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Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Beautiful94: 8:41am On Jan 15, 2023 |
BigBashiru:Sometimes it is not what we want. Some dangerous people appear the most gentle and until we get burnt we will never know who they truly are. Sometimes when i see people say women always go for looks and money i smile, i dont even argue. Sometimes we go for people we think we can build with and at the end, it proves to be a facade. 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Kobojunkie: 8:42am On Jan 15, 2023 |
GlobTrotter:Feel sad? Challenges? LOL.... So, when Osinachi's husband was reduced to kicking his wife and beating her to a pulp on regular basis, you considered that what--- challenges or feeling sad in marriage? If that woman had factored her individual happiness as being of importance in that marriage --- what you consider selfish ---, she would still be alive today and her kids would still have their mother around to care for them. So, you are saying she did good for not jumping out while she was still alive? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Jammy2012(m): 8:43am On Jan 15, 2023 |
babyfaceafrica:Don't mind that guy or girl (because judgements S(he) passes are clouded by emotions rather than logic). S(He) finds it easy to call others' opinions bogus because those do not match his/her own drawn emotional curves. Let give it to him/her, S(he) could quote history, S(he) could give us cause and effects, but his/her conclusions are bereaved of progress or solutions. That could be a pointer of product of broken home. I know people do change, but often times we get to choose our life partners. That man that beat his wife too must have been a product of what we want to avoid; Divorce. We need these celebrities to be careful of the information they feed the young ones. I hope we see past the past 50 years statistics and provide solution for the next 50 years 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by wales4real(m): 8:47am On Jan 15, 2023 |
No sane person will support physical abuse. Most guys that abuse their partners only need rehabilitation which we unfortunately lack in this part of the world. A lot of things must have happened before it got to that stage and it's part of the societal values we've been saying we are lacking. It is animalistic to beat up your wife, in fact a lot of things we do for free here are considered insane in some parts of the world. We are gradually losing our values and promoting divorce is not the right course to make things right ,love. Beautiful94: 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Beautiful94: 8:51am On Jan 15, 2023 |
wales4real:What you said is true 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by bonnyhope: 9:00am On Jan 15, 2023 |
socialmediaman: Your comment is contradictory Divorce is not a taboo in Islam They walk out of marriage at ease 2 Likes |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Neddstark: 9:08am On Jan 15, 2023 |
elonize: https://www.nairaland.com/6359291/aisha-yesufu-criticized-promoting-lgbtq |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Kutunban: 9:10am On Jan 15, 2023 |
socialmediaman: You don't know much about the North then. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by jaeyking(m): 9:25am On Jan 15, 2023 |
socialmediaman: Then you know nothing about the northern part of the country except what you see online The north has more divorce cases than you can imagine which is settle and backed by the Sharia court. The divorce case can be due to the man having big gbola, the man who is obviously far older than the lady not being ble to satisfy her sexually or even if the woman is just tired of the marriage. One thing about them is that they don't publicize their divorce cases But divorce cases happen alot and it will be quite funny when you learn what caused it 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Kobojunkie: 9:30am On Jan 15, 2023 |
jaeyking:No mind southerners who claim divorce is taboo yet marriage abandonment is concerned regular occurrence even though the victims refuse to accept it is pretty much same as divorce for shame. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Ikemba007: 9:45am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Harddiskng: Yes, happily married. Not unhappily married. 2 Likes |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by seanwilliam(m): 9:49am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Jammy2012:What’s your advice on girls raised by single mother 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by go100: 9:59am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Check well, some man/men is/are knacking this woman this campaign period. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by AmuDimpka: 10:05am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:DIVORCE IS SIN |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Jammy2012(m): 10:08am On Jan 15, 2023 |
seanwilliam: 1. It is hard for women with issue of husband demise. This scenario could take toll on the female children especially. The woman who did not or could not marry will have to deal with responsibility in one way or the other; Some find a legit and paying job, some engage in promiscuity to feed the children (which means female children will also see promiscuity as a source of income as they come of age). The legit and working class single mother could have little or no monitoring capability over the children, especially the girl child. This girl child become a victim of the society remodeling. The society gives answers to her curiosity, rather than from the mother. The cycle will still continue from there. 2. Some single mothers become so bitter that they recruit their children into hating men and make them see their bodies as weapons of torture and extortion to men. These set of mother's manipulate their children into believing their fathers was/were bad men. They turn feminists overnight, knowing deep down that they don't have that happiness too. The funny and terrific thing is that, the psychology of the female children are now adjusted into believing that they can also have the capability of nurturing their children alone too without the help of a man. So, any little misunderstanding, is the last straw that break their Camel's back. They hardly tolerate male genders playing their roles as husbands and fathers. These children never knew what having a father feels like, they don't see the need for that with their children |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by donbenie(m): 10:11am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Harddiskng:She is not the reason for their failed and unhappy marriage.. If you are not happy in your marriage,go your separate ways.. Life is too short to be bothered by what people like you would say. 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Rocktation(f): 10:15am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Hate it all you want, but she's right. 2 Likes |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by phemmyfour: 10:25am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Divoc19:it's not....it's the social media that bring the news closer to us unlike before |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by aygafsam11(m): 10:54am On Jan 15, 2023 |
socialmediaman: Northern Muslim divorce like mad o... Divorce in Hausa land is normal... You will see a lady of 21 or 22 years old already divorced... Many divorce just that they don't advertise it like the west or other part of the country... If you go to Court in the Northern part of this country 85% of cases is Divorce and rape. I might be wrong but he been in the north for a decade so.... 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Saintinoo(m): 10:57am On Jan 15, 2023 |
socialmediaman: Oga Divorce is not a taboo in the North, infact it is Islamically backed. 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Saintinoo(m): 11:00am On Jan 15, 2023 |
sotall: So why is she not divorced already, do you think she doesn't have problems in her home too? 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Saintinoo(m): 11:01am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Divoc19: Your ancestors never divorced. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by wales4real(m): 11:01am On Jan 15, 2023 |
So much thoughts in a single post! Jammy2012: |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Emola12(m): 11:02am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Aufbauh:jumping from one party to another is divorce U need medical attention be fast |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by NEUDUDE: 11:09am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Definitely... Exactly why paying bride price is useless |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by SIRTee15: 11:15am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Gandrova: Islam that promotes polygamy, child marriage, beating of wives and subjugation of women. Islam is the last religion to teach about true marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Stricher: 11:24am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Jammy2012: Maximum respect 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by CheapHomes1: 11:31am On Jan 15, 2023 |
socialmediaman: Divorce isn't a taboo in the muslim north 2 Likes |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by Nobody: 11:35am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Frustrated feminist always sing for joy when they hear the news of a divorced couple, it gives them an orgasm. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by FireUpNow(m): 11:51am On Jan 15, 2023 |
She should tell this to her relatives and children.Did her father and mother got divorced? |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by nedekid: 12:11pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
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Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by CaptainFM1: 12:27pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Harddiskng: I suppose if she's not happy and her marriage is no longer working, then she will divorce. The truth is the subject of Divorce is always viewed with sentiments but it's often the best and in most cases the only solution for a marriage that is not working. It's no longer fashionable to stay put in a marriage where either or both spouses are cheating or where domestic violence is happening. Yeah, so if her marriage is stable, she has no reason to divorce. 2 Likes |
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