TheZeezle:
No stress yourself too much. If she's not ready to stay off her ex's then you should know what to do. She's already a baby mama, add yours and clear!

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Terrorwrist:
Men these days are super-weak!!

Fmartin:
I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

yrhuhfy113:


Bro, is it before you got her pregnant she has been talking to her EXes? Or after you got her pregnant??... BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT PREGNANCY.

See, you should not feel pressured to marry her... A spouse with BAD ATTITUDE can shorten your life with high blood pressure... pls be wise, don't rush. HACCK her phone and check all her messages o... KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING INTO. She may be with you for your money or because na u mumu pass.... So pls stop being NICE and become wise

PerfectStranger:

You can force an elephant to the river but can’t force it to drink water.

You wan marry single mom? Lols marriage never start you don Dey see shege. I pity your mental health.

ritmek:
Your sanity should be a priority to you.
She should have cut off communications with her ex without you telling her to do so.

A lady that has a serious relationship that is leading to marriage should have no business with her any of her ex. Changing SIM card will not solve the problem, she can still link up with them on social media.

You even mentioned physical fights, please if you both are not compatible and if she is not willing to cut off communications with those guys then there is no need to tie the knot.

Fmartin:

Bro, if pikin say him mama no go sleep, him too no go sleep.
I go show her shege if she mess up.
We have spiritual ways to do that

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Avoid single mothers like a plague that they are,una no dey hear

Enjoy your cup of tea

PerfectStranger:

You never even marry her yet u don Dey practice WWE. Make I be una referee abeg

Marriage wey suppose be enjoyment, e reach una turn una wan turn am to wrestling

TMTR:


Avoid single mothers like a plague that they are,una no dey hear

Enjoy your cup of tea

Fmartin:
seriously, i will show her she've messed with the Wrong guy

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Fmartin:
Ki
I
You are still defending her and looking for advice at the same time bro man and give her your terms and conditions if she refuses to play by your rules call off the marriage simple
She don't have a big phone.
The pregnancy is sure mine

I have access to her Facebook.
She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married.

She's really hurting me.

Fmartin:
Ki
I

She don't have a big phone.
The pregnancy is sure mine

I have access to her Facebook.
She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married.

She's really hurting me.

Fmartin:

Bro it's not funny, i kept asking myself what have gotten myself into.
I feel like na juju dis gurl take capture me.

I have been seen her for over a year, we only greet, things spike up jus In space of months, and boom, she took in. I feel like she planned it.
She confessed she's been crushing on me.

Fmartin:
Ki
I

She don't have a big phone.
The pregnancy is sure mine

I have access to her Facebook.
She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married.

She's really hurting me.