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Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 8:04pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
I know i am not the only one this is affecting but mine is really in another dimension. Fast forward to the 4th of October,i was being laid off work because the company i work in couldn't keep up with paying some staffs due to logistics issue so it sacked workers and i was unfortunate to be in the mix... So i left the company to look for work elsewhere and as it wasnt forthcoming,i decided to work for a block factory as i couldnt afford to keep my wife and two kids hungry(man dey really try ooo). sometimes i also go to the market and do some hustling but that will be the day we wont produce blocks so that the ones we have will dry so i have literally been living from hand to mouth pending when ill get a job This christmas has been the worst for me and i really really need help from anyone to be able to celebrate this xmas wel with my family...madam sef come day act smehw for me but i understand Any little help will be appreciated make me and my family sef chop chicken.its not being easy |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 10:33pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
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Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkie: 10:46pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Buskynwa:It is 2023 in less than 9 days, when is your job going to go out and join you in working to fend for what is equally her own family? I fail to see how a home with 2 capable adults should have excuses to offer when they say 2 is meant to be better than 1. ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 10:51pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: My wife works as a teacher and does extra lessons for kids,you may nt believe bt we've been feeding from hand to mouth of recent I was once my siblings looked up to but now i cant even boast of money in my acc... its just hard for me since i lost my job |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkiee: 11:12pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Buskynwa:She has a job and the family still not doing well? Again, what happened to 2 heads being better than 1 abeg? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 11:21pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:If i had a headway on what u are asking do you think i'll be here asking for support?You think it feels joyful to do so?may what happened to me never happen to you cuz your question looks more of a troll than help.you might think u are catching cruise bt life is turn by turn oo |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkiee: 11:26pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Buskynwa:catching cruise? I am asking because I don't understand why, with millions of examples of how wrong things can go right there in Nigeria, folks continue to fall down down same rabbit hole. You are not sick, she is not sick. So what is the problem? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 11:31pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:If u truly read what i wrote you wont be asking me this,BTW,i wont give you the attention u seek enjoy! |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkiee: 11:32pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Buskynwa: ![]() For 2023, consider putting the time you have to better use https://www.nairaland.com/7413010/sack-farming-limited-yard-space#118058221 |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by JeffreyJunior: 2:11am On Dec 24, 2022 |
I remember when this forum was good and people were honest about their needs and sufferings. Now, the way mechanics dress up makes it hard to know the difference between them and mad people. Pele bro. I will keep you in my prayers. 3 Likes |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 7:49am On Dec 24, 2022 |
JeffreyJunior: Thats true bro but anyone who wants to help should do it out of his own generosity cuz someone might truly need help...Plus no matter the facade if i were a lady calling for hookup youll see able bodied men trooping in nt minding if i was fake. thats life but i just want help thats all |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkiee: 7:56am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Buskynwa:Other posts to help your journey to providing for your family even while unemployed. https://www.nairaland.com/7471140/amazing-output-yam-in-sack-farming-pictures#119003973 |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 7:59am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Thanks |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkiee: 8:04am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Buskynwa:https://www.nairaland.com/7345038/growing-crops-sacks Start now and begin reaping as early as April of this year, job or no Job. And if you do well, you can plan your garden or small farm very well, you can have a system that puts food on your table all year long. : ![]() |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 8:14am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Yeah,but i wont starve till April na I prefer a proper job |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Kobojunkiee: 8:20am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Buskynwa:Try to think of it this way, if you had considered having your own side farm from even before you started having kids, you would have been able to save up money for hard times or at least ensured that even when one of you had no work, you still had a source for food. It is not too late to implement that safety net beginning today. And, I don't have a proper job that I can give you at this time. ![]() |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 8:41am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Ok man |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 5:15pm On Dec 24, 2022 |
Nobody wan bless me this christmas?Na wa o :- |
Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 7:29am On Dec 25, 2022 |
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Re: Travails Of A Married Man by Buskynwa: 7:29am On Dec 25, 2022 |
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