Ficklemind:
Is there something wrong with me or I’m just over reacting?

Kobojunkie:
You are overreacting!

If your mind is racing, pick up books to read or watch some good movies to get the distraction your mind might be in need of. If skills are what you desire, then pick up books to help you learn at least some essential ones like sack gardening skills, composting, writing, reading comprehension, etc. You don't need to start with the heavy stuff at first. Learn basic skills and build on those as you go. You never know you might even spot opportunities to make money simply from just those.

As for getting laid, if it is that important to you then consider paying a man for sex if you must, but I think it makes more sense to maybe consider why your last relationship ended and maybe spend your time learning from any mistakes you may have made in that relationship to better prepare yourself so are not to fall for the same in your next relationship.

ahnie:
Let me invites the elders.


Cc
Richy4
Mindlog
God1000

These are the few sensible ones that came to my mind.



Peace

doggedfighter:

Gloriousgbola too

ahnie:

Na these ones I know o my dear.


Howdy nau?

God1000:
There's nothing wrong with you, and I don't think you should even rush things, be painstaking about the choices you make from now on.

You are already a graduate at 27, a lot can still change during your service year, get a skill while serving and try to save money to start small business after your NYSC.

ahnie doggedfighter

My greetings

Richy4:


Stop thinking too much of what u don't have, it's time u count your blessings ...HBP kills faster than cancer nowadays..

Acidosis:


Well stated.

Thanks bro.. It was just straight from the heart.. Many are still feeling the impact of COVID.. so many lost their jobs and business,some can't pay mortgage anymore..a lot of houses on sale..We really need to start counting our blessings and ignore certain things out of our control..

Hope you are well buddy

Ficklemind:
I really don’t know how to stop thinking, not even for a second my mind is always faraway please help I’m slipping away....

I’m a woman of 27years, lonely, don’t have a relationship, not financially ok , don’t have any skills even though I just graduated waiting for mobilization and I planned to acquire one while in service.

I never actually thought about life much till I graduated, I gained admission when I was 20years and I actually thought I still have much time to achieve a lot of things in life . It was now I realized how much time I had wasted in not paying much attention to my life even when I know that it never too late.

My financial life has been basically sponsored by me Incase you are wondering how I get funds to live by. Last year, I got a casual job , did a thrift business though not something big but I was able to saveup and was able to live on that even now I still have something I can depend on without asking from anybody by living within my limit.

My relationship life has been ok too, I left my last relationship early last year and that was the last time I got laid. It has not been easy to abstain but with determination here I’m going months without it. I must say I’m lonely, I crave to love and be loved yet I don’t want to get into any relationship now because I don’t want to fall into unsafe hands and having unnecessary sex.

I feel like a failure like I don’t have purpose for my life, I crave for intimacy but even if I get someone who likes me or wants to settle down with me I’m not sure I’m ready for that now because I’m not financially stable yet.

Is there something wrong with me or I’m just over reacting?

My relationship life has been ok too, I left my last relationship early last year and that was the last time I got laid. It has not been easy to abstain but with determination here I’m going months without it. I must say I’m lonely, I crave to love and be loved yet I don’t want to get into any relationship now because I don’t want to fall into unsafe hands and having unnecessary sex.

ahnie:

Na these ones I know o my dear.


Howdy nau?

vastolord4:
Is it the sex? A normal functioning human can get sex from any person you deem fit for the job be it friend or neighbour. As for the job/financial issue, its gonna take a little longer to get a random perfect job cos every employer doesn't know what's gonna happen during/after this election..

In general, make sure you've got a side hustle even if it chinchin you can learn, start it now! It's never too late.. just get a time routine for your daily plans mapped out and make sure job applications and online learning skills are part of this list. Good luck to our future

Richy4:

Thanks bro.. It was just straight from the heart.. Many are still feeling the impact of COVID.. so many lost their jobs and business,some can't pay mortgage anymore..a lot of houses on sale..We really need to start counting our blessings and ignore certain things out of our control..

Hope you are well buddy

AjiBussu:
I think you're just confused. Get laid first, then you will know exactly what you want

doggedfighter:

Gloriousgbola
Acidosis
Gboyegad ,come and put mouth for this matter

Ficklemind:
I really don’t know how to stop thinking, not even for a second my mind is always faraway please help I’m slipping away....

I’m a woman of 27years, lonely, don’t have a relationship, not financially ok , don’t have any skills even though I just graduated waiting for mobilization and I planned to acquire one while in service.

I never actually thought about life much till I graduated, I gained admission when I was 20years and I actually thought I still have much time to achieve a lot of things in life . It was now I realized how much time I had wasted in not paying much attention to my life even when I know that it never too late.

My financial life has been basically sponsored by me Incase you are wondering how I get funds to live by. Last year, I got a casual job , did a thrift business though not something big but I was able to saveup and was able to live on that even now I still have something I can depend on without asking from anybody by living within my limit.

My relationship life has been ok too, I left my last relationship early last year and that was the last time I got laid. It has not been easy to abstain but with determination here I’m going months without it. I must say I’m lonely, I crave to love and be loved yet I don’t want to get into any relationship now because I don’t want to fall into unsafe hands and having unnecessary sex.
I feel like a failure like I don’t have purpose for my life, I crave for intimacy but even if I get someone who likes me or wants to settle down with me I’m not sure I’m ready for that now because I’m not financially stable yet.

Is there something wrong with me or I’m just over reacting?