Nyascobar1414:
A real man loves and cherish his woman no matter how her past is /was...

Kindly worship the ground she walks on simp..

See complete grown up man in 2023, chai we have lost it.

jimmychang:



Nobody is blaming her.Life dealt her a bad hand.He didn't rape her,I think it was consensual.Women like her dey quick looseguard.Any form of love like this dem don open leg.
If they don't love you,and you love them you go suffer.Their choice of men is usually trash.
She should go and fix herself first before she enters a relationship with him.

Has the OP confirmed this?

Nigga tell her to go and fix herself and all before she enters a relationship with you.So many baggage omo.

ibkayee:

Has the OP confirmed this?

He didn't say rape.It is not hard to say.You want to take the blame of her or what?

There are women who sleep with their sisters husband most times it isn't rape

Ehinjuola:


See complete grown up man in 2023, chai we have lost it.

Na sarcasm.Read before you comment

jimmychang:


He didn't say rape.It is not hard to say.You want to take the blame of her or what?

There are women who sleep with their sisters husband most times it isn't rape

Maybe the OP should actually clarify whether it was or not before you start making assertions.

Mercury12:
I have seen 5 kids by 4 different fathers in Nigeria. All boys...
They do fight every time over the mom property after the disappearance of their mom suffering from mental illness. . .
So stuff like this do happen in Nigeria too and not just America. Though more common in America because those America women love to have different men paying them child support.
They won't work. All they do is drugs and whoring around forming feminist independent woman and at the end of the day slip into depression and end up at a mental care home

I thought You peeps said foreign women are the best and they are very hardworking and supportive? I’m not understanding

Persephone1:
As long as she's healed, you can GTFOH!

She spills too much though!

Way too much. Some secrets should be left untold but when women fall in love, miracles happen.

Are you dating Tinubu?

Run away.

BISHOPCHARLIE:


Thanks

So which of the issues mentioned is directly her fault?

Apart from the sister's husband which could have been coerced

Iyawo buruku se fe ana buruku ni o se ni
(Go find an interpreter)

The energy you're going to expend on healing and tolerating her, invest it on yourself.

Stupid and fake stories

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Addams family

Comot body, them no dey tell person

Poor girl. She has so much emotional baggage. The best she can do for herself is heal and strive to be a better version of her past. And if you can't be that person whilst she walks through that phase, please walk away. I hope she stops spilling way too much about herself as well. Some things are better left unsaid. Trust me, nobody cares.

Lol! Even your own mother won't ever allow you to marry such girl.
Girls like her do make good wife if they are not close to their mother. Her sisters who aren't close to their mother will definitely be good wives to their respective husbands.
Since she is close to her mother if you mistakenly marry her, wo you will regret it each day.

Wotoporiously speaking

Hmmm

simplepee:


I thought You peeps said foreign women are the best and they are very hardworking and supportive? I’m not understanding

They are just confused beings.

Op, this is a lot of baggage there, I personally won't go into a relationship with someone like this but at the same time I wouldn't say she doesn't deserve to find love because of her past or her mother's lifestyle, I would advise you thread carefully, and if you have decided to continue the relationship, she needs a lot of counselling, even her health needs to be checked.

The 1 number reason is a strong warning signal.

Too many red flags...

UyaiIncomparabl:


Way too much. Some secrets should be left untold but when women fall in love, miracles happen.

Women hardly love

She spills so she can garner sympathy and then guyman go commit scarce resources

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Jaapaaaa

arantess:

Women hardly love

She spills so she can garner sympathy and then guyman go commit scarce resources

You must be mistaken. I don't know the women you have been with or know, but women love wholeheartedly when they want to.

Everything isn't black and white the way you think.

ibkayee:
Just sounds like she’s been through hardships, to be honest most of the things listed don’t actually have anything to do with her directly as an individual

When you say her sister’s husband ‘slept’ with her, it’s not clear whether it was consensual or rape

Don’t think people should be penalised for bad things happening to them or people around them that they had no control over.

If you can’t move on from these things however, cut the relationship and don’t waste her time

It has and will always have on her life

BISHOPCHARLIE

Abort mission bro, abort mission I say.

If you fail to listen or allow your dick control you, it won't end very well my brother.

I was in your shoes, saw all of these but thought it mattered not. Na when I don marry the disaster I come understand say truly truly, na long thing snake dey born.

I go put hand for woman wey her mama born 6 of dem for 6 different men. Some of the men her mother had kids with would also abuse her and her sisters...

She was busy bleeping every and all bodies around and without me go reach small boys wey I dey send on errand. Laslas I encouraged her to properly and efficiently disgrace herself by herself and for herself.

It ain't effing worth it.

If you desire to taste and feel disaster, by all means, go ahead.

Wetin my young eye see my big mouth no dey fit talk am finish.

Interesting...

Persephone1:
As long as she's healed, you can GTFOH!

She spills too much though!

Lols, you know better, when a woman falls in love deeply, there's really nothing she can hide.

BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Chief Abort Mission if you like yourself

yrhuhfy113:


If you want to MARRY HER... she needs to be CHECKED SPIRITUALLY and Medically and Psychologically. Be sure, you will not be suffering for protecting her.... How is her finances? Does she have sex in the dream with an unknown man? Does she have badluck in relationship with men before you?

pls do thorough check up if you must continue...
NO ONE IS A SAINT.... but may we not marry currsed partners in the name of love.


If she is cleansed and free... then marry her BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO CUT HER OFF FROM HER FAMILY.

I repeat , don't Marry her ..Don't Marry her

Fun facts about life.
No one has figured it out. People will advice you, but they also have their own demons.

In the end, do what makes you happy. We don't have much time to leave say you're nearing 30yrs, in the next 40yrs, you're nearly old and irrelevant. So better chop life now