Candidlady:
if it doesn't work with your ex sister


please try their mother

Candidlady:
if it doesn't work with your ex sister


please try their mother

savage
Una no get joy,

Candidlady:
if it doesn't work with your ex sister


please try their mother

ukoblo:
So recently I connected properly with the other sister (who I was close to then) and I am developing some feelings for her and according to her body language she is also having same for me. I am really concerned if I should give it a try because I really want to settle down and this girl has all the qualities I am looking for in a wife. I am going to be 27 years this year, and by Gods Grace I can afford a comfortable life for my wife and kids! My fear is will she accept my proposal if I ask her knowing I was one time in a long distance relationship with the sister (as teenagers) and how will the sister feel if she introduces me as the man she wants to marry even though she’s already married with a child and knowing that what we had then was just some youthful exuberance. Please I need advice on this family.

Candidlady:
if it doesn't work with your ex sister


please try their mother

ukoblo:
Hello Nairaland,

Please help read to the end!

Growing up in my early teens, I had two sisters as friends from church. In fact we came from the children department to teens together. But I was closer to one of the girls than the other.

After secondary school, we all left the town and they relocated to the West, while I relocated to the south. We lost contacts and thanks to Facebook i reconnected with one of the girls (the one I was not really close to) and we started conversations and frequent calls, and eventually started a long distance relationship not knowing when we are ever going to meet, because we were still teenagers, although I was in the university then.

Along the line, I lost interest in the whole relationship because I didn’t really liked her that much from beginning and the whole relationship was her idea, I was only playing along.

After a while she noticed my resentment and loss of interest because of my numerous excuses of not taking her calls, and all that. I guess I broke her heart, because I left the relationship while she was still inside. Apparently she got tired and moved on.

Sometime in 2021 she told me she was getting married, because we are now adults and we still talk once in a while but as normal friends. So I congratulated her and told her I couldn’t attend because I won’t be in that part of the country at that time. I was sincerely happy for her again when I got the news that she has given birth.

So recently I connected properly with the other sister (who I was close to then) and I am developing some feelings for her and according to her body language she is also having same for me.

I am really concerned if I should give it a try because I really want to settle down and this girl has all the qualities I am looking for in a wife. I am going to be 27 years this year, and by Gods Grace I can afford a comfortable life for my wife and kids!

My fear is will she accept my proposal if I ask her knowing I was one time in a long distance relationship with the sister (as teenagers) and how will the sister feel if she introduces me as the man she wants to marry even though she’s already married with a child and knowing that what we had then was just some youthful exuberance.

Please I need advice on this family.

Candidlady:
This is savage!

Fedrick100:
Not so man! I have been busy trying to build my brand and making sure I complete my education up to masters level. So I haven’t considered any serious relationships