oakson:
I am in my early thirties. Dark and handsome, average height, witty, sporty, spontaneous, resourceful and lover of good dreams. Based in Lagos, a Christian from the southwest(tribe is not an issue to me),Father of 3 and comfortably doing ok above an average Nigerian. Need a working class or financially stable , educated lady that knows what it means to love and be loved!

Ishilove:

Pishure or wedonbelivit

Dimples2022:

boldx:
You need some time out to reflect on lessons learnt or what went wrong.

nicerod:
Wish u well bro



Just be careful with this our ladies and don't rush and act desperate



thanks bro

Ishilove:

Pishure or wedonbelivit

oakson:



I quite understand the intricacies of a faceless and public forum such as this. So, if I say I am what I am; don't doubt me, I Am!

BTW; is that a subtle interest ?

Dimples2022:

Ishilove:

No it isn't. I pointed it out for ladies that may be interested. My contribution to your search

TheGoodAmerican:
Go look for a single mother, OP. You need to find a single mother or divorcee like yourself, not a single lady without kids. A single lady without kids has no business dating or marrying a single father with 3 kids.

oakson:


does it really cost a fortune to mind your business and get busier if need be?

Oluneutral:



If you really wanted people to mind their businesses, you shouldn't have put this in a public domain, you know.

Oluneutral:
By the way, what was the cause of the divorce that couldn't be resolved even after three beautiful and wonderful kids?

oakson:


Read your signature and see the contrast in your comment. Must you NL folks really show how petty you are? These coming from men shows how warped and condescending most males on this forum are...

kilode, must you folks spit? Can't you just read, swallow and go in peace or pieces?

oakson:


Like you care....

oakson:


does it really cost a fortune to mind your business and get busier if need be?

Oluneutral:



Dear brother, we're not fighting, as a matter of fact, I was only pointing out what you're expected to have known. This is a public forum, When you open a thread here, it's no longer personal, it has become public consumption. Expect different suggestions, comments and questions. The way and manners you now respond to these good, bad and sometimes ugly comments here says a lot about who you really are. Besides, there's no rule that stipulates the threads any member can respond to. Somebody's business is everybody's business once it gets to the public domain here, same applies to other social media.


By the way, the suggestion given by thegoodamerican wasn't a bad one, it now behoves on you to accept or not.

Dogalmighty17:


This attitude may be one of the underlying causes of the divorce. You put a post on a public forum and yet you tell people to mind their business?

TheGoodAmerican:
Go look for a single mother, OP. You need to find a single mother or divorcee like yourself, not a single lady without kids. A single lady without kids has no business dating or marrying a single father with 3 kids.

JeffreyJunior:
So is it safe to also say that a single man without kids has no business dating or marrying a single mother with 3 kids?

We men have seen all manner of injustice in this life shaa.

JeffreyJunior:
So is it safe to also say that a single man without kids has no business dating or marrying a single mother with 3 kids?

We men have seen all manner of injustice in this life shaa.

oakson:



I smell bullshit from far... hence, my replies.

This post is meant for ladies to respond to, not men with seemingly overbloated ego and megalomaniacs who chose to cocoon their personal struggles and shortcomings, then, come online as dinosaurs to prey on those who were bold enough to come out. You don't sit behind your keypad and type out how someone else should or should not live.

That, I can't and won't accept... you called what that 'americawhatever' said a 'suggestion'? Read it again. He spoke like he's the father and default mind of all ladies; even Father Abraham wouldn't be that absolute in authority over someone else's wishes.

Lastly, it is always worthwhile to read out loud one's comments to one's self and feel it before writing it out to someone else(no pun intended).

Then, and then, would social media be a safe, if not safer place for all!

Abi you get wife for me

TheGoodAmerican:
That's right. I'm a fair female and aim for impartiality with my opinions. If I say a single father with kids has no business dating or marrying a single woman without kids, then the same goes for single mothers ― they've no business dating or marrying a single man who has no kids. A single parent/divorcee with kids should look for a single parent/divorcee with kids. Simple.

Dimples2022:


Who gave you this authority??! LOL! NL!

Dimples2022:

Clearly, I am psychotic so there’s a need for me to be “pained”

I thought you were being sarcastic and petty but you’re fuckin serious! LMAO

TheGoodAmerican:
It's my opinion, and I'm entitled to it. Clearly, you're a single mother. There's no need to be pained over my comment.