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Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Lol...Why would my type come near your offsprings in the first place? toprealman: 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Then give the op your own better advice. tunapawizzy: 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Lol... ![]() ![]() ![]() justlovesfarmin: 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by President2001(m): 4:22pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Samantha123:Your advice |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by toprealman: 4:26pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Samantha123:I just prayed for my generation ma. I love peace and have enjoyed it all my life. My children and grandkids deserve even better. I grew up in an environment that people communicate regularly, love radiated from all corners. Even in the mist of conflict and disagreement, stuff got trashed almost immediately. Anything short if this is pure evil, I will never wish it on my enemy let alone me and my jewel. You got this long response because today is Sunday! 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by chieme123(m): 4:27pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Send her back to her parents. With all her property. And begin to look for another wife to marry. This one doesn't respect you. So let her be on her own abeg. |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
He is not sterile, Samantha. Just know their those who know how to bid their time and avoid any form of public shaming. Stories abound where ladies takes drugs immediately after copulation with their husbads; most often is because of a deep seated hurt. He did his test and not sterile even active in service. To me being romantic is relative in my relationship. My wife loves it when I cook meals especially soup. Take This scenario now..the wife walks in excepting the husband to rant hell fire down, she see a dished meal on the table waiting for her. Aswear, thoughts will run through her heads, some frightening o. Imagine dishing the food and telling her to eat up, that you have done yours earlier. Samantha123: |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by tsmith(f): 4:31pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hathor5: Agree, and an understanding doesn't have to be an apology. Your wife is an adult, and despite your vocal preference, she also would have her reasons for going for the event. You can't simply ask an adult not to do something and expect obidence. An adult isn't a child or an animal, and even these don't always obey commands mind. 2 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by ranmoor: 4:31pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
This is "see finish". You shouldn't have allowed her back inside the house. She must return to wherever she is coming from. For her to even have that courage means you have been weighed and found light. You are doing good and reasonable man for woman, I pity you. Growing up, my uncle use to fvck one married woman, she will tell her family she is going for business trip which is partially true but she must spend 2 days in his house. As for me, she must bring her parents before she comes back into that house. since you have allowed her in, the best thing is to abandon her totally, sometimes sleep out or come home very late and go straight to your room. You can even plan a trip, vacation and go without informing her. it is even easier since the kids are in university 2 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by tsmith(f): 4:34pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
frozen70: Do people truly still think and act these ways ��� it's primitive to have words like disrespect orders, withdrawing freedom etc in a marriage btw 2 consenting adults. It's a marriage not a prison, love not hate. |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by tunapawizzy: 4:35pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Samantha123:no point stating the obvious, the op is reading all and can see it already |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by irunoko(m): 4:37pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Samantha123:but communication is important.if she wrongs you why don't you open your mouth and explain how you were hurt instead of keeping malice? If you have explained to her and she's not ready to change then you leave the house for her till She comes back to her senses |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by luluman: 4:39pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Samantha123:You just said you are not married, and you think you know one bit how to live in marriage? ERROR Why not contribute in topics of bachelors 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by colestephan86: 4:42pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Rechargeam247:First as a man, you don't play anyhow with women, women are like children, when play is too much, they tend not to know hen to stop and be serious. There has being no limit and that's why you will tell your wife not to do something and she will go on against your instructions and do those things. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nayig: 4:50pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
We've all been there, women are naturally stubborn and disrespectful, if you give them a yard, they'll take a kilometre. Stamp your authority on your household, tell her straight that you told her not to go, if she tries that again, there will be severe repercussions, say it and mean it. It's easier said than done being the man in a relationship, but that's the natural order of things, she should and must be submissive to you for peace to reign, else you'll just keeping living an unhappy life. It's better she respects you with just a little fear than love you, for me respect is better than love. 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Tozocalamity: 4:55pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
When she comes back give her a stern verbal warning. make it clear that she must never make such a "mistake." under ur house. u allow wont insurbordination from her. if she dare you by raising her voice, give her a couple of slaps (two prferably) . also be the 1st to call whoever she holds in high esteen to report her . ask them to caution her. woman always do these things to see how u react and ur reaction wil determine weather there wil be a future re occurance or nt. 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by EagleSquare1(m): 4:56pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Pondering deeply over this. Samantha123: |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by EagleSquare1(m): 5:03pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Absolutely, Respect in a marriage most likely guarantees peace. But without Respect then there's clear and present danger. To me, for the women, when you give your spouse the respect he deserves, I'm almost certain he will show you love and respect. You will always be at the back of his mind Nayig: 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by InfinityFabric: 5:06pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Vinnie2000:Same old fashioned that granted your grand(fathers and mothers) 50, 60, 70, 80 years+ of married life. Not it's less than 40 months. Its ur Type that Locks their Wives inside House and Bans them from Using Android Phones.The difference is I marry intelligent virgins. You guys went for community and university hoes. I'll conclude you've never met a girl who doesn't have social media and also want to get rid of her "Android" phone ? Yea, widen your horizon! Stop falling for White Man bullshits A Female Colleague Just Quit in our Company because her Husband did Not like her Mingling with Males..Man with sense. Inb4 he starts taking care of bastards thinking they're his own. Now She is Complaining of being Broke all the Time.It's the job of her husband to take care of her. Women should marry men who can take care of them. 50/50 bullshit will lead to tears/ If You as a Man Treat ur Wife Well and you Fcvk her well in Bedroom, She will NEVER cheat.As a man who understands women can't be trusted, NOT because they're EVIL but because of their EMOTIONS, I can't let her mix amongst men. Change ur Archaic Mentality, Bro!It's based in: Religious and scientific evidence. Na you suppose learn and stop watching Disney, stop listening to women and start seeing. Question ? Do u have money, sweet mouth and oozing of confidence ? IF u ever did, you'll know why it's bad to let women go out anyhow. But since u replied with what u did, it shows you're just a BASIC MAN. No offense, it's the reality. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by essienisrael5(m): 5:15pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Dimples2022: Daughter of Zion, please which is D? |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by DispatcherLagos: 5:16pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Just Waybill her bags to where she travelled to. And if your rent is almost due, you can relocate to a different place very far from where you are staying now. No Jupiter will make her not to come begging 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by jimmychang: 5:20pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
inspirator1: You see.Everything is not gragra ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Amumaigwe: 5:21pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: Disrespect is the litmus test for cheating. Dig around and you will be shocked. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by godofuck231: 5:22pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Its simple:- Action bitters 2 Likes
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Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by descarado: 5:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Samantha123:Silent treatment affects kids a lot. As a matter of fact, any negative vibe in the house affects the kids. Silent treatment is petty. Not fit for boyfriend/ girlfriend not to talk of married couple. Very irresponsible and leads to more problems. 3 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I don't owe anyone an explanation as to why I commented here... ![]() ![]() ![]() luluman: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Why repeat same things over and over again to her when already she knows that you disapproved of her going to the event? Next thing she'll talk back and you guys will start going back and forth and it'll only make things worse. But you guys are free to do you... No one is forcing you to take my advice.. ![]() ![]() ![]() irunoko: 2 Likes |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Then let me be if you're not ready to advise your fellow brother. tunapawizzy: 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by descarado: 5:39pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
There are lots of things wrong with the @op post. You don't set the rule in a marriage. It's called partnership for a reason. That tradi6ionally man is bestowed the head doesn't mean he dictates what happen in the home. Secondly, you don't cage an adult. You have no right. She wanna travel, she travels. As long as house is in other, why wont she go and have good time if thats what makes her happy? We cone tk this world once. Men over the years keep on dishing out unwritten rules for women to follow cos they feel its their effing right. She don't stop you from traveling or having boys night out with guys. Marriage has gone past what happened during our parents time so never use that as yardstick. It's 50/50 union this time around whether she is a housewife or not. 1 Like |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
If he's not sterile, then how come he doesn't have a single child with his wife? If I do something wrong and you cook and buy flowers for me in return, I'll surely repeat that same thing over and over again because for me actions speak louder than words. If you tell me not to do something, but your actions does otherwise, then I'll see no need to apologise.. ![]() ![]() ![]() inspirator1: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Kaa4(m): 5:44pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
The silent treatment is he best. Just ignore her, but take care of yourself. The children will force her to apologize if you have been responsible at home. It worked for me before Rechargeam247: |
Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Sterope(f): 5:44pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
LMAO frozen70: 1 Like |
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