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Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by MsJackson: 4:51am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue. Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time. After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long. I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me. I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop. Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back. I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved. The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it. They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief. My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive. The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do. Please advise me. 44 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by MsJackson: 4:57am On Jan 04, 2023 |
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Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by yrhuhfy113: 5:19am On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson: wow, this is still going on in Nigeria till date? Several years ago, that is how they almost turned a relative to gayy.... and it took deliverance and plenty therapy for the small boy to be delivered. Sadly no one believed the boy but my parents were quick to tell his parents to take him to several therapists and also to prayer mountains or for spiritual cleansing.... chai... In a twist of events, the prophetess that prayed for him got so enraged by the abuse, she claimed they have tempered with the boy's star and that is why she took the names of the abusive family and the adolescent who perpetrated such act on the boy.... and the prophetess fasted for 2 weeks that judgement should come on them.... guess what IT HAPPENED. they got into an accident, the legs of the adolescent boy were damaged beyond repair and the rich parents spent all their funds for years on his health till they become so poor. So I suggest you do something similar to eradicate whatever they have done to your daughter psychologically and spiritually. May God punish such evil people and give you the strength to do the needful. 196 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nightfox01(m): 6:39am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Do the needful and let the cat out the bag This is soul crushing 60 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by dawnomike(m): 7:20am On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:This is disheartening... I pray your daughter gets over this trauma. Most children get molested not by stragers but by those we tend to trust the most!!! I am glad you are strong for your daughter... May God give you wisdom to handle this matter. 107 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Jozilinn: 9:00am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Thank God your daughter can speak up don't mind what your husband or anybody else will say cos if you don't act well, that girl would certainly move on to someone else... how can a four year old form that trash up, like seriously are they mad,If pikin dey your back you know your pikin but if e no dey no dey support an for everything no matter what try to find out for the benefit of that child. Your daughter is saying the truth cos she's always repeating it on and on...Now like this your children in this family go dey get attitude from family members,if no be say no where is safe I would have asked you to leave the marriage...cos right now eh if anything happens to your husband God forbid They will ridicule you to the core,I can feel your pains oh madam abeg seek the face of God...but get your family involved too so we go know whatsup. 47 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by RZArecta(m): 1:28pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Whatever your daughter says happened actually happened, the problem is your husband's people trying to shut the matter up. That 15yr old girl will go about molesting other minors then become a sailing queen by the time she gets into university. I think the police have to get involved, forget the church because they already know but kept quiet 67 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:50pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Are you just realizing that majority of failed..parents cover up the evils committed by their spoilt*children? The entire family refused to tell the truth. Your daughter is surely speaking the truth. A girl of 4yrs is too young to have been able to cook up such a "tale". My advice is that you should cut off totally from that family and forget the issue. Let it go. With time your daughter will also forget the bad experience. Your daughter should also be checked medically Incase of infections/bacteria, as the 15yrs old spoilt..bratt may also be doing same to other people. 123 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nicerod(m): 4:07pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
![]() ![]() Delicate and traumatizing events 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Foodqueen(f): 4:40pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Your daughter needs justice, that's why she can't get it off her head. 37 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by MsJackson: 5:04pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Foodqueen:She always tells me: mum when are we going to her house to beat her up?� 83 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Houseofglam7(f): 5:19pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Dayummmm Very disheartening. I am completely speechless ![]() 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Saintmary(f): 6:12pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson: I really wish you can get justice for your child, but Nigeria get as e be. I can't imagine the horror she must have passed through. But, I believe that time will heal her wounds. If you can contact a therapist or counsellor, please get help for her. In the meantime, just keep being the amazing mother that you are. P. S. I hope you have no plans of ever setting foot in their house again.. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:14pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
I take God beg u,dont ever drop ur kids for anyone again. 114 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ahnie: 7:51pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
The amount of wickedness in the world is alarming. Lord knows I would damn the consequences and arrived at the venue of the baptism to expose her. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Foodqueen(f): 8:34pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson: This breaks my heart. She really need the closure. 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Ishilove: 8:40pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:Oh, poor child. She is traumatized ![]() 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by MsJackson: 8:59pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Ishilove:we're presently at my mum's house. Mum just told me my daughter came to meet her in the shop yesterday and told her that the girl told that her vagina was sweet. Imagine that. 26 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Ishilove: 9:00pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:This is horrible. Unfortunately as long as there is no solid evidence, there's no way to punish the molester 45 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 9:01pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson: Fight for her. She's relying on you. I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me. The above part is just heartbreaking. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by eyinjuege: 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
This is so sad. Check the mirabel center. They deal with all sorts of rape and sexual abuse. They can at least advice what steps can be taken regarding this matter, and perhaps offer support like where to get some sort of pediatric psychotherapy for your baby to help overcome the trauma Mirabel may advise a paediatrician to examine your daughter, but I doubt that will show anything especially if there was no penetration. You and your husband took this case too lightly You should have even reported to the police, and have a report (but I suspect it would be hard to prove, again as no penetration occured.) Your daughter deserves justice, and even if there's no evidence of the crime, you guys should have scattered everywhere. Your daughter as young as she is, is demanding for justice by asking to beat up her abuser. If you don't do anything to show you will go any length for your daughter, you may lose her trust forever. 39 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by TinnyLighT: 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
This is horrible. Unfortunately as long as there is no solid evidence, there's no way to punish the molester. Why are you guys quoting the whole page? Wasting space 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by yerad: 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
This is so sad to read. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by money121(m): 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by southsouthking(m): 9:25pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
I know of a girl who was sexually assaulted at her early age, the mother and family took the whole matter lightly. As we speak today, that girl is a nympho, she sleeps around with anything and everything. It breaks my heart to hear such a story.. The heart of man is desperately wicked. Please Kindly do something about it. I pray she heal quick of the trauma. 40 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by kennyz247(m): 9:25pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
we hear |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Sheistoopretty(f): 9:26pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Men are known for doing this Similar encounter happened to a very good neighbor of mine here in Abuja Take heart dear ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by VeryWickedSimp: 9:26pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Siofra ibkayee 9 Likes
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Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by africandollar: 9:27pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
a 4-year old would NEVER make such story up...deal with the culprit! ![]() ![]() ![]() 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Realmi: 9:27pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Na wah..its best u focus on helping ur child to heal first...let her see a therapists (if she is not too young for that) or a counsellor....just do something that can make feel better mentally instead of seeking revenge on the 15yr old demon... Its better the family does not even call u because u may not be able to control ur out burst....so let them dey their lane... They are the once that have a bigger problem to deal with....because i am sure that girl has gone far in that act .....but they will find out at the 11th hour......by that time,, ur daughter will be doing fine I believe the 4 yrs old girl,, because she couldn't have made this up...so just help her heal and also pray for her.......may God help u 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Sultty(m): 9:27pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
I don't believe this weird story except u hear the accused 15yo side of the story. hearing this story from your daughter (could be true) does not make u judge. call her, get the facts else u could be glorifying a made up story As regards them not apologizing to u could be as a result of how they perceive u u wey don dey plan to expose them at their church seems petty to me. Go all out, involve law enforcement, get a lawyer or do nothing but always keep ur daughter away 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ScamHunter: 9:27pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson: You ain't seen nothing yet ma. I'm scared for any child now because you can NEVER trust anyone with your child. One Saturday morning, I noticed that my neighbors' two daughters were close to my window. I opened the curtain and there were these two girls, a 10 year old and an 11 year old having lesbian sex on the floor. Since the glass was closed, I knew they won't see me. I took my phone and chatted with my friend about what I was witnessing. Told her that I intended to tell the mother of the 10 year old since we are friendly. She told me to video it in case they denied and I did. One of the girls was even teaching the other, the 10 year old that she could do oral on her. The day I chatted the lady mother of the 10 year old, the woman, a single mother was confused. That's what the world has become. Not even boy children are safe from predatory girls, especially family. Never leave your child with anyone if possible. Not a man, not a woman. Not even a child without supervision. There are many predators out there and there are many careless parents. With internet enabled phones in the hands of children, we're close to a moral apocalypse. Be sure to talk to your husband to talk to the girl's parents. She is also a victim that needs treatment not punishment. Someone somewhere abused the 15 year old perhaps when she was a child. Some of us as children were also abused by the so-called house help girls. 62 Likes 5 Shares |
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