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How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Rechargeam247(f): 1:06pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Scenario: You have a good marriage, you pamper and take care of your wife, family and responsibilities. On this particular day, your wife wanted to travel for an event, you asked her not to go for this particular event, kindly note, she is very social and travels a lot, you allow her, give her the freedom she needs. Now, she ignored you and travelled, what can you do to express your displeasure, get her to apologise and avoid a repetition of such? Creative solutions asides sex or money should be proferred Married men and women only* To the women, if you were the woman in this scenario, what can your husband do to get you to apologise and make you not repeat such? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
I'm not a man and I'm definitely not married, but as a woman, I think the man should give her silent treatment and pretend that she's not even present in the house. Eat out and come home only to sleep until she acknowledges her wrongs. And I think that it'll also depends on the kind of event she went to. 125 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
I’m not married, but I’d think withdrawal of the D! will help me apologise; but my legs won’t let him rest. ![]() 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Hathor5(f): 1:49pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: Tell her why you didn't want her to travel to this particular event. Is it that you feel that you need to spend more time together, that you need her support, that you have an appointment yourself or whatever your reason is? If she is reasonable, and your reason is, I don't see why you should not reach an understanding. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Hathor5(f): 1:51pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Samantha123: This silent treatment affects everyone in the family, it creates a bad atmosphere in the home and more importantly doesn't work on many people as they will just go on about their business. If there are kids, it affects them too. And why would he leave his home? Is it not his place of rest? If there are kids, won't he miss time with them? 79 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Okay, then give your suggestion. And where did I say he must leave his home ![]() Hathor5: 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
And how will giving his wife silent treatment affect the kids when the both of them will be talking to them ![]() Hathor5: 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by 2pep(m): 4:04pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
There's no respect in your marriage, how could you have told your wife not to travel but then she disobeyed. Maybe your wife is the breadwinner of your family reason she disobeyed you. Better stamp your authority as the head or it keeps repeating. But if I'm to be in your shoes I'll most definitely activate 1221 code. ![]() 51 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Hathor5(f): 4:54pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Samantha123: Samantha123: Would you also advise a mother to stay out and only come to sleep? If he is a father, he will deprive his kids of time together. Samantha123: When the parents are happy, the children are happy. 16 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
You haven't answered any of my questions. Where did I say the man must leave the house? And how does giving his wife silent treatment affects the kids when both parties will be talking to their kids? And why must you make everything about the kids as if the couple are married to the kids and not each other? Can you just give a logical reasoning without being emotional, because you're starting to sound annoying. If she cared about how the kids would feel, she'd have listened to her husband and not attend the event in the first place. Hathor5: 49 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by culf: 12:26am On Jan 07, 2023 |
NA to quietly ignore her oo, all through her stay, i will hardly call and when we talk, the call will be so formal. if e pain me well well, NA to call MIL 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by ATEAMS: 12:47am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Clear her doubt ., Oh they will think they're in zee world 9 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by frozen70(f): 4:14am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: If truly you are married to her and you have been a respectful and responsible man You should be able to take charge of your home and wife If really she disrespect your order, then she is obeying some one else Forget about apology, your concern should be how to take charge You started by giving her freedom End that nonsense by withdrawing the freedom 89 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Rechargeam247(f): 9:21am On Jan 07, 2023 |
frozen70:Yes, take charge is the word. How do you go about this peacefully. 5 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by frozen70(f): 10:22am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: NEXT time you catch her in any stupid act that is near to infidelity, take her home to her parents with your children Tell them to train her how to be faithful and loyal, if they ask you what happen, tell them to ask her to explain You will be sending allowance and if possible let the children start schooling there Try this during holidays so that by the time she spent the holidays with her parents and you did not come for your children, her parents will know that it's no longer a joke If her parents calls you, pick their call, listen to them ans if they invite you, tell them you will let them know when you are ready, that for now you need peace By the time she sees that you are not responding her head will reset properly Then by the time she comes back, let her have something doing Either teaching or anything that will bring income to her, then let her face one responsibility at home, maybe children provision or whatever By that time she will be busy with thinking on how to carry out her task There is no time to tolerate nonsense 59 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Rechargeam247(f): 10:59am On Jan 07, 2023 |
frozen70:She works, she has businesses. The children are in the university. She isn't cheating, just disrespectful. 13 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by frozen70(f): 11:06am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: Ok naw Endure it 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by maureensylvia(f): 2:51pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
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Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I ll never disobey my husband for anything. But let's say some how a wife did that, I ll tell the husband to ask her asap. No silent treatment 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by newnet: 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Yes, do not talk to her for a day or two then seriously tell her your mind. 3 |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by JosephXavier: 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Make married pipu tell us how dey take dey deal with their in-house issues diplomatically |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Kelechi009: 2:54pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
post=119770518: SIMPLE AS ABC. People be asking MUMU questions. 2 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Creamypussy(f): 2:54pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Have a talk with her and point our her disobedience, if she flame's up snub her until she apologize. Make her feel she's not existing with you in that same house your silence will eat her up until she apologize. But don't hit her. 3 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by intruder15(m): 2:54pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
2pep: Abeg which code be that one again 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Michelle55: 2:55pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I'm here for the vawulence... |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by phemmyfour: 2:57pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Rechargeam247:Give her monosyllabic answers 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Dmeji4444(m): 2:59pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Cut the freedom 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Thegoodone13(m): 3:00pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
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Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by occfx: 3:02pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: Leave the home for the bar and come back by 12 |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Candidlady: 3:03pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Sweetplum: meaning you will always say yes to all his biddings yeah? |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by safarifarms(m): 3:04pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: Depends. If it's the first time I believe a verbal expression of displeasure should do. Considering she's generally a good wife. If it's reoccurring that's when you should consider other measures and that also depends on your wife. What works in for one person may not work for another. I have a good wife too but she can also be stubborn at times and get on my nerves. My wife will ignore your silent treatment and act as though she is not bothered. You may not have to deal with every occasion of disobedience if you have a generally respectful wife. You have to also learn tolerance. But should it be persistent you may consider denying or canceling something that she values so well. Like not subscribing to DSTV on time if she's so into it and you are not. You don't need to spell it out as it's punishment for that but just be nonchalant about it till she complains and you find a way to subtly get her to realize that displeasing you can make you not to care about pleasing her. But be sure not to deny her an essential that is usually your responsibility. If she has to use her money to subscribe it and act as though she wasn't bothered then you may need to do something more serious which I won't want to be the one suggesting one for you. But even if she subscribes and acts as if not bothered it's likely just a facade. Trust me, most Nigerian women would rather keep their money for Jewels & clothing, so spending it on the sub will definitely get to her. I once took an action that shocked my wife after about a week of cold treatment which she was ignoring. Since then (3yrs +) we've not had a major issue. There's been minor issues that I'm able to ignore but generally we are good. My wife is generally a good wife by the way. Whatever it is, avoid inviting a 3rd party. 15 Likes 1 Share |
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