1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results
2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing
3. Don't carry work to bed
4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred
5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two
6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love
7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters
8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up
9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger
10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory
11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?
12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine
13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation
14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)
15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket
16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night
17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare
18. Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss
19. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up
20. Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed
© Dayan Masinde

Best sleeping habits for SINGLES;


1. After the last knack of the night, leave the bed for her.

2. Come back to bed after an hour, she must be sleeping by now, (unless your dickmatizing skills are poor).

3. Enjoy your sleep in peace.

Nice.
These points should come naturally.
The issue is that most people marry with a picture in the "head". When the reality turns out different, all therapy/strategy cannot restore marriage sweetness as summed up by the little practices (like that of the @op).

Too much of zeeworld.

Those are only applicable to foreign girls not our home made demon$.

PerfectStranger:
Too much of zeeworld.

Those are only applicable to foreign girls not our home made demon$.

Because na their mission them dey always pursue. If they can come with a plain mind and build the marriage to their taste.
It's either something about your friend, or your family member, inadequate money or how others are toasting and complimenting her or... It's just crazy.

I don't think it's a zee world thing.
Compare these scenarios:
1.
During the dating period..
Female: ... I get home before 6pm, so I'll always fix you dinner my love...

2.
9ja female won't say anything during courtship...
Cooks and serve dinner upon husband's return...
Man: honey, I normally have lunch by past 4pm at the office, so I won't be able to have dinner...
Female: ehen!, those your useless friends will just be carrying you from one beer parlour to another to the point where you will refuse to eat the food I suffered preparing...

The Point is, there is no right or wrong in most things that concerns marriage, it's the power or degree of understanding.

Whose got that time for a girl that was married disflowered.

Fu(k, dump my seed, clean up, smoke if possible & go to sleep or watch some tv.

Do the same again early in the morning & jet out to work.

All these just to sleep with your partner

My girl and I sleep completely nakèd, I want that skin to skin contact always......The only thing on our body on few occasions in bed is just boxers and pantie.

Do zeeworld actors romance each other or even kiss each other in any of their telenovelas?

I've never seen them kiss before, not to talk of sex... Their wives would go to bed in a Sari and full Make up, and then claim that they had a baby after a year.

They'd even shy away when their men touch them...

You'll never see them romancing each other.

PerfectStranger:
Too much of zeeworld.

Those are only applicable to foreign girls not our home made demon$.

Samantha123:
Do zeeworld actors romance each other or even kiss each other in any of their telenovelas?

I've never seen them kiss before, not to talk of sex... Their wives would go to bed in a Sari and full Make up, and then claim that they had a baby after a year.

They'd even shy away when their men touch them...

You'll never see them romancing each other.

If u are looking for those features u mention, watch porn.

Nothing is romantic about porn... It's too scripted and dull.. I wonder why some people get addicted to it.

Truvelisback:
If u are looking for those features u mention, watch porn.

Samantha123:
Nothing is romantic about porn... It's too scripted and dull.. I wonder why some people get addicted to it.

So, u don't watch movies with sex scene?

Wotoporiously speaking

It's not for everybody my brother

This may sound weird, but I don't like romantic movies.. Before I could watch a movie, I first check the genre and the maturity rating... If it has sex, I may not watch it unless it's an action movie and it's very exciting.

Though I'm not from a religious family, my family always monitored what I watched and kept on my phone from a young age... My old sim card has parental control which prevented me from accessing any adult sides.

But I'm not going to lie and act holy, during my late teens I became very curious to know more about sex, so I bought another sim card from the black market and used it to access all those porn sides without getting caught...

Truvelisback:
So, u don't watch movies with sex scene?

Samantha123:
This may sound weird, but I don't like romantic movies.. Before I could watch a movie, I first check the genre and the maturity rating... If it has sex, I may not watch it unless it's an action movie and it's very exciting.

Though I'm not from a religious family, my family always monitored what I watched and kept on my phone from a young age... My old sim card has parental control which prevented me from accessing any adult sides.

But I'm not going to lie and act holy, during my late teens I became very curious to know more about sex, so I bought another sim card from the black market and used it to access all those porn sides without getting caught...

For being Frank.

Nice one.OP i feel you. its fun and lovely,cos everyone wants to be loved. it could be heavenly to be in the arms of the one you love.you just feel like melting away like snow into eachothers warm embrace and cuddle.

Ok i can relate though

And I'm still using my old sim card even today and the parental control is still active.. .. I could've decided to go to the nearest Vodacom shop to have the restrictions lifted when I turned 18, but I decided to leave it that way.

Truvelisback:
For being Frank.

Samantha123:
And I'm still using my old sim card even today and the parental control is still active.. .. I could've decided to go to the nearest Vodacom shop to have the restrictions lifted when I turned 18, but I decided to leave it that way.

That means u like action movies that have romance in it.

No, I don't, but almost every action movie has got some bit of romance in it and there's nothing I can do about it because I love action movies.

I used to have Netflix, but I deleted it because most movies on Netflix either consist of horror or sex scenes.. I then downloaded Disney plus..

If I want to learn more about sex or want to spice things up in the bedroom, I'd rather search for some spicy sex positions online rather than watch a sex movie or porn.

Truvelisback:
That means u like action movies that have romance in it.

Samantha123:
No, I don't, but almost every action movie has got some bit of romance in it and there's nothing I can do about it because I love action movies.

I used to have Netflix, but I deleted it because most movies on Netflix either consist of horror or sex scenes.. I then downloaded Disney plus..

If I want to learn more about sex or want to spice things up in the bedroom, I'd rather search for some spicy sex positions online rather than watch a sex movie or porn.

I know ur type and what u can do

I find I can't sleep when my spouse is not around but would fall asleep in minutes otherwise. That feel of my loved one's skin helps me drift off faster. Plus I love their natural body scent too. Can't get enough of it.

An average Lagos man or woman trying to beat traffic by 5 in the morning can’t relate to these

Person wey traffic don hold hostage for 3 hours while coming back from work, na to manage eat and bath then sleep, all these no fit work for them bruuuhhh


Lagos is brutal

DoingBetter:
I find I can't sleep when my spouse is not around but would fall asleep in minutes otherwise. That feel of my loved one's skin helps me drift off faster. Plus I love their natural body scent too. Can't get enough of it.

nothing beats sweet smell from a girl for me, I sniff my girls neck when ever we hug or cuddled up, she thinks I am crazy

Please can I learn from you and go practical?
I beg nor vex.

Samantha123:
This may sound weird, but I don't like romantic movies.. Before I could watch a movie, I first check the genre and the maturity rating... If it has sex, I may not watch it unless it's an action movie and it's very exciting.

Though I'm not from a religious family, my family always monitored what I watched and kept on my phone from a young age... My old sim card has parental control which prevented me from accessing any adult sides.

But I'm not going to lie and act holy, during my late teens I became very curious to know more about sex, so I bought another sim card from the black market and used it to access all those porn sides without getting caught...

Married couples in Nigeria have no time for this.
You could be busy romancing your woman while she is busy making a mental calculation of her gains at the shop that day.
You may hear her say, while knacking her,
"Papa Chinedu, you know say I sell all the shirts finish today...oosh...I beg nor tear my kpekus".

Learn what exactly?

imagrg:
Please can I learn from you and go practical?
I beg nor vex.

Truvelisback:
I know ur type and what u can do

Samantha123:

As a Virgin dude, i am not familiar with those stuff.