Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Not a good family

Dont do relationship with her oo...you have everything to lose because whether you are aware of it or not you'll be affected by her emotional baggage while you're dealing with your own problems....just be friends with her or Bleep her and move on

Stenewiser:
Not a good family

Thanks

She's in America right

Rayban25:
... Bleep her and move on

As a redpiller

Ikennaford:
She's in America right

No, naija

A real man loves and cherish his woman no matter how her past is /was...

Kindly worship the ground she walks on simp..

BISHOPCHARLIE:


No, naija

Then your story is fake

Nyascobar1414:
A real man loves and cherish his woman no matter how her past is /was...

Kindly worship the ground she walks on simp..

You want to add to her sorrows. Heartless man.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

If you want to MARRY HER... she needs to be CHECKED SPIRITUALLY and Medically and Psychologically. Be sure, you will not be suffering for protecting her.... How is her finances? Does she have sex in the dream with an unknown man? Does she have badluck in relationship with men before you?

pls do thorough check up if you must continue...
NO ONE IS A SAINT.... but may we not marry currsed partners in the name of love.


If she is cleansed and free... then marry her BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO CUT HER OFF FROM HER FAMILY.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps, I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:
1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.
2. She lost 2 of her brothers.
3. One of her sisters is missing.
4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.
5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.
6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Why are you asking us what we feel about all that? Did anyone put a gun to your head to cause you to date this girl? If you do not think you can handle her past, then set the girl free abeg make she go find for herself someone who would appreciate her without making an issue of her background and past abeg!

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Village people are monitoring the family Ip with an iPhone 14 pro
Choose wisely

yrhuhfy113:


If you want to MARRY HER... she needs to be CHECKED SPIRITUALLY and Medically and Psychologically. Be sure, you will not be suffering for protecting her.... How is her finances? Does she have sex in the dream with an unknown man? Does she have badluck in relationship with men before you?

pls do thorough check up if you must continue...
NO ONE IS A SAINT.... but may we not marry currsed partners in the name of love.


If she is cleansed and free... then marry her BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO CUT HER OFF FROM HER FAMILY.

God bless you

Life really dealt with your lady. These past-present problems she faced and still facing are quite enormously unpleasant, especially as regards your intention towards her.

In this life, I don't want stress. Any relationship that threatens my sanity or peace of mind, a relationship that bring emotional pains as karma for the past sins of my partner is not for me.

However, if you can handle her past, go ahead, perhaps, you are her destiny helper.

Hmmmm.
Deep.

Demigod22:
Life really dealt with your lady. These past-present problems she faced and still facing are quite enormously unpleasant, especially as regards your intention towards her.

In this life, I don't want stress. Any relationship that threatens my sanity or peace of mind, a relationship that bring emotional pains as karma for the past sins of my partner is not for me.

However, if you can handle her past, go ahead, perhaps, you are her destiny helper.

Just sounds like she’s been through hardships, to be honest most of the things listed don’t actually have anything to do with her directly as an individual

When you say her sister’s husband ‘slept’ with her, it’s not clear whether it was consensual or rape

Don’t think people should be penalised for bad things happening to them or people around them that they had no control over.

If you can’t move on from these things however, cut the relationship and don’t waste her time

OP, Marry Her..

Her Life is so Broken
BUT
You can be the Carpenter to Fix up Everywhere!

RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

The bolded is very scary, Some women get mind Sha!

To be honest this matter hard brother!, But this is a typical American lifestyle.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

If she grew up in that system then there is a problem
She will mirror those characters without even knowing
And for you to come here to cry out means you know wetin you Dey see but the emotion called love is blinding your rational thinking that is telling you to Japa
This I have seen
If you no run you then anything way your eye and mental health see for front na you sabi

ibkayee:
Just sounds like she’s been through hardships, to be honest most of the things listed don’t actually have anything to do with her directly as an individual

When you say her sister’s husband ‘slept’ with her, it’s not clear whether it was consensual or rape

Don’t think people should be penalised for bad things happening to them or people around them that they had no control over.

If you can’t move on from these things however, cut the relationship and don’t waste her time

Lol mama way born am get 6children from 5 men
This same mama train am ooo
Unless she is conscious enough she will repeat almost the same pattern

Ikennaford:

Then your story is fake

I have seen 5 kids by 4 different fathers in Nigeria. All boys...
They do fight every time over the mom property after the disappearance of their mom suffering from mental illness. . .
So stuff like this do happen in Nigeria too and not just America. Though more common in America because those America women love to have different men paying them child support.
They won't work. All they do is drugs and whoring around forming feminist independent woman and at the end of the day slip into depression and end up at a mental care home

Hian.

Of all you listed in this utter chaos, number 4 is the one that sticks out for me because it speaks to her character. And for me, loyalty is PARAMOUNT.

All of us have a story but omo, unless you want to be a firefighter or you’ve been told this is your true wife, JP.

You have all this CONCERNS and what? You want us to remove some of the catastrophies from the list?











F001

Wetin be this

Run far away from that girl and her family, Shey dem need to tell you ni

Nyascobar1414:
A real man loves and cherish his woman no matter how her past is /was...

Kindly worship the ground she walks on simp..

All your comments no dey pass woman matter.
Las las na @shewo you got marry.

You are most likely attracted to her because you are like her.

I mean, how does a responsible person even stay with such girl knowing that family history?

Stop asking questions. Marry her and see action movie.

Nonsense.

ibkayee:
Just sounds like she’s been through hardships, to be honest most of the things listed don’t actually have anything to do with her directly as an individual

When you say her sister’s husband ‘slept’ with her, it’s not clear whether it was consensual or rape

Don’t think people should be penalised for bad things happening to them or people around them that they had no control over.

If you can’t move on from these things however, cut the relationship and don’t waste her time

Nobody is blaming her.Life dealt her a bad hand.He didn't rape her,I think it was consensual.Women like her dey quick looseguard.Any form of love like this dem don open leg.
If they don't love you,and you love them you go suffer.Their choice of men is usually trash.
She should go and fix herself first before she enters a relationship with him.