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Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 4:31pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
It's something I've come to notice in most families but don't know the cause. I, for instance, enjoy my mom's company while my sisters, especially the last one, stay glued to my dad. What could be the attraction? |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by AdeniyiA(m): 4:38pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Divinely programmed so they can learn to be with the opposite sêx. SOME Ladies who are too close to their mothers might have problems in their marriage nd same for men who are too close to their fathers #openended 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by edoziebobbyyahoocom(m): 5:16pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
I haven't noticed that, i believe it boils down to parenting. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 6:01pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
edoziebobbyyahoocom:How old are you? No offence |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Aremu01(m): 7:02pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Like charges repel, unlike charges attract 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Pidggin(f): 1:18am On Feb 24, 2016 |
It is mostly natural but also can be influenced by personality and parenting style. Most girls naturally gravitate towards their dads, while Boys their mum, but not in all cases. The response of the parent can also be a factor to influence this. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 2:24am On Feb 24, 2016 |
I yam very close to my papa maybe bcox I yam the only girl God gave him but he was so strict with me during secondary/higher institution days. He was scared of 'unwanted preggy'. Twas later he sat me down and explained lots of things. Papa will always love dir doutas 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 3:56am On Feb 24, 2016 |
Freud has a theory on this |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 10:49am On Feb 24, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Which is? |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 10:50am On Feb 24, 2016 |
HateU2:So did you eventually escape unwanted preggy at high school? |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 10:58am On Feb 24, 2016 |
goodfornothing: I yam a graduate now and papa is proud of me . Did u 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 11:55am On Feb 24, 2016 |
HateU2:I'm a guy. There's no way I can get pregnant. So did you escape unwanted pregnancy at school? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Wenebadu(f): 1:19pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Na so we see am oh even in my house my mom likes the boys so much while my dad likes the girls so much 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
goodfornothing:did u impregnate anybody . Yes, I did not disappoint my papa. His happiness and prayers is all I want 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 7:44am On Feb 25, 2016 |
HateU2:I impregnated 3 girls in my high school days. 2 my seniors, one my junior. And all the while my mama prayed for me. Now did you ever get impregnated in your high school days? I know your papa prayed for you 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by FTBOY: 8:33am On Feb 25, 2016 |
goodfornothing:mad man 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by FTBOY: 8:34am On Feb 25, 2016 |
i tend to love my mom the more, though....mothers rock! |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Octobertwentysix(f): 11:33am On Feb 25, 2016 |
I think it all boils down to parenting style although girls are more attracted to their fathers but in my family we all loved our dad more cos he wasn't strict unlike our mum who was a disciplinarian. In my own case I have two daughters aged 3years and 5months although I love them very much no matter how hard I try they love their dad more. My 5months old baby immediately she sees her dad would even stop sucking just for him to carry her. Sometimes I do feel bad when I see how close they are to him. The eldest one only comes close to me whenever the dad is not around and she keeps asking where is my daddy until he returns. I pray God gives me a son. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 25, 2016 |
I dnt knw y but dats so true. I'm a daddy's girl nd my brothers re closer to mum |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by FTBOY: 12:41pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Octobertwentysix:reminds me of my mom telling my little sister to get her own man and leave her man alone. it's funny coz she sounded mean and jealous 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
goodfornothing:No wonder ur moniker 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by homerac7: 4:56pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
It's called Oedipus Complex for that of male child towards his mother, and Electra Complex for the female child's towards her father. |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by goodfornothing(m): 8:08am On Feb 26, 2016 |
HateU2:Do you love it? I can make one for you |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Nobody: 8:47am On Feb 26, 2016 |
goodfornothing:No, thanks |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Kelvin3476: 2:28pm On Dec 22, 2022 |
Octobertwentysix:I FEEL FOR U DEAR. GOD WILL DEFINITELY GIVE U A SON. IN MY FAMILY TOO WE LOVE OUR DAD MORE BECUS OUR MOM IS A FIERCE DISCIPLINARIAN. THE ONLY TIME WE ARE SAFE IS WHENEVER DAD IS ALROUND. BT AFTER ALL THE DISCIPLINARY ISSUE, I STILL STICK VERY CLOSE TO MOM , WHILE MY SISTAS ARE DADDIES GALS. R.I.P DAD 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Octobertwentysix(f): 5:48pm On Dec 22, 2022 |
Kelvin3476: Thanks I can't believe this thread still exists my five months old baby is now seven years old and I have a son now he's three years old and it's been a blast, he tells me he loves me every thirty minutes, truly sons are for the mothers I am truly blessed. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Kobojunkie: 6:08pm On Dec 22, 2022 |
goodfornothing:Try to extend your sights beyond gender identity and consider that what attracts you to your mom may have absolutely nothing to do with her gender but her personality. Unlike your relationship with your mother, my mom and I aren't as close as she is with my other siblings. We barely ever talk or chat and we live in pretty much the same house. I don't have any issues against her nor do I hate her. She equally loves me — my siblings think I am her favorite child since she seems to go out of her way for me. Personality-wise, my mother and I do not directly benefit each other and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It is simply just the way it is. |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by odinson1(m): 9:58pm On Dec 22, 2022 |
Octobertwentysix: And when he's older,one daughter of Jezebel will come and snatch him away from you |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Day169: 11:19pm On Dec 22, 2022 |
Just Google the "Oedipus" or "Electra" complex, it gives a better understanding of the situation. |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by backnbeta(f): 9:04am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Freud |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Octobertwentysix(f): 4:49pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
odinson1: God forbid I will have a good daughter in law that will be my last born, I have been a good daughter in-law to my MIL and also a good sister in-law so I don't think I will be punished with a Jezebel when I wasn't a Jezebel to my in-laws. |
Re: Why Are Boys More Attracted To Their Mother And Girls Their Father? by Octobertwentysix(f): 4:53pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
odinson1: God forbid I will have a good daughter in law that will be my last born, I have been a good daughter in-law to my MIL and also a good sister in-law so I don't think I will be punished with a Jezebel when I wasn't a Jezebel to my in-laws. |
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