All I see here is a broken marriage loading, both couples aren't fit for each other.

Afonja2:
Stupid, immature, bitter and heartless man. You are damaged beyond repair and your anger will lead to your destruction.

I have gone through all your vituperations and excuses and I can see you need a therapist as soon as possible.

If you could go to this extent with your wife, everybody should run away from you.

And don't ask me if I know how it feels. Yes, I know it and I would have handled it differently.

As for your wife, I pity the good woman, manager of home and family. She tried all in her capacity to manage the situation knowing the f**lish immature man she got married to. Of course, she married the wrong man and the earlier she divorces you, the better for her.

Go ahead and divorce her, Mr. KingKong. She will go over this and start a new life by the grace of God.

As for you, this is countdown to your destruction. Welcome to your doomsdays.

You can comment without insults and what makes you think you are smart?

Techwitch:

So arresting is the solution? But that has always been the norm, does that reduce cases?

It does. Prison is a strong deterrent. The wife is an accomplice so a little jail time will teach her a lesson and deter other stupid mother's.

hifocus:


O universe! Punish me not with a dumb husband, for it's better to walk the ends of the earth 10 times than to have the misfortune of having a husband as foolish as this Op. When you pray, instead of praying to God for riches, pray for wisdom for wisdom is all encompassing. That's all I have to say on this matter.

Funny thing is you are the dumb one. May God save good men from people like you.

Covering evil under any guise is evil and in this particular case stupid.

So you are supporting evil and stupid behavior.

co787:
My wife and daughter traveled to her village in August for 3weeks and they were supposed to be back before the school resumption but she changed her mind saying her mother was seriously ill that she has to extend her stay which was fine by me and when they returned back I noticed that she has lost so much weight which I asked her why she said it was due to the stress of caring for her sick mother which is normal.

She is her only daughter and oldest of 4 her younger ones are boys so they cannot take care of their mother better than her. Here is the reason I got her arrested, during her stay in the village, her 14 years old brother raped my daughter. This is one of the reason she overstayed in the village. She didn't tell me anything about my daughter being raped she and her mother had decided to give her treatment and cover the idiot that repeatedly raped her and when she came bck she didn't say anything to me but she confided in her prophetess which in her turn has started spreading news until it came to my ears that my own daughter was raped and her own mother has kept quiet and I can imagine if it was a member of my family that did the abominable acts the whole world would have heard it and she would have done everything in her power to put in prison.

But because it is her own brother, she has decided to keep quiet and not knowing the world is small and not secret is hidden forever. I took my daughter to the hospital the result has confirmed she was tampered i was devasted she has been the best wife to me and she has helped me and my sisters to reconciled in the past but what she has done to me it is unforgivable and I have arrested her and when I bail her I will divorce her and take custody of my daughter.

I don't know if I need advice or not but your input and suggestion are welcome I will be reading all your comments.

Op arresting your wife means you're ready for divorce and you are prepared to go any length to protect your daughter which in this case is reasonable.

If I were you, I would do the same thing but I will pretend I want to settle but arrest the idiot of a rapist and mother-in-law first, then arrest the wife second before filing for divorce and sole custody of the child.

Richy4:
This is disheartening honestly especially for a 2 year old who will be told as she grows older that she may have been raped by an uncle.. I can't say if the OP is handling this matter perfectly... Reporting to the police is good but arresting your wife is like dancing a different tune from the music that was being played..

It is heart breaking but what I think would have been for both of you to come together to find a better solution that centered on your kid...She(your wife) should have told you no doubt...She got no excuse whatsoever, If she can confide to a third party, surly she should have told you.....

This is a trying time for both of you...You have an equal right to that child as well as the mother buddy... Arresting your wife is not the answer to the problem at hand...No sensible mother will want their kids raped...Arresting her made it look like you loved the child more than the mother and she deliberately put the child in harm's way....

As for the boy, Assuming it was an advanced world, that boy would have gotten all the help he needed considering his age...a counsellor or agencies that sees to this kind of case would have taken him under their wings... But since it's Nigeria, he will be tinted for life...or even commits suicide if care is not taken because of stigma..He is a minor too..

I usually agree with you but on this topic I don’t. In west a 14 year old would face punishment and rehabilitation for this kind of crime. 14 is not treated like a 7 year old but is expected to know right from wrong. It’s a 2 year old for goodness sake! The 14 year old deserves punishment for this behaviour. Tbh, I would have killed the kid forget about him committing suicide, I’d send him to his maker myself!

The mother would also be punished because concealing such a crime is child neglect if not child abuse. She is a selfish and dangerous person because if she hid it from the husband but dealt with the case herself I’d have more respect for her but she is protecting her brother and family before protecting her innocent child!

co787:
Thanks all for the advice the reason I will bail her next week is because we will be going to the village together I will arrest the rapist if I bail her now her brother will escape for him not to escape my wife must be in jail until we go to the village

You are a great father and don’t let any pedo sympathisers confuse you! If you wanted to burn down their village I would follow you with the matches. You know what you are doing and I 100 support every action you take. Don’t let the sick situation and the sick people you’re dealing with confuse you. I’m so sorry for your predicament but you have to do everything to put your child back together and she has to know how hard you fought for her. Use your money, the law, and don’t leave any survivors! We are too scared of what people will say about us that we let evil take over like your future ex wife did. I’m so traumatised by reading your post, I couldn’t even imagine how you are feeling!

Dimples2022:


You are a great father and don’t let any pedo sympathisers confuse you! If you wanted to burn down their village I would follow you with the matches. You know what you are doing and I 100 support every action you take. Don’t let the sick situation and the sick people you’re dealing with confuse you. I’m so sorry for your predicament but you have to do everything to put your child back together and she has to know how hard you fought for her. Use your money, the law, and don’t leave any survivors! We are too scared of what people will say about us that we let evil take over like your future ex wife did. I’m so traumatised by reading your post, I couldn’t even imagine how you are feeling!

Thank you so much

co787:




Thank you so much

How did it go?

sisisioge:


How did it go?

It went well the idiot is in prison I separated from my wife and I have the custody of my daughter the result was satisfactory

co787:




It went well the idiot is in prison I separated from my wife and I have the custody of my daughter the result was satisfactory

Wow! It is well. May God rid the land of evil doers who ruin good things. May it be well with you and yours. It is well.

co787:




It went well the idiot is in prison I separated from my wife and I have the custody of my daughter the result was satisfactory

Cc
Pansophist

co787:




It went well the idiot is in prison I separated from my wife and I have the custody of my daughter the result was satisfactory

I am happy to hear you and your daughter are doing fine. I loved how you handled the situation. You daughter would be proud of how you love and protected her when she was a vulnerable toddler. You will definitely find a better woman who would put you and your children above her extended family.

Peace.

newcommer:
I can't believe what I'm reading!!!

Are there people in here condoning R*A*P*E of a 2 year old child?

I'm seeing comments like "Forgive and forget", " Let the boy go, he's too young, it's not his fault", "Arresting your wife is going too far" and I keep reading, waiting for somebody to shout April fool but you people are actually serious.

Nigerians, you people are evil and that's why evil never departs from your country. From today, you all have my eternal contempt for life!!!

Disgusting, evil people!!!!

You deserve EVERYTHING happening to you in that country.

OP, let your wife rot in prison and serve her divorce papers while she's there. Don't forget to add her mother along with the rapist brother
If they are lucky, they will all stay in the same cell.

Using the word some would have at least revealed that you have some commonsense left. Your education is a huge waste. The evil you wish on Nigerians will hit you ten times more wherever you are. Honestly, some of you foreign-based Nigerians think and talk brainlessly about everything and everyone in Nigeria.

You were too dead mentally to read the numerous comments condemning the act, the op's wife and her family.

Quote foolishly me and let me invoke your deportation. Bastard!

mastermaestro:


Using the word some would have at least revealed that you have some commonsense left. Your education is a huge waste. The evil you wish on Nigerians will hit you ten times more wherever you are. Honestly, some of you foreign-based Nigerians think and talk brainlessly about everything and everyone in Nigeria.

You were too dead mentally to read the numerous comments condemning the act, the op's wife and her family.

Quote foolishly me and let me invoke your deportation. Bastard!

Invoke your migration abroad first. M.%ron. I am not responsible for your inferiority complex

mabea:
Yeah for someone who doesn't have a family. No matter how bad a brother is if you lose him you would wish that things were different.

More crap. Your daughter is more important than your brother.
You did not bring your brother into this world.

Fountainofyouth:
Pls go to the village and arrest the useless brother and mother, he is the the main culprit in this, and also, do not bail your wife, let her rot there

I hate when evil is permitted and covered up because it is a family member, that foolish boy has been doing it to other little girls and if not arrested, he will continue, so many pedophiles on the loose these days.

You're blessed 🙏🏾