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Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Vincenzomum: 11:42am On Jan 27, 2023 |
I am not a Nigerian and I am married to a Nigerian Igbo , we have 4 children 3together and we are based in Italy . Our children can speak my native language very well and hubby hasn't bothered to teach our kids Igbo , he is jalous when he see our children speaking my language with my famiy in africa they can speak fluently and he is angry and want me to stop speaking my language to our children and he said we should speak to them in Italian and english only and I disagree with him telling him the children are still young and it is not too late for him to start teaching them Igbo , he refused and he still wants me to stop speaking my language with them. My 4 years old told me her dad had told her if i am on the phone with my family in africa if I pass over the phone to her she should refuse to speak with them. I asked him why he is looking for trouble where there is none it is not my fault he hasn't teach them his language , he said I should do what he says else he won't be happy with me. What do I have to do in this situation? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by JasonScoolari: 11:46am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Why won't your husband be Jalous? 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Vincenzomum: 11:47am On Jan 27, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: He can't be jalous because I didn't stop him from teaching them his language 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by JasonScoolari: 11:49am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Vincenzomum:With this your own language, he has to be Jalous Even me sef, I am already Jalous 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by rickpat(m): 11:50am On Jan 27, 2023 |
he is being childish and very selfish...it's not your fault they can't speak Igbo, besides you can't speak Igbo too hence you can't teach them to speak igbo,the only person that can speak Igbo is your hubby therefore it's solely his responsibility to teach the kids igbo. I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE DON'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY,INSTEAD LOOK FOR WHOM TO BLAME OR FERMENT UNNECESSARY TROUBLE... well,if you can't stand his pettiness,just stop the kids from speaking your language for peace sake..but it's totally unfair from him because if you knew how to speak igbo, I'm sure you would have taught the kids 14 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Mindlog: 11:51am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Vincenzomum: Continue teaching your children your language, don't stop....when he is ready, he should teach them Igbo as children have the capacity to learn many languages at the same time. 8 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Sheistoopretty(f): 11:51am On Jan 27, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: Can u just grow up and stop being stvpid old man? at ur old age oo atleast u got de message, so what? Common sense should've told u it was a mistake, sorry I forgot, common sense is no longer common 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by YourMajesty(m): 11:56am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Sheistoopretty:Coming from the daughter of a stvpid prostitute? 🤣🤣🤣 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by laluski(m): 1:02pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Vincenzomum: Then you stop it simple... Why are you women like this!!! Why must you allow everything to turn to slaps before you reset your brain.. he said stop it.. you STOP IT!! end of story.. if he reacts now, you'll go all over the place and Beyond painting him as a bad person.. is he asking for too much? No!! So what's your problem?!!! Na wa o 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by laluski(m): 1:03pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Vincenzomum:Just imagine the nonsense coming out of your mouth.. your lucky your not my wife... She knows she can't try this nonsense with me!!! 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Nemesis0147(m): 1:26pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
laluski:what wrong did this woman do to her husband? 7 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by habsydiamond(m): 1:36pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Some people will come here.. talking like a disciplinarian or strict individual whereas they are the opposite at home... this woman as done nothing wrong here.. the children may find their mother's language more interesting to learn than their father's. Why the fight now. 9 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Houseofglam7(f): 4:04pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
He’s just being unreasonably petty 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by frozen70(f): 4:05pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Vincenzomum: This is not a matter of obeying his instructions Keep speaking your language to them You are not the one to teach then his language He failed in that area, If he has taught you his language you would have saved him the stress of teaching them his language Just don't argue with him but continue your way Even nature made children to learn their mother language quicker than their father language Besides, for them to learn your language is an added advantage to them in future 3 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Michelle55: 4:14pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
He's petty, I'm definitely teaching my kids my dialect( at least the little I know). If he's too lazy to perform his responsibility towards his kids by teaching them his local dialect then that's his business, not yours. Meanwhile, for peace to dwell in your home, tell your kids to minimize it whenever he's around. 4 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by 4ward4: 4:27pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
He sounds Foolish. Language is just the ability to communicate and it is a plus knowing as many languages as one can know . I sense your kids are smart in learning languages, he should as well employ an Igbo tutor for them . Qed. With that they will be learning all languages. I did same for my kids . Reason because when they become adults , I won’t be following them to their various locations and any language might be of help to them. 3 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Beremx(f): 4:46pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
I am sure your husband isn't fluent in Igbo language that's why he can't teach his kids. Any Igbo man who can speak Igbo language fluently will teach his kids. Please keep teaching your kids your language 2 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Vincenzomum: 4:57pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Beremx: He knows how 2 speak Igbo very well he only speaks in Igbo with his family in africa, he does interpretation when I am speaking with his parents because they can't speak english |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Princessdainty(m): 6:14pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
laluski:is this how your father slaps your mother No wonder she didn't live well to eat the fruit of her labour. Poor thing 5 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Mindlog: 6:45pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
laluski: See mouth, is it her fault you are unable to teach the children you share with her, your own language? 3 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Mindlog: 6:52pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Beremx: I disagree with that as I grew up in Lagos seeing Igbo couples who were both born and raised in the East, communicate with their children in pidgin or English while speaking Igbo only to themselves and that riles me up. When I visit such families, I intentionally stick to speaking Igbo to their children to the discomfort of their parents.....why deny your children that part of their identity? 😠5 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by simplepee(f): 8:54pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
laluski: I can only imagine how miserably that wife of yours lives. 2 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by dayleke: 9:30pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
laluski: Are you for real or you just catching cruise? Even it's not funny at all for a cruise o. 2 Likes |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by laluski(m): 12:07am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Princessdainty: Look at this fool!!!. Your picture says it all about why you're a wasted sperm.. bobrisky wannabees 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by laluski(m): 12:09am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Mindlog:Cow Malu |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by laluski(m): 12:10am On Jan 28, 2023 |
simplepee: Local tailor mind your business.. go and sow your customers are waiting 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Brandiebird: 4:36am On Jan 28, 2023 |
You’re not really teaching them your language as such, I’m sure you only communicate with them in your language. If he is asking you not to speak your own language in your home then he is overreacting and overstepping his boundaries! He could have spoken to them in his own language from when they were babies instead of being petty now. Don’t listen to him, let him be unhappy! He’s asking for too much in my opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Brandiebird: 4:59am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Vincenzomum: Not to be petty but I think this goes beyond language and names. We get your husband is Nigerian and Igbo but you forgot to introduce yourself! Where are you from and what race are you? I think your husband fears that you maybe trying to distance the children from his heritage. Are you working full time? Does your husband work full time? Are you getting to spend more time and thus have more influence on the children’s development? This your story doesn’t sit right with me. Speak your language but try to introduce your children to their other side, that is if you are indeed the primary care giver between the two of you. I noticed in both threads you highlighted HIS weaknesses and tribe but you said nothing about your part. In both threads he’s the bad guy and you’re the 👻! I get it we come online to vent and look for supporters to our rants but let’s not take that seriously, OP! Build your home instead of looking for support to tear it down! 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Kobojunkie: 5:21am On Jan 28, 2023 |
rickpat: Are you seriously telling her that, in the world we live in today, it is a good idea to deny her children the right to know their mother tongue all in the name of keeping the peace in marriage? |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by Kobojunkie: 5:24am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Mindlog:Abi o! Imagine a grown man, father of 4 kids, throwing such a stupid tantrum! |
Re: Hubby Is Jalous Because Our Children Can Speak My Language Better by mrblessed(m): 5:28am On Jan 28, 2023 |
Madam, it's clear your husband needs a medical treatment now. His actions aren't normal at all. 1 Like |
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