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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Kholiwe(f): 4:31pm On Dec 28, 2022
You better learn from your dad and not be a weakling like he is. What a pathetic story.
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:35pm On Dec 28, 2022
BirtherOfKings:


Sounds made-up.. anyway pray for your parents.dont take sides too

Praying for them is the key, and taking sides is very appropriate.
U won't say the same if the man is the abuser
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:36pm On Dec 28, 2022
ahnie:

Sister wey don scatter... probably a mobile walking POS for yahoo boiz.


Lolz
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:39pm On Dec 28, 2022
daboy18:



Hmmm beating my mum never i cannot try that , not even in my dream sorry this your advice is not good

Try being the man.
Learn to defend ur Dad, because if ur mum is in his situation u will defend her.


But don't ever try hitting ur mom. U can be the man without hitting her.
Seems u are the only son
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by olaiyaO: 4:41pm On Dec 28, 2022
dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

Of course, this is one of the options but it shouldn't be the first thing to do. This option can be considered as the second option. The this boy need to do is to find out if her mum is a witch before taking the above one. Because you never can tell may be what's happening to dad was actually cause by your mom spiritually and if you're not strong spiritually you may be the second scape goat to your mom. If you now find out that your mom has no iota of any spiritual backing then you can now emback on the above option.

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2022
chinae:


What you don't know is that your sis kept your mum in the know of happenings between her and the Yahoo boy even before she left home that day.

The boy talks to your mum on phone, she is driven by fund cos I believe she boy also buys gift or some form of transfer income for your mum.
Giving her resounding slaps will help too
My body language at home even at 15 years, no one in my family can try any unrest to the point of maltreating a full grown man. I aware what that guy above advices is my personal action.

I will not beat her up, once she is done maltreating him, I will endure she get atleast 2 well augmented slaps. This will send serious msg to her.

I will repeat same action if it is my dad maltreating my mum.
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2022
Truvelisback:
Ur mum is likely the Breadwinner or she is doing better than ur dad financially. When women are Breadwinners in the home, they are likely to behave this way and lookdown on their husband.
The man being sick is the game changer
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Obiorahpcfg: 4:47pm On Dec 28, 2022
May heaven hear your secret prayers my son, on Jesus name. Amen
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Lamasta(m): 4:51pm On Dec 28, 2022
DatNaijaGuy:
Stop being a weakling. It's your duty to defend your dad. I am pained that your dad slept outside and and you allowed your mom to sleep inside.

That's the only part in the story I detest about the OP for allowing such.....

He went inside crying....Even the father will regret having him as a son

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:53pm On Dec 28, 2022
IF U CAN BE FULLY OBSERVANT U WILL NOTICE THAT NO WOMAN IN THIS FORUM ADVISED THE BOY TO PRESS FOR CHARGES AGAINST HIS MOM FOR DOMESTIC ABUSE.

WOMEN WON'T EVER ADVISE FOR AT ACTION AGAINST THEIR FOLLOW WOMEN, BUT WON'T LEFT ANY STONE UNTURNED IF THE CASE IS REVERSED.

WOMEN ARE POUR EVIL

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Akuruoulo(m): 4:56pm On Dec 28, 2022
daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.


Take ur mom to warefare.
Press charge against her for domestic violence against ur Dad.
No woman will give u a befitting advice since its against their fellow.
Don't forget this advice
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Blacksavage: 5:10pm On Dec 28, 2022
ahnie:

Lolz
You seemed to be very free n cool with your pman taking to his heels.
Wahala
Yeah I enjoy my dad before he died but ehn
My mom show am shege and me go just dey look like person wey no sabi waiting dey happen cheesy
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ahnie: 5:12pm On Dec 28, 2022
Blacksavage:

Yeah I enjoy my dad before he died but ehn
My mom show am shege and me go just dey look like person wey no sabi waiting dey happen cheesy
Hahahahahaha
God rest his soul
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Streetmovement(m): 5:22pm On Dec 28, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

I came late, But I go still drop wetin I carry for mind.

First of all you Bleep up, now you should have intervened when the fight was going on by so doing you could have stopped your mum from beating your dad blue black due to your dad's condition..that was your first Bleep up.

You stood and watch without seperating

See we like this we don see things for this life both street and at home, when I was your age I use to comeback from street fight to meet home fights between my mum and my dad, back then my sister was very young so she couldn't do jack to stop anything even if I knew she wanted to always do something but las las she resulted to always crying...on many occasions have stopped my dad from beating my mum blue black, anytime their fight wan start I'm always the middle man, all the blows where always landing on me and my dad will be like "anyday you come in between husband and wife matter again you will see what I will do to you but me wey be say I stubborn pass anything that's if I make up my mind, I no dey gree until one day my dad chased my mum with a cutlass on a Sunday morning due to an issue he had with my mum's mum cuz she came over to stay with us for a few days, funny thing is I chased him with the same cutlass he was chasing my mum with and that scenario was a brain resetting scenario for him cuz at that moment and time whatever he was about to do with that cutlass I was about to do same.

Fast forward to today, I can gladly tell you that my parents now run everything by me, if there's any case or issues at home. you gotta take charge of your family, you gotta be the bigger person, am not saying you should hit your mum but make her know that you're not gonna sit around while she keeps acting out of contexts, her brain go reset.

Take charge of your fam gee.
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Dshocker(m): 5:44pm On Dec 28, 2022
daboy18:



I heard rumours that she is dating a yahoo boys at only 16 years she has a Iphone 12 pro max and expensive clothes and hair my mum doesn't care


In Portable's voice; wahala wahala wahalaaaaaa
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Olaniyi021(m): 5:56pm On Dec 28, 2022
dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

Make sure you sieve this pieces of advice in other not to go astray. Thank you

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ahnie: 5:59pm On Dec 28, 2022
Una still dey this thread dey murmur.

Lasisi69 I dey see wetin you dey do

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by kunle75(m): 6:04pm On Dec 28, 2022
daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.


Don't worry it won't be long before your mom and sister will figure out the damage they're both causing themselves.
Stay strong
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Iasisi69: 6:08pm On Dec 28, 2022
ahnie:
Una still dey this thread dey murmur.

Lasisi69 I dey see wetin you dey do
Lol... I greet you too

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ahnie: 6:09pm On Dec 28, 2022
Iasisi69:
Lol... I greet you too
I dey see your work

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ISTP: 6:11pm On Dec 28, 2022
Ishilove:

So in your mind you have made sense?

Just imagine the advice.

Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Dshocker(m): 6:16pm On Dec 28, 2022
royalfly:



I cried reading this.. please it's there a proof to this story bringbreal. I want to be friends with your dad.

You want to be friends with his dad, like wtf?
Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Iasisi69: 6:19pm On Dec 28, 2022
ahnie:

I dey see your work
why you dey attack men Everytime ? angry angry

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by perryy(m): 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2022
[quote author=daboy18 post=119466009]My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud. [/quote At 30 and as a man , u can stand up for your dad. Your mum shouldn't be able to beat or lock up a young man like you. As your mother was fighting your dad , you ought to have descended on your sister and beat her up mercilessly and if your mum talk, warn her to behave or you change it for her. Your mum is only destroying that your sister's life by sending her into prostitution at her early age , do she need iron hand to make her come to her senses.

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Tegabadguy(m): 6:32pm On Dec 28, 2022
daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.
Amen

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Yonsxp: 6:35pm On Dec 28, 2022
Lolz. grin

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ahnie: 6:39pm On Dec 28, 2022
Iasisi69:
why you dey attack men Everytime ? angry angry
Pls specify the word*men*
Make I know how to rotate my answer

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by Iasisi69: 6:42pm On Dec 28, 2022
ahnie:

Pls specify the word*men*
Make I know how to rotate my answer
most especially Alfa Mail angry

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by ahnie: 6:47pm On Dec 28, 2022
Iasisi69:
most especially Alfa Mail angry
Oh you sef dey eff up o,how can you termed those burnt roaches **men**






Those are not men na,it's an insult to the menfolks to tag them as men.those are sour slobbering goftballs.

Pls let's not waste time talking about those charlatans.

I tell them the truth they hate to hear..... they're wretching homes,passing the wrong ideas to people's husbands making them be mean to us at home because of these roaches.


I hail them,I don't hide my disdain for them.

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by akin12: 6:49pm On Dec 28, 2022
May God almighty grant you your good heart desires.

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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by akin12: 6:49pm On Dec 28, 2022
May God almighty grant you your good heart desires.
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Re: May I Not Marry A Woman Like My Mum by adeolamighty: 7:18pm On Dec 28, 2022
At your age, you should be able to speak the truth to your mum and of course your sis from religion point of view or life experiences.
You're 20 years of age, don't tell me you're young. you're an adult.

I don't know your religion though as a muslim who I am, I will tell you this. it's revealed in the Holy Quran to the Prophet Muhammed, SAW, that the key to the door to Paradise for a wife is at the foot of his husband.

Also, the key to the door to Paradise for a child is at the foot of his or her mum. So, don't beat or disrespect your mum.

Lessons: A wife should not disrespect his husband and a child shouldn't disrespect his or parent(s).

Don't be scared to to tell your mum that there will be consequences for what she's doing to your dad on her and on her children, especially you as a male child, because you'll get married later in life.

Tell her that what will it be her reaction, if in the future you get married and your wife is maltreating like that?

Tell her that you're psychological down because of the way she treats your dad and you don't know what might happen to you, if the act continues from her. Also, tell her when you think about what she always did to your dad, you always cried when you're alone.

Believe me, your mum would react by telling you that, are you okay? are you alright? Even she might want to use offence words or curse you, don't be scared that is normal. Just be assertive and don't disrespect or insult her.

By the time she's alone and thinks about what you tell her, that guilty conscience will catch her and probably she'll change for better.

If you're a Christian or a Muslim, inform your Imam or Pastor, if this persists. Be good.

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