Harddiskng:
A woman that is happily married and wouldn’t want to leave her husband is telling other married women to be comfortable with divorce

I find scenarios like this common among women, I wonder why

Comprehension is key in life. Have it, it’s good

Divoc19:
Divorce is a new trend in our society
Divorce is here to stay
The more people realize that religion is a scam, the more they get divorced and live a happier life like our ancestors

Why bother marrying?

BigBashiru:


the woman saying "have mercy on me"....its the women themselves that choose those types of men that beat them up often because they are attracted to them....

so since she chose him and he turned out to be an abuser, she has no choice but to die there in that marriage? She can’t leave because she already chose him in the first place?

I’m imploring you to think before you respond

Aufbauh:
Is that the reason why your principal Obi is jumping from one party to the other?
Even divorcing his 2019 hubby Atiku in 2022 without prior notice. Not fair ma'am.

#tableshaker.

bulablu bulabulabu

cococandy:
so since she chose him and he turned out to be an abuser, she has no choice but to die there in that marriage? She can’t leave because she already chose him in the first place?

I’m imploring you to think before you respond

Have you not heard that women love abusive men and are attracted to abusive men.... so in many instances they themselves do not want to leave the abusive men... its only after their attraction to them fails that they decide to leave.....

BigBashiru:


Have you not heard that women love abusive men and are attracted to abusive men.... so in many instances they themselves do not want to leave the abusive men... its only after their attraction to them fails that they decide to leave.....

That doesn’t answer the question though. She chose him. Does that mean she shouldn’t leave? Yes or no

cococandy:


That doesn’t answer the question though. She chose him. Does that mean she shouldn’t leave? Yes or no

She shouldn't leave....see bah....if everyone starts leaving ooonce it doesn't suit them then there will be no marriage again....that's the truth....

Those that tend to leave once it no longer suits them are WOMEN!! There are bad guys too....but on average guys can stay in a marriage even if they are not happy. The same cannot be said of females... on average of course....there are exceptions both ways...

Bintdawood:



She's samthing else fa.

Sister you are so Beautiful are you avaliable to complete the other half of A Brother's Deen ?

Harddiskng:
A woman that is happily married and wouldn’t want to leave her husband is telling other married women to be comfortable with divorce

I find scenarios like this common among women, I wonder why

You lack total understanding of her point.
She isn't encouraging people to divorce, but saying if it happens, people should learn to accept it as a reality of life, especially when it's done to protect a person's happiness and mental well being.

envoymedia:
Nigerian human rights activist, Aisha Yesufu has said that happiness of a married couple matters more than longevity of a marriage, IGBERETV reports.

She said this while reacting to reports that actors Patrick and Iretiola Doyle's marriage is over.

She wrote on her Twitter handle;



https://twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1614152609727758339?t=1zxo8pdLO0jUM2TQXhkxyw&s=19

Women get more tired of marriage nowadays.
Their fulfilment is simply to have been a Mrs before and nothing more.

Very vain set of people...

Marriage is overrated

simplypj:


Why bother marrying?

SIRTee15:


Islam that promotes polygamy, child marriage, beating of wives and subjugation of women. Islam is the last religion to teach about true marriage.

That is why I said you lack common sense. Islam detest maltreatment of women and children. It is the only Religion that promote women Right.
As for polygamy you made mention, It wasn't just because of lust it was ordained by God if you can be just and fair in treatment.

Efiko don drop quote.

MeaslesMumpsRub:

Sister you are so Beautiful are you avaliable to complete the other half of A Brother's Deen ?

Thank you!

Aufbauh:
Is that the reason why your principal Obi is jumping from one party to the other?
Even divorcing his 2019 hubby Atiku in 2022 without prior notice. Not fair ma'am.

#tableshaker.

Dey shake table while PO is shaking the country Mr Reno

Gandrova:
That is why I said you lack common sense. Islam detest maltreatment of women and children. It is the only Religion that promote women Right.
As for polygamy you made mention, It wasn't just because of lust it was ordained by God if you can be just and fair in treatment.

Muhammad clearly stated it's permissible for husband to beat his wife, u can't even deny that.
Mention one right bestowed upon women in marriage according to Islam. because last time I checked, afghan Muslim govt has banned all women from going to school or working.

What a load of crock

BigBashiru:


She shouldn't leave....see bah....if everyone starts leaving ooonce it doesn't suit them then there will be no marriage again....that's the truth....

Those that tend to leave once it no longer suits them are WOMEN!! There are bad guys too....but on average guys can stay in a marriage even if they are not happy. The same cannot be said of females... on average of course....there are exceptions both ways...

cococandy:
What a load of crock

have you not left your boyfriend/ husband tell me the truth...

SIRTee15:


Muhammad clearly stated it's permissible for husband to beat his wife, u can't even deny that.
Mention one right bestowed upon women in marriage according to Islam. because last time I checked, afghan Muslim govt has banned all women from going to school or working.

For you to have lied against our Noble prophet, I rest my case.

Gandrova:
For you to have lied against our Noble prophet, I rest my case.

"Men are qawwamun in relation to women, according to what God has favored some over others and according to what they spend from their wealth. Righteous women are qanitat, guarding the unseen according to what God has guarded. Those [women] whose nushuz you fear, admonish them, and abandon them in bed, and strike them. If they obey you, do not pursue a strategy against them. Indeed, God is Exalted, Great."
Quran 4.34
Those are the exact words of Mohammed undiluted. I don't have to lie to tarnish his image, he already done a good job at that.

Divoc19:
Divorce is a new trend in our society
Divorce is here to stay
The more people realize that religion is a scam, the more they get divorced and live a happier life like our ancestors

those women ain't happy being alone, but continue in your divorce

Cromagnon:
those women ain't happy being alone, but continue in your divorce

They may not be happy being alone but I bet you they are happier than those who are married but lonely in marriage. They are probably even happier than those who are having to endure abuse regularly in marriage.

Kobojunkie:
They may not be happy being alone but I bet you they are happier than those who are married but lonely in marriage.

We will never know
All we do know is they are all on anti depressants and the married ones are not.

They are probably even happier than those who are having to endure abuse regularly in marriage.

why you should marry with sense

Cromagnon:
■We will never know. All we do know is they are all on anti depressants and the married ones are not.
■why you should marry with sense

1. Na you give them anti-depressants?

2. So you would advice your daughter to marry so she too can get abused?

Divoc19:
Divorce is a new trend in our society
Divorce is here to stay
The more people realize that religion is a scam, the more they get divorced and live a happier life like our ancestors

How many religious groups do you know about or you just wish to spread your ignorance here?

idrisaleo1:
How many religious groups do you know about or you just wish to spread your ignorance here?

She is right that religion is a scam.

Neddstark:
This hypocrite should stop wearing a hijab to deceive people that she is religious. Her views are sick for a muslim woman. Supporting homosexuality, now divorce.

Divorce isn't encouraged in Islam but it's allowed. There's nothing like till death do us apart in Islam. It's till when you can fulfill God's plan to each other. If you know you'll find that hard to do, it's better you divorce to prevent sinning.

sammirano:
What does a muslim knows about the sanctity of marriage, she is excised.

Reasonable enough to know that there might be problems along the line. And instead of giving the son of Mr A to B, punching each other every day, it gives you both the freedom to choose peace and happiness. The God of Jesus is All-Wise, All-Knowing.

socialmediaman:
That's what some people call "Wokeness".

Divorce is like a common "taboo" in many parts of Nigeria, especially the predominantly muslim north, and the city centers of the south especially the south west. It's also fast rising in the old eastern region.

PS: for those quoting me out of context, please understand the use of common “taboo” here, something that is common but not discussed publicly

I would want to believe that you understand not what you're writing. The north would rather divorce and remarry from the same neighborhood than give the child of Eze to Ademola.

Kobojunkie:
She is right that religion is a scam.

Judging Islam and other religions that give the right to divorce using Christianity's faulty lens is lazy and unwise to say the least. The writer should accuse Christianity of being unreal because most its doctrines go against commonsense. One is its position on divorce.

idrisaleo1:
■Judging Islam and other religions that give the right to divorce using Christianity's faulty lens is lazy and unwise to say the least.
2. The writer should accuse Christianity of being unreal because most its doctrines go against commonsense. One is its position on divorce.

1. This isn't about judging them by the faults of Christianity at all. All religions have faults given they are all built on theories and ideas cooked up by men with which to wield power and control over the minds and lives of their fellow men.

2. Duh!

Kobojunkie:
1. This isn't about judging them by the faults of Christianity at all. All religions have faults given they are all built on theories and ideas cooked up by men with which to wield power and control over the minds and lives of their fellow men.

2. Duh!

I wouldn't do a thing to convince you about your perception of religion. What I will ask you is to point out one cooked up idea or theories as you defined it when Islam gives both the men and women the right to seek divorce. Is that to wield powers over your thoughts or you are simply being dishonest to yourself?

And I say again, don't judge Islam or any other religious groups under the faulty lens of Christianity. Islam is a perfect religion that not only speaks to your faith, it does to your logic as well.