For awhile I have been fighting some addiction and i managed to be 98% free, now another battle came along which is fighting low self esteem and lack of confidence,
Now, I've been asking myself if I'm the only in this situation or do any other introvert face same difficulties.

I can relate.

Wahala no dey finish

But overcoming na sure banker

Why aren't you confident?

What's the addiction you were fighting ?




It will help to know.

naijapikin2:
I can relate.

Wahala no dey finish

But overcoming na sure banker

Omoooo
Na one sure

Olasyke:
Why aren't you confident?

Don't even know
But I'm improving as much as I can

doggedfighter:
What's the addiction you were fighting ?




It will help to know.

masturbation
But I've gone months without trying that

.....

Savagr:

Don't even know
But I'm improving as much as I can

We all have confidence in ourselves. You just have to find a way to bring it out.

Olasyke:

We all have confidence in ourselves. You just have to find a way to bring it out.

sure

Richy4:
What do you think triggered the low esteem?

Are u the type that thinks only on how far your mates have gone?.. they have gained admission into the university, they are all married with 13kids, they have houses littered all over..

If u are, then stop it... It won't add or subtract anything as u are doing the thinking..

Exactly
My situation
Overthinking on unnecessary things
But I always tell myself to let go

Why is it that it seems like it's only men who get addicted to masturbation?

Or are there women who are also addicted?

Savagr:
masturbation
But I've gone months without trying that

Well, I'm also an introvert and it's not always easy socializing, but thankfully, I have a lot of cousins and we all get along very well... So I never feel alone because not only are they my friends, but we're a family, also that can help boost one's self confidence, buy surrounding yourself with positive people who love and care about you...

Savagr:
For awhile I have been fighting some addiction and i managed to be 98% free, now another battle came along which is fighting low self esteem and lack of confidence,
Now, I've been asking myself if I'm the only in this situation or do any other introvert face same difficulties.

Savagr:
For awhile I have been fighting some addiction and i managed to be 98% free, now another battle came along which is fighting low self esteem and lack of confidence,
Now, I've been asking myself if I'm the only in this situation or do any other introvert face same difficulties.

Okay first of all. I would like to ask👇

what's your family background like?
Your educational level?
Your looks?
Your financial level?

Answer these questions and I will give you my own advice.

Savagr:
Exactly
My situation
Overthinking on unnecessary things
But I always tell myself to let go

You need to stop thinking about what other people think about you. Worry less and be more Productive. Your time will surely come If you keep working towards the future. I know It wouldn't be easy but you Just have keep your heads up.

If you already have a good source of Income, Because a good source of Income Is a good Recipe for Motivation & Inspiration. Then start doing these things below👇

Pray and meditate every morning. Take your Spiritual Life very serious.

Hit the gym every morning, and at least Thrice a Week.

Go to work, Start mingling with your co-workers. Share Ideas with them and be updated with new happenings, Career growth Wise.

Visit the library often or start Reading books that will advance your career and general growth.

Start going out to Cool places where you can meet reasonable and high caliber set of people.

Try these things for just few weeks and come back here to share your experience.

Treassured:


You need to stop thinking about what other people think about you. Worry less and be more Productive. Your time will surely come If you keep working towards the future. I know It wouldn't be easy but you Just have keep your heads up.

If you already have a good source of Income, Because a good source of Income Is a good Recipe for Motivation & Inspiration. Then start doing these things below👇

Pray and meditate every morning. Take your Spiritual Life very serious.

Hit the gym every morning, and at least Thrice a Week.

Go to work, Start mingling with your co-workers. Share Ideas with them and be updated with new happenings, Career growth Wise.

Visit the library often or start Reading books that will advance your career and general growth.

Start going out to Cool places where you can meet reasonable and high caliber set of people.

Try these things for just few weeks and come back here to share your experience.

Thanks 😊

Treassured:


Okay first of all. I would like to ask👇

what's your family background like?
Your educational level?
Your looks?
Your financial level?

Answer these questions and I will give you my own advice.

Both parents still alive
Still in the University
Ebony
Swings 😢

Samantha123:
Well, I'm also an introvert and it's not always easy socializing, but thankfully, I have a lot of cousins and we all get along very well... So I never feel alone because not only are they my friends, but we're a family, also that can help boost one's self confidence, buy surrounding yourself with positive people who love and care about you...

I have my family too
But you know, I think it's better to build my social skills now before it becomes late.
Because my career and ambitions requires someone who's outspoken and requires public speaking

Samantha123:
Why is it that it seems like it's only men who get addicted to masturbation?

Or are there women who are also addicted?

women are addicted too
It goes both ways

I attended public speaking classes to help me with the ability to be outspoken in front of a crowd of people.

And I was awarded with a certificate for it..

Savagr:

I have my family too
But you know, I think it's better to build my social skills now before it becomes late.
Because my career and ambitions requires someone who's outspoken and requires public speaking

How come I've never heard of instances whereby women are also addicted?

Savagr:
women are addicted too
It goes both ways

Samantha123:
I attended public speaking classes to help me with the ability to be outspoken in front of a crowd of people.

And I was awarded with a certificate for it..

seems I'll find one

Samantha123:
How come I've never heard of instances whereby women are also addicted?

we're not ready for this discussion

But it's not easy, I nearly quite along way..

Savagr:
seems I'll find one

Samantha123:
But it's not easy, I nearly quite along way..

I do practice public speaking tho
Sometimes during our assignment at school or all these project but I'm still not confident tho
But I'm improving in that aspect

Well, good luck.

Savagr:
I do practice public speaking tho
Sometimes during our assignment at school or all these project but I'm still not confident tho
But I'm improving in that aspect

Samantha123:
Well, good luck.

thanks 😊