Samantha123:
It's a scam.. the wife must have some source of income too because things are very expressive nowadays.

Ten06:
It is not a trap. Some of us has gone through that stage the information is 100% correct

GloriousGbola:


There is no clear answer. Marry late after you have established so things will be easier. Marry late and find yourself raising kids in your old age which is much more stressful.

yrhuhfy113:


Shey una see wetin I dey talk.... MR ONE SIDE OF THE COIN HAS COME WITH MOTIVATION.... bros... your own is good.. YOU DO NOT KNOW THE GRACE YOU HAD FROM GOD... shey someone who entered univesity at 23 or 25 FOR the wrong course and had to switch to the right course and start afresh then graduated at 31 with 2-1 and then nysc at 32... remember he went to school with girls who are UNDER 26... so many of them are usually NOT understanding or serious with REAL LIFE TIME COMMITMENT.... after NYSC he needs a JOB that is requiring 4 years experience and under 35yrs old applicants....

BIKO, will you allow your own blood sister or cousin marry such a guy? will the future seem bright to you? which PARENT in this age will dash their daughter to such a guy

When you advice people, pls consider that NOT ALL FINGERS ARE EQUAL and remember that your level is someone's prayer point... MANY WHO MARRY LATE, DID NOT WISH TO... but this generation UNDERSTANDING GIRLS ARE RAREEEEEEEEEEEEEE.... veryyyyyyy. If movies do not influence them, peers would, parents would... go to shiloh... many of the girls there are not holding the pics of jobless broke hustlers... but of rich dudes that they want to marry.

Thank God for your own side of the coin, BUT I HAVE SEEN BOTH SIDES... so I have a broader perspective.

I have sen guys marry at 20+ struggle to have children till 40+... and I have seen 40+ give birth to twins and triplets. Pls let's be guided... LIFE IS THE OPPOSITE OF SCHOOL.... School will teach you before it tests you... LIFE WILL TESTS YOU, EXAM YOU then you will learn the lesson.


WITH ALL THESE SAID, WE HAVE NOT TALKED OF CURSESSS... VILLAGE PEOPLE HINDRANCES, etc... MANY PRETTY LADIES WITH GOOD HIGH PAYING JOBS are in this categories... no serious man comes for them.. and F.Y.I they are not proud ladies o... yet only WOMB SHIFTERS AND MARRIED MEN SEE THEM.... they have been covered in the spirit realm by a viel. If you like do not believe but go find strong alfas or strong men of God, then you may reconsider and understand LIFE IS SPIRITUAL.
OGA stop quoting negativity to oppose my opinion.
I'm not talking the one's that have spiritual challenge or whatsoever.
"'UNDER NORMAL CIRCUMSTANCES "
A man should get married in his early 30's.

1.Dont wait till you have it all before you get married if you have a supporti and understanding partner.
2.Both of you should get something doing no matter how small
3.Limit child bearing until your status changes.

It's as simple as that.'UNDER NORMAL CIRCUMSTANCES ".
We have more than one million of people that started rough, thousands of countless success stories built from the scratch.

What I notice about life,if you no do pass your self,You will grow in life.
When you are expected to rent a single room don't follow society rent 2 bedroom,when you should life at Ajegunle,don't stay in Ajah.

Moreover: I was advicing only the men that unnecessarily delay their destiny that until they build a duplex ,own a car and land a mouth watering Job before they get married.


its well

elyte89:


D reality is simple...u earning 200/250k a month in dis present Nigeria harsh economy would know dt it’s nearly impossible to garnered even 5million naira in 6/7years to come(even if u save all d salary;wc is not possible anyways)

And ur target b4 u get married is to have at least 10million naira...so tell me aw possible are u going to achieve it?

And u re already in ur mid 30’s

Ade1177:


Any lady that will not pay rent
Buy things to the house
Be able to pay school fees
Pay bills
Cook
pay for her hair
Even send me small change once a while

Exactly what I can do for her

I no dey marry anything in this economy

You marry having 5m,
You rent house, do wedding, start furnishing
Give birth
Money don reduce to 1.2m within 1yr

Small small it's going

yrhuhfy113:


Shey una see wetin I dey talk.... MR ONE SIDE OF THE COIN HAS COME WITH MOTIVATION.... bros... your own is good.. YOU DO NOT KNOW THE GRACE YOU HAD FROM GOD... shey someone who entered univesity at 23 or 25 FOR the wrong course and had to switch to the right course and start afresh then graduated at 31 with 2-1 and then nysc at 32... remember he went to school with girls who are UNDER 26... so many of them are usually NOT understanding or serious with REAL LIFE TIME COMMITMENT.... after NYSC he needs a JOB that is requiring 4 years experience and under 35yrs old applicants....

BIKO, will you allow your own blood sister or cousin marry such a guy? will the future seem bright to you? which PARENT in this age will dash their daughter to such a guy

When you advice people, pls consider that NOT ALL FINGERS ARE EQUAL and remember that your level is someone's prayer point... MANY WHO MARRY LATE, DID NOT WISH TO... but this generation UNDERSTANDING GIRLS ARE RAREEEEEEEEEEEEEE.... veryyyyyyy. If movies do not influence them, peers would, parents would... go to shiloh... many of the girls there are not holding the pics of jobless broke hustlers... but of rich dudes that they want to marry.

Thank God for your own side of the coin, BUT I HAVE SEEN BOTH SIDES... so I have a broader perspective.

I have sen guys marry at 20+ struggle to have children till 40+... and I have seen 40+ give birth to twins and triplets. Pls let's be guided... LIFE IS THE OPPOSITE OF SCHOOL.... School will teach you before it tests you... LIFE WILL TESTS YOU, EXAM YOU then you will learn the lesson.


WITH ALL THESE SAID, WE HAVE NOT TALKED OF CURSESSS... VILLAGE PEOPLE HINDRANCES, etc... MANY PRETTY LADIES WITH GOOD HIGH PAYING JOBS are in this categories... no serious man comes for them.. and F.Y.I they are not proud ladies o... yet only WOMB SHIFTERS AND MARRIED MEN SEE THEM.... they have been covered in the spirit realm by a viel. If you like do not believe but go find strong alfas or strong men of God, then you may reconsider and understand LIFE IS SPIRITUAL.

its well

DonSion:
Please how early is too early

okine4real:
This is the best advice that would enable you know if you are fit to marry or not. This is EXACTLY, my thought approximately 10 years ago. I was feeding my babe, my mum and two sibling, so one morning I thought to myself, if I remove my two sibling from my feeding program and replace them with two children, it means I would survive nah. Today I get 4 kids, 10years, 7years, 4 years and 2 years plus plenty tenants for Lagos.

womenareapezz:
only a foolish person in this present generation will put marriage as one of his goal target in life

You see! this your analyst is base on only one providing factor which is the man. To show you how marrying in Nigeria is a waste of effort because there are many liability bitches in this country

Yeah some will like to marry but little do people know that marriage is no a source of your inner happiness.
You can have a kids and still be single and happy

habsydiamond:
it is good to marry early cos u will reap early too.. but if u are not capable don't try I cos u will suffer early and u may reap late.

yrhuhfy113:


It is true for some, trap for others.

NO TWO MARRIAGES ARE THE SAME OR FUNCTION BY THE SAME RULES..... everyone is different.

dsocioemmy:



Nice one.

And you might not reap at all

Cinema4d:
Is this a trap or it's true?

habsydiamond:
This economy states otherwise ooo.. marry early suffer plenty. That's not nice mehn!!! In this current Nigeria, if u can feed ur self, ur wife u must have extra cos anything can happen.

udemzyudex:
It depends on the type of food you're eating ooo, if you're eating cassava and agbado,ask yourself if your wife can eat that too.

CheapHomes1:


Many are still marrying early and building their families in this current nigeria and they are otedolas children. If it's not your thing, doesn't mean it won't work for others

elyte89:



Well,dts anoda view of urs...and I respect dt

But my view is in d context of Nigerian society

Psychopatheko:
A lot of men don fall victim to this cheap scam when he go start to dey hot for you you go run comot for that marriage yourself marry early and die early

habsydiamond:
that's why I said if u are capable..

Rimsd:
A big trap, nothing you fit tell me...

CheapHomes1:


You didn't