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Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 6:39pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
I met this girl November last year I was coming back from work when I saw her, so I decided to woo her.. So I started like hello excuse me the we chatted along..so I got her number and called her in the night, guess what she was already waiting for my call, then we got to know each other more..later on I asked her if she has a boyfriend she said no...so days later she was like feeling guilty of lieing she then told me she has..and he is in Abuja. That I should not mind there's nothing serious blw them that she's trying to cut him off...I said ok, and didn't care much about that..so on 31st we went out and on a date.it was about 8pm when we were about to leave..we heard gun shots around the hotel and the hotel management locked everywhere saying that cult boys are disturbing in the street. So she asked me if we could lodge till morning that she's scared of leaving. I said ok..paid with my credit card and we lodged that night...so as I was sleeping and had nothing in mind cus that was our first date ..so around after 10 I woke up to pee,I was surprised to see her completely naked and leening on me as I slept wearing only boxers..so immediately I saw that, I was moved and body changed I called her name and she answered and said she could not sleep.. I said Jesus quietly as I stood up heading to the toilet. What is this oh God as I was staring at my already hungry angry d*ck..it's been three years since I've had sex..what will I do now as I tried calming my d*ck down but all my efforts proved abortive.. Just as I was thinking, I heard her calling me that she's scared..my God what is this, I then came out and went to the bed she the kept her arm around me as I lay silently thinking.. On a second thought I kissed her first, before I could know what was going on, she rode me like a bicycle, pounced on me delt with me mercilessly...so today I was thinking to myself that I don't need this ...like this girl has come to make me loose focus, and concentration this year and in life...just when I was thinking she called me. Kept calling till 24 missed calls she saw me online, texted me I didn't reply...she called me again I picked and told her I don't want this anymore she cried kept crying that I have used her, I tried to console her she refused.. saying all men are the same bla bla bla, I used her this and that, but deep inside me I know that I didn't use her.. it just came to me this morning that I don't want this..this year I apologized that I was sorry..but I don't want distractions this year... Nairaland did I do wrong to her 5 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by VeryWickedSimp: 6:41pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
OP you have to go back and beg her and allow her to ride you mercilessly like a bicycle again. 32 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 6:44pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
VeryWickedSimp:I have already done that, Going back to beg her now equally means that I want her back. Which I dont |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by VeryWickedSimp: 6:45pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lurdd: Refresh and follow my full advice. Stop rushing. You rush too much. 5 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Enny2013(f): 6:48pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Satan knows she threw herself on u cheaply. What a manipulator she is. Well,Keep begging her for ur peace. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 6:51pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
VeryWickedSimp:bro not this year am too focused |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Beebah321(f): 6:55pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Story 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by superCleanworks(m): 6:59pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
bros na this cry better pass the cry wey u for hear if say you banana no respond. cry like... useless man. impotent bulldog. man for mouth. harmless fly. my fellow woman. 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by TheZeezle(m): 7:32pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Don't forget to block her everywhere if she's trying to manipulate you bra. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 7:36pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
TheZeezle:Thanks man Hope I made a good decision |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by TheZeezle(m): 7:39pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lurdd:Sharp my man! I like your good sense of reasoning. Koni baje. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Nicepoker(m): 7:46pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
You used her in the sense that you are selfish. Just once and you back off. Something you should have drained all her values before you quit. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 7:53pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Nicepoker:;Di fear you |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by tayo60(f): 8:02pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
U should always run from free and cheap things, d end no dey good. 6 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lurdd:U did very good... Block her everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Karleb(m): 9:01pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
You've done nothing wrong. You guy's are not just favored by chance and time too. Besides, she has a boyfriend. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by diogo23: 9:19pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lurdd:Move on if you do not want her again, even if you dump her tomorrow she will still say the same thing 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Rexymania(m): 9:26pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
The way ladies are falling for guys these days is alarming. You never collect number, Dem duh fall yakata lol 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Oluwabucci(m): 9:27pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Send me her contact let me solve this issue. Lurdd: |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 9:29pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Rexymania:Aswear : |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 9:31pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Oluwabucci: Na u know wetin u wan use her number do 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Sixfeetbelle: 9:37pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Maybe you did not give her money after you guys parted in the morning. If you did, it would have been a sort of consolation |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 9:41pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:Everything I spent that day was about 28k Also gave her money for trans 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Sixfeetbelle: 9:45pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lurdd: Abeg, I no know again. Relationship and hookup matter pass my womanpower 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 9:58pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Sheistoopretty:Well this is uncalled for Everyone has the right to change it's mind..and also apologize in the circumstance.. She was the one that actually seduced me in the first place.. so sometimes try to reason before you open your cock sucking mouth to speak..have some brains pls 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Sheistoopretty(f): 10:05pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lurdd: Anyday u go back to any of ur bad habit of 2022 this new year, may u sleep and never wake up Can I get a louder AMEEN? Pathetic fo*l 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 10:10pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Sheistoopretty:I have actually tried my best to make you understand what happened here. I was actually the victim here, try to understand things..not based on taking sides on gender I Know u must be hurt, but don't make ur foolishness fool you..I didn't get anything on a platter I was the victim kk 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by techWriter3: 10:12pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
moll you do to go back and beg her and allow her to ride you mercilessly like a bicycle again 1 Like |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd: 10:14pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
techWriter3: |
Re: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Yusufisraelj(m): 10:20pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
@Lurdd Yeah it takes two to make a love relationship work, it's perfectly fine for your feelings to change, however what made you start in the first place? Your desire for a relationship wasn't clear enough, mind you is it because of the sex that you don't want her or you feel she's going to be a distraction? How are you sure of that? Is she jobless? Does she have something doing, is she committed to learning, can she fit into your future plans? Bkos it's looking like you've had sex, so no need for commitment, most likely you were moved by what you saw rather than what you needed. Again if your mind is made up, let her go, next time know what you want, see it for what it is, decide to stay and make it work, except if the lady isn't putting commensurate efforts. 1 Like |
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