swaley:
are you saying there aren't men going about deflowering ladies under deceit? Do they have right to complain since they didn't rape them

Nobody is deceiving anyone...women like to play victim....they want to fvck just like the men....when relationships dont go as they want they claim they were used....if same happens to a man u lots will come here and insukt him if he was forced to spend money..

If u want to form solidarity with women, its fine..i mean ..its a free world..u can give women scholarship or open banks where women can get money for free...

.....but saying men should blame themselves for women's conscious decision to spread legs around is a truckload of bullockss...

. like i dont get u....i should share in the blame for all the men u slept with and all the abortions u did.?? Is that not witchcraft

did i sleep with you?? Why should i take responsible for a woman's decision to fvck around?

Everyone should face the consequences of their conscious actions .. abeg ooooo

If women dont mind marrying community penís ..they should go ahead....we all know spending money they ddnt work for and ending their bill paying days is their ultimate aim in life ...regina daniel is a case study..some of them can marry a goat as long as its vomiting cash..

Its their choice.....we dont care...they shouldn't
care what choice we make too....and that goes for u pvssy asś nigga as well

Goodlady:

Shut up. Can't you see it's becoming stale the way you all attack females.

Attack?? U shout shut up at strangers ..u insukt people that arent talkimg to u....but u are lamenting about being attacked... is that not witchcraft??

Please go and wail else where... we are tired of ur pathetic cry and victim card playing ... u cant stop men from talking about ur vices... u are not saints....so deal with it...

advanceDNA:


Attack?? U shout shut up at strangers ..u insukt people that arent talkimg to u....but u are lamenting about being attacked... is that not witchcraft??

Please go and wail else where... we are tired of ur pathetic cry and victim card playing ... u cant stop men from talking about ur vices... u are not saints....so deal with it...

Did you just call me a witch?

Goodlady:

Did you just call me a witch?

Are u new to nairaland.

u no know the meaning of the statement "is that not witchcraft"

Dey there dey disguise....

advanceDNA:


Nobody is deceiving anyone...women like to play victim....they want to fvck just like the men....when relationships dont go as they want they claim they were used....if same happens to a man u lots will come here and insukt him if he was forced to spend money..

If u want to form solidarity with women, its fine..i mean ..its a free world..u can give women scholarship or open banks where women can get money for free...

.....but saying men should blame themselves for women's conscious decision to spread legs around is a truckload of bullockss...

. like i dont get u....i should share in the blame for all the men u slept with and all the abortions u did.?? Is that not witchcraft

did i sleep with you?? Why should i take responsible for a woman's decision to fvck around?

Everyone should face the consequences of their conscious actions .. abeg ooooo

If women dont mind marrying community penís ..they should go ahead....we all know spending money they ddnt work for and ending their bill paying days is their ultimate aim in life ...regina daniel is a case study..some of them can marry a goat as long as its vomiting cash..

Its their choice.....we dont care...they shouldn't
care what choice we make too....and that goes for u pvssy asś nigga as well

you all are misinterpreting but it is fine. Calm down and understand.
If you go around deflowering girls you shouldn't complain there are no virgins out there or start looking for virgins to marry Cause you are contributing to the problem. Haven't you met men who tell tales about how much they love a girl just to get her deflowered and then leave and still go about complaining or men going about patronising hoes and then complaining that every lady now is a hoe. My point is it is stupid to be contributing to a problem and still complain about that problem. That's my angle. Because the threads I see on nairaland is always bashing women when men are also major participants in the decadence in the Nigerian dating pool. Mr pussy ass nigger. Qed

advanceDNA:


Are u new to nairaland.

u no know the meaning of the statement "is that not witchcraft"

Dey there dey disguise....

Be like say you didn't n finally ment. I ll really do you that witchcraft

swaley:
you all are misinterpreting but it is fine. Calm down and understand.
If you go around deflowering girls you shouldn't complain there are no virgins out there or start looking for virgins to marry Cause you are contributing to the problem. Haven't you met men who tell tales about how much they love a girl just to get her deflowered and then leave and still go about complaining or men going about patronising hoes and then complaining that every lady now is a hoe. My point is it is stupid to be contributing to a problem and still complain about that problem. That's my angle. Because the threads I see on nairaland is always bashing women when men are also major participants in the decadence in the Nigerian dating pool. Mr pussy ass nigger. Qed

U are making it look like men that disflower girls rape them.... everyone in a relationahip is looking for sex...stop making it look like these women are forced......

See nollywood actor accused of being gay becos he ddnt have sex with his grildfriend...and the end of the day..these women are just forming victim.... they want to fvck..they were fvcked...

we were talkimg of prostitution the other day and someone like u was saying men are the problem....oga look around u... no one is takimg advantage of anyone...girls are advertising their bodies for 200-300k and u are saying someone took advanatge...

Goodlady:

Be like say you didn't n finally ment. I ll really do you that witchcraft

Yawwnnn!!

advanceDNA:


U are making it look like men that disflower girls rape them.... everyone in a relationahip is looking for sex...stop making it look like these women are forced......

See nollywood actor accused of being gay becos he ddnt have sex with his grildfriend...and the end of the day..these women are just forming victim.... they want to fvck..they were fvcked...

we were talkimg of prostitution the other day and someone like u was saying men are the problem....oga look around u... no one is takimg advantage of anyone...girls are advertising their bodies for 200-300k and u are saying someone took advanatge...

Bro those are adults firstly. Secondly are there no under 18 girls that weren't raped and had sex based on love. I mean first time sex by obviously more matured men? So men like that aren't the problem? They can move on from there and start bashing non virgins all day on nairaland and conveniently go settle down with a virgin?
My point is the bashings I see on romanceland towards ladies kind of exonerates man and absolve them from all faults?
If you have ever deflowered a girl or even patronise prostitutes then you shouldn't go about looking for a virgin to marry or complaining that there are too many hoes in the society?
Because it is stupid having contributed to a problem and still complain about same problem.
We can always agree to disagree.
I hope you understand the angle I'm coming from
Your argument is entirely different from what I'm trying to say?

swaley:
Bro those are adults firstly. Secondly are there no under 18 girls that weren't raped and had sex based on love. I mean first time sex by obviously more matured men? So men like that aren't the problem? They can move on from there and start bashing non virgins all day on nairaland and conveniently go settle down with a virgin?
My point is the bashings I see on romanceland towards ladies kind of exonerates man and absolve them from all faults?
If you have ever deflowered a girl or even patronise prostitutes then you shouldn't go about looking for a virgin to marry or complaining that there are too many hoes in the society?
Because it is stupid having contributed to a problem and still complain about same problem.
We can always agree to disagree.
I hope you understand the angle I'm coming from
Your argument is entirely different from what I'm trying to say?

Oga...what is bash....make we no catch cruise on each other again...dont women bash men and call us names....u are just ass licking jare

Fahvvy:
Lemme end by saying this sir ...

Men and women are not the same!
We don't play by the same rules...
We're held to different societal standards...

And what is good for the goose, isn't always good for the gander in issues surrounding men and women ...

A woman can be broke as f.uck and yet still look down on a dude earning 50k ...

She can be make up artist (this is a fancy name for joblessness in most cases ) and yet demand to have a wealthy husband ...

She may be squatting with 4 people in one room and yet demand that she wants to be with a man that has a mansion ...

She may not even have a bicycle tire, but yet demand that she wants a man who drives a car ...

And when this happens, we hail her and be like "go girl", "you know what you want" "girl power all the way" etc ...

So if a woman can be broke and still demand to have a rich man, why is it a crime for a man to be promiscuous and demand a virgin wife? ...

Facts

Finitin:
shut!! Shut your empty brain up!! Just shut up! You just ended up dropping epistles of nonsense on this thread.

I'm tired after a long day at work so I can't school you tonight, maybe some other time.

What an idiot

Lmao. Hopeless, thirsty, simp looking for whom to school.

No matter how you manipulate it , the virgin seal was there for a reason . God designed it that way. A man doesn't have any seal for a reason and don't question it, question the designer. what is good for the goose is not good for the gander in this case. we are completely different.

The women are the victims, as in the case of scam, we only encourage the victims not to fall pray, but if we fail to teach and encourage the victims on prevention measures then the rate of scam increases and the society becomes chaotic.

If you claim the men are deceiving the ladies by taking their virginity out of pretense, then one or two of these cases would have served as lessons to the younger ones, but NO it didn't. We've heard of ladies who demanded her virginity should be taken so she could start hookups and make good money for herself... We've heard of cases and i've personally experienced young girls who confided in me that they can't wait the extra years ahead before marriage, they want the enjoyment right now.

the society is messed up today because we don't state the importance of these things to the younger generation any more as we now embrace gender equality. Its time we start spelling it out so the upcoming generation girls wont fight to be a secondary virgin like some of you. Ones you lost it , your value diminishes for ever and even virginity surgery won't safe you from the emotional damage from your previous relationships. Your ability to stick to one partner for the rest of your life will be undermined because your brain as be reconfigured to enjoyed difference sizes. The fear that grows in your husband's mind that the okafor's law will always come to play some day will gradually reduce is love and trust for you with time and your marriage won't be as blissful as it should be.

keep encouraging gender equality , na your gender dey loss.