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Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by AntiChristian: 4:09pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
MaxInDHouse: Why did Jehovah gave laws to protect first wife after marriage to the second instead of forbidding plural marriage entirely? I'm tired of all this God created Adam and Eve argument! Should God have created Adam with thousands of wives and state all the names in Genesis? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by NNTR: 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
MaxInDHouse:So far there's a joint or collective adult mutual consent and no evil or danger to child, animal or environment is done Also you omitted, closer home, the Irigwe people of Northern Nigeria, who are known to be familiar with polyandry Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 4:24pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker: You see, when the likes of you get what you have been dishing out, you just can't take it! You stand there instead of riding out and face the very thing you dishout to people, you take the path of cowardice and play the victim. In here, you associated polygamy with crime. Do you know how that sounds to offsprings o polygamy? you know an insult that is to thr holy marrital institution called polygamy and the people in thr institution? You have been served your own cake and now you do not like the taste of it. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by NNTR: 4:28pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
AntiChristian:I am not on this thread to be drawn into adultery AntiChristian:Mohamed married equal to, or greater than 11 eleven wives. Some sources say, he married between 11 to 19 wives, hence the reason for using the mathematical ≥11 - 19 expression. AntiChristian:1. Does Allah love you? Yes or No? 2. Do Allah love you more or loves you less, than the next human being passing? 3. Who are you copying? Who are you emulating? Who is your model? Your standard? 4. Do you love your fellow human beings, just as I suppose, like Allah too loves all human beings? AntiChristian:I am giving you another chance to kindly give a honest answer to the question below: Are you capable of doing justice and dealing with each of your wives equally? (i.e. show and give each one of your wives equal measure of justice, love affection, care, support, attention et cetera) Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MaxInDHouse(m): 4:37pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
AntiChristian: Never mind jàre, let anybody marry the number of men or women they wish as long as their religion permits! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MaxInDHouse(m): 4:38pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
You have no problem! NNTR: |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker: has this post done any justice to the issues I raised in the post he is responding to? Now, I am struggling to understand what your problem is. I wrote that post to debunk the myth that the bible passage ''in the beginning, he made them male and female'' does not mean it was one man and one woman he created at the beginning. the idea that is clearly responsible for people thinking polygamy is out of the question. I went further to prove with an overwhelming amount of evidence from the bible itself! So, now that you agree with me that at the very beginning, it is not jut adam and eve that were there and that there were a vast number of people who were not related to adam or eve, what then is your problem? and why do you want to coninue to insist that the ''male and female'' he talked about, was referring to a single adam and a single eve from which you get your idea that polygamy is not Christian? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by AntiChristian: 4:51pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
NNTR:Yeah you are on to divert the thread away from the topic! Another diversion! More diversion from the thread! This is unrelated to the topic! Who set all this criteria for you in the Bible? Isn't the topic about Bible and polygamy again? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by AntiChristian: 4:54pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
MaxInDHouse: Watchtower declaration favors one man one wife right? But no proof against polygamy! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:01pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
AntiChristian: Any proof against polyandry? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by NNTR: 5:07pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
AntiChristian:You introduced adultery and tried to embroiled me into commenting on adultery, AntiChristian:The point made there is that though Mohammed allegedly married up to between 11 to 19 wives, he didnt do so based on sexual pleasure grounds, unlike you who is admitted to be keen on polygamy because you dont want to commit fornication. Smh AntiChristian:From the questions, you clearly can see, how and what it means, to love equally. AntiChristian:Oh oh. It is related to the topic. Of course, the topic is about Bible and polygamy, but doesnt the Quran piggybacks on the Bible.? This about doing equal justice to all the married wives, and if you know you arent able to, then, marry just one wife, actually is from the Quran (i.e. your Holy Book). The criteria is set in the Quran. Guess your Imam hasn't brought it your attention yet Never mind. It is, what it is. Its my festive gift to you Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:55pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
MiddleDimension: I did understand your counter but your counter did not stand because Christ made this statement as The Law of marriage when specifically asked about marriage. Secondly, you were using another contentious issue to rebut my answer which is an invalid rebuttal most especially as your position is even the wrong one. For Adam and Eve where alone until Genesis 4, where we see that they had lots and lots of children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren and 200 years is more than enough to have children and great-grandchildren and great great grand children, enough to fill villages and towns, not to talk of 500 years. MiddleDimension: Because God is God of "Law and Just is". and must hear the cry of a complainant , "the wife". Just as you find it unjust if your wife marries another husband, so also is it unjust to her when you take up another wife. And God's Law is "You must harm no one aka do no evil thing." And taking another wife is you doing evil to your wife as Malachi and Peter warns Malachi 2:14-16 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. (No the wife or wives) 15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.(the wife again, not the wives). 16 For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously. 1 Peter 3:7 [7] Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, (not the wives) as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
MiddleDimension: The Law does not look at anyone's face when it gives Judgement. So scream all you want, The Law will still be The Law. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 7:40pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker: Has this one honestly made a serious point here? I would like to hear others on this page say something about this. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by AntiChristian: 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
NNTR: Please if you're not ready to discuss on the topic you can skip my mentions! Some Christians are Galatians 3:1 personified, high on thread diversion and writing off point! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by NNTR: 8:19pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
AntiChristian:You can run as far as you want to, but you'll never hide, as not kindly giving a honest answer to the polygamy question below, will forever haunt you: 1. Are you capable of doing justice and dealing with each of your wives equally? (i.e. show and give each one of your wives equal measure of justice, love affection, care, support, attention et cetera) AntiChristian:I'll leave Christians and Galatians to contend with you on that verse Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by AntiChristian: 8:27pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
NNTR:Thread topic: Did the Bible condemn polygamy and Yul Edochie's second marriage? Offpoint! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by NNTR: 8:34pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
NNTR: Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 9:02pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker: For the sake of other people here who are devoted to understanding and insight; and also for your own sake if, in the future, you decide to turn away from your current self, which is just being hell-bent on defending doctrines, which are false by the way, and then start being devoted to knowledge, understanding and insight, I am going to respond to your very weak point which is steeped in an embarrassing level of ignorance. You need to stop your self-deception already! the ''other people'' the bible talked about, were not ''there'' like you said. They were elsewhere hence, he would have to perambulate around to run into them. Notice how the bible reports what Cain said and you will realize that the ''other people'' he said will kill him when they find him, are not people with whom he is acquainted, not even in the slightest way; they are an entirely DIFFERENT people! Cain said: ''This punnishment is too hard for me to bear. You are driving me off the land and away from your presence. I will be a homeless wanderer on the earth and anyone who finds me will kill me'' Gen 4 vs 13-14. Remember, he is being sent off the land he is familiar with; the same land he probably was born on and had his up bringing. And then god is sending him away from that land. If the sending away is going to be a punnishement, then it is definitely going to be a land he is unfamiliar with, a land which will present challenges he doesn't know how to deal with including which crop to grow to provide food or how he is to grow that crop! pay attention to him again. He said: ''i will become a homeless wanderer...'' which means he is going to be perambulating aimlessly and in the course of his wandering, he may run into a settlement consisting of ''other people''. These people are truly ''other people'' and completely unrelated to him hence he did not call them ''my relatives'', but ''other people''. This is very much like how you can venture into bush where there is nothing except grass and trees and no aingle footpath, but if you continue, you may run into a Fulani settlement whose members are completely unrelates to you! This is exactly what the bible was talking about in that Cain passage. @joagbaje @donnie what do you think? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:17am On Aug 16, 2023 |
MiddleDimension: Examine yourself and see if you are not the deceiver. You said"...up until genesis chapter 4 vs 14, there were supposedly only 4 people in the world." Now you admit that there were "other people. who were elsewhere". Are now not the deceiver? The Law is he who alleges must prove. So when you accuse our beliefs you must be ensure that you sucesfully and reasonably prove your accusations. You just don't go.accusing a person or a doctrine simply because you do not like it. MiddleDimension: And no one sent him off, he used his hands to take up a Curse to come upon him. And only spelled out the Curse that came upon him, which includes the Curse of death and insecurity. Which is why we say when you kil, you can not sleep well and you will always be aftraid and wondering who (your father, brother, cousin, uncle, neighbour etc) or what (dogs, snakes, crocodiles, accident etc) is going to kill you. Its as simple as that. That is curse that follows murderers Exactly as The Law Said. "He that smiteth a man, so that he die, shall be surely put to death". So, you have no case here at all. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 10:10am On Aug 16, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker: Again, I am responding to you for the benefit of other people and also of you yourself when you decide to stop being hell-bent on defending a belief that is just plain lies, and start being concerned about what's true! The whole idea that jesus was limiting the number of wives one can marry to only one with that verse ''in the begining, there was only man and woman...and the two become one'' is just plain wrong! It is wrong because it implies that Jesus was ignorant of the truth that in the beginning, there were not just only one man and one woman. This is very clear in the bible when Cain said: ''when ANYONE sees him, they will kill him''. Your likes, before I pointed it out to you, have always believed the genesis story is literally the correct version of the origin of man, and so believe that Adam and Eve were the first and only two people god created. This is where your belief that a man should have only one wife comes from. In addition to that, you also believe that every human being on earth are a decendant of Adam and Eve, including the ''other people'' Cain was afraid might find and kill him. But I am saying no, that idea of yours is wrong. And of course, Jesus said in the beginning, god made them male and female; but that is not to say a man is meant to marry only one woman and that's it. Also, no, polygamy does not violate the ''...and the two shall become one'' that jesus said. How do I know this? Let me show you! You bible always liken man and woman marriage relationship to the relationship between god and israel; christ, the groom, and the church, his bride. He also likens the relationship between god or christ and the individual born again. Your bible reports that your god told Hosea to go and marry a woman, and their marriage relationship is going to be a reflection of the relationship between god and israel. The book of the song of Solomon is included in the canon of the scriptures despite it having what could be described as pornography, simply because the man and woman singing love songs to one another, can be regarded as god and Israel, christ and his church, or christ and the individual christian. Paul is another person who likens the relationship between a man and his wife to that between god and the individual christian. He said ''just as christ is the head of his church, so too is the man the head of the woman''. Now, since I have ESTABLISHED that the relationship between the man and the woman is always likened to the relationship between jesus and the individual christian, it is now obvious how ''the two shall become one'' is not violated by polygamy. When you, Dtruthspeaker, accepted to ne married to jesus and he became your husband while you became his wife, another person could also accept the same jesus and when he does so, jesus becomes that person's husband WHOLE AND ENTIRE, even as he still remains your husband WHOLE AND ENTIRE! The two of you, jesus and you, became ONE when you accepted him as your lord and saviour just as he becomes ONE with your brother in the lord when he accepted the christian faith. This is all in line with the teachings of the bible when it said: ''whoever is united with the lord, is one in spirit with him''. 1 Cor 6:17 and similar passages. @joagbaje @donnie what do you think about this? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 12:55pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
MiddleDimension: So now you see you are wrong about "genesis chapter 4 vs 14, there were supposedly only 4 people in the world.". Ok so now i return to the main issue of the thread. MiddleDimension: First, He Said, male and female and not one man and one woman. Secondly, is there any other class of human being beyond being male or female that forms part of the "ANYONE" that Christ did not take cognisance of existing at that time? Eh? See, bad thinking, bad product. MiddleDimension: Wrong! This is you imposing a belief you think is my belief. And clearly if you contend the origin of man as recorded by the bible, there isn't any way your assessment will not be corrupted by your disagreement which is already showing. So.you already have issues. But below is the crux of your argument. And a good one But i was waiting for someone to go there. MiddleDimension: And this is where if your mind was not corrupt you would have seen why this marriage is not wrong. Why? Because of the absence of sin and wrongs, both present and future. None of the parties to that marriage is complaining nor shall be complaining nor shall ever complain. When you Look at the rights of all the parties to tbat marriage, not one of them is violated or violatable. Thus, this marriage is exactly like the one people already do when they marry to do business aka Ltd, GtE and unlimited companies and partnerships as registered in Corporate Affairs Commission.(CAC). But, there isnt any wife, with her full senses and will, who will ever permit you to marry another woman exactly how you will never permit her to marry another man. The Law of do unto others what you want done unto thee. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:19pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
LocalStandard1: I showed you that God, TWICE Said on marriage "Male and Female created He them". Do you imagine that He does not know the lust guided desires of a man's mind and that you would want all the wives that your hands and.penis can get? Thiis is obviously one of the several cases where God did not speak much because a word is enough for the wise, not to.talk of TWICE a Word, Wherein God never spoke on.the issue again! Clearly you people do not know traps and danger when you see one. The mere fact that everyone does that which is wrong does not make the wrong, Right. And God's messenger did say "stick to the wife, (not wives) of your youth" and do not deal treacherously with her. And there is no wife with her freewill, who will ever permit you to marry another woman as they have all confessed! Fear God and live! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:58pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
And this is where you see the case of the woman at the well who had more than one husband/ whose wife shall she be wherein The Lord, AGAIN, did not Speak other than to address the issue before Him. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by vdestro: 4:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
MiddleDimension: The Law of one man, one wife is for man and applies to man. It can not and does not apply to man's Maker/Law Giver and Lord whom Jesus is to us. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:18pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
vdestro: Oh o. Another angle. |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 5:44pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker: Mtchew |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 5:45pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
vdestro: says you even though your bible disagrees. shior! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by MiddleDimension: 6:19pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
LocalStandard1: I thought I was the only one who saw his evils of turning around narratives. please look below to find where we started off. From the first screenshot, you can CLEARLY SEE that he, like most christians, is the one who is oblivious to the TRUTH that there were more than just adam and eve in the beginning hence he quoted jesus again and said he made them male and female, not male and females. If he is the one who is aware from the outset that there were also other people aside just adam and eve, he would not have quoted jesus again to buttress his point that gos is only in support of one man, one wife. He would not have taken jesus literally! Because I have been aware for a very long time now that adam and eve were not the only ones at the very beginnning, is the reason why I am not the one who tried to take jesus literally, but him! But what do we have he is trying to turn the whole disscussion on its head and say that I am the one who is oblivious to the fact that its not just adam and eve who were there at the very beginning, but other people as well. You know, in all of my discussions with born agains, I have come to realize that there is hardly any people in the world that have this sort of aversion to truth. This is ironic by the way, considering the fact that it was jesus' earnest wish that ''they'', believers, ''shall know the truth...'' there are very few things jesus wished for them one of which is the truth. But here they are having an embareassing level of aversion to truth! By the way, here is the link to the place where we started and you can see for yourself. please check it before he going there to fruadulently edit that post, there by erasing the evidence. He is capable of doing that since he tried to turn a discourse on its head in broad day light. you can even screenshot it so that not just one person will have the evidence. https://www.nairaland.com/7497295/did-bible-condemn-polygamy-yul#119457969
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Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by vdestro: 8:05pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
MiddleDimension:How does the Bible disagree with my statement? |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:13pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
MiddleDimension: See! Failure again cannot answer. Thought you found a reasonable ground and cover to hiderun your sins of greedy filthy liusts! |
Re: Did The Bible Condemn Polygamy And Yul Edochie's Second Marriage? by vdestro: 8:16pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker: No mind the ole two wives. He said Bible disagrees yet he did not say how, i am interested in the how. |
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