pocohantas:


That is because those women are looking for commitment. In a foreign country where the black/Nigerian community is small and known, they would want to avoid see finish or a situation where they end up knacking three Nigerian guys that play basketball together or share the same WhatsApp group.

It is not the sex that they can’t find. A willing penîs is one of the easiest and cheapest things to find as a woman. Commitment and long-term companionship (marriage) are luxuries. Worse when they all want the same kind of men.

How will you get committed when you hardly give the guy a chance?
I have a friend here who wooed some Nigerian babes. Handsome and at the right age to settle down. From student to skilled worker. We are really close. These babes kept him at arm length. He got a white babe eventually as fk friend at a point. Now he is about to marry from home and bring her in. One of the ladies he was wooing hooked up with a Ghanaian and is now with a child the guy disappeared the moment she announced she is pregnant. Calling my friend for help after the new year. Help to do what.

She should look for the guy and involve social service. Her Shakara has ended and her eyes opened.

Gerrard59:


I stated the same few weeks ago:



So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", I am always curious. The vast majority of Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), and this worsens the situation. I have watched videos from recent japa folks in the UK, with the kind of faces they have, I see why fvck eludes them. Nigerian men are not handsome, people should not be deceived by it. I noticed this in a relationship Facebook group I am a member of - almost the dudes were not good-looking compared to the ladies (even without makeup).

Especially Yoruba men

This thread na major click-bait. Nigerian men and women wey dey get steady wire just here laughing at the comments

Ednut03

Ednut03:
Lastly, forget about using your money to score a chick. Hypergamy and feminism is crazy, you will fail and you still won't get sex. Same apply to a woman

I'm sorry, but someone needs to debunk some lies we say here about white chick wanting black dick, no they don't want you, and that happen 99% of the time unless you really have the look game, look young, and work out that your chest is basically obvious

This is true especially if the guy is in his mid to late 30s and above when he traveled...

Guys in their 20s have better chance.

For the ladies I just pity them cos it will take the special grace of God for any Naija lady to find a responsible guy in UK, US or any western world except they go together with their partners.

These ladies are turned to single mums and many of them have different dads for each child they have.

The story loong gaan...

But the worst part is that Naija guys who are very good looking cant get the type of lady they want but have to settle for unsuitable available options.

fykes:


Ehhhh? Hate wetin? Guy no say oo.
Infact Make I no talk...Indian girls are the finest humans on earth

Indian girls are one of the finest humans on earth from the Punjab to Gujarat all the way to Kerala or Tamil Nadu in the south, but the Hindi religion culture is very strong on them and as a result they suffer from colourism.

HitSong:

Are escorts common prostitutes?

Yes they are in North America. Escort/call girl/hookup - same thing. What you will get below escort are crackheads with missing tooths. Those can blow you for $20 but they will likely dash you STD join.

pocohantas:


The fact that he included himself in the ugly men. To be sincere, the face of the recent immigrants are so strong. All of them o. Don’t you see their YouTube videos? Always complaining about snow and whatnot.

Someone I know traveled to the UK. She is in her mid 30s and it is the same complain. Mind you, my male friends complain too. Only that the guys are more realistic and open to dating back home. The ladies (including this one I know) are seriously cherrypicking. Nigerians hate themselves too much.

The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.

kollinzgee:
There is no where in the world you cant get a chick if you know how to approach and woo women,white girls are not like naija girls they are more attracted to your looks and personality than mobey.

collect one origin,forget the OP,seems he is ugly.Even from online apps I dey date white and foreigners,talkless of when I land.Op no get swag so he is judging based on his own experience. It's not same for everyone

kollinzgee:
There is no where in the world you cant get a chick if you know how to approach and woo women,white girls are not like naija girls they are more attracted to your looks and personality than mobey.

There are always girls to sleep with but we are talking about getting a committed relationship... Don't mix the two.

ibkayee:

White girls aren’t ‘into’ black guys

Doesn’t really make sense that the demographic of women seen as one of the most socially desirable would collectively be into black men who are seen as the least accomplished (thus least desirable) group of men in the world.

This is mostly responsible to racial bias. Older white individuals are less likely to ever date anybody outside their race. Not because of desirability in the sense you put it. Today, more individuals date and accept the notion over inter-race dating. Forgive my use of the term. Either way, across all demographics, black men as well as black women are the least desirable on the planet. Black women in the west are even 'campaigning' against black men opting for caucasians and other race over them.. irony huh! https://qz.com/emails/africa-weekly-brief/1849957926/why-is-kenya-s-ecitizen-platform-so-glitchy

I won’t say there aren’t some white women who are ‘into’ black men, but they tend to be few in comparison to those who aren’t, or the oyinbo women that aren’t seen as desirable in their own community.

Same goes for black women, and again, this is attributed to racial discrimination: see below

Despite holding deep interest in the issues faced by people of color, progressive white singles still swipe on and message people of their own race to a larger degree. Then comes Asians, Latinos/as, and mixed-race people, with Black people swiped on the least by white daters, according to the internal data the authors received from an online dating site. As the book claims, white daters are more likely to ignore overtures from people of color who hold a conventionally more desirable education background, height, and body type, while being responsive to those who lack those qualities, but are still white.- https://mashable.com/article/racism-online-dating

Some fetishise black men because of the stereotype of their alleged sexual prowess I guess but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the ones fetishising you even want to be with you seriously

Basically if a black guy doesn’t score with a desirable white girl, that’s not that unusual. You’re not on their radar like that

I understand where the sentiment is coming from,but fortunately that not the case.

Most people; White, Hispanics, asians, are more likely to marry someone from their own race. Factually speaking, the percentage of black men not desirable to white female is the not that different for white men who also don't find black women desirable. So yes, we both are the underdogs of the dating pool. Both you know who desires black women the most? Black men.. Even more crazy, you know which race prefer to date black women the most, black women.

ibkayee:

Well I said that’s how they’re viewed socially and it isn’t necessarily incorrect. I’m not saying that they inherently are, or that every single person views them as desirable let alone the most, but that’s just a pedestal they’ve been put on in society and something they’re aware of. As for black men being the least accomplished…that’s not untrue.

White women are not throwing themselves at black men abeg. I’m not saying it’s never happened before but it’s not enough of a regular occurrence to be tagged as a ‘thing’.

It's happens alot in the US bt I think certain states with good mix of blacks, minorities and whites like miami, Houston etc..

In the UK I think its a bit different, u need to have a more going for u for smtn serious.

Blackmen used to be least accomplished and even Africans bt the richest man in the world is/was from South Africa.

Now blackmen have caught up and alot of them are doing well in different areas tho alot are still struggling.

As regards White men being most accomplished it is post slavery stereotypes and racism.

tensazangetsu20:


Olosho dey select customer. If you no fine they no go gree Bleep you.

Olosho dey select customer?
I'm surprised to hear this

Mozillafire:

From which country?

I think planetx used to live in the USA.

GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

In Brazil of you don't have sense, the small one you get, sex go comot am. You literally have to hold yourself and be focused. Girls too much and too fine and na them go come meet you self lol

Brazil is an exception to the rule. Its links with Africa especially Nigeria are exceptionally strong. Wavelength is equal to not greater or lesser than.

Gerrard59:


The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.

The average man is ugly and it has nothing to do with your country or where you come from.

Ednut03:


True. But lemme ask a genuine question. Who desire black women in the abroad? Especially, black Nigerian women. Well, Nigerian men still desire cuz they don't have much options either. But Nigerian women and black women also still fall short of the beauty standard

Black women, Nigerian women are not perceived as high on the ‘totem’ pole socially by other races but they tend to stick to their own.

There are also some black men who prefer other races of women to black (differs from country to country) but the impact isn’t ‘damaging’ enough for there to be a shortage of black couples daily. Nigerian men aren’t a part of this, they date out more than Nigerian women but they tend to stick to their own for the most part

The thing is, I rarely see black women or Nigerian women boasting about how ‘desired’ they are to other races. It’s a phenomenon that’s very peculiar to black men and some Nigerian men lol I’ve never seen a demographic so obsessed with their perceived ‘desirability’ and it’s always with superficial things, never to do with their stake in the world as leaders and economically

Gerrard59:


This is true, and it is worse in East Asia. When I met a Gambian who said she dates a Japanese, I was stunned. Even white women have it worse in East and South East Asia as their white brothers are swooned over by Asian females. So you can imagine it for black females. It is why anytime I recall the female Nairalander who chose Hong Kong instead of Canada because Canada is boring, I dey burst laugh.

https://vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/ A tale of a white woman who lived in Japan.

White men are really privileged. Their grandparents tried for them.

@ the bolded - let me guess this is largely due to the progress made by the Aryan race, am I right??

UNDFTD:
It all depends on the individual. If you ain't got no game, no matter how nice looking or ugly you're, it ain't gonna happen! Here in the US and in Canada as well, ugly folks including men and women are in relationships. But if you're of the opinion that your looks alone are all that it takes to get a woman or a man, then you're sorely mistaken. It takes more than just looks or being well-endowed to get laid. There's more to that than meets the eye. So, to make a sweeping statement as the author of this thread did is far from the truth and asinine at best.

The author of the thread is a blatant liar

What if the woman is a virgin and not interested in sex until marriage? How will she be frustrated at something she will never do before marriage? Stop typing nonsense, pls.

Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them

You dont know anything about US bros. You wont get laid? As a guy? Come on naw...wey girls full everywhere

Where in the US do you stay. Even if you dont get white girls(how many people like white girls anyway) you wont get black girls?

Akata wey full everywhere? Who cares about white women? Pull up in any walmart.for an hour, .you will leave with atleast three numbers. Drive through any hood, you will get atleast three. Go to any park...you will have two..pull up qt the club?

Tha mess are you taking about? You is weak man!!!? Escorts are all over on craigslist and other lists.

Whats wrong with you?

And anyway...in america, everyone dates along racial lines in the cosmopolitan cities- chinese fvck chines..latinos fvck latinos, Africans fuvk blacks, akatas inclusive. So whats this gripe about black dick and white girls? How many times have you seen Latinos or chinese with white women. Why shd black be different.

You dont know anything- talk about Canada where there are no people..not America

Where that fvk do you live in America?

tensazangetsu20:


Olosho dey select customer. If you no fine they no go gree Bleep you.

Lies from the abroad

Wetin make una wey dey outside Nigeria think say people inside naija no get sense?

Haba...ashewo no go fuçk customer because e no fine? People wey dey fit fuçk dog and literally eat faeces for the right pay? Bros, this your dodo no done.

I live in Europe and this is completely true. But the not able to get the hook up part is also completely false except that some whites hooker are scared of big dick and the long sex. When it comes to hygiene, more white people lack it than black people.

Mille:
Let me share my own experience in Europe. Before leaving for Europe, I cohabited for the last two years in school. We continued our cohabitation when I finished school and returned to Lagos until the day I left for Europe. So I had no problem getting sex since I left for Europe.

I enrolled in a Masters program where I get to spend at least 6 months each in different countries. Then, I was a skinny average dude.

1. First Stop: Cluj, ROMANIA;
-Beautiful women all through. Student city. I think this is the country with the most beautiful women in the world. Matched with plenty people on Tinder. Went for some dates mostly with fellow students but I think they were more curious than interested due to the scarcity of black people. One even mentioned if Nigerians don't eat vegetable oil because I'm not as bulky as those black Americans. I think the fact that I wasn't staying long in Romania didn't help either.

Loved a Portuguese exchange student who stayed on the same floor with me and was taking her time returning the favor after dates and group clubbing (I was only clubbing because I liked her). Finally scored a Romanian/Hungarian girl after two months and mehn, she was a screamer. The whole floor knew what was going on throughout the night. Word got to the Portuguese girl and she became distant. The Romanian girl essentially became my girlfriend till I left Romania. Homely and submissive. Honestly, the best relationship I ever had. Took me to her parents, bleeped her there. When it was time to leave, she didn't want distant relationship and asked that I leave school and we can relocate to the UK as a couple. I rejected it (sometimes I regret rejecting that offer)

2. Next Stop; Kassel, GERMANY.

I think Germans are the worst women a man will ever date. Ugly, assertive, domineering and always frowning.

This was where I finally understand how hard it is in Europe. For the first months, I didn't even score female friendship with Germans (I think the fact that I don't speak German is a big determinant). I was always able to do so with Nigerian and African women but not with the Germans or other Europeans. On my multiple trips to Frankfurt, I thought about branching many of the multiple sex houses, but man, I'll never enjoy paid sex.

I was finally able to score a 40+ divorced German mom of 3 who stayed in a small City close to Frankfurt. This was the hardest I have done to convince a woman. Her daughter was 18+ and it usually felt somehow when I go there on weekends. But mehn, I was grateful for the avenue to cum.

I think if you're interested in African women, you won't have problems in Germany as long as you're above the same African woman in a social standing. If not, OYO. African Men have been here without having sex for years. African women have been lonely here for years because they want commitment. Both African Men and women are not having sex together because their needs are different.

3. LYON, FRANCE:

I want to forget my experience in France. It was so dry. I wasn't even scoring matches online. And the ones you meet face to face will give you their number and leave you in read. I was left with the opportunity of returning to Germany and continuing the final semester in Lyon, mehn, I ran back to Germany.

4. HAMBURG, GERMANY.

I finally stayed in a big English speaking city. Met many Nigerians here as I also rented a flat with other Nigerians. To get women here, you have to be ready to club. If you can deceive African and Nigerian women about your finances and your commitment to marriage, you'll get a lot of black pussies. Many Africans here have finished their studies and are finally in the big city to earn cash. They have also come to the realization that they are getting older without a partner and that the white men only used them to satisfy a fetish.

My Opinion of German women remain the same. Unless you like the challenge of masculine women. People don't even know Angela Merkel has an Husband. Fortunately, there are plenty of fishes in this city that are not Germans. So if you dress well, have your finance in order and outgoing, you shouldn't have a problem getting laid. To do less work chasing women, just target the plus-sized ones.

Unfortunately, I caught a bacterial infection which was causing a lump under my armpit. Before, during and after the surgery, I was all alone in the hospital. My roommates wey busy racking up shifts, my lays were not there during the time of need, I finally appreciated the communalism of Nigeria and the need for a partner and not random sex objects. I returned home to Nigeria, started working remotely, got married and had a daughter.

I expect to go back to the abroad this year or the next. I'm not in a hurry though as I earn USD from here.

is it easy to get a Romanian visa? And is masters free in Romania, bro? You lived the life mehn..

Ednut03:


Post your pics here then I can decide if you're going to get sex or not. Remember I said you are not going to get sex with your wallet or cars because these girls are even doing better than most men over here

It's not money matter
I know how to get any type of women....
E no de hard me
I know the game and how to play it....
Make I no cast myself
If na woman matter leave am for me
Once she allow me start conversations she don enter net be that...
I'm good looking have good height , good build good legs good eyes and cute smile...

kkins25:

This is mostly responsible to racial bias. Older white individuals are less likely to ever date anybody outside their race. Not because of desirability in the sense you put it. Today, more individuals date and accept the notion over inter-race dating. Forgive my use of the term. Either way, across all demographics, black men as well as black women are the least desirable on the planet. Black women in the west are even 'campaigning' against black men opting for caucasians and other race over them.. irony huh! https://qz.com/emails/africa-weekly-brief/1849957926/why-is-kenya-s-ecitizen-platform-so-glitchy


Same goes for black women, and again, this is attributed to racial discrimination: see below



I understand where the sentiment is coming from,but fortunately that not the case.

Most people; White, Hispanics, asians, are more likely to marry someone from their own race. Factually speaking, the percentage of black men not desirable to white female is the not that different for white men who also don't find black women desirable. So yes, we both are the underdogs of the dating pool. Both you know who desires black women the most? Black men.. Even more crazy, you know which race prefer to date black women the most, black women.

I don’t disagree with you about both men and women being considered low on the totem pole socially.

But it’s usually black men arguing on how desirable they are to other races, often in a bid to devalue black women. I rarely see black women doing this

Lol every time I ‘inform’ a black men boasting about how desirable he is to oyinbos, chances are he will ‘counter’ with the argument that black women aren’t desirable either in a conversation where no black woman said anything about being so