Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by marostan(m): 11:52am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Bro you see this journey, never venture into that AS and AS pairing. Better forget about her and breakup asap. That love, tribe and religion you're considering now, none of them will matter again when you start giving birth. Sickle cell is no respecter of all those. I was once at this crossroad, i know how it feels but you got to take that decision now. 2 Likes |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by mostHandsome01: 11:53am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Lifebender:
Bless you.You spoke my mind. It's not about getting married and having kids,their's no assurance that one is even fertile enough to father a child.Why not opt for happiness then![](/faces/huh.png) But a lot of folks are misinformed in Nigeria today,they don't read. The issue is...get married,but don't bring SS kids into this world. The only thing I have to add is...He should have the money for this things.The risks,can be taken care of by the facility he chooses. Exactly bro! If he must marry an AS, he can as long as he doesn't bring up an SS child. With adequate finance, all this isn't much of a big deal. 4 Likes |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Bennycollins: 11:54am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Delight2014:
It doesn't actually work that way my dear I can attest that some firstborn may be SS, so it varies People don't really understand this things. That there is 25% chance of having an SS offsprings doesn't preclude the possibility of having 2, 3 or even all 4 offsprings out of 4 with SS. I have an uncle that had both of his first 2 offspring with SS, and sadly both died b4 age 12. Thereafter, non of the next 4 is SS. 1 Like |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by tanimusaeedu: 11:54am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Married the girl that are genotype is AA you can develop love with her inrespective of individual religion Muslim are good people so we'll one big family 1 Like |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by kay29000(m): 11:54am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Fedrick100:
What baffles me in all this is, All My mum family married without checking their genotype and they didn’t give birth to ss, My parents also married without checking their genotype, None of my siblings are ss. My elder brother too married without checking their genotype, none of his kids are Ss too Same with my parents... I don't think they know their genotype till now sef |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by franchasng: 11:57am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Queendera: It's painful. We get it.
But time they say heals all wounds, well except that of a sickle cell child.
You are not limited to the two ladies you mentioned.
Leave the first girl alone. And if you don't find the second girl desirable for marriage, leave her alone too.
You are a man. A hunter. Go into the forest and get your hands dirty. Find other girls and start again. Are you minding the idiot ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Back to APC internal crises; APC scatter APC scatter. APC die by fire, die by fire, die by fire, AMEN! ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by favour32(m): 11:57am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Nor try am saam saam with As/As Run! Nor look back! |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by CaptainAyub: 11:57am On Feb 06, 2023 |
SmartPolician: My AS female friend has lost a lot of potential suitors due to her genotype. The other day, she called me and was crying. Husbands are scarce and now imagine a girl losing the few suitors who come around. A lot of guys out there are mere fvck boys!
We cannot continue like this. Nigerian health experts should do something about this. These posh people, who speak highly of themselves and profession, should justify why they went to school. We must not wait for Americans to solve all our problems. Unfortunately, the Caucasians don't even see this as a problem among themselves that's why they rarely talk about it There's a way around it already |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Fedrick100: 11:58am On Feb 06, 2023 |
kay29000:
Same with my parents... I don't think they know their genotype till now sef I don’t know how the old generation did this oo, Rn any little thing person don born a sickle cell 1 Like |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Weedhustler: 12:01pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Barbados20: Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.
Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.
On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.
My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.
Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice. No go take I love u I love u, make u enter something wey u go regret for live...Love dey fade ooo. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by CaptainAyub: 12:02pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Dhury: Maybe healthy child's in marriage is about luck not genotypes though i will make sure I know my genotype soon ,as well of my future wife, but my question is If these genotype issues is real why All people from my rural areas never get problem from it despite not knowing their status till date and all their children are healthy.take me and all my siblings for example our parents don't even know what is genotype but we are not affected with any genotype issues we are all healthy. It is there, and has always been there. Remember ogbanje in Igbo and abiku(I think) in yoruba? The child that is born,always falls sick and eventually dies,only to be born again? That was sickle cell disease ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Just like "he match poison" is one of the complications of untreated diabetes mellitus ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Babygal2020(f): 12:02pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
I have plenty single friends that want to get married. Most are my colleagues. We are student-nurses. Hit me up if you are interested. I'm married though. Barbados20: Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.
Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.
On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.
My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.
Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice. 3 Likes |
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Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Sapeleomi: 12:03pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Hi, Is good to hear you thinking about getting married, having children, and maintaining a family.. However, the questions you must ask yourself is if your character and that of the person you intend to marry will substain you both throughout you growth,challenges and tribulation? .. You have to be discerning because your love or ethnic consideration is not enough for a marriage to work.. Please settle down with someone you trust, respect and who protect your interest no matter what.. A consistent character trait prevails over Love, a feeling that is fleeting.. .. If you broke or unemployed today can the love between you and your proposed fiance last? As per genotype, science may be of assistance... There is no guarantee that if you married an AA person she will conceive and have healthy children? Fertility and heath issues are a risk.. You do have the ability to marry and settle down with an As person you deeply desire and happy with. What you need to do is go for regular pre-pregnacy check of the unborn child or embryo before the baby develops fully. It may be a traumatic experience for you or the mother to terminate the foetus or unborn if is unhealthy. . However, health and scientific discoverery gives the opportunity to scrutine and preempt health complications.. It is likely to be financiallly costly and not available in every hospital. However, it saves you from getting with the wrong person and having children with someone you dont desire.. Your decision now determines your future happiness and stability in your relationships.. Choose wisely and stay positive... Barbados20: Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.
Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.
On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.
My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.
Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice. 2 Likes |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Sapeleomi: 12:09pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Hi, Is good to hear you thinking about getting married, having children, and maintaining a family.. However, the questions you must ask yourself is if your character and that of the person you intend to marry will substain you both throughout you growth,challenges and tribulation? .. You have to be discerning because your love or religious, ethnic consideration is not enough for a marriage to work.. Please settle down with someone you trust, respect and who protect your interest no matter what.. A consistent character trait prevails over Love, a feeling that is fleeting.. .. If you broke or unemployed today can the love between you and your proposed fiance last? As per genotype, science may be of assistance... There is no guarantee that if you married an AA person she will conceive and have healthy children? Fertility and heath issues are a risk.. You do have the ability to marry and settle down with an As person you deeply desire and happy with. What you need to do is go for regular pre-pregnacy check of the unborn child or embryo before the baby develops fully. It may be a traumatic experience for you or the mother to terminate the foetus or unborn if is unhealthy. . However, health and scientific discoverery gives the opportunity to scrutine and preempt health complications.. It is likely to be financiallly costly and not available in every hospital. However, it saves you from getting with the wrong person and having children with someone you dont desire.. Your decision now determines your future happiness and stability in your relationships.. Choose wisely and stay positive... Barbados20: Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.
Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.
On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.
My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.
Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by ConfidentialDoc: 12:14pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
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Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Sleekfingers: 12:15pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Barbados20: Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.
Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.
On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.
My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.
Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice. If you really love yourself don't marry AS no matter what.....i don talk my own ooooo.... A friend who did that is regretting now. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by izombie(m): 12:17pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
mostHandsome01: I will be brutally honest with you and summarise as much as I can.
Believe me, it is better to marry who you love and loves you back than to marry someone because they are AA and after marriage, your life becomes miserable. Many ignorant people will tell you, don't marry your fiancee, you will suffer if you do, etc. But the truth is, knowing you and your fiancee are AS doesn't mean you will both go ahead to have children with SS. You can marry your fiancee that is also AS if you are properly informed. Many will tell you it is not worth it. Yes, it is not worth it to give birth to SS children and let them suffer, but it is worth it to get married to who will give you peace and then you both go through other well known, well proven means of giving birth to children without SS.
Some will tell you, it's too expensive to do as though the money is coming out of their pockets. This mostly happens in Nigeria due to the so many uneducated and uninformed people we have . Some are even educated but still uninformed. Technology has changed the scope of many things. To cut the long story short. If you must marry someone who is AS like you. Do not make the mistake of having a child without doing one of the 2 options below...
1) Prenatal testing: fertility clinics in Nigeria do this. When a woman is pregnant, they check the genotype of the fetus, if the featus is AA or AS (75% chance) they leave the fetus. But if the fetus is SS(25% chance) they safely remove the fetus. Now this isn't for everyone as some people may feel it's against their morals to remove a fetus even if it's SS. So for people like this, you can go for the second option
2) PGD : this is a process where a woman's egg is fertilized with a man's sperm. Several specimen will be carried out, the couple can then choose the one with either AA or AS, that way they stand no risk of having an SS child. Some people use this process to choose the gender of a child. And this process can also lead to twin and even more as many celebrities or people looking for children do this and that's why you see them giving birth to twins at once.
Now listen to me, some people will still discourage you. They will say the stress is not worth it because they are already lucky to find a partner that's AA. Some will say the money is too much even though the money isn't coming out from their pocket. The decision is yours and yours alone. If you want to marry for love and peace and the person giving you this is AS. Go for any of the options above. It's all your choice to make. So there you go. You either marry AA, or do any of the options above. Just make sure you do not have SS children. Just look at the trash you dey yan. We all know that getting married because of love is the koko but this is not about love. This is reality. AS and AS shouldn't get married and that's it because there is a very high chance that they will give birth to SS and then the happiness, the love, the peace, the calm, the monies saved will begin to evaporate. Op, if you love yourself and your lady, end that relationship now. Don't bring children into this world to come and suffer. Don't take that chance. I know why i dey tell you. My friend married his university sweetheart not knowing they are both AS. Their first child now na SS. They are now more in the hospital than their house. Dem don tire. Use your head bro not your heart. There are millions of AA ladies in naija. For your lady, there are also millions of AA guys in naija. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Cutehector(m): 12:18pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
AA girls are too proud. Dont like them. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by grandstar(m): 12:19pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Badhguy: You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor. Barbados20 That is completely false Each child to be born has a 1 in 4 chance to be SS. It is different from1 child out of every 4th child will be SS. 2 Likes |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by frankson1(m): 12:21pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Badhguy: You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor. Not true Sir. My Aunty's first child was SS. A family member has 4 children of which 2 are SS, the first child and the third. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by frankson1(m): 12:25pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Queendera: It's painful. We get it.
But time they say heals all wounds, well except that of a sickle cell child.
You are not limited to the two ladies you mentioned.
Leave the first girl alone. And if you don't find the second girl desirable for marriage, leave her alone too.
You are a man. A hunter. Go into the forest and get your hands dirty. Find other girls and start again. ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif) |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Ishilove: 12:25pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Badhguy: You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor. This is so false. My extended family members who were/are SS were not 4th children. They were/are first and third 1 Like |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Sabadon(m): 12:25pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
mostHandsome01: I will be brutally honest with you and summarise as much as I can.
Believe me, it is better to marry who you love and loves you back than to marry someone because they are AA and after marriage, your life becomes miserable. Many ignorant people will tell you, don't marry your fiancee, you will suffer if you do, etc. But the truth is, knowing you and your fiancee are AS doesn't mean you will both go ahead to have children with SS. You can marry your fiancee that is also AS if you are properly informed. Many will tell you it is not worth it. Yes, it is not worth it to give birth to SS children and let them suffer, but it is worth it to get married to who will give you peace and then you both go through other well known, well proven means of giving birth to children without SS.
Some will tell you, it's too expensive to do as though the money is coming out of their pockets. This mostly happens in Nigeria due to the so many uneducated and uninformed people we have . Some are even educated but still uninformed. Technology has changed the scope of many things. To cut the long story short. If you must marry someone who is AS like you. Do not make the mistake of having a child without doing one of the 2 options below...
1) Prenatal testing: fertility clinics in Nigeria do this. When a woman is pregnant, they check the genotype of the fetus, if the featus is AA or AS (75% chance) they leave the fetus. But if the fetus is SS(25% chance) they safely remove the fetus. Now this isn't for everyone as some people may feel it's against their morals to remove a fetus even if it's SS. So for people like this, you can go for the second option
2) PGD : this is a process where a woman's egg is fertilized with a man's sperm. Several specimen will be carried out, the couple can then choose the one with either AA or AS, that way they stand no risk of having an SS child. Some people use this process to choose the gender of a child. And this process can also lead to twin and even more as many celebrities or people looking for children do this and that's why you see them giving birth to twins at once.
Now listen to me, some people will still discourage you. They will say the stress is not worth it because they are already lucky to find a partner that's AA. Some will say the money is too much even though the money isn't coming out from their pocket. The decision is yours and yours alone. If you want to marry for love and peace and the person giving you this is AS. Go for any of the options above. It's all your choice to make. So there you go. You either marry AA, or do any of the options above. Just make sure you do not have SS children. @op this is the best advice so far,stick with this 2 Likes |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by gannod(m): 12:30pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Badhguy: You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor. This is not true. My immediate younger brother( second born) was SS. The Op should avoid AS to avoid stories that touch... |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Kajaard: 12:31pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
mostHandsome01: I will be brutally honest with you and summarise as much as I can.
Believe me, it is better to marry who you love and loves you back than to marry someone because they are AA and after marriage, your life becomes miserable. Many ignorant people will tell you, don't marry your fiancee, you will suffer if you do, etc. But the truth is, knowing you and your fiancee are AS doesn't mean you will both go ahead to have children with SS. You can marry your fiancee that is also AS if you are properly informed. Many will tell you it is not worth it. Yes, it is not worth it to give birth to SS children and let them suffer, but it is worth it to get married to who will give you peace and then you both go through other well known, well proven means of giving birth to children without SS.
Some will tell you, it's too expensive to do as though the money is coming out of their pockets. This mostly happens in Nigeria due to the so many uneducated and uninformed people we have . Some are even educated but still uninformed. Technology has changed the scope of many things. To cut the long story short. If you must marry someone who is AS like you. Do not make the mistake of having a child without doing one of the 2 options below...
1) Prenatal testing: fertility clinics in Nigeria do this. When a woman is pregnant, they check the genotype of the fetus, if the featus is AA or AS (75% chance) they leave the fetus. But if the fetus is SS(25% chance) they safely remove the fetus. Now this isn't for everyone as some people may feel it's against their morals to remove a fetus even if it's SS. So for people like this, you can go for the second option
2) PGD : this is a process where a woman's egg is fertilized with a man's sperm. Several specimen will be carried out, the couple can then choose the one with either AA or AS, that way they stand no risk of having an SS child. Some people use this process to choose the gender of a child. And this process can also lead to twin and even more as many celebrities or people looking for children do this and that's why you see them giving birth to twins at once.
Now listen to me, some people will still discourage you. They will say the stress is not worth it because they are already lucky to find a partner that's AA. Some will say the money is too much even though the money isn't coming out from their pocket. The decision is yours and yours alone. If you want to marry for love and peace and the person giving you this is AS. Go for any of the options above. It's all your choice to make. So there you go. You either marry AA, or do any of the options above. Just make sure you do not have SS children. 💯% FACTS. Best response so far cc: Barbados20 4 Likes |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Saintmary(f): 12:31pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
just2endowed:
ypur number 2 caught me, why is the disease common in Africa? was it from cross breeding from another species of non Homo sapient?
It's a biological evolutionary response to protect tropical dwellers like Africans against Malaria, in my layman opinion Mind you, I am not a medical doctor |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by jmichael259(m): 12:39pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Babygal2020: I have plenty single friends that want to get married. Most are my student-nurses.
Which state/region? Badhguy: You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor. What sort of mad person taught you this nonsense? Any doctor that'll attempt to cure it will be severely infected. Fedrick100:
I don’t know how the old generation did this oo, Rn any little thing person don born a sickle cell General Population increase, globalisation and awareness so, it's easy now to identify sickler patient. They were still many sickler babies. They just didn't know what it was and tagged them ogbanje etc and they didn't have medical care so the victims died of as babies or in early childhood and were forgotten. ALSO FEW ARE LUCKY TO BORN MAINLY AS & AA (maybe just 1 or 2 SS) SO THEY DON'T NOTICE. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Saintmary(f): 12:40pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
1Sharon: AS genotype shouldn't be a hindrance! If you meet a woman that is AS you can still go ahead.
Go for genetic counselling, there are options.
You can do:
amniocentesis OR
pre implantation genetic diagnosis.
Those options are if you have the money and are brave enough.
Do you have any idea how risky amniocentesis is? They will insert a needle into a pregnancy belly from outside to extract something from inside the belly, thereby puncturing the belly, uterus and placenta. How many Nigerian medical practitioners have successfully performed amniocentesis in Nigeria? How many hospitals in Nigeria have such facilities to protect the mother and foetus in such a delicate situation? How many patients are willing to risk precious pregnancies for such a procedure? All because a man is too lazy to find a suitable bride? |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Brownshoe: 12:41pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
You be AS you dey complain, Weythin make single SS guy come do? |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Solocoin: 12:41pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
If you're really a Christian why will you allow a tribe to be an issue for you? Look for someone from a Christian home and from there you can learn about her tradition. Also pray to God for directions. Don't allow tribe push you to the wrong person. Pray to God for directions as you're a Christian. Make sure you avoid any lady who's AS like a plague because SS wahala love won't be able to solve it. It's very traumatize. |
Re: My (AS) Genotype. A Major Hindrance In Getting Married On Time. by Creamypie(m): 12:41pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Badhguy: You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor. na you yarn like this?I/4 means there's 25% chance of having an ss in every 4 kids. The child nay even be the first or 2nd. 2 of 4 kids may even be ss |