I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Is that how girls behave ?

That's how they behave now.

If you have money, just make them an irresistible offer, bang and discharge them.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Congrats... finally you have enrolled in the school of PAIN... it is a correctional facility that will teach you only ONE MAJOR LESSON in Life

NO MONEY, NO LOVE

once you learn that lesson, then you will close your eyes to ladies, curb your wanton deek urges... AND GET BUSY WITH YOUR LIFE AND GET RICH.

Then the same girl will deny she every looked down on you, but by then she will only be good enough for an acquaintance... your level and taste in ladies would have improved.
ALSO
people will treat you and your children and spouse better.... BECAUSE, IN THIS WORLD..... ONLY MONEY AND POWER are respected. Anything less will be ignored, insulted or betrayed.

So if you want to never feel what you felt today. Go and give a proper meaning to your life. Looking at you from up to down means she found you worthless.... NO LADY WILL EASY SPREAD HER LEGS FOR A GUY WHO IS NOT BETTER THAN HER OR AT LEAST NOT LOOKING PROMISING.

Welcome to your first day in the real world.

Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

yrhuhfy113:


Congrats... finally you have enrolled in the school of PAIN... it is a correctional facility that will teach you only ONE MAJOR LESSON in Life

NO MONEY, NO LOVE

once you learn that lesson, then you will close your eyes to ladies, curb your wanton deek urges... AND GET BUSY WITH YOUR LIFE AND GET RICH.

Then the same girl will deny she every looked down on you, but by then she will only be good enough for an acquaintance... your level and taste in ladies would have improved.
ALSO
people will treat you and your children and spouse better.... BECAUSE, IN THIS WORLD..... ONLY MONEY AND POWER are respected. Anything less will be ignored, insulted or betrayed.

So if you want to never feel what you felt today. Go and give a proper meaning to your life. Looking at you from up to down means she found you worthless.... NO LADY WILL EASY SPREAD HER LEGS FOR A GUY WHO IS NOT BETTER THAN HER OR AT LEAST NOT LOOKING PROMISING.

Welcome to your first day in the real world.

Lmao
You really said the real thing, the thing is, I am really aware of everything you said up there,NOT like I want to date any girl.
I just want to use it to build my confidence in approaching ladies.
Thanks for the input

onyeego:
Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

I wish you can elaborate..I will really love to discover that power...But thanks anyway

Iloveu778:

Lmao
You really said the real thing, the thing is, I am really aware of everything you said up there,NOT like I want to date any girl.
I just want to use it to build my confidence in approaching ladies.
Thanks for the input

MONEY IS THE GREATEST BUILDER OF CONFIDENCE..... you need to go to the mall more often and to some village festivals.... UGLY SHORT BILLONAIRES and their tall pretty model-like queens.

MONEY IS THE CONFIDENCE BOOSTER, NOT WOMEN.

yrhuhfy113:


MONEY IS THE GREATEST BUILDER OF CONFIDENCE..... you need to go to the mall more often and to some village festivals.... UGLY SHORT BILLONAIRES and their tall pretty model-like queens.

MONEY IS THE CONFIDENCE BOOSTER, NOT WOMEN.

You are really full of wisdom, Thanks for the brotherly Advice..Appreciates

No matter how love seems to be, I hate love so much.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Lols, it quite simple however you must as a matter of necessity ask yourself first what do you want? What do you seek to achieve in that relationship? Do you want a casual relationship or a life partner?

Secondly start of as friends (though there are exceptions to this) to get to know the lady, you cannot love who you met today, have seen her angry? Have seen her weaknesses? Her flaws? And more importantly her strengths in character, hospitality and ambition? Get to know her person and personality in essence. Does she want something serious or casual?

During that stage of friendship don't dwell too long there and intermittently drop clues as to what you really want, opposite sex no day make friendship for nothing either una sabi for school or una get same interest way boundaries don already day, aside that na for intimacy purpose man day look for woman (this does not necessarily mean sex: companionship.

Then finally ask am out: however always be indifferent if a lady replies you No, it's sad but it is what it is, some will like you and some will not it's the game of life. More so, as a guy never stop improving yourself in your mind, morals and finances, naturally e get ladies way you no go for ever attract bkos of growth and if you stay down e get ladies way you no go fit ever ask out bkos of thier class: there are levels to this thing bro.

Follow a certain yotuber called A.G Hayden on YouTube he will teach you the ways to approach women,..just make sure you watch all his videos,and practice what he teach......

Promise you,you will effortlessly approach women,and you will never make those mistakes men make when approaching women,............I haved tried his techniques works 100%,

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Funny but here are some tips.

1. Don't be swayed by this girls' redudant attitude, simply put — rejection. It's better to be rejected than to regret later not making a move.

2. Truth of the matter is: it's a game of number. The same way you approach this one unsuccessfully today, if you keep up like this every now and then, at least you would be successful with one.

3. Kit up — Dress good. Not necessarily expensive clothes but decent outfit. Along with well kept hair.

4. Conceal your intentions: The moment you stopped her; she already has an idea what you want (her pušsy), so it's up to you to come at her with an intention of being friends and not just straight up — you like her. However after friendship is established and numbers exchanged. You can now begin to signal your interest.

5. Pull back after you signal your interest following constant communication after 2 weeks or a month. If she reaches out to you. Then you in business, if she doesn't then you playing yourself, and she's just leading you on. At that point, Just quit and go hunt for another girl.

6. Learn to be slick with your tongue like lesbians and lawyers. If you don't have an idea. Go study Tbag pattern of talking to convince people in the movie prison break.

7. Never make her the focal point of your existence and treat her like your junior sister after you have gotten her.

8. Always hit on women everywhere you go just for ego boost. Be careful as some will be way out your league.

9. If you can make a girl laugh, you would have successfully completed 50% task to take her to bed, the other 50% is your verbal intercourse.

10. To override these whole step 1-9. Just make money. Get a car and appear rich, that same girl who looked down on you today would be the one to come introduce herself to you tomorrow.

Don’t just into toasting a Nigerian girl, economy hard this days

Start a casual conversation with her, by complimenting her hair or dress or nails, don’t appear weak and unsure, just few words, then ask fir her name, and move on

Do these with lots of different girls first, you need to build your confidence around girls with that strategy, not all of them will respond in the manner you want, no reason am too far

First of all try and be fit


Improve your social skills and confidence by joining a society in uni , unit in church, book or developers club, this helps you in building connections with various women and from time to time you get to know each woman , they'll start visiting you if they find you valuable or attractive


Make yourself valuable in the eyes of women by acquiring useful skills like programming, being a plumber etc.


You can afford it , get a cool motorcycle or power bike



Make your sense of humor more dark and try to neg women
You can start watching comedies with dark humor


Dress maturely
Ditch 15 years old boy outfit and wear more chinos , senator, long sleeve shirt and a dope Nike pam

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Go and read Neil Strauss book 'Penentrating the society of PUA'

A305:


Funny but here are some tips.

1. Don't be swayed by this girls' redudant attitude, simply put — rejection. It's better to be rejected than to regret later not making a move.

2. Truth of the matter is: it's a game of number. The same way you approach this one unsuccessfully today, if you keep up like this every now and then, at least you would be successful with one.

3. Kit up — Dress good. Not necessarily expensive clothes but decent outfit. Along with well kept hair.

4. Conceal your intentions: The moment you stopped her; she already has an idea what you want (her pušsy), so it's up to you to come at her with an intention of being friends and not just straight up — you like her. However after friendship is established and numbers exchanged. You can now begin to signal your interest.

5. Pull back after you signal your interest following constant communication after 2 weeks or a month. If she reaches out to you. Then you in business, if she doesn't then you playing yourself, and she's just leading you on. At that point, Just quit and go hunt for another girl.

6. Learn to be slick with your tongue like lesbians and lawyers. If you don't have an idea. Go study Tbag pattern of talking to convince people in the movie prison break.

7. Never make her the focal point of your existence and treat her like your junior sister after you have gotten her.

8. Always hit on women everywhere you go just for ego boost. Be careful as some will be way out your league.

9. If you can make a girl laugh, you would have successfully completed 50% task to take her to bed, the other 50% is your verbal intercourse.

10. To override these whole step 1-9. Just make money. Get a car and appear rich, that same girl who looked down on you today would be the one to come introduce herself to you tomorrow.

A man without money shouldn't be too bothered about getting dem chicks, money is as what magnet is to iron.

@OP Yes, they like shakara too much but most secretly desire to have a guy they go out with.
Keep practising and you'll get better in the game.. Don't let the hisses or anything break your spirit

yrhuhfy113:


MONEY IS THE GREATEST BUILDER OF CONFIDENCE..... you need to go to the mall more often and to some village festivals.... UGLY SHORT BILLONAIRES and their tall pretty model-like queens.

MONEY IS THE CONFIDENCE BOOSTER, NOT WOMEN.

I can confirm this, it is true

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Most women this days are rude ... especially the young ones . I feel no pity for them when I hear they're unmarried

Btw dont take it personally...she is a foolish girl

Just Be confident , have a good sense of humor and slightly flirty next time ( works for me )

I see no reason to ask a Nigerian girl out because e just be like say wahala sit down you come go dey find am by yourself, most of them are hungry and frustrated

And the best dating tip is to be friends first even tho it's a waste of time sometimes

SWEETPLUM I suspect you here

I also tried approaching a girl that I discovered that she lives in my area on new year's day..

Bitch just left me talking to myself. I just meeve..

I actually bleeped up... Because even if I get the chance to smash her, I probably wouldn't. Unless maybe the konji is very strong.

no' but try and make enough money then ask them out again

Exactly. Rejection is part of life. If he pursues like 10 ladies. 9 reject him, atleast the other one will accept him.

A305:


Funny but here are some tips.

1. Don't be swayed by this girls' redudant attitude, simply put — rejection. It's better to be rejected than to regret later not making a move.

2. Truth of the matter is: it's a game of number. The same way you approach this one unsuccessfully today, if you keep up like this every now and then, at least you would be successful with one.

3. Kit up — Dress good. Not necessarily expensive clothes but decent outfit. Along with well kept hair.

4. Conceal your intentions: The moment you stopped her; she already has an idea what you want (her pušsy), so it's up to you to come at her with an intention of being friends and not just straight up — you like her. However after friendship is established and numbers exchanged. You can now begin to signal your interest.

5. Pull back after you signal your interest following constant communication after 2 weeks or a month. If she reaches out to you. Then you in business, if she doesn't then you playing yourself, and she's just leading you on. At that point, Just quit and go hunt for another girl.

6. Learn to be slick with your tongue like lesbians and lawyers. If you don't have an idea. Go study Tbag pattern of talking to convince people in the movie prison break.

7. Never make her the focal point of your existence and treat her like your junior sister after you have gotten her.

8. Always hit on women everywhere you go just for ego boost. Be careful as some will be way out your league.

9. If you can make a girl laugh, you would have successfully completed 50% task to take her to bed, the other 50% is your verbal intercourse.

10. To override these whole step 1-9. Just make money. Get a car and appear rich, that same girl who looked down on you today would be the one to come introduce herself to you tomorrow.

Approaching girls randomly smells desperation, it doesn’t build any confidence it’ll only make you shameless in the face of shame cos acceptance is all about count/number, this attitude and desperation is directed towards business in quest to make profit not to ordinary person only for the attraction of love and likeness, like you don’t have worth, pride and ego is what makes a man, even those that’ll accept will look more uglier and petty than you,
If you can muster such courage then direct the energy in building your value first, value comes with high respect even you’ll be forced to have higher taste in women

Siminialaye20:
Exactly. Rejection is part of life. If he pursues like 10 ladies. 9 reject him, atleast the other one will accept him.

It’s your likes that accepts suffering as a way of life
No man will want to be rejected by 9 out of 10 ladies remember there’s possibility you can get 10 of 10 ladies

Scoring 1/10 in test is a total failure

obinna58:

It’s your likes that accepts suffering as a way of life
No man will want to be rejected by 9 out of 10 ladies remember there’s possibility you can get 10 of 10 ladies

Scoring 1/10 in test is a total failure

He is actually right.

Rejection is part of life.

You opined that no man will want to be rejected by 9 out 10 ladies.

It's very possible sir and it happens. This isn't a matter of "no man will want to ....", that's a mere wish. Reality is savage.

I believe with tips he is acquiring, along with his experience gain, he would gain confidence quick to mitigate risks and lower number of rejections. Nevertheless,10 out of 10 rejections is very possible when you doing everything wrong.

Who toast girls these days
Use that strength u use in toasting girls to work hard and make your account balance fat and shapeless

Then invest heavily in your self, look good, dress good, eat good food, get a good ride if u can, live your life to the fullest and watch girls trample over you.