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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by JasperVII(m): 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Impregnablefolk: 1:16pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Jeon:Shay na only Forbes dey release list of richest men in d world? Wen una wey b girls sabi small book pride no go dey let una see road again. Pride goes b4 a fall! |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by skuribeebo: 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Chai. Nkan be labe orun. |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Josephkabila12: 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Nawa for dat woman |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Jeon(f): 1:19pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Impregnablefolk: Abeg no insult ur mom. It's my choice to choose from any Magazine. You can hang ur neck if you ain't happy with it. 3 Likes |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Guderian(m): 1:22pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Daboy18 Igbo family right? |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by 3kay945(m): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Hmmm,.. I don't know why the sound of *beat the mum* is sounding odd and unfathomable to me. Well, I thank God for who I am. Anyway, there are better ways of dealing with such mothers than raising your hands on them. For your sister, hmmm.. be careful o. Just like someone said above, a girl that has been dicked in and out in every ways possible can do treat your fuckup o. Use wisdom for her issues and if not redeemable, then that is her destiny not yours. I don't want to read on nairaland that 16yrs old girl stabbed brother to death |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ChukwukaEze: 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
daboy18:OP, since you care so much for the the forum that you bring your issues here for advice, don't forget to share with us the advise you took and how it worked for your case. Hence, you have to end what you started. While you are still contemplating, tell your moma, if she listens, how you feel 'bout her action, with no emotion, straight and blunt. And don't forget to BEFRIEND your sis. 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ekerintee: 1:24pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
if he cant stand to defend his dad , then one day,his neighbours wife or another outsider will do that infront of him because they know he cant do anything.Asking the mother to leave the house means he is taking authority of his father in that situation.Even the Heavens will be happy with him,His ancestors will be so proud of him and then his father will know he has a true son.Even the whole family will support him in this situation,Nigeria police self go support him move.I know some people will say its a taboo, the bible or no Holy Book support a woman slapping her husband , neither does my own tradition.If she curses him, then the fathers blessing will be upon him, so is the blessing of the ancestor and gods of our land.I wont hit the woman,just order them to leave the house and destroy all their properties if they dont as my first action, then follow with my action number two which they will regret . Aguiyimba: |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Ayobeck(m): 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Lionnation: Ans den |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by nautybride: 1:28pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
This one don go! So pe Otilo! |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Nekky5(f): 1:28pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
At 20 years ,you should stand up and defend your father knowing the kind of mother you have. You are equally older than your sister, if you are not comfortable with the kind of life she is living, put it to her that you would one day deal with her if she continues with that life style. Your mother is frustrating the entire family and someone would someday insult your father because of how he is being treated. once your mother and sister sees that you are ready to change it for them if that nonsense persists, they would have no choice than to succumb to peace . Be wise while you go about your actions. 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by daboy18: 1:28pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by gbami(m): 1:30pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
daboy18: I wanted to ignore your story, but reading some of the comments warranted me to say something. It seems to me that you are a wise 20rs old boy. First thing, don't get involve in your parents quarrels and don't take sides, the only thing you can to is to separate them if they become physical with each other. Your father is still in the marriage. If he want to divorce your mother he would have done it a long time ago. So, he remains in the marriage because he benefits if not much at least a little from the union. You mother is a bad woman, thank God you know. Whenever you become independent and live on your own. Don't let your mum visit your girlfriend or wife, she will ruin the marriage. Your mother may be cheating on your father as well, because a woman that disrespects her husband often time is because she cheats and don't regard him. As for your sister, time is never fair to women, as she grows older, she'll realise her mistakes and also as often she will dispise your mother as well. Lastly, be careful with your live. 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
U re not too young to act. Our past military leaders took offices at their 20's. Evil is evil. U can speak out. |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by KingofHearts(m): 1:41pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
dumahi: If you want to live long don’t listen to the advise above, you think your dad is a fool managing your mum the way he has been managing her? Don’t think because she is your mum she cannot poison you o.The best thing is to find how to systematically leave that environment and work on building yourself,only then can you do something meaningful about the matter. |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by zakkxx: 1:42pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
You are not a child, get up and stand for your Father. This is y before you marry any girl check out how they treat their father because that is how the daughter will treat u! Your Sister is a replica of your mother, that was how your mother behave that is y she see nothing wrong in what she is doing! Your Father will die before his time because of over thinking! Rise up and defend your Father before u post his obituary here! If you don’t see the key to the door break it and safe your Father! Stop behaving like a fool! Your mother will just talk she can not do you any thing! Don’t disrespect her but don’t also allow her to kill your Father for you!! 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Guderian(m): 1:47pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
daboy18: It's not quite common among yorubas, But please take this as an opportunity for you to know how to be aggressive and radical in a wise way. The world is extremely crazy man, a bit of ruggedness to stamp your authority and shake things up a little bit won't be bad. As for your sis she'll learn the hard way, dont beat your sis for now she is powerful than you her as she can team up with already made guys and cook a dangerous situation for ya Finally time to be the independent man |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Ishilove: 1:50pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
dumahi:So in your mind you have made sense? 2 Likes |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by blackslayer: 1:54pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
ahnie: You are still a dimwit! While i will never lay my hands on my mom, the point i was trying to make flew past your fish brain! Or do you think with the smelly hole between your legs still? Fucking bitch! 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ShoeWorld2(m): 1:54pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Guderian:It's common with Yorubas actually because at Ijebu, you will see a young girl that have three kids for different men, just that you're disappointed that your tribalistic projection is utterly wrong. 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Inali: 2:09pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
dumahi:did you just advice someone to beat his mom? Would you beat any of your parent if they erred like his mother? The mother has done very wrong and she should be in jail sef but never advice anyone to beat a parent cos you don't know now serious that person might take it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Guderian(m): 2:09pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
ShoeWorld2: Oh common we all know the tribe where women domineering their husband is a norm Take note it's not an argument |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by caesymore(m): 2:17pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
ahnie: Like two wrongs making a right... Mr. Adviser deserves free lasting beating. I wonder what my generation has become. |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by wany(f): 2:19pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Justbehave:still depends on the type of woman you had babies with,you never start . |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ShoeWorld2(m): 2:19pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Guderian:I never took it as argument just that we have many like you who always ask about tribe when someone write his story here and it's quite pathetic because this is clearly happening in all tribes. Have you even been to some parts of Edo state that have more landlady than landlords? No, because most of you guys don't travel and you always view the happening from other sides of the country(you see as news) from perspective of tribalism and it's pathetic. Someone write a story and your only contribution is Igbo right? , this is normal happening across Nigeria families due to poverty and there's one even taking place in your street where someone will be publicly supporting their sons and daughters doing yahoo, cultists, Ashawo and robbery. Fvck, I'm outta here. 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ahnie: 2:19pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
caesymore:Abeg leavam....na so them dey raise ham,na the things wey he dey do his parents naiim he dey tell op to do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Justbehave(m): 2:23pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
wany:Yea and I guess all the three baby mamas are stupid based on your statement. Rubbish. Even the female judges that handled the different cases could not dare me e come be swine like you. Getat. 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by dazzlingd(m): 2:27pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
daboy18:A useless woman will ruin a man. She will feed him with poor quality food that will ruin his health, she will give him a bastard child, she will give him STDs and high blood pressure. She will make life unpleasant for him. If you marry a woman and you see signs of evil in her, divorce her and move on 1 Like |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by wany(f): 2:28pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
davillian:and one wonders why most of you are living miserably in life, read your bible well when next you have the urge to beat up and injure your biological . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Kreddy: 2:28pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
how could leaving the house solve the problem?? How could it prevent his father from being slapped or dealt with by her mom?? |
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Guderian(m): 2:28pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
ShoeWorld2: Goodnight boss |
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