Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Olosho is from United States

And she is seeking online validation to start business

wow!!

Just wow!!!

Virgin my ass

You people and fiction

Kingdollar28:

What's funny? did you read the content? help me out.

Kingdollar28:


Olosho is from United States

And she is seeking online validation to start business

wow!!

Just wow!!!

Virgin my ass

WHATTTTT I'M SAYING THE TRUTH...JUST HELP ME OUT...

Aonkuuse:
You people and fiction

OMG!!! [color=#770077][/color]

A 26 year old from the US knows almost everything about sex.... virgin or not .... strict parents or not.... your peers will let you know.... if you want to know or not. At 26 ... if you haven't been with a guy it's highly likely you were with a woman. To have the mindset to sleep with many men even before you slept with one is not to have the mindset of a prostitute ... but to have the mindset of a whole.

Take this to the bank:

watch your thoughts, they lead to words ( where you at now) ....watch your words, they lead to actions ..... watch your actions, they lead to habits ...... watch your habits, they lead to your character.... watch your character..... that will determine your destiny.

Your life to live.

Shey you dey whine me ni-ii?
No oooo ooooo
Shey you dey whine old barrister
virgin my foot

No be you be this
Carry your virgin wahala and leave us

Why are you just creating thread upandan

Your pussy your choice
Leave us biko

Any how you chose u bear your consequences alone

If the story isnt even fiction

Have sex enjoy life just be smart about it

Blupen:
Have sex enjoy life just be smart about it

Okay thank you for a reasonable answer.

Originalsly:
A 26 year old from the US knows almost everything about sex.... virgin or not .... strict parents or not.... your peers will let you know.... if you want to know or not. At 26 ... if you haven't been with a guy it's highly likely you were with a woman. To have the mindset to sleep with many men even before you slept with one is not to have the mindset of a prostitute ... but to have the mindset of a whole.

Take this to the bank:

watch your thoughts, they lead to words ( where you at now) ....watch your words, they lead to actions ..... watch your actions, they lead to habits ...... watch your habits, they lead to your character.... watch your character..... that will determine your destiny.

Your life to live.

I'm actually not from the USA, I'm trying to hide my identity and my origin is half Nigerian and half Congolese.

Eliza101

The reality is yes it is boring having sex with one partner through out your life and loosing your virginity after all these years, you'll feel so this bullshit I've been holding on my whole life is overhyped? And from there you might start getting hungry for other diks. Bruh, enjoy your life if you wanna have sex do it but only with people you feel are worthy of you just be smart about it and don't turn into a hoe, have class and respect yourself do what you want and live life before you settle down.

In summary, you're tired of keeping your hymen but too scared to appear promiscuous to your future hubby.

Eliza101:


Okay thank you for a reasonable answer.

Sex is part of us, if animals can have sex openly what about us that are humans?? we need sex too eliza

Kingdollar28:

Olosho is from United States
And she is seeking online validation to start business
wow!!
Just wow!!!
Virgin my ass

Someone that just escaped from yaba left...

Eliza101:


What's funny? did you read the content? help me out.

You don't look serious. You don't need to create a thread like this. Those stupi d boys ll use it to start talking trash about females till they describe how promiscuous their mothers are.
No sane person ll bring this type of topic online. You called yourself 26. It's just absurd.

I met a young sexy girl in 2020, this girl is the definition of beauty and curve, fine yellow igbo girl of 19yo, but her sexual experience and body count Dey muzz me then, she clearly told me she hardly Bleep a guy twice on our second encounter, that she has been lied to and cheated on before she decided to be like that, low key I really like this girl because she’s a whole vibe and she bleeps so good with crazy mouth action, but I know I can’t have more than that with her, she don try same sex with her friends, part with a guy and her friend, I knew the man would marry her eventually would be in big trouble if he can’t satisfy or freak her sexually, she never demanded a dime from me, it was purely fun and cum until I changed location, so op think am twice, is this what you want OP?

Nonsense Post

OP, It's like you have a High Libido.

Just do According to the demands of ur Towtow!

Gadafii:
I met a young sexy girl in 2020, this girl is the definition of beauty and curve, fine yellow igbo girl of 19yo, but her sexual experience and body count Dey muzz me then, she clearly told me she hardly Bleep a guy twice on our second encounter, that she has been lied to and cheated on before she decided to be like that, low key I really like this girl because she’s a whole vibe and she bleeps so good with crazy mouth action, but I know I can’t have more than that with her, she don try same sex with her friends, part with a guy and her friend, I knew the man would marry her eventually would be in big trouble if he can’t satisfy or freak her sexually, she never demanded a dime from me, it was purely fun and cum until I changed location, so op think am twice, is this what you want OP?

Is she in PH?

Blupen:
Sex is part of us, if animals can have sex openly what about us that are humans?? we need sex too eliza

So your saying we should have sex openly like animals?

Since you were able to stay up till this age without doing it, then don't do it. My twin sis got married a virgin at 29yrs. Blive me when i say this, it comands a great deal of respect 4rm ur husband.

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have also thought about something that's been bothering me lately , so as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Come suck my diçk and u will be aaiit

E be like say yahuu boys don enter nairalands. But na brokies full here na?

Say no more... Women are the gatekeepers of sex, so become a piss distributor and have your name written in gold in the streets...

Which United are you ready talking about so that we can know

Which states get unity for Nigeria like this? Abeg I for like know. Firstly, your grammar gave you away, secondly you're either a male looking for another male to defraud, or you're a jobless female in need of clients to expand your corporate prostitution business..

Whatever be the case, I would strongly suggest that you get yourself a legitimate high income skill. You could improve on your grammar and become an author, you seem to have flare for fiction.

Best of luck.

Eliza101:
Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have also thought about something that's been bothering me lately , so as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).

But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.

More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.

I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.

What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.

We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc

I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.

Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .

Piptocoin:
Do people even realize the stupidity in being promiscuous? If you sleep with any person you become one with that person. Soul ties are real. Every baggage one sexual partner has is transferred to the other. Generational curses are commonly transferred through sex. Depression is another evil that is transferred through sex. The list is endless. The bible said he who sins through fornication and adultery sins against his own body....all other sins are outside the body. Condoms and contraceptives cannot protect you from spiritual diseases.

God blesses you.

BlackMan6969:
So your saying we should have sex openly like animals?

only a fool will do that, why?
because he is human and humans by nature are supposed to be smarter than animals, bro animals don't wear clothes but we do.....

Why not pray to God to give you someone that would love you forever instead of thinking about the unknown…. When you start sleeping with two or four men you wouldn’t know when you will graduate to 20, the best thing is to stay with one man, you’d also save yourself from risk of diseases…