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Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by vickydevoka(m): 5:45pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Omoawoke:It's a one sided story , so I can't give any advice. When the husband tell his ,I will be able to know what to do |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by expert234: 6:21pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ColdHunter: Has she tried to talk to her husband? Have they tried to resolve the issue amicably?, Have they involved a marriage counselor? What of family members? For the sake of the kids, please advise them to see a marriage counselor The likes of Kobojunkie are not enjoying good marriage. So, you cant expect them to guide you right. When their lives are upside down, they will be looking for how to turn the lives of other people upside down. Please, ask her to seek resolution rather than dissolution. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by ColdHunter(f): 6:25pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Omoawoke: Did I steal the destiny of the man that sired you? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:26pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Flakky26:Please stop lying to people! Open your scripture and see what Jesus Christ Himself said of marriage. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:29pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
KingMiike:1. 2. Staying in a toxic abuse riddled marriage environment will cause the kids to instead love their father more? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:30pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
bonnyhope:Why does that matter? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by expert234: 6:30pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Dougyclan: You don't even care if she's lying. You don't bloody care if she's the one manipulating the man and is the cause of the problem the family is having. You will do juju for her and end up putting an innocent man in problem. I hope you know that everything you do to other people's children can happen to your children? I hope you know something called Karma? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
bonnyhope:That is the reason why she needs a good lawyer. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by expert234: 6:32pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
KingMiike: Embittered self-deceiving feminists like Kobojunkie, right? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by geraldo077: 6:33pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Dear Op, I will advise that she should hire a lawyer and seek for the dissolution of the marriage in court so they can be separated in the eyes of the law. Her lawyer should also ask that she should take custody of the kids but her husband will be in charge of the kids general welfare and also have access to see them weekly or monthly. He being rich has nothing to do with this case, she's fed up and she wants to leave. She also need to present proof of the verbal assault. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:35pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
chris51:1. In that equally decent setup you have in your head there, when a man files for divorce, does he also move back home to his parents? 2. Why? What Law or rule mandates any of what you claim? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:38pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Emaprince:1. What is wrong with a man divorcing for the same reasons? You shouldn't worry about all Marriages but yours alone. If you are being verbally abused and are ready to call it quits, there is nothing stopping you but you. 2. If you verbally abuse your partner and she reaches her llmit with you too, nothing stops her from calling it quite too. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:43pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Kingcalls:Rubbish! Una too dey like to pretend say everyone dey una same shoe when reality says otherwise. Even if you yourself follow divorce today, people go still dey marry as you dey dey sign your divorce papers. Stop feeding on what are delusions and live your own life as best you can. 1 Like |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:46pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
akpunda86:You mean say if say you die --- are removed entirely from the picture permanently--all those for your house no go fit live as a family? 2. You don't seem to understand what family even means. 1 Like |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 6:50pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Trapnews:1. So kids fair better in an environment where abuse is a regular occurrence then? That is your understanding? 2. In otherwords, a marriage where your spouse does not sit as a bully over you is a perfect marriage that no one should desire? 1 Like |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Charx122: 6:51pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ColdHunter: Move before you infom him ... Then explain to him over the phone .. mind you it must be farway.. Since you say his rich he should have connections so be very careful. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Yimmicks: 7:27pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
okeke6969:You can be polite while offering the information you know.. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by ukandi1(m): 8:16pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: No matter how discrete she tries to make this, the man's financial standing would always make this get really messy. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by obinna58(m): 8:26pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ColdHunter:A foolish woman, she’ll surely get what she deserves First she married coz of money, now she has gotten enough of the man’s wealth to settle herself and finally realize she’s totally better off without him coz she never married him out of love, I’m also sure lots of hot men are chasing her up and down which prompt to her decision she can have a much more better life than presently ( wow what an upgrade) She knows what she’s doing and understands it’s too painful for any man to let it slide which is also the reason for her fear. Fear women, I hope the man gives her wotowoto, nonsense!! 1 Like |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Kobojunkie: 8:26pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ukandi1:These things are never easy. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by komzy589(m): 8:31pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ColdHunter:You need to be careful. I’m sure you know about the man named FFK-Femi Fanni Kayode. If you followed the case he had with his ex-wife, you will probably understand why you need to thread carefully. She claimed abuses in court but couldn’t reasonably prove it, so the court denied her custody of her children. She was permitted to visit the children which FFK always somehow restricted her from doing. Rich men are not fools. Giving out their money may seem very easy but they sure know how to deal with issues like this in a way that favors them. Personally, I think your friend is tired of the man and wants separation, not necessary because of what the man did to her. It’s up to her to stay in the marriage and keep her children or leave and ultimately lose them. 1 Like |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by komzy589(m): 8:33pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
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Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Omoawoke: 8:54pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ColdHunter: shut up! wicked soul. I blame the man for making a hoe a wife. you think everybody is stupid to fall for your stupid one sided story |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by pleasureosondu(m): 9:24pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
ColdHunter:I'll be polite but firm in my statements. At the bolded was your response to someone who said your story was one-sided and it is actually one-sided. How?? In layman terms, something or someone provokes/is provoking him into such mode. Meaning that if you act good towards him, he's definitely going to respond in kind and vice versa. She's doing something that's really pissing him off. In addition, the bolded statement "that my cousin is a saint?" implies that no one is perfect but the big question is; does it mean she can't improve, especially attitude-wise? What practical steps has she employed to prevent her husband's use of harsh word on her or is she one of Dem ladies that talks back to her man due to the fact that she's wealth? Na small tin dey irritate men these days. Only a handful of wise ladies know this. I would have said a lot but seems you've made up your mind to leave your husband plus the info you provided is scanty, so I'll leave it at that but be prepared for the conquences that comes with separation. If she separate bcoz of verbal abuse, what will she advise her own kids when issues come up in their marriage? This is why I can never date, talk more of marry a girl whose from a separated home. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by alphabbey1(m): 9:35pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
geraldo077:It doesn't work this way bro, those kids are matured enough for the father to claim full custody.... The husband can definitely have full custody of all the kids if the lady have nothing doing and have no financial capacity to bred the kids.... nothing like sending money to the kids against his will. If the mother wants full custodian of them, she will bare full responsibility If the wife is capable enough, the kids will be shared. Nothing like the wife having sole ownership unless the man acceed to it... they are 3 children, I believe the husband will have the eldest and the woman will take the remaining 2. And if unfortunately just as the OP said " the man is richer than the lady", with money and connection, he will 100% have full custody of all the kids....... |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by FuckTheMod: 9:46pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Socratiz:Keep fooling yourself You must be a kid or one of this deluded feminists... You know know the meaning of being rich nor know how the justice system work in Nigeria. What a clown. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by FuckTheMod: 9:57pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
bonnyhope:Very good question. I'm sure the Jezebel busy-body won't answer you or she'll lie. Bloody evil hypocrites. |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by FuckTheMod: 10:02pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
nedekid:Mumu useless film just your head like your regular noodles. We are talking reality here and not nonsense |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by nedekid: 10:13pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
FuckTheMod:Yeah as usual, when you have nothing reasonable to say in a discussion, it is to talk crap, be uncouth. Anyway, not better is expected from you. Kindly walk along. Nb: Go to all your post, 90% is insults, "mumu", "idiot" etc. If everybody is a mumu or idiot in your eyes, don't you think you should look at the mirror? |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by onoja12: 1:07am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Wrong in 6months she would be replaced,I owe my children a mother and a better one at that.when we get to court,we would determine custody and I can assure you no Nigerian court would hand over children to a gold digger,with the excuss of divorce been verbal abuse,this is Nigeria,over here the welfare of children come first before selfish interest. quote author=Mindlog post=120088781] The children belong to you the father and her, the mother. If the marriage ends she becomes a single mother, you become a single father and you both co-parent. [/quote] |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by StrongAlphMale: 1:20am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Shokoloko: Which stup*id request is responsible? The moment a girl is tired and wants freedom to hoe around, they'll come up with dumb lame excuses of a man emotionally abusing them. Like, what do you girls think we are? Dummies or what exactly? A woman can not break up with a man if she hasn't found a replacement. No be Naija girls again? U better stop trying to use reverse psychology on us here. We're not kids! If we hear the man's side of the story now, you'll be shocked that the woman is the one emotionally abusing that man. Or is it because we men do not speak out? Because we know the society will always find a way to twist it and support the woman. The said cousin just want to hoe around. Nothing else. Using emotionally abuse as an excuse is just too lame and dumb 1 Like |
Re: Separation From A Rich And Violent Spouse by Mindlog: 1:20am On Jan 17, 2023 |
onoja12: As long as their biological mother is alive and you can not clinically prove she is mentally disordered nor her lifestyle endangers the children and while married, you were the one more present in the children' lives and the children can attest to all you said about their mother when independently assessed, you can't replace motherhood with your new wife! . Make your new wife focus on being a better mother to the ones she will have for you. if court granted custody to the ex-wives of the sons of Babaginda and Atiku, abeg how much you get whey woman wan gold dig? I can't wait to be an expert witness in the family courts. 1 Like |
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