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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 11:12am On Feb 05, 2023
sad
oyetunjibaba:




There is this girl have been dating since last year July. Whenever I am about to make move she stops me,she claimed she is a virgin. She even swore with bible but I still don't trust her.
It really shows that you're in love but don't be stupid
How can girl be deceiving you for over six months and you still can figure out what to do. You are the real Mr lover

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 11:37am On Feb 05, 2023
Women will always have the best of their useful SIMP all day any day
Congratulate yourself once again for being redpill

The SIMPs are not finding it easy with women

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:01pm On Feb 05, 2023
Dabronze:
Yes You're right!
Many don't know and, unfortunately, many will never ever find out.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 2:58pm On Feb 05, 2023
Kipaji:


I failed. Miserably.

I tried monk mode and failed.

The fight against one's lust is a tortuous inner battle. This world bombards us left and right with lust triggers. From the media becoming pornofied to women shamelessly teasing online and offline, everything is being sexualized at an uncontrollable and worrying rate. Unfortunately, men were not raise to control their lust. And society will not help with its anti-men, anti-civilization agendas. So, it is exceptional hard for a man nowadays to maintain focus on what matters. As never seen before, almost all men are porn and/or masturbation addicts. Most do not have the drive and discipline to work consistently towards something meaningful. Men are weak and becoming weaker.

I believe that the last barrier against this degeneration of the man is the fabric and substance of his mind and spirit. The man must forge his mind and nurture his spirit to escape the tornado of degeneracy this world is caught into. But, since the inner is influenced by the outer, and vice versa, to regulate the inner, we must also manipulate the outer. So, this fight is double-dimensional. And it is a very hard one. Nonetheless, the expected rewards are definitely worth the struggle. This is why I engaged in this battle.

I keep failing. And I try my best to re-strategize and stand up stronger. I do not want to give up.

I choose strength over pleasure.




I am going again now. Stronger and more experienced. I'll take at least a full year out of Nairaland and go Monk Mode.
Thank you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:07pm On Feb 05, 2023
Dabronze:
This how they think

Out of point, but from your screenshot, I can see you're either using Samsung S22 Ultra or any S series flagship or note 20 ultra or any note flagship. So, how did you set the date at the top to show full date, like January 19th

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 05, 2023
Seandisputed:
Every likelihood Blaqbonez is a member of this thread

Why do you think so

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 5:38pm On Feb 05, 2023
"Wonderful"
Jarule (feat. R Kelly, Ashanti)
Song Released : September 28 2004


Oh
Oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh

Wanna keep you flawed with no dough
Pimping ain't easy, trust me, I know
When gangstas and hoes
Go, go, go, go, go, go together
Like chinchilla and bad weather
I'm good but been better
All my bros, cheddar and glamorous things
Copped a few cars, a crib with a east and west wing
'Cause this is how I'm livin' and y'all women know the secrets
Of how to get it and keep it
How to prey on my weakness
'Cause the power of P-U-S-S-Y
Got a lotta niggas wonderin', it ain't just I
Gotta keep ya cash comin' and that's on my life
If it wasn't for the money and the things I got
Shit, she probably wouldn't like me
But I keep her and Irv and Jeffrey quite icy
Sip seraphim, who doesn't like me?
And the murderous I-N-C

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh

How many girls does it take to get to
Mack status? Player status?
Pimps that get
Ya boy half rich 'fore we hit show biz
But show biz brought next level chicks
Pull up in them hot cars, go and buy the whole bar, nigga
I came from the dirt, what you want me to say?
I'm at the top of the world and life's a pussy buffet
And that's why I get M-I-A (Oh)
Shut the game down so the bustas can't play (Oh)
Hell yeah, I splurge money
Hell yeah, I act funny
Look at you like, "Bleep you"
All the shit I been through
It's a wonder why I'm still here ('Cause)
Said I was gone but I'm still here ('Cause)
And all you bitches that left me here (Oh)
It's mighty strange how you right back here (Oh, oh, oh)

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh

I wonder why love is about money
And why you wanna take it all from me, honey
My life is dark but it's lovely
Crimes, cars, cribs, ain't that right, Kelly? (Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh)
Y'all bitches don't know
Money ain't a thang
Mami need a lil' change, girl, I'm pitchin' quarters
Closest to the arches but live in a fortress
New Benzes, new Porsches
New cases, new lawyers
I'm becoming the infamous notorious rule
Niggas couldn't walk a mile in my shoes
Niggas don't possess the heart that I do
And it's a wonder that I'm still here ('Cause)
Thought I was gone but I'm still here ('Cause)
And all you bitches that left me here (Oh)
It's kinda funny how you right back there (Oh, oh, oh)

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QVXE1EzMrfw

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dan8969: 6:12pm On Feb 05, 2023
You can save yourself time, energy and heartbreaks if you listen to others and learn from their mistakes.
#Take the redpill

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chikasnight: 7:09pm On Feb 05, 2023
It is what it is...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by GymVideographer(m): 7:30am On Feb 06, 2023
Very Funny....I Can just take some time to make a big laugh on you...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ahuitzotl: 8:01am On Feb 06, 2023
Dabronze:
"Wonderful"
Jarule (feat. R Kelly, Ashanti)
Song Released : September 28 2004


Oh
Oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh

Wanna keep you flawed with no dough
Pimping ain't easy, trust me, I know
When gangstas and hoes
Go, go, go, go, go, go together
Like chinchilla and bad weather
I'm good but been better
All my bros, cheddar and glamorous things
Copped a few cars, a crib with a east and west wing
'Cause this is how I'm livin' and y'all women know the secrets
Of how to get it and keep it
How to prey on my weakness
'Cause the power of P-U-S-S-Y
Got a lotta niggas wonderin', it ain't just I
Gotta keep ya cash comin' and that's on my life
If it wasn't for the money and the things I got
Shit, she probably wouldn't like me
But I keep her and Irv and Jeffrey quite icy
Sip seraphim, who doesn't like me?
And the murderous I-N-C

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh

How many girls does it take to get to
Mack status? Player status?
Pimps that get
Ya boy half rich 'fore we hit show biz
But show biz brought next level chicks
Pull up in them hot cars, go and buy the whole bar, nigga
I came from the dirt, what you want me to say?
I'm at the top of the world and life's a pussy buffet
And that's why I get M-I-A (Oh)
Shut the game down so the bustas can't play (Oh)
Hell yeah, I splurge money
Hell yeah, I act funny
Look at you like, "Bleep you"
All the shit I been through
It's a wonder why I'm still here ('Cause)
Said I was gone but I'm still here ('Cause)
And all you bitches that left me here (Oh)
It's mighty strange how you right back here (Oh, oh, oh)

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh

I wonder why love is about money
And why you wanna take it all from me, honey
My life is dark but it's lovely
Crimes, cars, cribs, ain't that right, Kelly? (Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh)
Y'all bitches don't know
Money ain't a thang
Mami need a lil' change, girl, I'm pitchin' quarters
Closest to the arches but live in a fortress
New Benzes, new Porsches
New cases, new lawyers
I'm becoming the infamous notorious rule
Niggas couldn't walk a mile in my shoes
Niggas don't possess the heart that I do
And it's a wonder that I'm still here ('Cause)
Thought I was gone but I'm still here ('Cause)
And all you bitches that left me here (Oh)
It's kinda funny how you right back there (Oh, oh, oh)

If it wasn't for the money, cars and movie stars and jewels
And all these things I've got
I wonder, hey
Would you still want me? (Want you)
Would you still be calling me? (Still calling you)
You be loving me? (I'll be loving you)
Oh, oh, oh, oh



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QVXE1EzMrfw
This song was the anthem of my best mate, he's in the US now, back in the day, yeah remember him blasting this over the speaker while he had us over to his house for some gaming on his PS2....He and some of my other mates where so redpilled that young and were getting pussies from every angle, Nigeria then was quite simplistic not like the hell it is now. It was the period I saw someone toast a girl in the afternoon and f**Ked her in a football field somewhere in Dolphin Estate in the evening...sh**t was so out of this world and well before our time that I was shocked..2003-2004-2005...What a time to be alive and redpilled for some of my mates, it was like being a wolf amongst chicken. As for me, I was a stupid f**king simp stuck in a Oneitis that led to nowhere except dodging all the pussies that where thrown at me because of my close relationships with my redpilled mates..they had all the fun...damn!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:16am On Feb 06, 2023

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 11:33am On Feb 06, 2023
If you want to lead a truly happy life...

Do not put your happiness first.

Few will understand this.



Happiness is overrated.

Deep sense of fulfillment from the actions you take daily is underrated.

Feelings will never get you anywhere substantial.

Don’t buy the mainstream lie that happiness is the end all be all.

Make your life mean something, build something important.

---MasculinePeak---

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 11:35am On Feb 06, 2023
Dating Hack:

If your girl won't change, change your girl.

---MasculinePeak---

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 11:36am On Feb 06, 2023
Unpopular Opinion:

Long-distance relationships are a scam.

It makes absolutely no sense to spend any amount of time talking to a girl if you couldn't meet her tomorrow.

---MasculinePeak---


Long-distance relationships aren’t sustainable

It shouldn’t even be called a relationship

It’s just two people using each other as an emotional tampon because they’re both scared of being alone.

End it immediately, it's a dark path leading to nothing but cheating and toxicity.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 11:38am On Feb 06, 2023
Fact:

Women control access to intimacy.
Men control access to commitment.

Remember this and apply accordingly.

---MasculinePeak---



Gentlemen, you have more power than you think.

Every p*ssy feels the same, & most girls don't have interesting personalities to keep you hooked.

So they know they have to maintain some mystery to keep you chasing.

Turn the tables by having an addictive personality.

Learn Game

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 11:43am On Feb 06, 2023
It doesn't matter...

• How long you've been with a girl
• That you've always been there for her
• How many memories you share together

Once her Hypergamy kicks in...

She'll forget all about you in a week or two.

---MasculinePeak---



Many men fall into the trap of getting too comfortable into a relationship and stop growing.

This is a FATAL mistake.

Even in a relationship, you should never stop chasing excellence.

Learn game or Perish

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 11:46am On Feb 06, 2023
Advice for Young Men:

Take charge of your destiny.
Leave home, live alone, and take risks.

Don't let your comfort zone hold you back.

---MasculinePeak---



I'm 25 and I've made tons of mistakes in my life.

But, if I could go back, the #1 thing I would change is: Find good mentors.

Following advice from people who have the results you want will catapult you ahead of everyone else. 🧠

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TEAMvido(m): 2:12pm On Feb 06, 2023
Meedon:


Whenever some of you hear the name "MGTOW" una balls go start to the itch or scratch una. 😂 😂 😂 😂 How many times do we explain to you guys the concept of MGTOW? Must we all follow the family route?

YES, the way NORMAL rational human being should be cool ..
Don't be easily brainwashed dude 🙃. not everything I see on the internet I digest those that are not applicable in the real world go the trash bin...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:03pm On Feb 06, 2023
My My My......... Say less.....Observe more

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2023
Ahuitzotl:
This song was the anthem of my best mate, he's in the US now, back in the day, yeah remember him blasting this over the speaker while he had us over to his house for some gaming on his PS2....He and some of my other mates where so redpilled that young and were getting pussies from every angle, Nigeria then was quite simplistic not like the hell it is now. It was the period I saw someone toast a girl in the afternoon and f**Ked her in a football field somewhere in Dolphin Estate in the evening...sh**t was so out of this world and well before our time that I was shocked..2003-2004-2005...What a time to be alive and redpilled for some of my mates, it was like being a wolf amongst chicken. As for me, I was a stupid f**king simp stuck in a Oneitis that led to nowhere except dodging all the pussies that where thrown at me because of my close relationships with my redpilled mates..they had all the fun...damn!
You can say that again
The best hip hop artist in the early 20's artist like DMX, Eminem, Jayz 50cent and G-unit

It was all fun in those days me and my friends then we are good for one things we don't put women on pedestal and no simpin.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 6:11pm On Feb 06, 2023
TheGidRedpiller:
COOKING IS A FEMININE CORE RESPONSIBILITY!!

Your favorite Misogynist, TheGidRedpiller is online again. Sit back and enjoy right

As a man, before you go about hopping on feminism and supporting every single notion they dish out to society, ask yourself if the whole idea of feminism is something that is supposed to benefit humanity as a whole!!

A WOMAN WHO CAN'T COOK IS TRASH!!

If you are a man reading this right now and you are married to a woman who can't cook, or a woman that always initiates an argument whenever the topic of homemade food comes to light....
Understand that you are nothing but a pvvssy BIITTCH!!

Because obviously, you don't seem to be able to recognize what might be good for you, so then you just settled for anything that had a hole in between.

There are many men out here including myself TheGidRedpiller, that can cook, so what exactly could be the excuse she has

Not many people like cooking, including myself, there is only a small percentage of people out there that actually likes hitting the kitchen to heat up something, but that is NO EXCUSE either.
Not many men like waking up early in the morning to head for work, BUT WE DO IT ANYWAY!!

Cooking is a CORE FEMININE RESPONSIBILITY in the family, just the same way providing and protecting is a core responsibility of masculinity.
If you have to share in a man's fortune, then you have to be the woman that will keep reminding him of his mother.....Not a biittch that wants to rather force him to accept a lazy piece of shiit!! undecided

Never let feminism make you believe that "Cooking Is A Talent", or that cooking is not for everyone.
It's a sugar-coated lie put into the mainstream for the benefit of WOMEN ALONE!!

The truth is that COOKING HAS NEVER BEEN FOR EVERYONE, but every man grew up eating out of the pot of A WOMAN!

My father grew up eating his mother's food, if you are a man reading this, I am very well sure that unless you were an orphan, or you at least didn't meet your mother, YOU ATE OUT OF YOUR MOTHER'S FOOD!!

Any woman that comes out in the open to spread her mouth as wide as her public legs, to tell the world that "Cooking Is Not For Everyone" is just another lazy biittch on rampage!!

A Good Cook Is Supposed To Be In The Full Package Of A Wife, If This One Ingredient Is Missing, Then Understand That You Have Been SCAMMED!!

When you take a good look at things, you will realize that we don't really have a lot of feminsts especially here in Nigeria, we just have a lot of lazy !d!ots who are continuously looking for reasons to validate their laziness!!

Women have NO excuse for not being able to cook, just the exact same way men have no excuse to not been able to foot the bills, if he can't, he is depressed, it's not something he can get out of, he understands that it's a problem and that he better start working towards fixing it!!
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT SHOULD BE LIKE FOR WOMEN!!

A woman not being able to cook says a lot about her asides from the fact she can't cook.
If she can't cook, it also means that she didn't prepare to take care of a man, and if she didn't prepare to take care of you............are your heads going places now Good!!

The only use a woman who can't cook has for any man, is before she gets married, because she is only good for the D.
After this, she is absolutely useless.

A good cook for a wife is NON-NEGOTIABLE.
Well except, as a man, you are an !d!ot.

TheGidRedpiller Is Currently Working Towards A Redpill WhatsApp Group, It's Still At The Infant Stages, But It's Coming.

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Definitely am yet to see a lady utter the words cooking is not everybody maybe the girls am meeting can cook very well or very little 🤔

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 6:14pm On Feb 06, 2023
Kipaji:
I will make my son the most masculine man possible with an accurate and elevated understanding of female nature and intersexual dynamics.
As soon as he is 3 year old, I will start to drop seeds in his mind.
Never will my son be some woman's toy or beta bucks.
full bass dosage of the pills 😊😊😊

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:04pm On Feb 06, 2023
Dabronze:
The reason why you shouldn't be a Simp!

If any girl replies me like this, na to just smash my phone and go on fasting and prayer for 7 days. cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 8:07pm On Feb 06, 2023
Zarzah:
My My My......... Say less.....Observe more

This post is not about washing machine.

grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Labadi69: 8:19pm On Feb 06, 2023
Martinez39s:
You even get time to reply the fool. grin

This Dundee don suffer for woman hand. Are you not going MGTOW because woman no send your broke ugly bald head? Give this fool small coins and watch him blow it on women. Yamayama fall on that your bald head there. Maga angry

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:21pm On Feb 06, 2023
Karlifate:

This post is not about washing machine.
grin grin

Exactly grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Labadi69: 8:23pm On Feb 06, 2023
Dabronze:
The reason why you shouldn't be a Simp!

So he’s a simp because he’s trying to woo a woman with his corny lyrics? You don’t know that women fall for these funny lines when they are coming from a correct guy wey dem want? Well how you go know? Soapy master like you. Yamayama fall on that your bald head there. Maga angry

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TEAMvido(m): 9:04pm On Feb 06, 2023
You've got the pill ( improving yourself and your SMV) to navigate through various manipulations.. let nothing stop you, go out and enjoy yourself. life is a beautiful experience for those who work for it (both the good and bad) but you need to be out there first to experience it .
it's 100× better to be in the field applying and getting real experience than reading new articles everyday..trust me you're never gonna make real progress with that, it's always gonna be in your head not actions.
#DONTBELIKETHEM🙃

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:27pm On Feb 06, 2023
CaveAdullam:


"I know say you be craze person".

There's nothing wrong with cooking for her as a surprise on her birthday, provided you don't include cooking as part of your role.

If you know your game well, start when she's around, and be romantic. She may end up cooking the food.

As part of the feminine nature, she'll test your frame, to see if you'll cook subsequently, or even include laundry and cleaning, on that note, you must refuse. Those are not your roles.

As a husband, I don't expect my wife to provide for me, but I expect her willingness to help me cater for the home. Similarly, like the appearance of a black swans under the blue moon..."daddy's food is sweeter than mummy's food".

Happy birthday to your girlfriend. May she live long.

Thanks.

PS: I'm neither a redpill guru nor an alpha male.



Yes u are grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seandisputed(m): 9:31pm On Feb 06, 2023
Labalaba23:


Why do you think so
He actually used to be on the platform before he became famous. Probably he changed his moniker.
His new song is the musical version of this thread.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 5:50am On Feb 07, 2023
Kipaji:


I failed. Miserably.

I tried monk mode and failed.

The fight against one's lust is a tortuous inner battle. This world bombards us left and right with lust triggers. From the media becoming pornofied to women shamelessly teasing online and offline, everything is being sexualized at an uncontrollable and worrying rate. Unfortunately, men were not raise to control their lust. And society will not help with its anti-men, anti-civilization agendas. So, it is exceptional hard for a man nowadays to maintain focus on what matters. As never seen before, almost all men are porn and/or masturbation addicts. Most do not have the drive and discipline to work consistently towards something meaningful. Men are weak and becoming weaker.

I believe that the last barrier against this degeneration of the man is the fabric and substance of his mind and spirit. The man must forge his mind and nurture his spirit to escape the tornado of degeneracy this world is caught into. But, since the inner is influenced by the outer, and vice versa, to regulate the inner, we must also manipulate the outer. So, this fight is double-dimensional. And it is a very hard one. Nonetheless, the expected rewards are definitely worth the struggle. This is why I engaged in this battle.

I keep failing. And I try my best to re-strategize and stand up stronger. I do not want to give up.

I choose strength over pleasure.




Hmm....Interesting.

I am not sure of your exact reason for going Monk mode, but I believe if your purpose is one that revolves around self-actualization i.e. deep down that is the kind of life you want to live, then you would succeed.

For me, the purpose is everything. I am never a fan of dos and don'ts.

Take, masturbation for example...

Masturbation can ruin your abundance mentality when you masturbate for fun, when it is an addiction, or when you masturbate just because.

Same masturbation can increase your abundance mentality and give you the logic you need in situations when you can lose your frame such as you have got yourself a lay and you are eager, masturbation before meeting your lay could actually set you up in the right frame. Or you are in a relationship with a girl you really love and you are starting to lose your frame, masturbation could help reset you to a temporal state of abundance.

I think when trying to improve masculinity positively, we should learn to use all things as pragmatically as we can. We are not all testosterone, you know. There is still some estrogen and other female hormones in us. And pragmatism involves using them to our advantage. There may be a need to think like a woman, and even act biitchey for the right purpose.

There is no inherent gain of Monk mode. Its gain revolves around your own purpose for venturing just like every other thing. With a purpose that supersedes your personal esteem or bragging rights or trying to bottle up your testosterone, or heartbreak avoidance but one that revolves around self-actualization, I'm sure you'd succeed.

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