I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

Once I notice you are so concerned about a girl or women that's not related to you well-being i will withdraw myself from you, The only person i can help without thinking twice is my mom and sis,

Am more concerned about myself, family, niggaz and my weed

Because alot of you are bitter.
1. What's your business with what another man chose to do with his money? Why not go and make your own and dash your choice of people?
2. Can you open leg for him? You open your mouth waaaa and say the man give women money as if it is free.... he is not generous he is trying to get something in return.
3. Why did his so called friend not avoid him If he doesn't like his ways?

Una problem dey una body

It's his money let him spend it as he likes,but once I know that you are womanizing I'll cut you off immediately.

Why should it matter which gender you offer help to in the first place? Let him help who he wants to, it's not your business. People who truly have money do not think like this. It's always these broke men and fake Alfa Mails that have a lot to say about women.

So sad.....That we've found ourselves (men) living in a woman's world .


Tbvh with y'all,na everyday I dey come across such men inside my keke...Some men will voluntarily pay the transport of a lady(ladies) irrespective of the amount of the fare..But when fellow guyman meet such men(guyman) for little assistance,he go say he never see shishi since day break

Las las, wetin guyman do guyman?

SIMPS only think about women, nothing else matters to them until they go broke

@Axis313 according to your write-up that honourable is doing all that because of sex! Many of these men with money act that way. But can't you advice your friend to start respecting himself by doing his thing alone, instead of following the man about. He will be seen as a sycophant because people will think he's benefitting from the man while he doesn't even get anything!

Hmm


Man no get juicy hole naw or dripping hole

We r watching what everybody is typing....let's know who deserves accolades

Aside easy access to pus#y or simping there isn't any other reason.

Hmmm

Usually an ulterior motive

Or maybe they’re just attracted to female energy and it puts them in a ‘giving’ mood

Women are considered weaker after children and oldies

Because menascum

OP, be calming down!

Na you be that your colleague.

You just dey vex say the Honourable wey you dey serve no send your papa! Leave the man to do what delights his soul. No be you help am make the money wey him dey spend. People lives too dey concern una Nigerians.

Just know that in this life... Nothing is ever FREE


There must be a price

Keep grinding till you secure the bag

Wetin man do man?

SIMP

If you get to that stage you will understand him...

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Dear Axis313 or just boda Azeez, it's not compulsory to help men alone. The man has his choice and preference of who to help.
The fact is he's helping. Genuinely or to get something in return.
Some men or let me say some people no dey help. So stingy. Even if you are dating them, they won't help you than to give stipends. So.. you should praise the man you are talking about.
Lastly, this narration may help you get your answer based on the man's act alone. Not all men.
We females are at a disadvantage in developing countries like Nigeria. Most mothers are catering for kids and their husbands v ran away or just somehow useless or not buoyant to cater for family. In short, women are at the lower level in no of employed people. Not cos we are lazy but the settings in Africa focus more on males. Maybe the man saw those women as vulnerable ones and decided to help those women. Maybe it's with no string attached sef.

As a man, when you remember that there will be 6 men carrying your coffin when you die and there will be no single woman there, YOU WILL HELP MEN MORE & MORE.

Because Most Of The Men, Doesn't Deserve Any Help, Because Of The Way Dey Behave.

Is Following The Thread, Sha.

because of sex and enough douse of stupidity and they're called Simpsons....the worst of it is that women are less grateful for such gestures than men...I haven't seen any woman appreciated my help especially when I was still single, they always felt is expected till I met a good woman, I married ,,she appreciate anything I do for her

Na Simp dey do that kind thing, + dem dey find something in return

blazepascal:
It's his money let him spend it as he likes,but once I know that you are womanizing I'll cut you off immediately.

Yimu.

If na Dangote or Ned you go cut am off abi ?

That's the norm in this part of the world