Kswine:


I told her nothing will make me marry her again.

other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult

You don't need advice buddy you know what to do already... Merry Christmas

Weirdcamila:
Don’t send your wife to stay with your mom.
This things are simple .
Women find it hard to cohabit

Richy4:


You don't need advice buddy you know what to do already... Merry Christmas

Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?

Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.

I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.

Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flag about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it has a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly. To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her. Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself. On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she come back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happen around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again. Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.

Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.

Please no insult

pocohantas:
When a spouse is misbehaving and has the support of a parent, my dear forget it - they won’t change.

There is a saying that you can manage a bad spouse, but you can hardly ever manage bad in-laws. Couples fight all the time and makeup, but once it involves either in-laws, it becomes harder to fix as multiple egos are crushed and loyalty would be tested.

Hopefully you have a partner who understands peaceful co-parenting, which is most times not the case.

pocohantas:
Insulting your mother is an overkill. There are lines that should never be crossed. It is worse that she has the support of her mum. When a spouse is misbehaving and has the support of a parent, my dear forget it - they won’t change.

There is a saying that you can manage a bad spouse, but you can hardly ever manage bad in-laws. Couples fight all the time and makeup, but once it involves either in-laws, it becomes harder to fix as multiple egos are crushed and loyalty would be tested.

Hopefully you have a partner who understands peaceful co-parenting, which is most times not the case.

verifiablefacts:
Have this at the back of your mind,no one would ever love you more than your mother.