Because of kpekus. U get am?
Honestly I weak.

One day I came back from work with my colleague. We stood waiting for a taxi before u know a guy from no where just drove his car cleared call my colleague them talk small before u know the babe don open car door hopped in off they took off.
I said to my self this life no balance at all

Because those men feel helping women will facilitate knacking, so they want to be in the good books of women.

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

Nigga go and hustle.

1Sharon:
The help isn't altruistic, it's self-selfing.

xendra:
Because alot of you are bitter.
1. What's your business with what another man chose to do with his money? Why not go and make your own and dash your choice of people?
2. Can you open leg for him? You open your mouth waaaa and say the man give women money as if it is free.... he is not generous he is trying to get something in return.
3. Why did his so called friend not avoid him If he doesn't like his ways?

Una problem dey una body

Forget men always help women even if they didn't desire anything from them. I think dey prefer women to sing their praises than men.

I have my brother that I do follow home from work. Apart from me any man he carry from V. I to iyana work n from iyana iworo to abule egba. Them must pay but if na women most times he won't collect money from them.

But it man n woman enter he will ask all of them to pay but if it's only women. He won't collect money from them n will never even bother to ask for their number or even talk to them.

He gives both men n women if they r in need. But he still gives to women without them asking but it's rare to give men unless they asked for it.

So some just takes delight in helping women without asking anything in return

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

Kpekus is divine

When you make your own money you will understand

xendra:
Because alot of you are bitter.
1. What's your business with what another man chose to do with his money? Why not go and make your own and dash your choice of people?
2. Can you open leg for him? You open your mouth waaaa and say the man give women money as if it is free.... he is not generous he is trying to get something in return.
3. Why did his so called friend not avoid him If he doesn't like his ways?

Una problem dey una body

Exactly. This is what I try to tell some guys... Most times when guys do something for a lady, they're expecting something in return. So, it is really a transaction in the long run.

ibkayee:
Usually an ulterior motive

Or maybe they’re just attracted to female energy and it puts them in a ‘giving’ mood

Typical feminist take

There are some men like that, actually.

I could be one. No strings attached here.

This is mostly done in recognition of the fact that women are the weaker sex.
Some of them hustle though, but hustles can be rough on them.
The woman is meant to do light work, home keeping and be pampered.
That's how it's supposed to be if not for bad economies everywhere.

A woman is like the morning rose.

Pls, my brother, don't take it the bad way.
Go and hustle and help our women in the society.

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

These are my reasons :
1. I see women as the weaker sex.
2. I am not handsome and so I help with anticipation of some " assistance " if the moment is right.
3. Some women have had it hard and so at times helping gives hope.

LilMissRobbie:
Why should it matter which gender you offer help to in the first place? Let him help who he wants to, it's not your business. People who truly have money do not think like this. It's always these broke men and fake Alfa Mails that have a lot to say about women.

Op, give this idiotic girl the man's number. I can see she also needs help from him.

Ewo bo shey shey oju bi ẹni tí ọkọ ja julẹ

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

Oga, go and hustle! No one owes you a living. And you don't tell a full grown man who made his money how to spend it. Mind your business.

ibkayee:
Usually an ulterior motive

Or maybe they’re just attracted to female energy and it puts them in a ‘giving’ mood

Instinctively, they're thinking of what they'll get from the female in the long run... Most times, they're expecting something sexual in the long run. And as you said, that feminine energy makes men feel good... Human beings spend on what makes them feel good.

And about them not helping guys like they help girls, why will he give a guy like him money... You no get hand to work? Lol. That's how I see it.

is he helping them or is he giving them something with hopes for something else in return?

Is the reason why he hasn’t helped your colleague because he can’t get said thing in return from your colleague?

Stop sounding like the man is some philanthropist who favors women when you and I have an idea why he probably does what he does

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

Most men are actually foolish but they always think they are wise. Come to Abuja and see na. Women are buying houses in the hundreds of millions from cursed hegoats. The funny thing most of those women they are helping are actually lesbians who still use the money to flenjo their lesbian partner while the cursed hegoat thinks he is in charge. Honestly, some men are just too foolish.

People help people they find appealing. If you're a straight man, you'd naturally find women generally appealing. The same goes for a ladies. When a lady loves you, she'd do crazy stuff for you. Isn't that why some people say it's hard to advise a woman in love? The problem isn't that men help women. It's thier money, they can help anyone they want to help. But it's generally good to help your friends when you can regardless of gender. You too work hard to be a helper and not a helpee.

kabukabu50:


Typical feminist take

Yeah feel my feminist wrath rawr

His own his too much and obvious

Women have pucchy, men have balls.

kay29000:


Instinctively, they're thinking of what they'll get from the female in the long run... Most times, they're expecting something sexual in the long run. And as you said, that feminine energy makes men feel good... Human beings spend on what makes them feel good.

And about them not helping guys like they help girls, why will he give a guy like him money... You no get hand to work? Lol. That's how I see it.

Lol yeah exactly their mindset

You can pretend it is a lie all you want, or say its because they want sex, but the truth is men with this attitude are evil.

The problem with most men are men! You will never see a woman help a man, even if she's in love, no woman will look twice at a man trekking in the sun, there's no simpathy as far as they are concerned.

Watch how men will be running around to pick up and drop a lady they have never met just because they want to collect phone number how pathetic can you be, I get if she is your woman but everyone even married men and those in serious relationships.

Sweetplum:
Dear Axis313 or just boda Azeez, it's not compulsory to help men alone. The man has his choice and preference of who to help.
The fact is he's helping. Genuinely or to get something in return.
Some men or let me say some people no dey help. So stingy. Even if you are dating them, they won't help you than to give stipends. So.. you should praise the man you are talking about.
Lastly, this narration may help you get your answer based on the man's act alone. Not all men.
We females are at a disadvantage in developing countries like Nigeria. Most mothers are catering for kids and their husbands v ran away or just somehow useless or not buoyant to cater for family. In short, women are at the lower level in no of employed people. Not cos we are lazy but the settings in Africa focus more on males. Maybe the man saw those women as vulnerable ones and decided to help those women. Maybe it's with no string attached sef.

The bolded is not neccessary. You have made your point up there and should have left it at that. If you are weak, you are weak, there's no reason to glamoralise your inefficiency.

post=119878869:
Because Most Of The Men, Doesn't Deserve Any Help, Because Of The Way Dey Behave.

Is Following The Thread, Sha.

Oga, I've observed that your written English is abysmally poor. I really wonder how you communicate effectively in that blog of yours.

My male biology teacher once told a friend in my presence when this same question was asked that he would rather help a woman because a man offers him nothing. Of course, to him, it's all about the canal gain/intimacy and nothing more.
Experienced men know better that when it comes to lifetime loyalty, a good man will be there for his own during rainy days.
But you see those descendants of Eve, just like flies, they only perch when it stinks and take a flight at any slight change.

It all boil down on the very slogan: Watin man do man. You get it if you don't get it forget about it.

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

how many style can you offer in 60mins?

I even pity women because most of them end up in big problem or even death at the end.
Do not envy these girls when you see men doing heaven and earth for them. You don't know what they pass through in the hands of most of those men.
Nothing is free

Man is totoless why woman is totoful.....simple.

Over the years I have learnt that it is more profitable to help your fellow man than a woman.

Helping a woman is like pouring water into an ocean. It is mostly taken for granted.

Women have this notion to always get assistance from men. When a woman is stranded more than 10 men can be on ground to assist so she sees it as a normal benefit of being a lady. She doesn't really appreciate it like a guy will.

For the ones that will appreciate it, they can be easily influenced by their man. I have helped a lady so much but was surprised that she got a boyfriend and the boyfriend told her he wasn't comfortable with my closeness to her and that's it she cut every means of communication and ended our childhood friendship from the hood just because of a boyfriend and girlfriend stuff.

Some also may like to help but most of the time a woman's destiny is determined by who she married. You will see a vibrant lady that once she marries marriage will just suck life out of her, she will be so fixated in marriage that she may not recognize your help.

These has been my experience with helping ladies so since then I switched the gear towards helping my fellow guys...

The business I am doing now, I was introduced to it by my guy we met in NYSC camp. I helped him when he was stranded, fed and sheltered him from my little but after NYSC table turned, he owns his business, he is a big boy and while I was wallowing away in one yeye office work, my guy remembered me and introduced me to his business and things improves.

Also I bought a car but was stranded when accommodation issue came, my childhood friend whom I helped raise rent when he needed it, I called him for a loan of 200k but this guy remmeberd how I helped him and said instead of him to loan me, he will dash me because he remembers... My guy added 50k made it 250k and dashed me.

I can't count how many times I have benefited from guys I helped but the ladies even the one I supported with school fees back then in school so she won't miss her final year exam the monkey last year got married and I didn't know.

Mind you all these ladies I mentioned non was my girlfriend and neither did I had romantic relationship with them.... Just strictly friends (coursemates, colleagues, church members, neighbors and childhood pals)

gozzlin:


Oga, I've observed that your written English is abysmally poor. I really wonder how you communicate effectively in that blog of yours.

Nothing , No Go See

What Really Matter, Is How Much you make!

You are nothing but a slave.. so na bcus women de open leg na why u de give Dem money.. ur problem worse pass niaja economy

xendra:
Because alot of you are bitter.
1. What's your business with what another man chose to do with his money? Why not go and make your own and dash your choice of people?
2. Can you open leg for him? You open your mouth waaaa and say the man give women money as if it is free.... he is not generous he is trying to get something in return.
3. Why did his so called friend not avoid him If he doesn't like his ways?

Una problem dey una body