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Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 12:28pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
TheMensch:lolz. A woman can wreck you. But so can a man. You just have to learn to choose people (women and men alike) with your head and not your heart |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by ModCaller: 12:59pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Donwizbro: Continue dreaming about the woman. That woman only exists in your head |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by baretalk: 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Most ain't worth staying with. Too shallow, too hungry, too dumb. |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Manna4Gurls: 1:02pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Cos I'm too nice No need explaining what too much niceness towards a lady results to. Make i kukuma dey my day |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by SimeonOTC(m): 1:04pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Okay, here is mine. Am too emotional or let me put it this way, i WAS TOO emotional. I used 'Was' because this aspect of me has been fixed. Am not good at keeping up with spouse and people in general. We can be dating and I might at a time find it difficult (Occupied, Lazy, or just dnt care) to check you for a long time. This affected my communication in the relationships too., may be because am an introvert. Though, am still working on this. Being an Introvert, I find social event difficult to partake. my ex love this due to the fact that she is that social kind of a person and I don't really get along with ladies who are way too social. Anything going out, having fun outside, birthday, going out on a date and all that, JUST COUNT ME OUT!!! ![]() Am abit insecure. I love in full. I put all my ALL in a relationship. So if anything in the relationship is going sideways, I kind of develop insecurity especially if my instincts are right. But this has be fixed. At least 95%. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Nobody: 1:06pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
U don't keep LIABILITIES rather you keep assets. Frankly speaking, Most Ladies out there especially in the subsaharan region are liabilities and only a few are of valuable assets. Hence, the reason I have always advised HARDWORKING YOUNG MEN to leave there leeches girlfriends and settle for ladies with purpose. So, that's one reason. Final reason is, Never Never wife any Lady you won't be disvirgining yourself, no matter the story she sells. It's a warning and not an advice! It will always come back to torment you when she starts disrespecting you by comparing you to all her Exes. It's happening everywhere now. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 1:24pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
SimeonOTC:MALIGNANTGuest see wetin your mate write. Oya copy am but change the words ![]() |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 1:24pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Manna4Gurls:how were you too nice? |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Connected1: 1:40pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Crystalom5:Like I said, the complaints I get, is that I am stingy, they never complain about me being disrespectful or uncaring, I think I deserve an A+ in these areas. Personally I know I find it hard to forgive and that's my issues I am yet to rectify, for the part of me being jealous, I don't know how to share a woman, the moment you are caught cheating that's it, we quarrel because I will pour out my pain then it's quit, I tell you to breakup because you won't see me anymore. For the part of being stingy, only those numerous girls that live above their means think I am stingy, I can't be in funding program claiming I am in a relationship. For the part of trust, I never monitor a woman, these things come to play after sometimes because I am unpredictable, I will love a woman like a fool and it gets into her head to think I can't stop all that immediately, so they start to misbehave then I stop being nice and call it quits. Well I can't change who I am neither can I tolerate rubbish, I believe I haven't met a girl matured enough (irrespective of age) to understand to understand how it is to be loved, well I will soon. All my ex always come back but they don't get to see me same way they left me, my recent ex we broke on mid November, she is full of pride and has been sending people to stalk me and her friends I know to talk to me and she hides whenever she sees me, she insulted me so much on how stingy I was despite me doing my best. She thought because I loved her I will be foolish enough to waste my future resources on her, well the love died the very moment she insulted me. It has been so. Well for the records, I will never date a poor girl again, worst still a jobless one. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by marlow1962(m): 2:20pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Crystalom5:I have dated many gals, even when I’m still in sch, have dated that I wanted to get serious with while in sch, but at the end they all made me look like am a joke (wtf). 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by zed7: 2:46pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Interesting topic. Many years back I couldn't keep a relationship for a variety of reasons. 1. I find constant keeping in touch very tiring, I just can't call everyday. I usually send a message once in 2 or 3 days, just to check in. That was a major issue and no woman can stand that. 2. Again, I only wanted a woman around when I wanted sex only. Immediately after the deed, I usually tell them let's go out even when they want to chill and just watch a movie. I'd rather we go to a joint and have a drink or food and then I drop them home. It was quite a selfish act I know, but I was young and liked my space. 3. Most days, I wanted to be alone and when they call and ask if I'm available, most times my answer was always no. Most girls saw me as unserious and a playboy but in actual fact I just liked my space. I nor like wahala. I mainly just did flings and for a long time, I was a side kick, they had their main boyfriend. When it was time to marry, I sat up, adjusted my ways and thankfully, found a woman who understands me. After all these years, she still respects my need for space. 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by blazepascal(m): 2:56pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Crystalom5:thanks bro |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by HellVictorinho6(m): 3:01pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Crystalom5: You're confused..... Do I owe her my life ![]() What sort of useless strategy is that ![]() Threatening to kill me ![]() If you have nothing useful to say...,then say nothing! Will you threaten me too? |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by HellVictorinho6(m): 3:03pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Crystalom5: You're defending nonsense. |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by imagrg(m): 3:35pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
And we Naija men are the ones who poo in it and damn the consequence. We made the toilet public by our lust for toto. Savedday: |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 4:30pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
imagrg:glad you talked about this this way. Everyone acting like the toilet wouldn't be like every other rooms if you don't sh't in it. Many guys here still pester some girls with calls even when she says she's dating someone. |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 4:34pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
zed7:like I said, sometimes the problem is from us and if only we could look inside we will find the solution. Thanks for working on yourself and taking control of your life. I'm sure your madam right now will be thankful that you did. Thanks for sharing |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by idahsy: 4:47pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
i too dey Bleep but no money to give |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Nobody: 4:52pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
I sense an abuser here... Gender based violence everywhere. marlow1962: |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 5:17pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Samantha123:Samantha I'm not sure you talked in my other thread. The one for ladies |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 5:17pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
idahsy: 1 Like
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Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Nobody: 5:19pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Wow! You've got sharp eyes.. ![]() ![]() ![]() You're right, I didn't.. ![]() Crystalom5: |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Crystalom5: 5:21pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Samantha123:
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Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by ufotty2001: 5:25pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Past lifestyle of the Lady.. once I find out that u have been sleeping around with various men before I meet u.. immediately I will give up on u |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Brownshoe: 5:36pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Nobody: 5:51pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
I don't understand the message behind the picture.. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by HellVictorinho6(m): 6:27pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
zed7: Nothing works anywhere except by chance |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Silentgroper(m): 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
I guess I'm not as romantic as I thought I was.. I can't even tell a girl I miss her.. My last girl would literally struggle to get that sentence out of me.. 2. My mentality about wanting a girl that is never dependent on me... 3. My pretty face ... Phew this one is a big hinderance .. Most can't contain the attention i get from females.. |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Mercury12(m): 7:03pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Savedday:You are deluded ![]() |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by marlow1962(m): 7:05pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Samantha123: Lol, I’m not an abuser, that is not how my dad trained me. I’m calm in nature, but my dad didn’t train me to eat shit from women. |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by Nobody: 8:45pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
If you can't tolerate a woman, leave her, or don't ever get married rather than being abusive. marlow1962: |
Re: Guys, Without Blaming The Ladies, Tell Us Why You Can't Keep A Woman by marlow1962(m): 9:43pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Samantha123:I will never get married to an abusive woman (god4bid) |
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