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Based on your research it's a baby girl

Anything wey you wan do, make you do am. That's my advice.

"I'm planning of waiting till she delivers and give her extra 1year or 2years and file a case in court for child custody"........On what grounds would you want the court to grant you custody as the baby daddy?

Let no one deceive you into believing the court will grant you sole custody, rather you will be informed how much you will be sending monthly to your Ex, for the child's upkeep, So better start gearing up for co-parenting.

With the abortion attempt, I hope the child will not be at risk of any neurodevelopmental disorder.

Make she no born Wetin person no Sabi . Since she took injection already , let her remove the baby completely to avoid giving birth to a deformed baby . Keep your pim pim zipped too make bastards no full everywhere

She collected 20k from another guy to remove it and you think you are the only possible father? She moved her things into your house yet walked passed your mother without greeting her! I honestly dont know the quality of people being breed now in Nigeria....common sense is becoming a thing of the past!

This guy again...?? I have just seen where a man is purposely and deliberately calling and cajoling wahala into his life...!!

Shey na you, you must see shege for this girl hand as you no wan hear word you better forget about that child now because she might end up giving birth to an slowpoke or a deformed baby...

I am surprised that your mom isn't saying anything.

Is she a Nigerian

Congrats

Some people are just born foolish and there is nothing that can be done to save them.




Dey play

I regret reading your story because it reeks of foolishness. Just dey play make that girl mistakenly give birth first, you will regret ever impregnating her

D & C is advised in this case bro. That injection used would have affected the baby either physically or mentally. You wouldn’t want to have an slowpoke or a baby with a Down syndrome.
Things like this are the cause of Down syndrome


But come to think of it, have you been diagnosed of low sperm count that you think you can never have a baby with someone else? Or you’re just too desperate to have a partner?

Save yourself the stress. You see those girls born out of wedlock and don't know their fathers? Forget them. They are a lost case.

I had an experience with a lady like her and she and her mum exploited me during her pregnancy and tried forcing me into a marriage.

I agreed but their greed for money made them to collect everything from me under the guise of antenatal and all. After she delivered, I did a DNA and discovered the kid wasn't mine. I gave them an offer for another DNA.

They said the result was fake and refused a second DNA. I had to take them to a court where a second DNA revealed the child wasn't mine. The lady and her mom went on to say we bribed the court people to fake the result.

That kid doesn't have a father today.

Stay away from that lady. Record your conversations and calls with her. Download and save your WhatsApp chats. Every cash you send to her, make sure its from your bank to hers. Never give her money physically. That cannot be traced.

When she delivers, do a DNA. If the kid isn't yours, leave. If it is yours, you'll use the stuff you recorded and downloaded along with your bank statement as evidence in a custody battle.

Pesin wey give am 20k na im get belle. For the fact she didn't greet your mother and she's cold towards you, you're not the father of the unborn child. If you're so keen in having a child, get married to someone else and have legitimate kids

Now I keep wondering what this lady saw in your family that made her refuse to marry you. . Did she see voodoo, witchraft or rituals? Whatever she saw was not enough to make her not to greet your mother, so she is still a bad mannered lady

What would make a woman prefer to work as a housemaid with a protruding stomach, when a man is available to marry her or ease her burden? Your story isn't complete, all i see is pretence because your hands are not broken,, if you truly care about your unborn child, you would have sent money to the lady for her to use and cater for the pregnancy.

The family she is running from(your family) is already reflecting in your character. The girl you impregnated is suffering, yet you are patiently waiting to go get the child in few years.

*Who will pay for the expensive cost of child delivery?
*Who will pay for her ante natal/necessary tests?
*Baby items and drugs?
*Etc?

How much can she make from house keeping to make you think she will have enough to sustain her condition? She shares the blame anyway, because she should have kept her legs...closed. Maybe you feel it's the end of the world for her, but she can still deliver the child and make it in future.

Alesa3341:


give her extra 1year or 2years and file a case in court for child custody.

Please if we have lawyers here, please advice me on what to do to claim the child once she delivers.

sisisioge:
She collected 20k from another guy to remove it and you think you are the only possible father? She moved her things into your house yet walked passed your mother without greeting her! I honestly dont know the quality of people being breed now in Nigeria....common sense is becoming a thing of the past!

the guy is a bastard …. No cap n no apology

Someone is disrespecting your mom openly n u are still pampering her, like seriously d mom is already regretting giving birth to the bastard

Foodqueen:
I am surprised that your mom isn't saying anything.

Is she a Nigerian

d mom is tired of d foolish boy


D mom go don see many shege for d boy hand, imagine someone disrespecting your mom in your presence

Like seriously we die dere, even if na my siblings not to talk of one cheap girl

Plenty "research", no problem statement. Berem & Sisi said it all, except there are other hidden background statements.