The solution to this problem is to shame men that carry hook up babes. Hear me out.

Men are the head and every other thing follows them, including women, children, animals, robots, etc.

Ants (women) are attracted to sugar (money), if you put sugar in your room, you will keep killing ants until you remove that sugar. Ants no Dey finish but sugar can.

If the head is corrupt, everything is corrupt. Men of these days are weak and undisciplined. No one holds them accountable for anything. They think they hold monopoly on promiscuity.

But I tell you, God will judge men the harshest because he gave them command and control and placed them as head over every thing.

Men must be held accountable and must be shamed for patronizing hook up girls. They must be disgraced, mocked, and flogged on the street by stronger men.

For if men stop patronizing hook up girls, the hook up industry will vanish. Law of demand and supply.

Shalom.

Mynd44, Seun

Good

Hmmm… interesting. I’ve never looked at it from this perspective before. But you’re asking for men to be held responsible and I don’t know how to feel about that, since I’m a man.

It Doesn’t feel right.

Wordsfrombimpe

Okay .. and lots of these hook up girls never repent

Curious345:
Okay .. and lots of these hook up girls never repent

What are you talking about? Speak clearly.

See how they avoid this thread. Shameless men we have today. Who even raised these calibre of men we have today?

It's almost impossible to see a good Christian man with high morals and value in today's world. We need to beam more light on the men of today. They get away with too many nonsense.

Does the kind of relationship and marriage we practice in Nigeria also fall under hookup. A lot of relationships are transactional. Sex for money, baby if you don't buy me sharwarma I won't come to your house. Baby if you don't send me 20k I won't come. Baby buy me that hair and I will sleep with you. Even a lot of wives starves their husbands of sex until he gives them money. There was even a nairaland thread on this with many married men complaining of such. So where do we draw the line on hookup or who should be shamed or not.

tensazangetsu20:
Does the kind of relationship and marriage we practice in Nigeria also fall under hookup. A lot of relationships are transactional. Sex for money, baby if you don't buy me sharwarma I won't come to your house. Baby if you don't send me 20k I won't come. Baby buy me that hair and I will sleep with you. Even a lot of wives starves their husbands of sex until he gives them money. There was even a nairaland thread on this with many married men complaining of such. So where do we draw the line on hookup or who should be shamed or not.

If you need to use money to attract a babe to your house, you're a low value male. Work on your life, work on your finance, work on the kind of women you meddle with.

Your marriage point doesn't make sense. Don't take care of your wife and kids then, allow them to wither away and die.

You people are funny.

Shame men who carry olosho but not shame women who put up their Virginia for sale.

To end this menace:

We need a stable economy.

Family should have kids they can care for.

People should marry when they are financially and psychologically mature.

Good morals should be promoted, that would mean our social media should be censored for all these rubbish.

Polygamy should be embraced.


Lastly, our ladies should reduce their love for material things.

Karleb:
You people are funny.

Shame men who carry olosho but not shame women who put up their Virginia for sale.

To end this menace:

We need a stable economy.

Family should have kids they can care for.

People should marry when they are financially and psychologically mature.

Good morals should be promoted, that would mean our social media should be censored for all these rubbish.

Polygamy should be embraced.


Lastly, our ladies should reduce their love for material things.

Another weak man spotted. You want to jump around in circles. You talk about economy as if ours is the poorest country in the world.

Which gender finance the hookup industry in Nigeria?

Karleb:
You people are funny.

Shame men who carry olosho but not shame women who put up their Virginia for sale.

To end this menace:

We need a stable economy.

So since the economy is unstable, shouldn’t that mean less people pay for sex? Why has the industry become bigger? Because more people are paying for sex because there money but there severe lack of disciple and morals among men.

Family should have kids they can care for.

Yea, men should have kids they can cater for. Have you ever seen a women get pregnant without a man’s sperm?

People should marry when they are financially and psychologically mature.

Yes, as the head of the house, men should build themselves financially and physiologically before marriage.

Good morals should be promoted, that would mean our social media should be censored for all these rubbish.

I agree. And men are the only once who can do it.

Polygamy should be embraced.

Our forefather were poly, but they were strong men, not weaklings like todays men.

Lastly, our ladies should reduce their love for material things.

Women are built with greed and selfishness, it is left for men to guide them properly and not make laws that bring out that demon in them.

Our forefather knew this and handled women sternly.

JoeBideen:


Another weak man spotted. You want to jump around in circles. You talk about economy as if ours is the poorest country in the world.

Which gender finance the hookup industry in Nigeria?

Worriedguy6699:


So since the economy is unstable, shouldn’t that mean less people pay for sex? Why has the industry become bigger? Because more people are paying for sex because there money but there severe lack of disciple and morals among men.



Yea, men should have kids they can cater for. Have you ever seen a women get pregnant without a man’s sperm?



Yes, as the head of the house, men should build themselves financially and physiologically before marriage.



I agree. And men are the only once who can do it.



Our forefather were poly, but they were strong men, not weaklings like todays men.




Women are built with greed and selfishness, it is left for men to guide them properly and not make laws that bring out that demon in them.

Our forefather knew this and handled women sternly.

You want to put all blame on the buyer because he is a man but you the seller is a saint because he is a woman.

Continue.

Karleb:


You want to put all blame on the buyer because he is a man but you the seller is a saint because he is a woman.

Continue.

Without demand, there can never be supply.

With reduced demand, there will be reduced supply.

Just ignore these kids. That's how one was bragging here this morning. Dont know whether he's just trying to tell us he has up to 40k in his account or he is really proud of what he did.

JoeBideen:


If you need to use money to attract a babe to your house, you're a low value male. Work on your life, work on your finance, work on the kind of women you meddle with.

Your marriage point doesn't make sense. Don't take care of your wife and kids then, allow them to wither away and die.

Seems you live in a parallel universe. How many women have you attracted in Nigeria without finance or at least a semblance of financial stability? You better wake up..

Worriedguy6699:


Without demand, there can never be supply.

With reduced demand, there will be reduced supply.

Feminoconomist! Set awon Emefiele!

Your logic is upside down and your opinion is lopsided.

But you won't know this of course because you'd rather die than admit a woman can be wrong.

Almost all other women and men in Africa admits that a lot of our women are greedy and love money too much but all women are built with greed and selfishness.

Continue. You hear.

Karleb:


Feminoconomist! Set awon Emefiele!

Your logic is upside down and your opinion is lopsided.

But you won't know this of course because you'd rather die than admit a woman can be wrong.

Almost all other women and men in Africa admits that a lot of our women are greedy and love money too much but all women are built with greed and selfishness.

Continue. You hear.

Point to a place in my post where I said women were right.

plat0:
Seems you live in a parallel universe. How many women have you attracted in Nigeria without finance or at least a semblance of financial stability? You better wake up..

Did you read my post where I said to work on yourself and finance? Is that too much to understand? If you build your life and your finance, women that will come into your life won't want to go. You won't need to use money to bait them to come to your house. In fact, they won't want to leave.

JoeBideen:


Did you read my post where I said to work on yourself and finance? Is that too much to understand? If you build your life and your finance, women that will come into your life won't want to go. You won't need to use money to bait them to come to your house. In fact, they won't want to leave.

Guy! Read what the guy wrote again.

Don't be in a haste to clapback.

JoeBideen:


If you need to use money to attract a babe to your house, you're a low value male. Work on your life, work on your finance, work on the kind of women you meddle with.

Your marriage point doesn't make sense. Don't take care of your wife and kids then, allow them to wither away and die.

Lol @ work on ur finance..

if someone were to tell u, u sound daft nw, u'll get angry...
As a man takes care of his wife and kids so should a woman take care of her husband and kids...

sefini...

Worriedguy6699:

Point to a place in my post where I said women were right.

Then why is everything you are saying here about men? Ehn?

Women have a major role to play in stopping prostitution. Maybe if you address that, we can talk about shaming men.

You can't put the cart after the horse.

Talking of greed and attitude, even you created a thread concerning this.

https://www.nairaland.com/7439248/someone-said-only-nigerian-men

Yes, it's true. Nigerian women are not the most wanted out there by non-nigerian men but everywhere, Nigerian men are loved but almost every other women. It should tell you that maybe, the women have a big role to play.

Also, it isn't misogynistic.

Worriedguy6699:


Without demand, there can never be supply.

With reduced demand, there will be reduced supply.

They are mutually exclusive... It's goes both ways... Most times, a supply can initiate a demand.. Get it..

My brother you make me laugh! You never know 9ja girls.

Listen! You can never stop a 9ja girl from hookup.

They love jumping from one prick to the other.

Infact, they are ready to do hookup for free , as long as they can jump from one prick to the other. They are all the same, all of them

God bless you my brother. What you said is very true.

I take the hookup girls in my area for instance. For some days now, I noticed men have been scarce, prolly because they are broke or trying to save the money for their families this Xmas. So, I noticed the girls hardly go out. They been mostly indoors.
So, if these girls are starved of attention and refused patronage, they will sit up and be more productive in decent deals with their time.

Let the men gather here and listen to this. We must fight every form of immorality and indecent ventures in our society. Maybe God will even look on us with mercy, heal our land and give us a good president.

Amen.

Men say that women can't take accountability, but just look at this thread. Abeg make una put that pink F next to una name because you all are pussies.

Karleb:


Guy! Read what the guy wrote again.

Don't be in a haste to clapback.

I have not used money to attract woman before. But don't you guys have other personality outside of money? You're not funny? Not intelligent? Not charismatic? You mean you have nothing outside of money? There are all kinds of girls in Nigeria oh, but you only go for the one that fall for money forgetting there is a man out there with more money than you.

JoeBideen:


I have not used money to attract woman before. But don't you guys have other personality outside of money? You're not funny? Not intelligent? Not charismatic? You mean you have nothing outside of money? There are all kinds of girls in Nigeria oh, but you only go for the one that fall for money forgetting there is a man out there with more money than you.

Guy! A swear! You have dyslexia.

I still prefer my hook up to dating..,.
boys wen no get gf get peace of mind...

Hope you know hookup is the oldest profession in the world?
If You think you can stop it then know our under age girls are not safe anymore because the rate of rape will increase 1000 times.