here to validate your already made decision , After all what else do you need him for? You re not the first or last to dump your husband after sponsoring you to school then dumping him afterwards .

This is a lesson to men. In all ramifications make sure you are better than your spouse . Do not forgive a cheating woman or else she will PURNISH you forgiving her.

Instead of u call police for this matter now you dey there dey talk say you wan go abroad I pity ur kids

Ok12345:
Na wa oo

What does men want?

See this aunty married someone that sponsored her in school and she is still seeing shege.

you see marriage, open your eyes and pray to God to give you a partner that truly loves and would be patient with you.

University isn't for everyone. . .Damn African mentality!

obowunmi:


Move on babes. You married a MAN-CHILD

obowunmi:


She can say he is dead and procure his death certificate

She should move on without you listening to the husband side of the story.

You said nothing abt her cheating?

You show no consirn abt the man who paused his life and sacrifice everything to see her succeed and called such man a man-child?

You don't even care if the lady has exaggerated her story ,

Also advicing her to get a death certificate for someone who is alive . ALL YOU LISTED ABOVE WILL BE DONE TO YOU.

udeh3:


I went through her narration, and I didn't see where the man lied. He was a civil servant. Many things are really wrong with Africans, and one is the lack of proper education. Do you know there's dignity in labour. Why pressuring him to go to school? In UK or US, a plumber makes more money than a medical doctor. Non is inferior to the other, only in Africa

This is somebody that didn't look back, but sacrificed for you to go to school without thinking it twice. He preferred her going to school than training himself. Can this lady do same if she was in this guy's shoe? You finished and dated a rich dude... If not love for money, why do that? You went back to him and married him this time. Money came, yes, through you! Did her altitude changed or not when the money came?

She attested that the guy never raised a hand on her even when they were suffering... Suffering should bring in anger and not the other way round. Now, he's beating you, so, what changed in you? What were the things you were saying to him now that made him hit you?

When I condemn hitting your partner, are you also free from bad behaviors?

God Bless You exceedingly abundantly. You can see through the gimmicks in this story

Hedgefunds:


He shd NOT have forgiven you when he caught you cheating after giving birth to him.

You started the cheating game. It his turn ?

most of your msges are filled with what you did to him? What you spent on ur family.

Can you tell the world what he does and still doing for you and the babies ?

NOBODY SHOULD PITY THIS WOMAN EXCEPT YOU HEAR FROM HER HUSBAND HIS SIDE TOO.

YOU MADE MENTION HE BEAT YOU AND TOLD YOU TO RESPECT HIM HE'S NOT YOUR AGE.

WHAT LEAD YOU TO DISRESPECTING HIM FOR HE TO REMIND YOU ABOUT HIS AGE AND NOT YOUR MATE??

I think ur just here to validate your already made decision , After all what else do you need him for? You re not the first or last to dump your husband after sponsoring you to school then dumping him afterwards .

This is a lesson to men. In all ramifications make sure you are better than your spouse . Do not forgive a cheating woman or else she will PURNISH you forgiving her.

Perfecto!!

Ok12345:
Na wa oo

What does men want?

See this aunty married someone that sponsored her in school and she is still seeing shege.

All we want is women who speak good English

Hedgefunds:




She should move on without you listening to the husband side of the story.

You said nothing abt her cheating?

You show no consirn abt the man who paused his life and sacrifice everything to see her succeed and called such man a man-child?

You don't even care if the lady has exaggerated her story ,

Also advicing her to get a death certificate for someone who is alive . ALL YOU LISTED ABOVE WILL BE DONE TO YOU.

Amen

atinga1:
Too many stories that touch in Nairaland these days.

This one didn't even touch me at all.

It sounds to me more like the rants of a confused housewife.

Okay..... Let us hear your husband side of thr story. I don't judge by emotions

FuckSilly:

Ho po nu
Irunborun
Alaini lakai

Omo osi radarada
Akuku ibi sanse radarada
Omo ale jatijati
Idamu adugbo
Alaini ogbonlori
Asiwere olofo

Whew! I think I'm now done with you. Further mentions will be well disregarded.

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

Let's hear from your husband first...

Olaolex:
.

and you still call yourself a human being.
No wonder you and your likes are supporting Tinubu

God bless you

Richy4:
You can divorce him on grounds of Infidelity, assault and irreconcilable differences...

But where I will never support u will be nursing the idea of running off with the kids... U are not the only one that made the kids... It was a joint effort..

If reverse was the case and he took the kids and disappears..just search within your conscience if u will like it...I will suggest that u let the law decide on what happens to them...

As for divorcing him, you deserved to be happy and if U are not getting the happiness that u wanted anymore, instead of dying untimely.. just end it...
Wishing you all the best..

Ok12345:
Na wa oo

What does men want?

See this aunty married someone that sponsored her in school and she is still seeing shege.

Stop roping all men in your negative assumptions. What is wrong with you people?

Nicerazor:
It really showed you were poor and you need every opportunity to reap where you didn’t show.
- first the man sponsored you cuz your family was poor despite your family not in support you still proceeded to marry him cuz of the benefit.

- you still go knack another rich dude wey give you job.
Well you can divorce all you want but no go carry his kids jakpa without his knowledge, cuz if he later get to know he can take it up and serious issue that’s kidnapping, deceit and forgery ( if you use oluwole consent letter).
Don’t even try to come to Uk as a single mother, daycare for one child here is £4 per house imagine you have 2 kids that’s £8 per hour on 2 kids and your salary is £10 per hour.
Don’t forget you can only work 20 hours weekly so imagine you’re earning £800 monthly.
How will you pay for daycare, rent and bills, foods, school fees balance?
And don’t forget for a family of 3 you will spend btw 10-13m, house rent na monthly here o.

Bros, she's not going to any UK. Na me dey tell you!! She's looking for a way to go and stay with that Rich dude and start collecting dick as usual. Trust a Nigerian girl at your own peril.

All the questions I asked her @peicuntie , She carefully avoided them knowing fully well she can never deceived us here