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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Backpedal: 5:15pm On Jan 08, 2023
Father254:



I lived in China for years and their case is different from your report in US and Canada.

First rule follow who know road. You can't just come in abroad and start looking for p***y.
Secondly have a job and go to club when you can .
Thirdly have a target from workplace or club .
Fourthly have a good D**k.

The rest is history.
When you start na you go run.
True sha

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 5:15pm On Jan 08, 2023
Bossjakande:
I dont tink it will be hard for naija girls. Dey can get a naija other African or a white guy to sex Dem even witout money.but is harder for guys even in naija if u dont have money u can neva get a girl for sex not to talk say ur in Canada were a white girl wont even talk to u

Women are largely demisexual, so they see sex differently from men. Also, some of the approaches will be from non-black men who have fetish they want to accomplish by fvcking a black woman. Since there are more black men than black women in the abroad, this induces a scarcity of black women in the abroad, especially outside North America/Western Europe. Also, in the west, remember, you have black women who have been part of the system. So, it won't be easy for an Adenike or Ngozi of yesterday to start competing with a Sharon born and bred in the US/Canada/UK. The Nigerian girl will lose out. In non-black societies, she becomes a fetish - which to her is not good. In return, she sef is not interested in her black African brother because he has nothing to offer in the meantime.

Yes, it is hard without money to get a woman in Nigeria, but even with money, it becomes harder to get a woman in the abroad. Your money is nothing to her. The same job you do, she does it. Besides, she is privileged as a citizen making her get the best opportunities you cannot access on a student's visa. You think I can use money to attract a Japanese girl that flocks shopping malls every weekend with money she got from highly paid part-time jobs? shocked How much do you think I have? grin Or you think a dude who went to study in Switzerland or Norway can use money to entice the Swiss/Norwegian girl? grin

I am glad OP created this topic as I wanted doing the same, but lack of experience in western societies held me from doing so.

Las las, we go marry ourselves upon the Ndi alfa meil and feminism on social media.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by LoveJesus87(m): 5:21pm On Jan 08, 2023
jimpix11:
Here in Alberta, only dull guys will not get sex,

Promiscuous Phillipino girls full everywhere. Just be nice, smile and buy them FOOD.

Eritrea and Ethiopian girls dy steady as well, infact I don bone chasing 9ja girls...

They are looking for sugar daddy as well. grin

Meanwhile I joined Nigeria Singles Group on whatsapp recently...omo Our girls dy suffer. Out of 180+ participants, there are 147 ladies across Canada looking for partners. Na new group so I counted the pictures as dm dy upload... fine fine 9ja babes undecided and single mothers plenty o grin
lol grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by drealcivilceno(m): 5:21pm On Jan 08, 2023
Kaycee54321:
Lol.

What do you expect?

The human society is built on classism. I've forgotten where I saw this silly (but honest) scale of value:
White Kids
White Women
Black Kids
White Men
Asian Women
...

...

Pets
..

...
...

Black Men.

So if you're an average black man in the West, it really shouldn't be surprising that you won't be getting any knacks. Even Black Women on your level will turn their noses when you approach them because a woman's default mode is to go for a higher class of men.

Again, classism. A 6'3 Kayode with a diluted American accent will have his ball sac full of sperm compared to a 5'5 Kevin Hart whose idea of a good time can involve a trip on a private Jet to Ibiza.

Did you see where Saudi Arabia adjusted their laws to accommodate Cristiano Ronaldo living with his girlfriend, Georgina. As in, the man made a whole country bend their laws instead of proposing to his girlfriend.

Lol. It is what it is.
You adapt or die complain endlessly.

True talk

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by pocohantas(f): 5:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
Toks2008:


This is true especially if the guy is in his mid to late 30s and above when he traveled...

Guys in their 20s have better chance.

For the ladies I just pity them cos it will take the special grace of God for any Naija lady to find a responsible guy in UK, US or any western world except they go together with their partners.

These ladies are turned to single mums and many of them have different dads for each child they have.

The story loong gaan...

But the worst part is that Naija guys who are very good looking cant get the type of lady they want but have to settle for unsuitable available options.

US men are way better than UK. UK men are very dangerous. Even women in Nigeria are scared of them. Don’t compare both please. Especially those Yoruba demons in the UK.

grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by GlobTrotter: 5:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
BreconHills:


Brazil is an exception to the rule. Its links with Africa especially Nigeria are exceptionally strong. Wavelength is equal to not greater or lesser than.
you have a point though

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by saxywale2: 5:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
Sltp:
I live in Europe and this is completely true. But the not able to get the hook up part is also completely false except that some whites hooker are scared of big dick and the long sex. When it comes to hygiene, more white people lack it than black people.
They hygiene is more of a stereotype thing.
Some see black as dirt and smelly even though alot of whites are dirty and do not bath often. Alot of Sex workers bought into the stereotype.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
It’s true. I’m in usa. Also there’s not many Nigerians which is another problem
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by GlobTrotter: 5:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
Obudupikin:



How can I migrate to Brazil comrade? grin
lool you too like better thing lol.

But seriously though it's not difficult, just apply for a visit visa and come

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 5:27pm On Jan 08, 2023
shegzhkn:


@ the bolded - let me guess this is largely due to the progress made by the Aryan race, am I right??

I don't know how it connects to the Aryan race, but since white men dominated societies by colonising countries and regions, plundered some wealth by the way and built functioning societies, they became admired and renowned globally. Humans generally admire the features of prosperous people. Through that, the white man gets love and attraction anywhere he goes. He is seen as economically viable for procreation, intelligent and offers stability. So, a South Korean woman would rather stick with a white man since she knows her offspring will have better options than with a black man. The same across all regions. Shey even Ramlot stated it - a black man is seen as a poor person at an initial glance until a conversation is made to distinguish whether he is African American or black African. An African American is viewed differently from a black African, especially when it comes to procreation and stability. Questions arise: if I follow him back home, would I maintain my standard of living over there? Can a Swiss woman afforded all the amenities and living standards maintain her lifestyle if she follows her Nigerian man home? She go fit see work wey go dey like the one she has in Basel?

First-generation Nigerians especially the men aren't really the prize as most people think. This might be different in a place like Australia and Canada due to the nature of their immigration policies, but those are exceptions not the norm.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by kurlz(f): 5:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


We're lying grin grin angry

Don't worry dear. I love you just the way you BTW. grin grin cheesy grin cheesy

Black women love black men so no fuzz.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Dybala11(m): 5:31pm On Jan 08, 2023
Kaycee54321:
Lol.

What do you expect?

The human society is built on classism. I've forgotten where I saw this silly (but honest) scale of value:
White Kids
White Women
Black Kids
White Men
Asian Women
...

...

Pets
..

...
...

Black Men.

So if you're an average black man in the West, it really shouldn't be surprising that you won't be getting any knacks. Even Black Women on your level will turn their noses when you approach them because a woman's default mode is to go for a higher class of men.

Again, classism. A 6'3 Kayode with a diluted American accent will have his ball sac full of sperm compared to a 5'5 Kevin Hart whose idea of a good time can involve a trip on a private Jet to Ibiza.

Did you see where Saudi Arabia adjusted their laws to accommodate Cristiano Ronaldo living with his girlfriend, Georgina. As in, the man made a whole country bend their laws instead of proposing to his girlfriend.

Lol. It is what it is.
You adapt or die complain endlessly.
That your last statement na lie sir, no law was adjusted o. I saw the headlines too and I read it. The original law still stands, but it's often ignored for foreigners. It's like the gay law in Nigeria, if we're serious about it too then individuals like Bobrisky, James Brown etc would have been at least under investigation to see if they're truly gay. Some of these middle Eastern nations are trying to put a front of being progressive and accommodating o, not to talk of when it involves a star like CR7 and when Saudi wants to host the world cup. grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by solla22: 5:33pm On Jan 08, 2023
Speak for yourself... this problem has been solved long ago .. you just have to knock on right door and ask the right questions
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by InvertedHammer: 5:35pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
/

Of course, it is always the society's fault.
You carried your victim mentality over to Canada.
Your problem is not everyone's problem as you tactfully generalized it to be.

/
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by kurlz(f): 5:35pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


Where are u chatting from?


Nah. I'm in Nigeria. But I've got plans.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by zumbigbo(m): 5:35pm On Jan 08, 2023
[quote author=GlobTrotter post=119828873]I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

[Brother, the kind of straffing I dey do for Brasil in 2005-2009 eh. Those babes retired me sef!
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by apolonius(m): 5:36pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening


Lies, lies and lies. I live and roll with ballers. The wives are crying and reporting to pastors.

ATL was a place for free ‘ps’…Toop Lounge too. EST 2020, La Shish and Festac Lounge too…All in the GTA.

We have many women to ‘create moments’ with, it’s the time and the wives that limit us.

If you are lonely and desperate, get on Seeking Arrangements…You will be overwhelmed.

Like all things women, budget $100-200 per experience.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by kurlz(f): 5:39pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


To move here? Then we can talk. I've been here for more than 10 and I do frequent Nigeria too

That's nice. OK.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Kaycee54321(m): 5:42pm On Jan 08, 2023
Dybala11:

That your last statement na lie sir, no law was adjusted o. I saw the headlines too and I read it. The original law still stands, but it's often ignored for foreigners. It's like the gay law in Nigeria, if we're serious about it too then individuals like Bobrisky, James Brown etc would have been at least under investigation to see if they're truly gay. Some of these middle Eastern nations are trying to put a front of being progressive and accommodating o, not to talk of when it involves a star like CR7 and when Saudi wants to host the world cup. grin

Bobrisky & James are not investigated because they now roll with a certain class of people.

CR7 made headlines on how it's ok for him to live with his girlfriend in an Arab conservative society because he's in a particular class of humans.

A random gay guy in Ikorodu will be severely beaten in the hood and if he reports to the police station, he will collect round two from the officers of the law... because random gay guy is in a particular class of people. N.B. I've once seen Bobrisky in Lekki and guess who were providing escort services?; two fully armed MOPOL officers...

It's always about class.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Father4all: 5:43pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
I don't agree with you, white guys/Men aren't that tall. Most are average. I have been to four European countries

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by bdon123(m): 5:44pm On Jan 08, 2023
Well u are right .i do know white men dont find black women attractive.the white women only find tall handsome black guys attractive.This is d reason u see most Nigerian men that marry naija women abroad,marry ugly ones they wouldnt consider marrying if they were living in Nigeria.
Omo knack no easy abroar,even wit money.If u see d knack...d girls no dey fine
Also knack is usually via club or pubs after d girls don high.unfortunately they wont pick ur call d nxt day after their eyes clear.
Abeg if u want go abroad,marry fine wife wey loyal frm naija carry go,becos all this small girls wit big god no go dey to take warm body.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by tensazangetsu20(m): 5:45pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


He's not lucky. He's good looking

He's lucky to be good looking. That's part of winning the genetic lottery.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by madridguy(m): 5:45pm On Jan 08, 2023
Learning ..... grin

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