Hello guys please help me out , my siser husband brother impregnated me 😢😭 i gve birth in october2020, i have only breastfed her👩‍👦 😔😟🙁😥 for 6 months before my sister sent me back to the village without my baby 😢😭😢😭, I have been in the villa since april 2021 and i havnt seen my baby again because my doesn't want me to visit them. I missed her so much i dont even know what she looks like now , i really want her back and i strongly believe my sister is suffering her because she always use to refer her as a bad luck 😭😭😭. I missed her so much and I desperately want her back. 😩 what should I do to have my baby back please help me out 😭😭😭🙏

Eyah

Visit another guy to have another baby
U didn't think of how ur baby is surviving u missing her presence
Life don pass the one make u Dey do so

Hmmm... Don't make same mistake twice, beg for her forgiveness and see what happens, don't go alone.

She refer it as badluck because of the present situation in the country
Thank your sister for hiding ur shame
Start working and start sending money for her upkeeping
Your sister too need assistance she might be passing through a lot

Lance008:
Visit another guy to have another baby
U didn't think of how ur baby is surviving u missing her presence
Life don pass the one make u Dey do so

If you have nothing better to say , please shut up 🤐

Are you typing from the village?

Ngozey:



If you have nothing better to say , please shut up 🤐

Lol
U never train pikin u Dey miss am
Ur presence won buy milk
Watin u get to give her

everythinggirly:
Hmmm... Don't make same mistake twice, beg for her forgiveness and see what happens, don't go alone.

I did beg for her forgiveness but she is still angry with me and my dad can't help me. I am all alone 😭😭😭

YinkaOlusesi16:
Are you typing from the village?

Yes I am in the villa

Were you above 18, when you had the baby?

The father of your child is the brother to your sister's husband, on what ground is your child in your sister's custody?

Mindlog:
Were you above 18, when you had the baby?

The father of your child is the brother to your sister's husband, on what ground is your child in your sister's custody?

1. I was 17
2. Yes he is my sister husband brother
3. Baby daddy and I were living with my sister and her husband

The pikin go don forget ya face.

Forget am, u go born another one.

Mamayam:
The pikin go don forget ya face.

Forget am, u go born another one.

🙄 I can't forget my womb opener and I don't want more kids

Ngozey:


1. I was 17
2. Yes he is my sister husband brother
3. Baby daddy and I were living with my sister and her husband

You were a minor when you had the baby and a dependent of your sister and her husband. You should be about 19 now, did you get to finish your secondary school education before having the baby? While in the village, have you been able to learn a skill or a trade?

Mindlog:


You were a minor when you had the baby and a dependent of your sister and her husband. You should be about 19 now, did you get to finish your secondary school education before having the baby? While in the village, have you been able to learn a skill or a trade?

1. I will be 20 this year
2. No I haven't completed secondary school due to the pregnancy
3. I just started learning fashion design

Ngozey:


1. I will be 20 this year
2. No I haven't completed secondary school due to the pregnancy
3. I just started learning fashion design

OK. Should you get custody of your child now, what is the arrangement for the child's upkeep e,g feeding, clothing, medication, care in your absence when you go to where you are learning fashion designing etc?

Mindlog:


OK. Should you get custody of your child now, what is the arrangement for the child's upkeep e,g feeding, clothing, medication, care in your absence when you go to where you are learning fashion designing etc?

To be honest I don't really know how I will manage with her but God will provide 🙏

Ngozey:
Hello guys please help me out , my siser husband brother impregnated me 😢😭 i gve birth in october2020, i have only breastfed her👩‍👦 😔😟🙁😥 for 6 months before my sister sent me back to the village without my baby 😢😭😢😭, I have been in the villa since april 2021 and i havnt seen my baby again because my doesn't want me to visit them. I missed her so much i dont even know what she looks like now , i really want her back and i strongly believe my sister is suffering her because she always use to refer her as a bad luck 😭😭😭. I missed her so much and I desperately want her back. 😩 what should I do to have my baby back please help me out 😭😭😭🙏

■ Get a lawyer
■ Get proof that you had a baby from the hospital where you had the baby
■ Have your lawyer inform your sister, her husband , and the brother that if they don't return your baby, you will take them to court in addition to having to pay you damages

Ngozey:
■To be honest I don't really know how I will manage with her but God will provide 🙏

Which God will provide? Are you talking of the same one who allowed you to have unprotected sex with your in-law's brother, get pregnant, and give birth without ability to care for your own self let alone care for and protect your child on your own?

Ngozey:
Hello guys please help me out , my siser husband brother impregnated me 😢😭 i gve birth in october2020, i have only breastfed her👩‍👦 😔😟🙁😥 for 6 months before my sister sent me back to the village without my baby 😢😭😢😭, I have been in the villa since april 2021 and i havnt seen my baby again because my doesn't want me to visit them. I missed her so much i dont even know what she looks like now , i really want her back and i strongly believe my sister is suffering her because she always use to refer her as a bad luck 😭😭😭. I missed her so much and I desperately want her back. 😩 what should I do to have my baby back please help me out 😭😭😭🙏

Yes, you messed up by getting down with your sister's brother-in-law, but on what ground did your sister send you to the village without your child? What was the agreement? What of your baby Papa? Where does he stand in all of this?Is your sister helping you raise the child or did she just take the child away from you to save face? Whatever happens, you must have free access to your child! Go to the ministry of women affairs in your state, they should be able to help you...but let it be after you've tried resolving this peacefully. I hope the child is safe and "still" yours

Kobojunkie:
■ Get a lawyer
■ Get proof that you had a baby from the hospital where you had the baby
■ Have your lawyer inform your sister, her husband , and the brother that if they don't return your baby, you will take them to court in addition to having to pay you damages

I don't have money for a lawyer unless it is free of charge 😭😭😭

Kobojunkie:
Which God will provide? Are you talking of the same one who made you have sex with your in-laws brother to give birth without yourself being able to care and protect your child on your own?

The same God who created me and you

Ngozey:
I don't have money for a lawyer unless it is free of charge 😭😭😭

Then work hard and make money and then go get your kid.

Ngozey:



To be honest I don't really know how I will manage with her but God will provide 🙏

You have no means of providing care for the child for now, your sister stepping in the prevailing situation is the best for the child for now as presently you are yet to establish direction in your life and bringing in a child into that uncertainty will be cruel, so you need to have that talk with your sister, about visitations.

Kobojunkie:
Then work hard and make money and then go get your kid.

Ok I will

Ngozey:
The same God who created me and you

You and I were created because our individual parents chose to have sex. That God created the process by which we were brought into existence does not then mean that God did it or that God wanted us to be. So, let's stop dragging God's name around as if he is the same level of scum we exist in.

Mindlog:


You have no means of providing care for the child for now, your sister stepping in the prevailing situation is the best for the child for now as presently you are yet to establish direction in your life and bringing in a child into that uncertainty will be cruel, so you need to have that talk with your sister, about visitations.

I would love to have visitations right but she doesn't want to talk to me or visit and I can't cope with that 😩😫😭 I want my baby

Kobojunkie:
You and I were created because our individual parents chose to have sex. That God created the process by which we were brought into existence does not then mean that God did it or that God wanted us to be. So, let's stop dragging God's name around as if he is the same level of scum we exist in.

Ok I hear you 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Ngozey:
Hello guys please help me out , my siser husband brother impregnated me 😢😭 i gve birth in october2020, i have only breastfed her👩‍👦 😔😟🙁😥 for 6 months before my sister sent me back to the village without my baby 😢😭😢😭, I have been in the villa since april 2021 and i havnt seen my baby again because my doesn't want me to visit them. I missed her so much i dont even know what she looks like now , i really want her back and i strongly believe my sister is suffering her because she always use to refer her as a bad luck 😭😭😭. I missed her so much and I desperately want her back. 😩 what should I do to have my baby back please help me out 😭😭😭🙏

Where are your parents in this home video

frozen70:


Where are your parents in this home video

Mum is late and dad doesn't care

Ngozey:




Mum is late and dad doesn't care

But do you have a means of feeding and providing for that child assuming you take over the child