Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

Not married, will probably never do.
So I have no idea on how it works.

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Pastoshizzy:
Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

Yes, divorce where both parties are on the same page and accept it is time for them two to move on and stop living in denial of their reality..

Capital NO!

No Matter how the Parties smile to their friends or the media, one of Dem is hurting badly..

Particularly for the man,

he will be like 'So Another Man will now be Fcvkkiing my Wife steadily'..

Divorce is always hard to prepare towards except you Already have another partner you'd like to be with

Kobojunkie:
Yes, divorce where both parties are on the same page and accept it is time for them two to move on and stop living in denial of their reality..

Sounds nice. Can you bare witness to any of such happenings? Please..your experience does it include the emotional well-being of their offspring.

Pastoshizzy:
Sounds nice. Can you bare witness to any of such happenings? Please..your experience does it include the emotional well-being of their offspring.

The kids were grown at this point and did realize it was best for the parents to move on from what was clear even to them was a loveless marriage.

So, long as the parties involved realize they are simply wasting each other's time by remaining together and are both able to explain these things to their kids and work towards helping the children adjust and continue to develop past the break/possible trauma, then it is possible. Kids want to be happy and at the same time, they also want their parents happy as well.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, divorce where both parties are on the same page and accept it is time for them two to move on and stop living in denial of their reality..

Why are you so passionate about divorce issues?
Why do you believe and love divorces and broken homes so much? Why the support? Why the advocacy? I want to understand your point of view more.

Kobojunkie:
The kids were grown at this point and did indeed realize it was best for the parents to move on from what was clear even to them was a loveless marriage.

Growing up with parents that don't love each other is something though. Getting into conclusion that all hope is lost in a fillial setting is another. Well sha.

Pastoshizzy:
Growing up with parents that don't love each other is something though. Getting into conclusion that all hope is lost in a fillial setting is another. Well sha.

Very tough as it is hard to watch mother and father engage in that daily war without getting wound up emotionally by all that back and forth.

Our definition of love is also a problem in those cases. We tend to confuse the swirling of brain chemicals and sex hormones with love many times too and when the delusion fueled by those chemicals fades, we interpret that to me love is gone.

Kobojunkiee:
We tend to confuse the swirling of brain chemicals and sex hormones with love many times too and when the delusion fueled by those chemicals fades, we interpret that to me love is gone.

'CRUSH`...that's it. I know of a parent that slugged it out so long the kids became social misfits. The decisions we make atimes may have lasting effects on our wards. Emotional abuse and rejection has been known to distort childrens' potentials.

Kiddogarcia:
Not married, will probably never do.
So I have no idea on how it works.

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After the scoring goal don set...she go com make tender loving care with good cooking reset your budding redpilling attitude into fatherhood/simphood. Marriage dey happen o (without juju involved).

Pastoshizzy:
'CRUSH`...that's it. I know of a parent that slugged it out so long the kids became social misfits. The decisions we make atimes may have lasting effects on our wards. Emotional abuse and rejection has been known to distort childrens' potentials.

Every decision has lasting impacts so we must endeavor to make the right decisions all of the time abeg!

Yes. If both parties are matured enough to let go on time for their own good.

What causes the HATE is religion and society that frowns at divorce. Hence, making one person or the complaint to endure shit for a long period till resentment start to set in

You call it Crush
Some call it Love
I call it Lust
Nice one@ Pastoshizzy

Kobojunkie:
The kids were grown at this point and did realize it was best for the parents to move on from what was clear even to them was a loveless marriage.
So, long as the parties involved realize they are simply wasting each other's time by remaining together and are both able to explain these things to their kids and work towards helping the children adjust and continue to develop past the break/possible trauma, then it is possible. Kids want to be happy and at the same time, they also want their parents happy as well.

The way you hit the nail ehn, you should be a divorce lawyer without a certificate
No caps.

Divoc19:
You call it Crush
Some call it Love
I call it Lust
Nice one@ Pastoshizzy


The way you hit the nail ehn, you should be a divorce lawyer without a certificate
No caps.

good to hear from you too D...for real I'll rather be a bus conducter (lol) . Shey turkey ti set sha? Have yourself a very merry xmas.

Pastoshizzy:
Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

A bad marriage that result to divorce will change lots of things....

Atleast u will live longer

Pastoshizzy:
After the scoring goal don set...she go com make tender loving care with good cooking reset your budding redpilling attitude into fatherhood/simphood. Marriage dey happen o (without juju involved).

It's not even budding redpilling attitude or whatever you call it.
It's just a personal decision,maybe if my partner wants an open marriage, then we could go for it, but this one man one woman marriage expectations is just not my thing

Pastoshizzy:
Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

It's so unfortunate that in this present age and time, divorce has become a norm and marriage has lost it's values and regards.
No divorce comes with happy ending! Both parties tends to fake it most times like "I am free", "I can do whatever I like", "He/she can't control me again", etc....but in their closets the suffer the psychological and emotional trauma. They can't speak-out or Cry-out at times cos the deed has been done. Some even wish they can still bring back their spouse(s).
This is the more reason why marriage counselors and Elders will advise intending couples about the need for compatibility. Don't go for looks, hips, boobs, bank account, etc. Go for character, compatibility, getting-along traits, etc. Have you ever wondered why most celebrities fail to hold their marriage and the whole end in divorce? Simple answer - they can't sustain what they started. For instance, of the basis of your marriage lies on money, what if your partner become broke? Now you can't cope again, trouble will start, you will not her sexy again or she will not see your six-packs again ..etc.

Divorce case is very complex with many channels and ox-bow lakes in it.

I pray God will fix broken homes and every marriage at the verge of divorce....God will intervene.

Doubt anyone wants to marry just to get divorced later but sometimes it’s necessary

Better a divorce than a marriage where you’re unhappy, being abused etc. Not everything can be mended and in such cases, divorce is probably the better option

Relief from a toxic, miserable and or/unsafe partnership. Or just relief from a relationship that didn’t work out can be a happy ending

Yes, sure

Some people are already miserable and believe being married will fix their misery, but it doesn't. For such people, a divorce never solves their issues as their misery is inbuilt.

Generally, divorce is an issue and usually never ends well as someone always feels hurt and betrayed. Still, it's better to be divorced than be perpetually unhappy.

ibkayee:
Doubt anyone wants to marry just to get divorced later but sometimes it’s necessary

Better a divorce than a marriage where you’re unhappy, being abused etc. Not everything can be mended and in such cases, divorce is probably the better option

Relief from a toxic, miserable and or/unsafe partnership. Or just relief from a relationship that didn’t work out can be a happy ending

Let's assume abuse isn't involved (coz ain't like dat all the time), is there a way to ensure the offspring emotional stabillity and moral compass in the long run? (especially with kids).

There are divorces with happy ending believe me

Mercury12:
There are divorces with happy ending believe me

I wouldn't have a single reason to doubt you, it's how it can be done (without it's negative efx scarring any of the parties involved) based on your experience is what this is all about.

Pastoshizzy:
Let's assume abuse isn't involved (coz ain't like dat all the time), is there a way to ensure the offspring emotional stabillity and moral compass in the long run? (especially with kids).

Well staying together for the kids for the sake of their ‘stability’ sounds reasonable on paper, assuming the parents are able to show a ‘civil’ front for them but I dunno how practical this is in a genuinely toxic environment. Kids are more observant than people give them credit for so it may actually be healthier to split in some cases

But I’m not an expert sha so…

ibkayee:

Well staying together for the kids for the sake of their ‘stability’ sounds reasonable on paper, assuming the parents are able to show a ‘civil’ front for them but I dunno how practical this is in a genuinely toxic environment. Kids are more observant than people give them credit for so it may actually be healthier to split in some cases

But I’m not an expert sha so…

Quite so. Thank you.

Kobojunkie:
The kids were grown at this point and did realize it was best for the parents to move on from what was clear even to them was a loveless marriage.

So, long as the parties involved realize they are simply wasting each other's time by remaining together and are both able to explain these things to their kids and work towards helping the children adjust and continue to develop past the break/possible trauma, then it is possible. Kids want to be happy and at the same time, they also want their parents happy as well.

it's even more stupid to divorce when the kids hav3 all grown up. The man's is old the woman is old.,. So what are they looking for outside. ?

The media makes divorce feel sweet. Hehe ... especially in the west... ermmm I see lots of girls spewing the same trash here... take note.. there's child support , alimony et al here.... and still a lot of women are regretting .... so if you like the idea. Keep it up.

Marriage isn't happiness. It's duty. Especially for the kids.

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Pastoshizzy:
Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

Always with bitterness. Relationship that still has iota of goodness won't end in divorce.

revolt:
it's even more stupid to divorce when the kids hav3 all grown up. The man's is old the woman is old.,. So what are they looking for outside. ?

So because they are old, they should not seek the salvage the remaining years of their lives as a result?