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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by kelmicheal: 2:32pm On Jan 15, 2023
These family needs a deliverer God can use you as a tool to break their spells if only you are a child of God and a prayerful christian
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Yusufisraelj(m): 2:33pm On Jan 15, 2023
Ofadaman:
Fun facts about life.
No one has figured it out. People will advice you, but they also have their own demons.

In the end, do what makes you happy. We don't have much time to leave say you're nearing 30yrs, in the next 40yrs, you're nearly old and irrelevant. So better chop life now

True
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Max82: 2:33pm On Jan 15, 2023
Family background check is good, and another for the fact that she sleeps with her sister's husband ur brother might sleep with her one day if u married her unless she has now truely take God as her saviour and really sorry for her sins in the past.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:34pm On Jan 15, 2023
Nothing is wrong with her now.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by REALretep(m): 2:34pm On Jan 15, 2023
BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?
Red flags everywhere
Las las everybody get red flags... including you OP
Have you slept with her? Abi you have already put her in the family way

Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by TDstarr: 2:42pm On Jan 15, 2023
Imagine me sleeping with my brothers girlfriend talkless of wife , very gutter behavior , and my bro will be alive and he won’t know , talkless of a woman , she is a dirty human being , run as fast as you can

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by AreaFada2: 2:44pm On Jan 15, 2023
@ Bishopcharlie , resident feminist-wannabes will tell you love is blind, it's not her fault, she didn't ask to be born into that family, nobody is perfect, you can rescue her, etc.

If kassala burst 3 years into marriage and you come here to complain, same people will ask "did anyone force you to marry her?" shocked shocked
You can hardly ever win in this scenario.

Don't marry out of pity, you are not a saviour. Unless your name is Saint Saviour. grin cheesy
If you want to continue, ensure that you have enough resilience, patience and a big reserve tank to tolerant all kinds of the many issues.

Stone wey dem see wey dey fly come nor dey blind person eye.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Ulunne777(f): 2:45pm On Jan 15, 2023
She mist come from a very poor home.
Several of the points shows Ppl who have come to terms with whatever life throws at them.

Its your call though.Watch her and make your decision.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by budusky05(m): 2:47pm On Jan 15, 2023
Even today sunday you are telling such tales by moonlight
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by macho44(m): 2:48pm On Jan 15, 2023
Ikennaford:
She's in America right
Ma Niggy grin
You know how dem bitches over there be having emotional baggages here and there, been there, done that cheesy

Are you a football fan? Check my siggy and connect with other hyper football fans like yourself in the Fans ChatRoom grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ugodson(m): 2:49pm On Jan 15, 2023
Run o!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:53pm On Jan 15, 2023
Ehinjuola:


See complete grown up man in 2023, chai we have lost it.
kiss

Look at his last statement.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by bluefilm: 2:54pm On Jan 15, 2023
BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?

Apart from her brother in law sleeping with her, to me, all the other things you mentioned are inconsequential, most especially if she is truly committed to you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Lovelydaisies: 2:55pm On Jan 15, 2023
Rayban25:
Dont do relationship with her oo...you have everything to lose because whether you are aware of it or not you'll be affected by her emotional baggage while you're dealing with your own problems....just be friends with her or Bleep her and move on


Why do you guys like to advise people to "bl**p and move on"? Is it a good piece of advice? If it were you, your sister or someone dear to you, would you be happy?

If you don't like a type of soup, it's best not to taste the meat.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:56pm On Jan 15, 2023
simplepee:


I thought You peeps said foreign women are the best and they are very hardworking and supportive? I’m not understanding lipsrsealed

That character is known mostly with black American women. Foreign white girls are actually loving and caring!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 2:57pm On Jan 15, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Way too much. Some secrets should be left untold but when women fall in love, miracles happen. cheesy

It will be worse when the man eventually finds out himself!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by izubext007: 2:57pm On Jan 15, 2023
Take her to moutain of fire � and miracle ministry, i smell accestoria curse.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ofuonyebi: 3:00pm On Jan 15, 2023
Real life is often a mixture of honey and bitter-collar
sometimes we fall a victim of events of life of which destiny hands over to us..

The lady may not have an evil destiny and may end up to be a good wife
despite her stormy past..

everyone has a past and sometimes we are innocent in ALL
Give her a chance if you feels that he loves you deeply

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:01pm On Jan 15, 2023
MyVILLAGEpeople:


It will be worse when the man eventually finds out himself!

Spill what is necessary but not all. And no way he would have known all that without being told.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 3:01pm On Jan 15, 2023
gaby:
BISHOPCHARLIE

Abort mission bro, abort mission I say.

If you fail to listen or allow your dick control you, it won't end very well my brother.

I was in your shoes, saw all of these but thought it mattered not. Na when I don marry the disaster I come understand say truly truly, na long thing snake dey born.

I go put hand for woman wey her mama born 6 of dem for 6 different men. Some of the men her mother had kids with would also abuse her and her sisters...

She was busy bleeping every and all bodies around and without me go reach small boys wey I dey send on errand. Laslas I encouraged her to properly and efficiently disgrace herself by herself and for herself.

It ain't effing worth it.

If you desire to taste and feel disaster, by all means, go ahead.

Wetin my young eye see my big mouth no dey fit talk am finish.

You went ahead to marry a whoooore even with all the evident redflags. These are the kinds of things that happens when a man refuses to use his brains and allowing emotions to override him!

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 3:03pm On Jan 15, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Spill what is necessary but not all. And no way he would have known all that without being told.

Well, for a man like me I will definitely find out myself even if she doesn't tell me.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by bugatti02(m): 3:09pm On Jan 15, 2023
Not a good ground to step on. Don't be carried away by love... You will likely regret your steps soon or later. Run as fast as you can. All this are bad. Don't ignore or over look.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by fmone: 3:09pm On Jan 15, 2023
Family background and checks are very important but beyond that we have God Almighty who can turn situations and circumstances around bringing out beauty out of seemingly ugly and unpleasant situations.

If both of you have faith in God and are firm believers in Him, through the weapon of prayer, you can break the link with all these and get God step in for His divine intervention and watch Him transform your lives.

Remember the story of Jabez in the Bible - 1 Chronicles 4:9-10 :
Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, "I gave birth to him in pain."

Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, "Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain." And God granted his request.

The counsel and prayers of a true man of God cannot be overemphasized as well.

God bless
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by valentineuwakwe(m): 3:10pm On Jan 15, 2023
If you can deal with all thus issues....you can stay with her but pls if you cant better tell her now and leave!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Zeewirld: 3:11pm On Jan 15, 2023
BISHOPCHARLIE:
Hi peeps,

I'm dating this babe I find appealing and I want to get serious with but I have a few concerns:

1. Her mum was married multiple times, had 6 kids for 5 men and ended single.

2. She lost 2 of her brothers.

3. One of her sisters is missing.

4. Her sister's husband slept with her in the past, though her sister never knew.

5. Her siblings and their spouses don't talk to her mom, she's the only one showing her love.

6. Her younger sister was married 10 years ago...

What do you feel guys?
..We have bad people coming out from good family,and we have good persons coming out from terrible, horrible and bad families. Nobody decides the family that they come out from as much as how they can determine how they decide to make a great meaning of their lives.

What are the red flags about her as a person? Is she weak ?
Is she honest?
What is her value beliefs?
What is her idea about marriage?
What is her outlook to life?


Those are more important

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ajiboyeshola(m): 3:13pm On Jan 15, 2023
Honestly, am disappointed at people's responses here. when someone has a bad past and you discover it, to me it means you have a role to play in her life at the present for a better future. what if she didn't tell you all her past? what would you have done? my friend the choice is yours.do as it pleases you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:17pm On Jan 15, 2023
MyVILLAGEpeople:


Well, for a man like me I will definitely find out myself even if she doesn't tell me.

You can't find out everything no matter how hard you try. Don't stress it.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Freerhyme1(m): 3:18pm On Jan 15, 2023
Nyascobar1414:
A real man loves and cherish his woman no matter how her past is /was...

Kindly worship the ground she walks on simp..


Her past

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 3:25pm On Jan 15, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


You can't find out everything no matter how hard you try. Don't stress it.

I have been in a couple of relationships so I know what I'm talking about! Infact sometimes the truth just play out itself. If she is acting too smart, I will make her get drunk (before then I must have known the password to her phone lool) check her chats. This is where you will find out everything you need to know. That's how I discovered my Ex who told me about her uncle and they used to talk on the phone like family members were actually fvcking. He isn't her uncle but sugar daddy and I discovered she also has a kid. Naso I for marry her if I know wise.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Angrygoat: 3:26pm On Jan 15, 2023
Daft student

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