akpenlegedu:
I don't have anything to say because every adult suppose know what is right. This generation are becoming lawless and respect-less. Forgot about wanting to impress the inlaw or been wife material if her own mother ask her to wash plate will she refuse.

DWJOBScom:
So this expectation is everywhere sha - mothers expecting prospective daughter in laws to mop and soap up

sadiyamuhammad:
Your mother inlaw is your mother as well, except you don't love that man.so if your own mom ask you to do dishes,you would leave the house?haha!!!

Rrchrd:
Am seeing nonsense comments here

So if i take my gf to villa now my mum can't ask her to wash plate if my younger ones isnt around
Or is it your mum that will wash plate if she comes to ur house

Even @my age am stil washing plate

I can never marry any woman who isnt humble, homely & well_trained.

It is not applicable to Nigerians buddy... It's a different cultural settings.. They probably sees it as labour intensive as she puts it

Richy4:


It is not applicable to Nigerians buddy... It's a different cultural settings.. They probably sees it as labour intensive as she puts it

Richy4:


It is not applicable to Nigerians buddy... It's a different cultural settings.. They probably sees it as labour intensive as she puts it

yomi007k:


Oga.

Even if it is on the moon, after person use their money cook for you is it too much to do the dishes?

And this is a house that you plan to become family with.

So in her own parent's house, it is her mother that will do dishes when she is around? Abi oyinbo no dey use plates and dishes

I believe the guy's family don't have money. If they did, she would have behaved appropriately.

Richy4:


It could be that they use dishwashers at home.. Many families uses that .. that could be the reason why she sees it as labour intensive..

I don't think it got stuffs to do with family being rich or poor... If it was Nigeria, I would have believed you..

Culture and up bringing played a major role in this...if you read on people that commented on her page that came from the same background as her, u might put two and two together..

Some Oyibo house hold believed that if someone happens to cook, others should do the dishes when the time comes... It's not like ours..

I find it odd though that people can end relationship because of ordinary dishes.. it's not as if it was a funeral or wedding function where they abandoned her alone to do the dishes...

Rrchrd:
Am seeing nonsense comments here

So if i take my gf to villa now my mum can't ask her to wash plate if my younger ones isnt around
Or is it your mum that will wash plate if she comes to ur house

Even @my age am stil washing plate

I can never marry any woman who isnt humble, homely & well_trained.

Mercury12:
All these modern women forming woke.
They forget they will someday become a mother in-law to the wife of their son

Kobojunkie:
Your mother has no right whatsoever to command another person's daughter, who you are not married to, to do anything. She has you, her own child there to ask. What you lot do down there in Nigeria is enabled by the damaged culture that assumes females servants else and women that has self-esteem go run away from such foolishness.

My mother would never think to ask my guest to do the dishes so why should the mother ask her, a guest —since she is not a member of the family —to do so?

Rrchrd:
If it happened to be only 3 of us (my mum, my babe & I) in the house who will do the washing ?

Bossjakande:
Shes not redi to get married

sadiyamuhammad:
Your mother inlaw is your mother as well, except you don't love that man.so if your own mom ask you to do dishes,you would leave the house?haha!!!

Kobojunkie:
Bullsheet!

The boy's mother was wrong.

TheNiceGuy:
Agreed.

But what does courtesy demand from her as a girlfriend and to someone who's older as her mother