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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Lilipo: 6:08pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson: @poster, I haven't read other responses to this only because i wanted to give an unbiased opinion. Firstly, I commend your courage to speak up and speak out - this is not very common especially amongst men. My response to your comment is this - maybe you should try being open minded. To be honest, like yourself, it was the opposite for me as being a lady, I always thought men were myopic and like you wasn't sure I wanted to get married or even have a boyfriend because of this. It wasn't until I expanded my network, moved across states and made more male friends that my views changed. I realised I thought the way I did because of the 'small circle' I interacted with which 'locked up' my mind. My suggestion is 1. Try to be open minded - if you come across any female, give them the benefit of doubt that they are sensible until they prove otherwise. 2. Expand your network - make female friends near and far, from all parts of the country and even world, if you can. You'll be amazed. 3. Learn to listen - you'll be surprised at what insight you get when you 'actually' listen. Just as you suggest that women are shallow minded, there are also males that are similar. No gender is superior to each other as each brings different parts to the table which makes the world an interesting place to live in. No matter how you see it, we need each other. I wish you well - oh and by the way. I am now happily married 9 Likes |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Sorry oh...if I may ask a quick question...when women commit paternity fraud is it because they are logical or emotional?...na just question oo |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by gard9ner(m): 6:09pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:Common sense should tell you that you’re talking to your fellow gender. Every man knows that committing any form of crime for money is grossly selfish and that there’s always a price, they know this because they have a more rigidly formed minds “of their own”, unlike women who can do a crime out of petty emotions without thinking of consequences; often women do it, on one hand to impress their lovers (I’m a witness), on the other hand to express negative emotions and as we all know whoever dictates your emotional response CONTROLS your life. So you see? Logical men will always control emotional women. But let’s strike a balance, I’m not saying that there aren’t exceptions, as one poster postulated there are outliners but that’s too insignificant NOT to make a generalised statement. Someone said (I think the op) that we’ve some outliners at the arbitrary range of 25-75% (regression to mean) but that not withstanding, how can you tell what is about the right amount going by the Goldilocks argument, not too cold not too hot; how can you tell if a woman for instance at the other end of the spectrum (emotion), has just the right amount of emotionally blended logical reasoning? Sounds complicating right? Yea, that’s because it’s a paradoxical theory. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by 9japride(m): 6:10pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Flamemignon1:[color=#006600][/color] It's ok, I will research on it. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by KlausMichaelson: 6:11pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: Lols. Rest. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Madups(m): 6:11pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Who is talking of redpill here? Its because of $cum like you that things keep getting worse. What op just said is sadly the truth. The other day i wanted 2 discuss politics with a 25yr old girl not a 21 yr old o. But could not hold any meaningful discus. Not as if you can talk nba or just any sports with her. Fiscus105: 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by shaybebaby(f): 6:12pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
aestake:Lmao! Isn't the man dumb then for risking his freedom? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by KlausMichaelson: 6:13pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Lilipo: Thank you. I wish you well too! 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Putindbutt: 6:15pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson:Dude, you fall hand. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by gard9ner(m): 6:15pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
shaybebaby:Yeah, I was going to say according to a research carried out by China in selected countries in three continents. Once I rediscover it I’ll be sure to share. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 6:20pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:This one na epistle oooo..scaring the guy the more. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 6:22pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
shaybebaby:Men may be dumb when a woman comes into play. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by KlausMichaelson: 6:23pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Putindbutt: Interesting. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Sorry oh...if I may ask a quick question...when women commit paternity fraud is it because they are logical or emotional?...na just question oo @shaybebaby just incase you didnt see my mention earlier. I'm perplexed about this 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
gard9ner:If you truly understand what common sense is, you will realize assumption is a fool's forte. When all indications from the referred person points to being of the male sex, it is only expected the binary to be addressed as the sex "it" project. Again who lacks the common sense? One problem i have with most of you on this forum is how definite you are when it comes to defending yourselves but when it otherwise you leave the topic open ended. Not every man think deep or think of consequences before committing crimes. A fp topic of a man that burned his wife wasn't premeditated but out of Anger(emotion) which is one of the reasons I laugh when I read "Men are not emotional" jargons I read here. Men cry, men shout, men get jealous, Men can be aggressive, Men feel , Men laugh, Men groan. All these are emotions. The range at which these emotions are displayed depends on individual and society. Africans successfully minize display of emotion but not completely eradicate it. That's the simple logic behind the chorus you all sing everytime. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
aestake:He asked for a logical respond didn't he? LoL... You mistake me for a knight in shining armor here to save a "scared guy" 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson:Klaus Micheal no response? There must be a logical and emotion void respond. LOL is emotion and should be left to emotional gender alone. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by kay9(m): 6:31pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
vannessa7: Do you know that your comment is the ONLY one I have read here that does not deny (implicitly or explicitly) that MOST women are truly, unarguably more emotional than logical. Sure, you mixed it up with some religious mumbo-jumbo but that's still ok. The important thing (to me), is that you alone (out of the multitude of female comments here) actually listened to the OP's reasons for why he sees women the way he does. @KlausMichaelson, I think you should listen to this woman; she makes an interesting argument on why being emotional is probably not such a bad thing. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Putindbutt: 6:32pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson:Nothing interesting, you don't say one thing on the 1st page and turn around to buttlick a woman on the 11th page. Next time, stay focused. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by reddingtonblack: 6:34pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
folake4u: Seems the guys in your life are the ones begging for urgent 2k abi. its funny how you gurlz come online to form independant whereas offline naa so so men una dey fvck and extort to do bigz gurl. We the rate at which naija gurlz are living there lives, better save your advise for unaselves. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by KlausMichaelson: 6:36pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Putindbutt: Far from it. Read to understand my reply to her. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Ishilove: 6:37pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson:Okay 👍 I'll store your disappointment in my file of missing fúcks 👌 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 6:39pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:You want Mark, abi? Wait for his response! |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
aestake:No! I won't be waiting on a guy who can't defend his argument beyond his initial submission. That's waiting on volcano to turn ice. I have learnt not to take such individuals seriously because they are yet to master their craft/ idea. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by shaybebaby(f): 6:43pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Rayban25:That's dishonesty and it presents in the numerous human interactions we have, irrespective of gender. So my answer to your question is I don't know why people ( men and women) willfully make certain choices that have repercussions to others. Could be driven by emotions, eg pleading diminished responsibility on a murder charge or self defence versus premeditated murder. Circumstances surrounding each instance must be taken into consideration to make such determination. Regardless of why, it is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 6:45pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:ok. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by shaybebaby(f): 6:47pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
gard9ner:Happy hunting...I reckon it'll take a while. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by reddingtonblack: 6:48pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
pocohantas: Boyz don't have job yet 89% of Nigeria gurlz are engaged in relationship or Runz as a source of livelihood. If naija boyz no get job no be gurlz wey dey do sugar daddy runz we suppose hear am tueh 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by KlausMichaelson: 6:48pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
aestake: Don't let any argument with a female linger on for too long. This response should have come earlier than this. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Okay thank you. |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by shaybebaby(f): 6:49pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
aestake:Then they must take responsibility rather than hate women for their own weakness. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by aestake: 6:51pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
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