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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Rhado: 9:36pm On Jan 09, 2023
Wickedfact:
This is exactly the problem with religion in Nigeria. Since it is not regulated, anyone can wake up and say anything and expect people to follow sheepishly.

Even the Bible doesn't support what this man is saying.

Ibieyomie is quoting from the Old Testament.
The Old Testament where Ibieyomie is quoting from states that tithes and offerings are for Levites. Is Ibieyomie a Levite?
But he is collecting tithe in God's name and spending it on God's behalf.
Upon say you saw the bible reference, 1corithians. How’s first Corinthians Old Testament
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by kaywhy09(m): 9:37pm On Jan 09, 2023
Lol.
Adultery mode activated
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 9:38pm On Jan 09, 2023
staga:
Fasting requires abstinence from all bodily pleasures such as food and sex. There is nothing abnormal and it does not have to take Pastor Ibiyeomie to tell his followers who should know what fasting entails what to do.

Christians who want to fast should know what it entails. How can you be fasting and having sex?
Where in scripture did God or Jesus Christ tell you any of what you claim here regarding fasting? undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Wickedfact: 9:40pm On Jan 09, 2023
Rhado:

Upon say you saw the bible reference, 1corithians. How’s first Corinthians Old Testament

Where in the Bible did it say that married people can't have sex while fasting?
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Wickedfact: 9:41pm On Jan 09, 2023
WhisperedNoise:


I'm even putting the cart before the horse. Please, sir/ma, are you a Christian?

Are you born again? Do you know Christ for yourself?

Or you're following "my Pastor said" even when your Pastor is adding to the word of God and commiting heresy.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by alphachi(m): 9:42pm On Jan 09, 2023
The problem with us Nigerians is that many of us are hippocrites. We are good in condemning others especially men of God in our stupidity and ignorance.

If it was a babalawo that said it, there won't be arguments. Most of the nincompoops condemning it will have gladly fasted for 40 days without sex if babalawo said you will get breakthrough.

What then is fasting? If you as a man has decided to fast and pray to empower yourself spiritually at this 2023 beginning but you can't abstain from sex for some days, then you don't know what you are doing. My friend, stop deceiving yourself. It's not by force.

As for the writer of this thread, you are a liar and deceiver, seeking attention. I don't believe Ibiyeomie used the word "ban". He has the right to advise his members who are doing the fasting to abstain from sex for the period but ofcourse, he's not forcing anyone. Is he sleeping in your bedroom?

Please look for better things to write and stop creating negativity.

I have noticed that most of those that spend their time condemning men of God, are people who aren't doing well in life...Ok. You aren't paying tithes and offerings, yet you are still surfering...

Abeg, go and sit down...

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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by usagee36: 9:44pm On Jan 09, 2023
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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by izicooo(f): 9:48pm On Jan 09, 2023
SmartPolician:
One of the biggest threats to marriages in today's Christendom is marrying ladies who obey their pastors more than their husbands.

These pastors should know their limits.
Chai, you have concluded the whole issue.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by stephanie94l: 9:49pm On Jan 09, 2023
I think he should also add that for couples who can’t stay that long without sex should abstain from fasting so as not to give room to the devil.Left to me, sex should be suspended during fasting.I think he should also add that for couples who can’t stay that long without sex should abstain from fasting so as not to give room to the devil.Left to me, sex should be suspended during fasting....
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by 7arrows: 9:58pm On Jan 09, 2023
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 9:59pm On Jan 09, 2023
alphachi:
■The problem with us Nigerians is that many of us are hippocrites. We are good in condemning others especially men of God in our stupidity and ignorance. If it was a babalawo that said it, there won't be arguments. Most of the nincompoops condemning it will have gladly fasted for 40 days without sex if babalawo said you will get breakthrough.
■What then is fasting? If you as a man has decided to fast and pray to empower yourself spiritually at this 2023 beginning but you can't abstain from sex for some days, then you don't know what you are doing. My friend, stop deceiving yourself. It's not by force.
■As for the writer of this thread, you are a liar and deceiver, seeking attention. I don't believe Ibiyeomie used the word "ban". He has the right to advise his members who are doing the fasting to abstain from sex for the period but ofcourse, he's not forcing anyone. Is he sleeping in your bedroom?
■Please look for better things to write and stop creating negativity.I have noticed that most of those that spend their time condemning men of God, are people who aren't doing well in life...Ok. You aren't paying tithes and offerings, yet you are still suffering...
Abeg, go and sit down...
1. A Babalawo has the freedom to make up his own rules as he goes but those who say they are of Jesus Christ have no such liberty hence the reason why your mog is nothing but a fraud and a scammer. undecided

2. The foolish thing is you don't even know what fasting is as dictated by God Himself since all you seem to understand of it is the lies you have fed from your many pastors and mogs on the subject. God does not answer you when you engage in your starvation-diet fasts because the kind of fasting He ordered has nothing to do with your fasting rituals of today. He made His decree clear in Isaiah 58 and Zechariah 7. undecided
3. So long as your pastor and mog teach you to engage in starvation-diets fasts claiming God will answer you by these rituals, he is nothing but a liar and a scammer using God's name to profit his own kingdom/business here on earth. undecided

4. Your tithes and offerings are also ideas that have nothing to do with that which God commanded of you in Jesus Christ. And so, these mogs and pastors, by lying to you that they do simply take the opportunity to steal from you using God's Name. Jesus Christ warned you lot against these men who will come to steal, to kill, and destroy His flock — using His name — but I see Jesus's message fell on deaf ears. lipsrsealed
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:00pm On Jan 09, 2023
stephanie94l:
I think he should also add that for couples who can’t stay that long without sex should abstain from fasting so as not to give room to the devil.Left to me, sex should be suspended during fasting.I think he should also add that for couples who can’t stay that long without sex should abstain from fasting so as not to give room to the devil.Left to me, sex should be suspended during fasting....
He should add to his repertoire of lies which he sells to you gullible lot using the name of God? undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by 7arrows: 10:02pm On Jan 09, 2023
ChukwuObe:
To all Yoruba youths…. As we head to the polls in few weeks’ time

As another opportunity just beckons on us to pick another leader that will steer the affairs of our nation for the next 4 years, it is important to tell you some history if you are not aware or have been fooled.

Chief Obafemi Awolowo was one of the best finest politicians of his time. In 1979, every region in Nigeria knew that he was the best man for the job of presidency but only Yorubas and Mid-West regions and some pockets of districts in the North trusted and voted for him. We beg our Eastern brothers and sisters to reason with us to vote the man Ojukwu would later call the best President Nigeria never had but they never listened to us. They exercised their rights and decided to vote for Shagari instead. That is why we are where we are today.

In 1999, Yorubas presented again to our eastern neighbours a cerebral Olu Falae who was a better economic manager than OBJ to place Nigeria on the right path. But because Olu Falae’s choice was the preferred candidate of the Yorubas, they voted for a Yoruba enemy instead who is OBJ. Igbos have always been against the interests of Yorubas no matter how good they are

They will never support your good people even if they will support you at all despite living in your midst. To those of you whose parents have benefited immensely from Chief Awolowo, it will be a shame and disgrace to Chief Awolowo’s memories to vote for those whose people made Awolowo ascension to presidency impossible because of hatred and jealousy. Awolowo was even attacked and stoned in Aba by the chilfdren of Belial. Do not romance the enemies of your parents’ benefactors through whom your parents were educated freely with good health

Awolowo and Olu Falae were not good for them then, why should their own be good for you now? They always think they are wiser and better than Yorubas and so only the person they choose must be the best. That is why they are so bitter till today that Yorubas did not vote for Jonathan in 2015 despite voting for him in 2011.

Only bastards will vote those who refused to vote for your own best when they had the opportunity because of hatred. The spirit and good deed of Awolowo will fight anyone that rewards his haters with votes in 2023. You may not be a direct beneficiary of the best politicians Yorubas have ever produced but your parents might have. History will never forget if you choose to romance the enemy of your benefactor just because of ignorance and gullibility as whatsoever you sow today, you or your future generations will reap it.

Please be warned!

U HAVE SAID ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:23pm On Jan 09, 2023
abobote:
But its not right to have sex during fasting
Says who? God? Jesus Christ? Or the men who you call pastors and mogs, those you sell your brains to? undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by gly(m): 10:23pm On Jan 09, 2023
SmartPolician:
One of the biggest threats to marriages in today's Christendom is marrying ladies who obey their pastors more than their husbands.

These pastors should know their limits.

Do not blame the pastor but blame some us...Christians that use pastor as their standard instead of yhe THE WORD.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:24pm On Jan 09, 2023
lukency:
These people are funny ooh! Are you suppose to have sex when fasting? Hmmmm
Did God or Jesus Christ say that? Where? And who told you God is pleased by your Starvation-diet fastings? undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by alphachi(m): 10:25pm On Jan 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. A Babalawo has the freedom to make up his own rules as he goes but those who say they are of Jesus Christ have no such liberty hence the reason why your mog is nothing but a fraud and a scammer. undecided

2. The foolish thing is you don't even know what fasting is as dictated by God Himself since all you seem to understand of it is the lies you have fed from your many pastors and mogs on the subject. God does not answer you when you engage in your starvation-diet fasts because the kind of fasting He ordered has nothing to do with your fasting rituals of today. He made His decree clear in Isaiah 58 and Zechariah 7. undecided
3. So long as your pastor and mog teach you to engage in starvation-diets fasts claiming God will answer you by these rituals, he is nothing but a liar and a scammer using God's name to profit his own kingdom/business here on earth. undecided

4. Your tithes and offerings are also ideas that have nothing to do with that which God commanded of you in Jesus Christ. And so, these mogs and pastors, by lying to you that they do simply take the opportunity to steal from you using God's Name. Jesus Christ warned you lot against these men who will come to steal, to kill, and destroy His flock — using His name — but I see Jesus's message fell on deaf ears. lipsrsealed

You have said absolutely nothing, even Satan can quote the Bible but I haven't seen any reason in what you have said.

You quote scripture that you don't understand, yet you don't even know what fasting is all about, you that is condemning.

I can also see that tithes and offerings are an issue with you, I wonder if anyone forced you to pay them? I still say it again that from those I've seen that complain and argue nonsense over tithes and offerings, usually have a struggling, broke life. Despite their not paying tithes and offerings. I pay tithes and offerings, and am doing very well, hold onto your money

It's also very clear you don't even know anything about the bible, I suggest you hide your ignorance and stop talking of Jesus Christ you don't even know what He taught.

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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:26pm On Jan 09, 2023
Dpharisee:
I wanted to condemn him, then I saw the Bible verse that gave backing to what he said, so I don shut up
Where did God or even Jesus Christ give backing to your starvation-diets first? Then tell us where either said anything about sex when fasting. undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by InvertedHammer: 10:26pm On Jan 09, 2023
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There is nothing spiritual about fasting.

Fast for your health.

People have been brainwashed to believe that the reason they sleep and wake up is because of prayers and fasting. There are millions of people who sleep and wake up everyday. An occurrence in life is a game of probability which is why poverty, illness, bad luck affect prayer warriors at the same rate it affects normal human beings.

If it is by prayers and fasting, Nigeria would have been the best country in the world. But on the contrary, prayers and fasting have been used to entrench laziness.
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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2023
axeman2:
fornication is a terrible sin flee from it
God instead said what is sin is sexual lust in your hearts.....fornication is only an action that may result from the action sin against God - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by drlateef: 10:28pm On Jan 09, 2023
chokekachy:


https://independent.ng/ibiyeomie-bans-couples-from-having-sex-during-fasting/?utm_source=&utm_medium=%5Btwitter%5D



Oh! Christians “eat” themselves while fasting? How strange. Christianity has no rules at all in religious practice.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by WhisperedNoise: 10:30pm On Jan 09, 2023
Wickedfact:


Are you born again? Do you know Christ for yourself?

Or you're following "my Pastor said" even when your Pastor is adding to the word of God and commiting heresy.
Yes sir, I'm born again.
You haven't explained the gaffe you made earlier on by speaking against tithes and offerings on a thread that spoke about fasting. We're you just trying to score rather cheap points by attacking the revered man of God?
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:31pm On Jan 09, 2023
alphachi:
■You have said absolutely nothing, even Satan can quote the Bible but I haven't seen any reason in what you have said.
■You quote scripture that you don't understand, yet you don't even know what fasting is all about, you that is condemning.
■I can also see that tithes and offerings are an issue with you, I wonder if anyone forced you to pay them? I still say it again that from those I've seen that complain and argue nonsense over tithes and offerings, usually have a struggling, broke life. Despite their not paying tithes and offerings. I pay tithes and offerings, and am doing very well, hold onto your money
■It's also very clear you don't even know anything about the bible, I suggest you hide your ignorance and stop talking of Jesus Christ you don't even know what He taught.
1. I see you are afraid to admit you know nothing since what you cling to is all of religion. undecided

2. You understand better yet you don't seem able to help, how come? undecided

3. They are not an issue to me as they are instead defined by God in His Old Law of Moses is the National Constitution of the State of Israel which He gave to the people of Israel in the Land of Canaan - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20. Only a complete fool would attempt to live in a place like Nigerian while adopting a mindset and Law/Constitution that applies say in the Nation of Netherlands. undecided

4. What is instead clear is that you are so full of religious bullsheet that you can't even attempt a reasonable rebuttal to any of what I have mad clear in this. undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by WhisperedNoise: 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Where did God or even Jesus Christ give backing to your starvation-diets first? Then tell us where either said anything about sex when fasting. undecided

Kobo, do we really different bibles?
Didn't Jesus say WHEN you fast?
Didn't Jesus fast 40 days?
Paul said "in much fastings"
Peter engaged in fasts
Abi what exactly are you talking about Jesus not fasting?


Plus, didn't you read the Bible verse that Pastor David quoted?
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
WhisperedNoise:
■Yes sir, I'm born again.
You haven't explained the gaffe you made earlier on by speaking against tithes and offerings on a thread that spoke about fasting. We're you just trying to score rather cheap points by attacking the revered man of God?
■ The thing about being born-again is that even those who will end up in eternal damnation are also born-again, since they too gained access to the Kingdom of God only via the Broad gate which leads to destruction(Hell) at the end, as opposed to gaining access through the Narrow gate which leads to true life(Heaven) at the end - John 3 vs 1 - 8 & Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 & Luke 13 vs 22 - 30. undecided

2. No one who knows Jesus Christ would engage in either of Tithing & offering or starvation-diet rituals. undecided
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Okhuadams(m): 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2023
chokekachy:


https://independent.ng/ibiyeomie-bans-couples-from-having-sex-during-fasting/?utm_source=&utm_medium=%5Btwitter%5D
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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by dochenaj: 10:37pm On Jan 09, 2023
As usual when you come upon Christian threads you see tons of people who know nothing about what is being said, and who have no business with what is being said interjecting and spouting all manner of trash.

Sooner than later, everyone eyes clears.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by WhisperedNoise: 10:39pm On Jan 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
■ The thing about being born-again is that even those who will end up in eternal damnation are also born-again, since they too gained access to the Kingdom of God only via the Broad gate which leads to destruction(Hell) at the end, as opposed to gaining access through the Narrow gate which leads to true life(Heaven) at the end - John 3 vs 1 - 8 & Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 & Luke 13 vs 22 - 30. undecided

2. No one who knows Jesus Christ would engage in either of Tithing & offering or starvation-diet rituals. undecided

1) I didn't direct this particular post to you. Kindly respond to the one I directed to you.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Otunbakayce: 10:51pm On Jan 09, 2023
spencekat:
How?So through out Ramadan fasting,married people can't have sex with their partners?
The most naturally pleasurable thing to human is sex.
During fasting you are supposed to deprive yourself of all form of pleasure.
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by alphachi(m): 10:53pm On Jan 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. I see you are afraid to admit you know nothing since what you cling to is all of religion. undecided

2. You understand better yet you don't seem able to help, how come? undecided

3. They are not an issue to me as they are instead defined by God in His Old Law of Moses is the National Constitution of the State of Israel which He gave to the people of Israel in the Land of Canaan - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20. Only a complete fool would attempt to live in a place like Nigerian while adopting a mindset and Law/Constitution that applies say in the Nation of Netherlands. undecided

4. What is instead clear is that you are so full of religious bullsheet that you can't even attempt a reasonable rebuttal to any of what I have mad clear in this. undecided

Really, am not interested in rebuttals of anything you say because you simply don't know what you are saying. This time am even spending replying your rubbish is a waste of time for me, I just feel like. And for you to keep responding shows the type of dummy you are.

I just felt like responding to someone who claims to know the Bible, yet knows nothing. It's really a fool who believes he knows when he knows nothing.

The simple fact is that the scripture given by the pastor regarding the sex thing is in order. It says ...with consent. That is, if husband and wife agree not to have sex for 21 days during their fasting program, then it's perfectly in order. If they don't agree, such cannot hold, no matter what the pastor or any man says. I will disagree if any pastor is now forcing his members....no, no. Nothing is by force.

He has the right to advise his members how he feels they can do their fasting more effectively. I believe it's the same beginning of the year fasting program many churches do at the start of the year. There's no need in doing something one dsn't property understand, no be by force.

As for the tithes and offerings that is bothering you so much, continue with your old testament bullshit, what's my problem? Since you haven't been paying your tithes and offerings to a pastor or mog, how has your life been? It's not a matter of speaking big grammar but don't have anything to show. My friend, go to sleep. Am done with your rubbish, you can reply as usual grin
Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Ken4Christ: 11:04pm On Jan 09, 2023
There is no law in the New Testament. Pastors should stop making laws. They can only counsel on what you ought to do and not put it as a law.

It is however wise to abstain from sex during fasting. But for a lengthy fast, it could be dangerous for some couples as everyone does not have the same level of self control.

As long as they break their fast at a certain time each day, they can also engage in sex after they break their fast if the urge comes. It's far better than to be tempted to commit adultery or fornication.

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Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Kobojunkie: 11:04pm On Jan 09, 2023
WhisperedNoise:
■Kobo, do we really different bibles? Didn't Jesus say WHEN you fast? Didn't Jesus fast 40 days?
■Paul said "in much fastings" Peter engaged in fasts Abi what exactly are you talking about Jesus not fasting?
■Plus, didn't you read the Bible verse that Pastor David quoted?
1. Scripture never said Jesus Christ planned and fasted for those 40 days. Instead, it is instead written that He was led away by the Spirit of God and ended up fasting for 40 days and 40 nights in pretty much the same way that Moses and Elisha did when they were both out in the wilderness with God - Exodus 34 vs 28 & 1 Kings 19 vs 7 - 14. undecided

2. But Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him are those who obey His teachings and commandments - John 14 vs 15 - 20; His friends are those who do as He says - John 15 vs 14, so why are you bringing Paul in as the judge of that which is Jesus Christ? Why use Paul as a standard and not Jesus Christ? undecided

3. Does the man lifting a verse out-of-context, a fallacy that is typical with all of these mogs and pastors, make him right in some way? undecided

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