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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by BlackMan6969(m): 9:30am On Jan 20, 2023
My wife switching from nice to wicked. Like my aunties.

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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Ahuitzotl: 9:44am On Jan 20, 2023
Jashub:
So telling the truth is simpish abi? What would you do if your sister such...? undecided
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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Ahuitzotl: 9:44am On Jan 20, 2023
Jashub:
So telling the truth is simpish abi? What would you do if your sister such...? undecided
It's her opinion, how's that got to do with me?? Besides, If we all start having beefs with opinions of others don't you think the world will be uncomfortable to live in?..

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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Ahuitzotl: 9:45am On Jan 20, 2023
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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 9:55am On Jan 20, 2023
Ahuitzotl:
It's her opinion, how's that got to do with me?? Besides, If we all start having beefs with opinions of others don't you think the world will be uncomfortable to live in?..
My problem with people like you is that you actually stand for nothing . In fact , people like you are probably more dangerous than any self-deviating person out there

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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by tayo60(f): 10:49am On Jan 20, 2023
Nothing scares me. I believe we will work things out when d challenges come.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 10:54am On Jan 20, 2023
Autobot05:
Marriage is not in my agenda .. but if I see someone I like fr I can consider it.
That wont stop me from running away occasionally tho cheesy and the running away isn't permanent na .just a week or 2. It doesn't stop me from loving the person. I think better and reason better when I'm alone and i think it's natural
Imagine if the woman you end up with had to do that very same to you and imagine the many ways that sort of frustration which you describe can present itself in that case. You think 2 weeks max is enough. What if she is gone for months at a time. Would you be accepting of that then? undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by DanBJ(m): 11:26am On Jan 20, 2023
virginprincess:
The idea of commiting to one man scares me,not like i can't do it but i keeping wondering how i won't be allowed to admire the opposite sex,keep male friends, go out with them and so on,that shit really scares me .


This is because you have been bang.ing different DICKsons and can't imagine yourself with just one DICKson.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Ahuitzotl: 11:34am On Jan 20, 2023
Jashub:
My problem with people like you is that you actually stand for nothing . In fact , people like you are probably more dangerous than any self-deviating person out there
Stand for what? on top woman matter??... Is it not your mates that are fighting war in Ukraine? If we're to come closer home, is it not your mates that are gearing up for election, come to think of it, do you even have PVC to stand for a better future for your children?? No but if it is ontop puccy now, you will take stand. And you say this isn't simpish behavior..

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Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by kenoskey79(m): 11:42am On Jan 20, 2023
Nothing...
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Jashub: 11:59am On Jan 20, 2023
Ahuitzotl:
Stand for what? on top woman matter??... Is it not your mates that are fighting war in Ukraine? If we're to come closer home, is it not your mates that are gearing up for election, come to think of it, do you even have PVC to stand for a better future for your children?? No but if it is ontop puccy now, you will take stand. And you say this isn't simpish behavior..
Mumu...stop changing the subject. If your sister said such what would you do ? I'm still waiting for the answer.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Polynek(m): 2:06pm On Jan 20, 2023
Only cheating, I can handle other tinx
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kipaji: 2:25pm On Jan 20, 2023
BlackMan6969:
My wife switching from nice to wicked. Like my aunties.

Like your aunties? Could you tell us more about that? What's the story?
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Autobot05: 2:37pm On Jan 20, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
Imagine if the woman you end up with had to do that very same to you and imagine the many ways that sort of frustration which you describe can present itself in that case. You think 2 weeks max is enough. What if she is gone for months at a time. Would you be accepting of that then? undecided

Months?? Well then she can pack her whole stuff and move out. Men and women ain't the same. With the rate of paternity fraud in this country leaving for a month talkess of months will automatically ban her from ever stepping foot to my home again .Before she go carry another man belle come hang am for my neck.

I can understand if its a few days or a week with very good and convincing reasons ( even then I'll still suspect her sha)
I cannot get fully attached emotionally with ANY woman that's not my blood ... so whenever she screws up i wont have a problem with throwing her back to her parents. No time cool
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 5:36pm On Jan 20, 2023
Autobot05:
■ Months?? Well then she can pack her whole stuff and move out. Men and women ain't the same. With the rate of paternity fraud in this country leaving for a month talkess of months will automatically ban her from ever stepping foot to my home again .Before she go carry another man belle come hang am for my neck.
■ I can understand if its a few days or a week with very good and convincing reasons ( even then I'll still suspect her sha)
■I cannot get fully attached emotionally with ANY woman that's not my blood ... so whenever she screws up i wont have a problem with throwing her back to her parents. No time cool
1. See, but she would have had the same idea in marriage as you which is to take a break every so often. undecided

2. Oh, you can understand only if it is exactly like yours but nothing worse than your case? undecided

3. How can you attach emotionally to someone you keep needing a break from? undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by HltSong: 8:04pm On Jan 20, 2023
Nyascobar1414:
How a broke fugly loser like me think of committing to an adult(wife) in the name of love amazes me..


cheesy cheesy
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Autobot05: 8:17pm On Jan 20, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
1. See, but she would have had the same idea in marriage as you which is to take a break every so often. undecided

2. Oh, you can understand only if it is exactly like yours but nothing worse than your case? undecided

3. How can you attach emotionally to someone you keep needing a break from? undecided


It will be very hard/impossible to see a woman behave that way .. that's why they always want to get married.

Worse than my case ? Lmao if only she can be faithful.. but that's impossible

I need the break to think and understand myself( it's my nature ) plus I learnt not to get emotionally attached to women . It will be an advantage whenever she screws up ( like most women ) I wont have to think twice about sending her off
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 9:51pm On Jan 20, 2023
Autobot05:
■ It will be very hard/impossible to see a woman behave that way .. that's why they always want to get married.
■ Worse than my case ? Lmao if only she can be faithful.. but that's impossible
■ I need the break to think and understand myself( it's my nature ) plus I learnt not to get emotionally attached to women . It will be an advantage whenever she screws up ( like most women ) I wont have to think twice about sending her off
1. You don't know women at all apart from the little exposure you have had to them, do you? You think all women want to get married because that is the private delusion you have fed on when in reality lots of women out there really don't only society causes them to assume they are nothing without marriage. Many of these same don't thrive at all in a typical marriage environment just as you explained you wouldn't yourself. undecided

2. Were you thinking of taking a break from marriage in order to go be unfaithful or something? What makes you think women out there who equally think marriage a burden would take breaks for reasons different from you? undecided

3. They too need such breaks too. Growing up, I met quite a lot of women stuck in marriage but unable to make sense of their situation. I even remember reading of one particular 36-year-old woman who hung herself many years ago. There was nothing wrong with her marriage at all, only she couldn't make sense of marriage and decided to end it since the alternative — divorce — was still very much frowned upon in her community. undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Autobot05: 10:35pm On Jan 20, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
1. You don't know women at all apart from the little exposure you have had to them, do you? You think all women want to get married because that is the private delusion you have fed on when in reality lots of women out there really don't only society causes them to assume they are nothing without marriage. Many of these same don't thrive at all in a typical marriage environment just as you explained you wouldn't yourself. undecided

2. Were you thinking of taking a break from marriage in order to go be unfaithful or something? What makes you think women out there who equally think marriage a burden would take breaks for reasons different from you? undecided

3. They too need such breaks too. Growing up, I met quite a lot of women stuck in marriage but unable to make sense of their situation. I even remember reading of one particular 36-year-old woman who hung herself many years ago. There was nothing wrong with her marriage at all, only she couldn't make sense of marriage and decided to end it since the alternative — divorce — was still very much frowned upon in her community. undecided


Almost every woman desire marriage take it or leave it

Women depend heavily on attention ( physical attention). I mentioned the rate of paternity fraud in this country is enough to make me think so. She might not want to cheat in the first place but women are easily manipulated even by their Male friends. That's why I can't believe such

That's her business.. suicide is never an option
Why didn't she just run away?
Some women rush into marriage especially due to greed or impatience then they get into the hands of a guy that will make thier lives a living hell.

If I ever get married ... I wont maltreat her as far as she is good. But I still need my space occasionally
I'll even keep constant communication while away but I'll still need to be away
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Prettygirl200(f): 12:03am On Jan 21, 2023
Stephen2324:
What really scares you about marriage?
Childbirth nd fucking one dick everytime.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Prettygirl200(f): 12:06am On Jan 21, 2023
PellsKodak:
Wondering how to cope when marrying a boring lazy okpo like Siofra , Abkayee and Sheistoopretty
Shey u have started again? This trolling is still in your blood and you aren't ready to stop any moment from now. By thr way am just seeing that last monicker for the first who go theiev my NL name?
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Prettygirl200(f): 12:07am On Jan 21, 2023
Sniper101:
My probable ability to not cheat.
My doubt that she'll remain faithful.

...shit scares the shit outta me angry
The day u discover kindly drink sniper and die, grin
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Prettygirl200(f): 12:09am On Jan 21, 2023
Autobot05:
Having to share my personal space with a woman ( esp the fact that shes not my mum or sis )

Walai I will run away occasionally to stay by myself..prolly tell her I'm going for an outside job for a week or 2 grin cheesy
This one no know wetyn he wan talk. Your sister nd mother are they not human beings? Are they not women? Abeg go sitdon one place.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Prettygirl200(f): 12:13am On Jan 21, 2023
StrongAlphMale:


Oloshos everywhere!

You should be ashamed of yourself for displaying your oloshoism lifestyles here on NL. But of course, does an olosho have shame? na your over used damaged kpekpus you wan go give man for marriage? Na the SIMP man wey go Marry you i just dey Pity. U Better remain single
WeakAlphamale, why are u calling her names? You are calling her names bc she said her mind. What about your gender saying they can't get stucked wit one pussy biko what do u call them?
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by HellVictorinho7: 12:18am On Jan 21, 2023
Prettygirl200:
Childbirth nd fucking one dick everytime.
ddo not get pregnant .furk as many ddicks as possible. say no to marriage.
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Sniper101(m): 12:31am On Jan 21, 2023
Prettygirl200:
The day u discover kindly drink sniper and die, grin

But how I go take fvck this Prettygirl200 die grin

Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Prettygirl200(f): 12:35am On Jan 21, 2023
Sniper101:

But how I go take fvck this Prettygirl200 die grin
your left yansh
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by PellsKodak: 12:53am On Jan 21, 2023
Prettygirl200:
Shey u have started again? This trolling is still in your blood and you aren't ready to stop any moment from now. By thr way am just seeing that last monicker for the first who go theiev my NL name?
Lol the girl na yeye girl
I can never troll you again cry
You are my crush cool cool
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Sniper101(m): 1:00am On Jan 21, 2023
Prettygirl200:
your left yansh
your long clitoris
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Kobojunkiee: 2:40am On Jan 21, 2023
Autobot05:
■Almost every woman desire marriage take it or leave it . Women depend heavily on attention ( physical attention). I mentioned the rate of paternity fraud in this country is enough to make me think so. She might not want to cheat in the first place but women are easily manipulated even by their Male friends. That's why I can't believe such

That's her business.. suicide is never an option
Why didn't she just run away?
Some women rush into marriage especially due to greed or impatience then they get into the hands of a guy that will make thier lives a living hell.

If I ever get married ... I wont maltreat her as far as she is good. But I still need my space occasionally
I'll even keep constant communication while away but I'll still need to be away
Again, 1. You don't know women at all apart from the little exposure you have had to them, do you? You think all women want to get married because that is the private delusion you have fed on when in reality lots of women out there really don't only society causes them to assume they are nothing without marriage. Many of these same don't thrive at all in a typical marriage environment just as you explained you wouldn't yourself. undecided

2. Were you thinking of taking a break from marriage in order to go be unfaithful or something? What makes you think women out there who equally think marriage a burden would take breaks for reasons different from you? undecided

3. They too need such breaks too. Growing up, I met quite a lot of women stuck in marriage but unable to make sense of their situation. I even remember reading of one particular 36-year-old woman who hung herself many years ago. There was nothing wrong with her marriage at all, only she couldn't make sense of marriage and decided to end it since the alternative — divorce — was still very much frowned upon in her community. undecided
Re: What Really Scares You About Marriage? by Autobot05: 3:37am On Jan 21, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
Again, 1. You don't know women at all apart from the little exposure you have had to them, do you? You think all women want to get married because that is the private delusion you have fed on when in reality lots of women out there really don't only society causes them to assume they are nothing without marriage. Many of these same don't thrive at all in a typical marriage environment just as you explained you wouldn't yourself. undecided

2. Were you thinking of taking a break from marriage in order to go be unfaithful or something? What makes you think women out there who equally think marriage a burden would take breaks for reasons different from you? undecided

3. They too need such breaks too. Growing up, I met quite a lot of women stuck in marriage but unable to make sense of their situation. I even remember reading of one particular 36-year-old woman who hung herself many years ago. There was nothing wrong with her marriage at all, only she couldn't make sense of marriage and decided to end it since the alternative — divorce — was still very much frowned upon in her community. undecided

I made my point clear .. you're going in circles
I've seen girls with money ...still looking for husbands
Look at cuppy too

If marriage is a burden then no need to get married

That's what happens when they marry the wrong partner due to greed or impatience. I dont pity such women.

Madam almost every young girl dream of wearing a wedding gown and walking down the aisle.

I made my points clear. Have a nice day

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