angelfallz:
Merry Christmas bro.

Same to you comrade.

Creativity22:

How old is the indian doctor ? Am talking about young, fit, successful caucasians desiring a nigerian woman ? With all there wahala and money consciousness ?

It will interest you to know that white people do no see us as "Nigerian women". They see black women. Afro-Canadian, African, Afro-Brazillian, Caribbean. They do not unselect a black woman because she is "Nigerian".
This doctor is 43. Based on my age 43 is young. He is also very fit and all doctors in North America are paid terribly well.
But there are very many young Caucasian male and African female couples here in Canada.

Like I said the major change an African female needs is to open her mind, lose weight, speak softly, love yourself. I can guarantee she will be attractive to every race.

Shokoloko:

They are giving them attention. I have eyes to see for myself. In British Columbia and Montreal there is a large community of East European and African (lots of Nigerian) women. Most of the girls in my family are married to Eastern Europeans - the guys are catching up.

One of my colleagues is a Nigerian lady of 46 years. There is this fine, tall Indian doctor interested. She likes him, he likes her. My colleague said no to him, because he isn't African. I was in shock. I said "at 46 years, you are still waiting for an African man"

Indian Doctor for Canada marry 46 Yr old African?
That aunty Don lie give you mama.

SeaTrade:
Indian Doctor for Canada marry 46 Yr old African?
That aunty Don lie give you mama.

But we all live together in Ottawa. I observe then I asked questions.
I was the one that noticed it before she agreed that it was true.
Over here age is just a number.

Shokoloko:

But we all live together in Ottawa. I observe then I asked questions.
I was the one that noticed it before she agreed that it was true.
Over here age is just a number.

Age is just a number over where ?okay ooo.

SeaTrade:
Age is just a number over where ?okay ooo.

Please until you leave Pott Harcourt and move outside Africa and live there for at least three years do not presume to know the mentality of people there.
If you know the number of Nigerian women in Nigeria who are older than their spouses you would be surprised. They just do not talk about it.

Shokoloko:

Please until you leave Pott Harcourt and move outside Africa and live there for at least three years do not presume to know the mentality of people there.
If you know the number of Nigerian women in Nigeria who are older than their spouses you would be surprised. They just do not talk about it.

I be dey go Rumuokoro under bridge for here.
Always dey careful as you assume things ma,na God I use beg you.
Tell that your 46yr old aunty say I say na lie go kill am.
Indian doctor go leave to import all those their pretty ,young,humble women weh full India dey chase 46yr old Nigeria milf for Canada.
Dey bobo yourself dey go...

SeaTrade:

I be dey go Rumuokoro under bridge for here.
Always dey careful as you assume things ma,na God I use beg you.
Tell that your 46yr old aunty say I say na lie go kill am.
Indian doctor go leave to import all those their pretty ,young,humble women weh full India dey chase 46yr old Nigeria milf for Canada.
Dey bobo yourself dey go...

A lot of people including guys do not want the trouble of importing and sponsoring wives. It's risky and expensive.
They would rather go for that slim African lady who already has her papers .

Shokoloko:

A lot of people including guys do not want the trouble of importing and sponsoring wives. It's risky and expensive.
They would rather go for that slim African lady who already has her papers .

Indian no go ever do am till this world end!!Especially one that has built himself up to doctor level.
They are very cultural people and will either marry young non feminist white or another young Indian from one of the numerous Indian families there or import as last resort.
To marry black, highly unlikely,let alone an old one.Forget it cos its not happening.
I've worked closely with Indians in my line of business.
Indians are also very traditional,no such thing as importing an Indian woman to sponsor anything,especially when the Indian husband is very well to do like the doctor.
Na to import,then straight to housewife and they live happily ever after.

SeaTrade:
Indian no go ever do am till this world end!!Especially one that has built himself up to doctor level.
They are very cultural people and will either marry young non feminist white or another young Indian from one of the numerous Indian families there or import as last resort.
To marry black, highly unlikely,let alone an old one.Forget it cos its not happening.
I've worked closely with Indians in my line of business.

I am glad you said "highly unlikely". Highly unlikely does not mean "never"
But that is just Indians. Let's go back to caucasians. Do you not know at least 10 African women married to Caucasian men?

Shokoloko:

I am glad you said "highly unlikely". Highly unlikely does not mean "never"
But that is just Indians. Let's go back to caucasians. Do you not know at least 10 African women married to Caucasian men?

The bottom feeding Caucasian men.
The pot bellied ones with little prospects.
Why else do Nigerian females abroad above 30 stoop as low as coming back home,marry jobless men with their money and relocate them to their bases abroad and bear all expenses if they were so sought after by Caucasians?
So they do this because they don't want whites?
Sorry to bust your bubbles but in the west,Caucasian there no rate African women,happens rarely.
Na for Eastern Europe and all those gypsy starving countries weh them get small chance cos the caucasians there no get level and their women no rate them and are polarised towards western caucasian men.

Wealthbrain22:
I’m so keen on going overseas for two main reasons.
One, I’m really desperate to check that off my bucket list of things to do before I leave this world, because life’s such a short and precious gift and only a fool will take it for granted and not try to explore every beautiful thing that it has to offer.

The second reason is because I really want to see if white people will find me attractive.

My entire life has been me considered or treated as an attractive person. At first I thought it was my local environment that caused it that if I moved to the highbrow neighborhoods of Nigeria like Abuja or Lagos island people will not notice my existence but I was shocked that even girls I thought would slap me if I approached them where smiling at me, I was now beyond convinced I was attractive to people.

Now I’m curious, if I was in London or New York will those high class elite girls still smile at me?

Well , for those of you folks living overseas , do white people admire you people or are they truly racist and no matter how good you look as a black person they would see you only as a “monkey”

White girls only care about your looks. Nothing else. If you're extremely handsome with nice chiseled abs, you can, maybe get some chances. Nothing else attract them. Look look look

Ballzproblem2:
I dey laugh you,in other for a black man attract white girls,you have the following


1) good physique (like abs , muscles,you get?)


2) extremely handsome


3) popular


4)rich




don't be deceive by all those fairy tales that white girls don't care about looks or money ,well maybe some ,but women are hypergamous no matter the skin colour.

White girls only care about your looks. Nothing else. If you're extremely handsome with nice chiseled abs, you can, maybe get some chances. Nothing else attract them. Look look look

SeaTrade:
The bottom feeding Caucasian men.
The pot bellied ones with little prospects.
Why else do Nigerian females abroad above 30 stoop as low as coming back home,marry jobless men with their money and relocate them to their bases abroad and bear all expenses if they were so sought after by Caucasians?
So they do this because they don't want whites?
Sorry to bust your bubbles but in the west,Caucasian there no rate African women,happens rarely.
Na for Eastern Europe and all those gypsy starving countries weh them get small chance cos the caucasians there no get level and their women no rate them and are polarised towards western caucasian men.

This is the crux of the matter - African women want African men.
You may deny it but I am sure you know at least 10 Nigerian women married to Caucasian men with adequate income.
And for your information God did not create anyone low -class (class is a construct of evil minds)
What's wrong with marrying a pot-bellied man? Should Mr Ibu's wife or Pete Edochie's wife divorce him because he has pot-belly.
The 10 poorest countries in the world 2022 except one are all in Africa. So which European country are you calling hungry?
Nigerians are migrating daily to these places that you call hungry? Do not be deceived - they knight be hungry according to European standards, but full according to Nigerian standards.
In terms of per capita GDP which "poor" european country is Nigeria better than?

Shokoloko:

This is the crux of the matter - African women want African men.
You may deny it but I am sure you know at least 10 Nigerian women married to Caucasian men with adequate income.
And for your information God did not create anyone low -class (class is a construct of evil minds)
What's wrong with marrying a pot-bellied man? Should Mr Ibu's wife or Pete Edochie's wife divorce him because he has pot-belly.
The 10 poorest countries in the world 2022 except one are all in Africa. So which European country are you calling hungry.
Nigerians are migrating daily to these places that you call hungry. Do not be deceived - they knight be hungry according to European standards, but full according to Nigerian standards.
In terms of per capita GDP which "poor" european country is Nigeria better than?

So a highly hypergamous Nigerian woman will leave Caucasian males already based in their country of residence ,probably doing okay for himself and move all the way to Africa,hunt for exes that aren't doing well(because no well to do man will leave what he has built and follow you ) and also foot his bills to take him abroad,expend her savings and also stand the risk of losing the man once he gets there because she wants an African man,whereas caucasians are hunting her?
Pot bellied men are married for something other than looks,deny it all you want but it's true(Im also pot bellied so i know what I'm saying).
Lots of caucasians are poor by their country's standards,especially in Europe for your information.
Move a little to the East in Europe and you see hunger and penury real time,no cap.
See,I'm very realistic and I say things as they are,no sugarcoating.
Moldova,Hungary,Ukraine,Romania,Slovakia,Albania,Greece and co....suffer here for their citizens na topnotch, no even try to argue.

BigDawsNet:


Yes, we have couple of whites ladles or women that attract majorly Black men...

I know couple of Ladies that dated few blacks and end of marrying a black man...

I'm equally engaged with a white lady...

But first! Before you can start feeling white ladies looking at you... or hiting at you...

You need to follow this steps...

Hit the Gym.. ( Build your Muscles )
You need to get a job (job type is not a priority)
Dress nice.. not like mumu
Improver your accent

Look is most enough to attract a white girl. Getting a job isn't part of the equation. Not even money. Just improve your looks and that's all. You can have shitty character, it doesn't matter

Bruno3000:
Doesn't apply to all white chics. Stop generalizing.

It apply to all white ladies. Your look is the only thing that matter.

ednut1:
Mostly fat , ugly and single mothers. Unless you are handsome, classy , with good job and apartment. From the way you sound I doubt you are handsome

Look is most enough to attract a white girl. Getting a job isn't part of the equation. Not even money. Just improve your looks and that's all. You can have shitty character, it doesn't matter cheesy

Mrscarter:


Not true. Where i am theres plenty of young black/white couples. Not ugly not rich etc.
Those couples ur referring too they give interacial relationships bad rep. There are all kinds of relationships

It's true. Your look is the Only thing that matter when it comes to dating a white or an Australian girl. I live in Canada and I've met them all. You can be boring, have very bad character, disrespect her, put her down at every little chances, but just ensure that you're really handsome and she'll stay around

No one can make me feel worthless as an African woman.
I am super attractive to anything.
Thank u.

SeaTrade:
So a highly hypergamous Nigerian woman will leave Caucasian males already based in their country of residence ,probably doing okay for himself and move all the way to Africa,hunt for exes that aren't doing well(because no well to do man will leave what he has built and follow you ) and also foot his bills to take him abroad,expend her savings and also stand the risk of losing the man once he gets there because she wants an African man,whereas caucasians are hunting her?
Pot bellied men are married for something other than looks,deny it all you want but it's true(Im also pot bellied so i know what I'm saying).
Lots of caucasians are poor by their country's standards,especially in Europe for your information.
Move a little to the East in Europe and you see hunger and penury real time,no cap.
See,I'm very realistic and I say things as they are,no sugarcoating.
Moldova,Hungary,Ukraine,Romania,Slovakia,Albania,Greece and co....suffer here for their citizens na topnotch, no even try to argue.

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/fears-black-women-dating-other-races/1815975
The above link describes some reasons why african/black women will stick to black men. There are others. Like I said the average african woman wants an african man.
The hunger and penury in Eastern Europe exist but it is not as severe as it is in Africa. Eastern Europe is not as hungry as Africa - You cannot argue with statistics.

Shokoloko:

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/fears-black-women-dating-other-races/1815975
The above link describes some reasons why african/black women will stick to black men. There are others. Like I said the average african woman wants an african man.
The hunger and penury in Eastern Europe exist but it is not as severe as it is in Africa. Eastern Europe is not as hungry as Africa - You cannot argue with statistics.

I said poor by their country's standards,there's a difference.
Me no dey read any link,most of the things I say are from personal experience,rather than reading someone else's perception.

SeaTrade:
I said poor by their country's standards,there's a difference.
Me no dey read any link,most of the things I say are from personal experience,rather than reading someone else's perception.

But you are not an african woman in the West. However in the world did you personally experience what an african woman goes through in the dating world?
Remember that we are comparing African poverty (the woman's origin) with European and Western poverty ( the man's origin). That lady will not see the European man as poor because he has a home and he eats thrice daily, which is not what poverty represents in her place. By the time she marries the European man and they combine incomes they immediately become an average income family.
The bottom line is if anyone wakes up and decides that they want to marry from a particular race, except death, no earthly force can stop a determined mind.
African women are simply determined to keep their minds closed and marry African men.

Shokoloko:

But you are not an african woman in the West. However in the world did you personally experience what an african woman goes through in the dating world?
Remember that we are comparing African poverty (the woman's origin) with European and Western poverty ( the man's origin). That lady will not see the European man as poor because he has a home and he eats thrice daily, which is not what poverty represents in her place. By the time she marries the European man and they combine incomes they immediately become an average income family.
The bottom line is if anyone wakes up and decides that they want to marry from a particular race, except death, no earthly force can stop a determined mind.
African women are simply determined to keep their minds closed and marry African men.

I don't have to be an African woman in the west to share in their dating shortcomings.
There's something called proximity,the closer you get,the more you understand.
When a person stays in a place for a while,he/she adapts the standards of that place.
You don't expect an African immigrant woman who've spent sometime in western societies to still consider poverty as not being able to eat or buy clothes or drink beer.
It has now become not being able to buy a new car,get a mortgage ,earn a certain income bracket or operate in some certain spheres of influence.
So you saying she's seen worse as far as poverty is concerned as yardstick doesn't hold.She will see you clearly as being poor by your society's standards.
Keep their minds closed indeed,they just don't have Caucasian men running after them, so they go to where that demand is there,which is fellow black immigrant guys and fight for market share with prettier afro-westerns,Jamaicans,Latinas and Co so its highly unlikely to win in this kind of competitive market,so they face Africa and import their Jobless past prime,late blooming exes who 9 times out of 10 dump them to hunt for their competition as well as soon as they level up.
The world isn't black and white, you just have to accept reality and make amends when there's still time.

SeaTrade:
I don't have to be an African woman in the west to share in their dating shortcomings.
There's something called proximity,the closer you get,the more you understand.
When a person stays in a place for a while,he/she adapts the standards of that place.
You don't expect an African immigrant woman who've spent sometime in western societies to still consider poverty as not being able to eat or buy clothes or drink beer.
It has now become not being able to buy a new car,get a mortgage ,earn a certain income bracket or operate in some certain spheres of influence.
So you saying she's seen worse as far as poverty is concerned as yardstick doesn't hold.She will see you clearly as being poor by your society's standards.
Keep their minds closed indeed,they just don't have Caucasian men running after them, so they go to where that demand is there, which is fellow black immigrant guys and fight for market share with prettier afro-westerns,Jamaicans,Latinas and Co so its highly unlikely to win in this kind of competitive market,so they face Africa and import their Jobless past prime,late blooming exes who 9 times out of 10 dump them to hunt for their competition as well as soon as they level up.
The world isn't black and white, you just have to accept reality and make amends when there's still time.

If no Caucasian man is running after them, how come you know at least 10 African women married to Caucasian men? You know this because of proximity, if you do live in Europe
The world isn't black and white so why are you so reluctant to agree that some men of other races find African women attractive?
When was the last time you visited Montreal or Vancouver?
Look, the world is stepping into an avalanche of inter-racial marriages and a large portion of it is black women - white man.
I will repeat again if you take a look at all the African women that you know that are in relationship with other races, they are not particularly pretty, but they are not fat. Its not about looks.

Shokoloko:

If no Caucasian man is running after them, how come you know at least 10 African women married to Caucasian men? You know this because of proximity, if you do live in Europe
The world isn't black and white so why are you so reluctant to agree that some men of other races find african women attractive.
When was the last time you visited Montreal or Vancouver?
Look, the world is stepping into an avalanche of inter-racial marriages and a large portion of it is black women - white man.

Well,I don't know up to 10 black women married to Caucasian men.
Well,I've never been to Canada.
Really looking forward to coming there to visit loved ones this coming year but Zanzibar just dey enter my eyes and I don't have much break time in my plans.
Anyways ,let's see how it goes,might see you too if I chose Canada Las Las...Make i see this my wahala friend

SeaTrade:
Well,I don't know up to 10 black women married to Caucasian men.
Well,I've never been to Canada.
Really looking forward to coming there to visit loved ones this coming year but Zanzibar just dey enter my eyes and I don't have much break time in my plans.
Anyways ,let's see how it goes, might see you too if I chose Canada Las Las...Make i see this my wahala friend

Sure if you come to Ottawa I'll host you.
You be wahala person too
Have a great new year

Shokoloko:

Sure if you come to Ottawa I'll host you.
You be wahala person too
Have a great new year

You too Shoko.
You Don chop your Christmas chicken finish by now I'm sure.
No forget to include me for new year rice ooo.
Might be headed for Calgary sha because I don't really have people in Ottawa. Well ,can always figure something out.
Anyways,how do I reach you when the time is right?

Shokoloko:

It will interest you to know that white people do no see us as "Nigerian women". They see black women. Afro-Canadian, African, Afro-Brazillian, Caribbean. They do not unselect a black woman because she is "Nigerian".
This doctor is 43. Based on my age 43 is young. He is also very fit and all doctors in North America are paid terribly well.
But there are very many young Caucasian male and African female couples here in Canada.

Like I said the major change an African female needs is to open her mind, lose weight, speak softly, love yourself. I can guarantee she will be attractive to every race.

The money conscious and greedy ones, like most of our sisters, will always be left out. Believe me, no group of men in any society, will be able to put up with out typical nigeria women here. This is no insult . It is pure fact. For her to desirable at 46 by a 43 year old doctor. Then she is DEFINITELY not your typical nigeria woman. She must be a rare breed

SeaTrade:
You too Shoko.
You Don chop your Christmas chicken finish by now I'm sure.
No forget to include me for new year rice ooo.
Might be headed for Calgary sha because I don't really have people in Ottawa. Well ,can always figure something out.
Anyways,how do I reach you when the time is right?

No worries at all.
I cam not able to post my phone number on nairaland. When you are planning your trip please me an email through my profile and I will share my phone number