Nigra:

Ahhhh no love oh,just lust for me...I can't give that power to a man,cos they must show their wicked selve .So just f**k dey go,when it ends,it ends..

NwaMamaIwota:
you can trust me

ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?

Starz825:


God go bless you...
You are a Redpiller...

You might actually not agree with that but your notion is similar

Redpill says you can love, respect and care for someone without having to fall in love with them cos when you love you don't get to lose your senses and you know for sure your partner can mess u up and you are ready for it... unlike falling in love...that makes you toxic when shit happens

franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.



As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:


1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.


Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.





When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz

Persephone1:
Imagine ooo🤷

Somebody's daughter will now be looking at phone twenty times, wondering why he hasn't called, why he is not picking, if he is okay, if he will like my new hairstyle. What gift to give him on birthday, men's day, valentine day, promotion day, 'favourite club lost match' day, abi 'day gone wrong' day.

Very tiring 🤧🤧

franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.



As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:


1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.


Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.





When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz

qtguru:
Nothing, except women today are not as appreciative as before. We men do too much for women and yet not the same love is returned. I've thought about it, but being monogamous is beneficial for a proper society.

This is not to say all Nigerian ladies are like that, but most are.

I'm trying to do thing alone but it hard doing thing alone

Can we do things together

Samantha123:


I love my cuddles and I wouldn't want anyone else to come in between me and my cuddles, especially our future kids.. . I wouldn't even mind getting a night shift nanny to look after the kids..

pocohantas:


Lmao. How?

qtguru:


Poco I've seen what Naija guys go through, you might be the exception but most naja ladies put peeps through financial pressure that they cannot do for their own spouse.

pocohantas:


Oh well, one played out in front of me and I don’t pity the person involved. Na long story sha. But you would be amazed at the choices your brothers make while “avoiding” women that can support them.

Mattkid:
you just allow Dem Bleep and go? ......chai u must be the bad type ooo........ Many people go don enter you countless times

Lionstep:
Cheating because I don't av second chance for cheating, one's I noticed you've cheated that's the end of it.