You have a point.

An attitude of entitlement and high expectations would see a spouse giving little or nothing but expecting the world especially in this social media era.

This would most likely irritate a partner, men especially. Humility, commitment, friendship, unshaken support, loyalty and kindness is sacrosanct for any relationship to be mutually beneficial. The current culture of wokeness and social media in-laws and opinions may be largely responsible for most of these marriages crashing.

However, people do get disconnected and tired sometimes (swinging moods and all). Wish them well.

Menclothing:
It's a lesson don't expect much give your best in marriage choose right
Same tribe do not guarantee happy marriage

Chaii so my saint obi is on the list I never read about it this year this is the result of copying western lifestyle.

baralatie:

Funke akindele marriage divorce was due to the constant attacks from jjc first wife's and son which jeopardize the security of funkes life.
She run like crazy

Wow, that escaped me o, Omo I no know, na wa I.... things the happen o

If you want a marriage that will last for life, don't marry beauty, check character and compactibility. Marry your friend, don't fake your personality, don't come to a relationship as a parasite, learn to tolerate, avoid adultery. Above all, ask God before saying yes I do . My wife was suggested to me by the Holy spirit. She's is the only one that could manage my weakness.

Angelfrost:


African women endured marital abuse, stigmatization, domestic violence, etc!

Please read! Let's not squabble over historical facts!

I never said I believed in happily ever after nor bought any European culture of divorce... The reality of today's life can't have men and women enduring marriages sir.

Even beyond marriage, cultures have changed world over... That's life!

Some people even choose celibacy and single parenthood nowadays... This would be unheard of back then, not just Nigeria but Europe and America.

Who are the perpetrator of these marital abuse, stigmatization, domestic violence ?

Who charged the cultures world over... ?

Do African have the word celibacy and single parenthood in their dictions ?


They say...in a relationship, one person is always right and the other person is a male

The more the modern people get educated, the less smart and intelligent they become.

Is divorce rare amongst Muslims?

Vintage100:
Crash marriages are common among Christians.

CaptainFM1:
Divorce is recognized and good for marriage that does not work.

Let's not stigmatize people or flog this topic called Divorce.

I tire o. They make it look as if,if you divorced you have committed an offence. They should go and see more divorce cases at their local courts. Making it sound as if na crime or a failure. I trust Oyinbo people sha..

Hope funke wasn’t overbearing with her husband? That’s the easiest way to lose a man quickly.

baralatie:

Funke akindele marriage divorce was due to the constant attacks from jjc first wife's and son which jeopardize the security of funkes life.
She run like crazy

God hates divorce.

No matter what happens in the marriage we should know that it will never be good after divorce:
first, there is a label on the man, he may get another lady but he is labeled already with a divorced tag, likewise the woman, she is labeled too with a divorced tag.

Secondly, the children will be badly influenced one way or the other, directly or indirectly, the children will lost valuable lessons they supposed to learn in a family where they can see and remember their parents.

Thirdly, if the wife decides to stay alone, it is a problem and it is complicated, you leave your children or you go with your children without the father, one day, the kids will ask of the father, same thing with the man, the man decides to go without the children or with the children, and the man decides to marry another wife, the children may suffer in the hands of the step mother.

Fourth, the stress of the court case, the lawyer and the money for the divorce case is something else.

Fifth one is the way the society will see you or accept you in the future.

The last point is that there is no guarantee that the next marriage will be perfect, no perfect marriage but there is a growing marriage, it depends on the growth, downward or upwards.

Social media is deceiving us that everything is okay where as there is a problem.

It is better not to marry than to marry the wrong person or you marry your enemy.

That's why it is important to ask God first before jumping into marriage, even though God is leading you, you need to work it out with God after marriage with prayers and obedience to God and not abandon God after marriage and believe that you brain will carry you through.

The best marriage is where the husband is blind and the wife is dumb.

One person must be a fool to make the marriage work

May God help us in Jesus Christ name.

kazyhm:


Who are the perpetrator of these marital abuse, stigmatization, domestic violence ?

Who charged the cultures world over... ?

Do African have the word celibacy and single parenthood in their dictions ?


They say...in a relationship, one person is always right and the other person is a male

The more the modern people get educated, the less smart and intelligent they become.

Your opinion is well noted sir, but no where close to fact!

Fact check: This is a dynamic and ever changing world with cultures changing with the times... It has been this way since time immemorial.

Even the culture you were born into was a different version of your parents'.

Modernity is relative and progressive!

Thanks for stopping by.

For long life and prosperity, you better dodge the bullet by calling it quit

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022 (Photos)



https://igberetvnews.com/1434676/14-nigerian-celebrity-marriages-crashed-2022-still-counting-photos/

Just 1yr oooooo
What's going on?

ghiloman28:
90% of woman once they have money they feels husband has nothing to say to them regardless say thier husband get x10 of wetin Dey get oo expecially Nigeria ladies.

Its not even money, its "relationship with God"...once a woman feels she has "relationship with God" then husband matters less and less to her...

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022 (Photos)



https://igberetvnews.com/1434676/14-nigerian-celebrity-marriages-crashed-2022-still-counting-photos/

Which one is who's next. Let your own be the next nah. Rubbish.

List of non celebrities plenty pass dis one..

9gerian:
Hope funke wasn’t overbearing with her husband? That’s the easiest way to lose a man quickly.

Read up on the attacks against funkes from her ex husbands wife and kids!
Then give her your advice.if you know what funke went through to get to that stage in her life

Money is not everything in life, no poor there

Out of the 14 about 12 or 13 were filed by the women.... this is the reason y I don't blame the talibans.... men build society, women destroy it

Marriage na ur mate?

The ones thet are blissfully blossoming nko? I have watched on turning point years ago how a couple married six years, got divorced six years and reunited. I saw right here two years ago, a couple who remarried after ten years of divorce. Sometimes we are just affected by our ignorance. People have to be more real during courtship and knowing no human is 100% perfect helps. Till we realize the truth, people will keep dusting up who you rejected and making them beautiful Avoid loosing when you can win.

Angelfrost:


Your opinion is well noted sir, but no where close to fact!

Fact check: This is a dynamic and ever changing world with cultures changing with the times... It has been this way since time immemorial.

Even the culture you were born into was a different version of your parents'.

Modernity is relative and progressive!

Thanks for stopping by.

Do you know, there was a research that postulated that without advertisement, there won't be shortage and competition...

It further stated that; every individual's want, taste and desires are mutually exclusive......but advertisement rearrange individual perspectives, which beget the idea of standard, substandard, inferior, superior, fake, good, bad, beautiful, ugly etc to sell idea and products to the gullible/novice/ open minded/naive individual.

You can research on the topic..... equip yourself with the understanding of life basic principles.

JaneYave:
The ones thet are blissfully blossoming nko?

Well
The anti marriage crusaders will not want that!

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022 (Photos)



https://igberetvnews.com/1434676/14-nigerian-celebrity-marriages-crashed-2022-still-counting-photos/

My pain is the millions they spent on the wedding forgetting the marriage proper.
If only they had given me the wedding money they waisted and simply do court wedding or church blessing.

baralatie:

Read up on the attacks against funkes from her ex husbands wife and kids!
Then give her your advice.if you know what funke went through to get to that stage in her life

Funked is a terrible person... she was abusive towards JJc .... JJC was her second marriage...and she dint even attend her dad's burial ... her ugly face is as ugly as her heart and mind .... she is a misandrist

Angelfrost:


I'm happily married sir!

Been happily married for many years... I have no plans to change this, but if tomorrow things go South, we will move on and still succeed in our lives.

It's not a do or die affair!... A broken marriage is better than a marriage seethed in pretence.Even the Bible backs me up on this! Thanks!

"For I Hate Divorce," says the Lord: Malachi 2:16 ... You mean this bible verse back you up?

Kingcalls:


Funked is a terrible person... she was abusive towards JJc .... JJC was her second marriage...and she dint even attend her dad's burial ... her ugly face is as ugly as her heart and mind .... she is a misandrist

I would have sworn that you were either the first wife or her son

Vintage100:
Crash marriages are common among Christians.

Ganduje daughter is also a Christian abi?

Go to north and see single mothers everywhere. If u can't afford to go north, try to go near sabo and hear story, many women u see that married to that aboki man u see thr, had been married at least once before.

baralatie:

I would have sworn that you were either the first wife or her son

Close mouth Mr simp.. go and do ur verification b4 u reply

Kingcalls:


Close mouth Mr simp.. go and do ur verification b4 u reply

As na you funke divorce ...make I fry beans

WORD �

Blakjewelry:
When it comes to relationships, everybody is an expert yet nobody is an expert.